Young married guy here

[Gearup]

I think this is the weekend D & L we’re going to go to her parents house

[coastalkid]

I think this is the weekend D & L we’re going to go to her parents house

Doesn't look like anyone will be traveling while "things" are going "South"!

[RunDannyRun]

Hey folks,

Sorry for being MIA. There is nothing exciting happening. Lauren will be coming home tomorrow evening. She is currently in Boston with some friends. I know for a fact that Adam was not with her as he came to my house a couple of days ago to get a few more of his clothes. They are also not going to Florida next week.

Apologies for a relatively tame update.

[Coolcalm]

Danny, what did Lauren say about her feelings for Adam?

[coastalkid]

Thanks for the update Danny! No worries about it being a "tame" update. What DID Lauren say about the Florida trip and what was her "tone" like regarding coming home?

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

Told you. You just have to allow these guys to chill. It will sort itself out. Guess we'll have to wait till next Saturday for an update.

[RunDannyRun]

Danny, what did Lauren say about her feelings for Adam?

I have not asked her about that. The discussion mainly centered around our feelings and mutual aspirations. We are not getting a divorce or planning to separate. I think it will just be the two of us for sometime.

[MatureCouple]

Great to hear from you Danny! Very glad to hear that Lauren is coming home and things are moving in a positive direction for you two. Is Adam out of the picture?

[RunDannyRun]

Thanks for the update Danny! No worries about it being a "tame" update. What DID Lauren say about the Florida trip and what was her "tone" like regarding coming home?

She is not dreading coming home if that is what you meant. She just mentioned that it is not the best time to go with Adam to Florida. I just took my win and didn't prod further. She apologized for leaving abruptly but she said that it was still the correct decision as she needed some time to evaluate the past 4 months.

I honestly can't recall everything but her next job (according to her) is to solve the rift between Adam and I.

[cpmici+]

Welcome back Danny. Nice to read you. Do you plan to clarify and plan your relationship for the next few days? Have you had any explanations from her or Adam about what happened in the past week? Thank you, I wish you the best.

PS: Evidently they realized the "bullshit" they were doing. You'll see that Adam will also be more reasonable and polite with you.
Now impose yourself to establish the boundaries and rules of coexistence and
You will be a happy cuckold

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

Thanks for the update Danny! No worries about it being a "tame" update. What DID Lauren say about the Florida trip and what was her "tone" like regarding coming home?

She is not dreading coming home if that is what you meant. She just mentioned that it is not the best time to go with Adam to Florida. I just took my win and didn't prod further. She apologized for leaving abruptly but she said that it was still the correct decision as she needed some time to evaluate the past 4 months.

I honestly can't recall everything but her next job (according to her) is to solve the rift between Adam and I.

Just give it some time. Good communication is important here. Be a good listener. But also be firm when you need to. I'm sure it will all work out eventually.

[The Owl]

Thanks for the update Danny! No worries about it being a "tame" update. What DID Lauren say about the Florida trip and what was her "tone" like regarding coming home?

She is not dreading coming home if that is what you meant. She just mentioned that it is not the best time to go with Adam to Florida. I just took my win and didn't prod further. She apologized for leaving abruptly but she said that it was still the correct decision as she needed some time to evaluate the past 4 months.

I honestly can't recall everything but her next job (according to her) is to solve the rift between Adam and I.

If Lauren can "solve the rift" - she can have her cake and eat it too.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the update Danny. Looks like Lauren is being more level headed even though for some time her lust drove her. Hope the two of you have an honest discussion and decide what lies ahead for you. With Adam hope you heal the rift - he is your step-brother after all.

[MatureCouple]

... he came to my house a couple of days ago to get a few more of his clothes...

Did you and Adam talk at all? Or did you just try to stay away?

[Coolcalm]

Danny you must have had some sort of enlightening conversation as you actually admitted she “definitely had feelings” for that a-hole Adam.
I’ve been married to my wife for over 30 years and we have, of course, had a few hard arguments. We’ve NEVER decided to leave the home to “think.” You are with your partner. You stay home to “think.” You say you need space for a bit. The only time one would be good in leaving is if there is abuse. If she left then that is not a good sign. Again for us (and we are far from perfect) we’ve NEVER left the home to think things over. Yes maybe for a cup of coffee for a couple of hours but not leaving for another home????
What is up?

[Midnight Joker]

Glad you came back to update us. I know I was looking every day. Did you see or speak with Adam when he came to pick up his stuff? Where will he move to? I think things will settle down after awhile between you and him. He doesn't hate you, and you don't hate him, but it may be awkward for a bit. Would love to hear more about your conversation with Lauren, when you're ready and have time. Sounds like she may want that cake, but not having Adam around daily would be best for your marriage, assuming either of you want that. That being said, will Adam go along with that as well. Looking forward to your next update! Thanks for coming back.

[SlapHappy]

Nobody enters this lifestyle and just fucks one person and goes back to vanilla.

Agree with your broader points although we did this and haven't done any since, even though I wish she would.

[Jujube]

A big sigh of relief! Like I said on March 10th, page 101, I think it is a great idea for Danny and Lauren to back off and regroup with some alone time. They both need to openly communicate what it is they want to happen going forward. Lauren’s demand that she drive the cuckold bus is fine, but she has to be sensitive to Danny’s needs. I think Adam not living there is a good idea; it was too fraught with tension and awkwardness. I’m not sure where Adam is going to live, but I definitely think( in Lauren’s mind ) he’s not out of the picture. I just wish Danny could find the time to tell us the inner workings behind the facts of what’s going on. I hope it returns to being exciting and erotic with some good ole angst mixed in!

[joel68]

Jujube, very insightful. The thing I wondered about and asked about a number of times was how were the day to day interactions between the three of them? Like dinner, watching TV, etc. Was Adam fucking Lauren the elephant in the room? It was never addressed.

And there were virtually no ground rules either.

I am happy that the marriage didn't totally crash and burn. I hope they can figure out together what they want. But for Lauren, the genie is out of the bottle. She will need better sex like she gets from Adam going forward. They just have to decide what they want as a couple.

[viking53]

Thanks for the update Danny! No worries about it being a "tame" update. What DID Lauren say about the Florida trip and what was her "tone" like regarding coming home?

She is not dreading coming home if that is what you meant. She just mentioned that it is not the best time to go with Adam to Florida. I just took my win and didn't prod further. She apologized for leaving abruptly but she said that it was still the correct decision as she needed some time to evaluate the past 4 months.

I honestly can't recall everything but her next job (according to her) is to solve the rift between Adam and I.

Her next job should be , together with you, to sort out your relationship. Adam shouldn't be in the picture (if at all) until that is stable and clear.

[MatureCouple]

Thanks for the update Danny! No worries about it being a "tame" update. What DID Lauren say about the Florida trip and what was her "tone" like regarding coming home?

She is not dreading coming home if that is what you meant. She just mentioned that it is not the best time to go with Adam to Florida. I just took my win and didn't prod further. She apologized for leaving abruptly but she said that it was still the correct decision as she needed some time to evaluate the past 4 months.

I honestly can't recall everything but her next job (according to her) is to solve the rift between Adam and I.

Her next job should be , together with you, to sort out your relationship. Adam shouldn't be in the picture (if at all) until that is stable and clear.

[MatureCouple]

Danny, take next week off, and you and Lauren go somewhere special. Go to the beach... oh, crap, spring break, maybe not the best time to go. But go spend a week together, reconnecting and bonding. Fix what is broken. Restore what is right. Strengthen your commitment to each other. Love each other.

[nutjob]

as she needed some time to evaluate the past 4 months.

Did she say what her evaluation was? That is, what was her view of those past 4 months?

[3532734dreamer]

Hey Danny!

Glad to have an update from you and learn that you seem to be doing ok, even though I'm sure the situation has been difficult for you.

Also good to hear your marriage is still intact (I wasn't one of those who doubted that) and that Lauren is coming home (though that took quite a few days - almost two weeks). There has been a lot of doom and gloom around here.

As a few others have commented already here, communication between you and Lauren will be very important - that includes listening, not just talking. And laying off the cuckolding stuff for a while is the smarter way to go.

It might be an idea to, together, try to find out what went wrong and what didn't work that led to the setback. That would put you both in not only a better place in general, but also if the two of you decide to start "playing" again.
And I don't just mean the communication/interactions between you and Lauren, you and Adam, Lauren and Adam, and the three of you together. I would also include Laurens way of dealing with difficulties, i.e. shutting you out while she processes or physically walking out of the house for days/weeks (as opposed to just a long walk for a few hours).
There has to be more to that than just your comment about a finding a new third - though that statement, in that situation, showed you were more interested in your fantasy than her feelings (legitimate feelings, not referring to any feelings concerning Adam). And did she saying she "needed some time to evaluate the last 4 months"? I think there is are a few pieces of the puzzle that you didn't pick up on (or decided not to share with us here - which you are fully free to do but it makes it harder for us to respond with useful input).
If it does have to do with feelings towards Adam then might I suggest being very understanding and patient. Feelings and sex are often very much connected, especially with lots of great sex over time. It was your idea that she went along with. She did say, all the way in the beginning, that she needed an emotional connection to a (sexual) partner. And that if she has feelings for Adam now it's not the end. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you or loves you less. She is picking you, your marriage and a future together. So becoming upset or defensive about it will only hurt end up hurting you.

I was amused about her "next job" being to repair the rift between you and Adam. I don't know if her motives are completely selfless...
But as has been mentioned already by others, focus on you and Lauren first.

Thanks for the update Danny. Don't worry if they are tame or not. While hot updates are... well, hot... there is more to this community than that. And I think we all benefit from sharing all sorts of experiences.
Hope Lauren's coming home goes well!

[fgare]

Adam is, and always be a piece of shit. 40+ years old and has NEVER had to face the consequences of his decisions. As is demonstrated by: his father taking him temporarily, and, Danny taking him semi-permanently. All while Danny acts as laundry server, cook, and butler, while also serving up his 20-+ year old wife as a fuck toy. Adam is a fucking fool, a piece of shit. He should have never been considered as a third in this relationship. He has no other reliable domicile, he is dependent - or at least a leech - on Danny for food, utilities, and sex. If Danny were wise in the world he would not seek to repair any relationship with Adam right now, and instead, save it for a future in which Danny is divorced from Lauren. Lauren, will never quit Adam if she is married to Danny. Horny fuckers around here may applaud such an outcome. But Danny and Lauren, without Adam, provides the best possible options without severe, lasting, familiar complications. By all means, Danny, find a new man for Lauren. Just don't make it a family member.