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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Fri Mar 14, 2025 6:25 am

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Fri Mar 14, 2025 5:37 am
Make him a nice steak dinner and you will have met the requirements for “Steak and Blow Job Day”!!

(Google it 😏)
I had NEVER heard of steak and blow job day, but apparently it is today!! March 14.

Our plan was likely to take place tomorrow, but now im inspired. Lol

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by coastalkid » Fri Mar 14, 2025 10:03 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Fri Mar 14, 2025 5:29 am
Adventurer and I might have the house to ourselves for a few hours this weekend. I've planted a seed of an idea. I'm kind of in the mood for a messy face fucking. I want to be on my knees with his cock in my mouth and feel it hit the back of my throat. I'd like his hands in my hair holding my head still while he pushes it in deep. And I'd enjoy the feel of drool dripping down onto my breasts when he pulls it out.

He has expressed a desire for anal. I'm thinking maybe after I get him very well lubricated with my mouth. What do you think? An excellent "The kids are away, so the parents can play" plan, in my opinion.
This is a great example of what it takes to make it work. You have Adventurer at the center of your thoughts. You get a thrill from thinking (and or planning) of ways to satisfy him. Adventurer is obviously aware of your effort and his trust in you is more confident. I can't help but mixing up and rearranging two proverbs, "You CAN have your cake and eat it too if everyone gets a piece of the pie!"

You're going to go a lot further, for a lot longer than others by keeping your attitude like it is in my opinion.
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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Late » Fri Mar 14, 2025 11:29 am

We will be waiting (impatiently) for a report. Please don't leave out any of the juicy details. Visual documentation would also be appreciated. You guys just keep getting better and better.

Late.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by regular3 » Sat Mar 15, 2025 5:24 am

Had some time to kill so I started reading your journey through again.
Back in 2021 you had a play date with Sir. What an experience that was.
After untold orgasms and intense BDSM play i was thinking how special and amazing you are.
But then i read the 3rd last paragraph.
"There was a bit more play after our wine break. I masturbated on the floor while the men finished their wine, I lay back on the coffee table as they fucked me with the large dildo one last time, I was strapped to the St. Andrew’s cross for a bit of flogging and fingering until I squirted, and I knelt on the floor and was covered in a load of cum."
Your insatiable sexual appetite is amazing.
I'm curious to know if you still have that level of lust for BDSM and other adventures or are you mostly content with more of a loving existence with A and G?

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sat Mar 15, 2025 2:43 pm

coastalkid wrote:
Fri Mar 14, 2025 10:03 am

This is a great example of what it takes to make it work. You have Adventurer at the center of your thoughts. You get a thrill from thinking (and or planning) of ways to satisfy him. Adventurer is obviously aware of your effort and his trust in you is more confident. I can't help but mixing up and rearranging two proverbs, "You CAN have your cake and eat it too if everyone gets a piece of the pie!"

You're going to go a lot further, for a lot longer than others by keeping your attitude like it is in my opinion.
Thank you. I agree, we are very lucky.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sat Mar 15, 2025 2:58 pm

Late wrote:
Fri Mar 14, 2025 11:29 am
We will be waiting (impatiently) for a report. Please don't leave out any of the juicy details. Visual documentation would also be appreciated. You guys just keep getting better and better.

Late.
Steak and blow job day was a success! (Just a day late)

Juicy details: the steak was a porcini-rubbed, aged ribeye, pan seared in butter. ;)

Oh, the blow job details? Lol

Our daughter ended up being home, so we had to be sneaky. She worked on homework in the basement, we went upstairs "to have a nap"

It started with Adventurer laying down on our bed and asking me to play with his balls. I was happy to oblige. I even spent some time licking that sensitive spot right behind the tesitcles and before the butt hole. He said I should be careful or he'd be asking me to go lower. Lol

Next up was the face fucking I had requested. Adventurer had me get on my knees and he used a satin sash to tie my hands behind my back. Then, all I had to do was open my mouth.

Truthfully, there is a bit more skill involved in using my lips and tongue appropriately, but he mostly guided my head with his hands in my hair.

It was deep and sometimes hard. He thrust into me in a way that resulted in glug, glug, glug sounds in my throat. He held his cock in deep, i resisted the urge to gage, then he pulled out to let me breathe. Drool dripped onto my breasts, and he rubbed his spit-covered cock all over my face.

It was glorious. I really do love blow jobs. I think this went on for 10 minutes or more. But then he said I deserved a reward. He helped me up and onto the bed. I was still tied and he enjoyed a couple more thrusts into my mouth as I lay on the bed before he untied me.

Then Adventuree went down on me and used his expert tongue to make me cum. There were actually many orgasms from his mouth, his fingers, a vibrator, his fingers again. I was a squirty mess!

Seriously. Such a big puddle. It is a good thing it's laundry day.

I eventually tapped out and said that I needed him to fuck me. He agreed. But first he popped a butt plug in my butt so I could feel extra full.

It felt so good to be stretched around him. He fucked me hard and deep and said I was beautiful. I told him I loved him as he came inside me.

Best Saturday afternoon ever :)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Her number1 » Sat Mar 15, 2025 5:54 pm

Love hearing about your "Best Saturday afternoon ever :)"
I can imagine :mrgreen: just how erotically beautiful you looked. :D

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sun Mar 16, 2025 2:17 pm

Her number1 wrote:
Sat Mar 15, 2025 5:54 pm
Love hearing about your "Best Saturday afternoon ever :)"
I can imagine :mrgreen: just how erotically beautiful you looked. :D
Thank you kind sir. I loved hearing your comment the other day about how happy farmgirl is with her boyfriend and husband to love. The hot wife lifestyle is great with wonderful husbands at our sides.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Mar 17, 2025 6:27 am

regular3 wrote:
Sat Mar 15, 2025 5:24 am
Had some time to kill so I started reading your journey through again.
Back in 2021 you had a play date with Sir. What an experience that was.
After untold orgasms and intense BDSM play i was thinking how special and amazing you are.
But then i read the 3rd last paragraph.
"There was a bit more play after our wine break. I masturbated on the floor while the men finished their wine, I lay back on the coffee table as they fucked me with the large dildo one last time, I was strapped to the St. Andrew’s cross for a bit of flogging and fingering until I squirted, and I knelt on the floor and was covered in a load of cum."
Your insatiable sexual appetite is amazing.
I'm curious to know if you still have that level of lust for BDSM and other adventures or are you mostly content with more of a loving existence with A and G?
Thank you for enjoying my appetite. LOL. I think it is funny when people comment on it because it just seems normal to me.

As for lust for BDSM, it is an occasional desire for me...not an ongoing kink. And I have been in the mood more recently. Fortunately, my husband is very easy to convince to play in this type of way. It is definitely something he enjoys. So if I ask him to face fuck me, tie me up, manhandle me a bit, etc, he's always willing.

"Sir" the dom that I've played with in the past has pretty much disappeared. We had a nice conversation in January and Adventurer and I suggested that we set a date on the calendar in February sometime. He said "definitely" but hasn't been in touch since. I am not taking it personally. I know he's a very busy man with a high pressure job. I think I was an exciting new thrill for him for awhile that helped him prioritize time with me. Now that the novelty has warn off, he would still enjoy it if we got together, but he isn't going to make it a priority.

At this point, I'm not going to seek him out. I might send him a text at some point in the future if Adventurer and I try a new toy or play in a way that I think he'd enjoy. I'm just not getting my hopes up for a play date anytime soon.

With that said, I might plan a date for Adventurer and I. I enjoy the inhibition that I feel in a hotel or rented space. I think a BDSM date with my husband might be a great "hey it's spring" gift :)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Late » Mon Mar 17, 2025 2:12 pm

With that said, I might plan a date for Adventurer and I. I enjoy the inhibition that I feel in a hotel or rented space. I think a BDSM date with my husband might be a great "hey it's spring" gift :)
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I'm pretty sure that is allowed. What the heck; just go for it. We won't tell.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Seekingmore12 » Tue Mar 18, 2025 1:42 pm

Something tells me that readers may get a story soon…..countdown is currently 15 hours 16 minutes

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by regular3 » Wed Mar 19, 2025 2:33 am

I'm betting you have some inside knowledge G :lol:

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Saras_Stag » Wed Mar 19, 2025 1:28 pm

*Me furiously scribbling Steak and a Blowjob Day into my calendar for 2026*

You're something else, LFA. Sounds like Adventurer had an amazing time. Can't wait to hear about what sounds like recent fun with G!

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Seekingmore12 » Thu Mar 20, 2025 5:21 pm

How about a very rare preview….

So I am driving to time my “ visit “ in order to get snacks……I realize as I am two minutes away I forgot my phone

Not only was Lfa early as I found out after I had to turnaround…

One can only imagine how it feels to have Lfa early and waiting for you……dressed in a very cute skirt that she wore on a previous overnight ( see the illustrated thread )……..I won’t mention the purple panites.

I think I made up for being a few minutes late


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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Fri Mar 21, 2025 12:16 pm

Saras_Stag wrote:
Wed Mar 19, 2025 1:28 pm
*Me furiously scribbling Steak and a Blowjob Day into my calendar for 2026*

You're something else, LFA. Sounds like Adventurer had an amazing time. Can't wait to hear about what sounds like recent fun with G!
LOL. I had never heard of it before, but now it is my google calendar for every year :)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Fri Mar 21, 2025 12:19 pm

Seekingmore12 wrote:
Thu Mar 20, 2025 5:21 pm
How about a very rare preview….

So I am driving to time my “ visit “ in order to get snacks……I realize as I am two minutes away I forgot my phone

Not only was Lfa early as I found out after I had to turnaround…

One can only imagine how it feels to have Lfa early and waiting for you……dressed in a very cute skirt that she wore on a previous overnight ( see the illustrated thread )……..I won’t mention the purple panites.

I think I made up for being a few minutes late


G

It was definitely worth the wait :)

Sorry, I haven't had time to do a proper write up. I will say that one of my favourite parts was near the beginning. My short skirt must have inspired G. It was soon pushed up around my waist and my panties were removed. I was pushed onto the bed and his head was between my legs. Heavenly! Plus, when he fucked me (I was still nearly fully dressed) he made a comment about feeling like he was sneakily fucking me in my parents' basement.

That hits all my "slutty good girl" notes :)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Saras_Stag » Fri Mar 21, 2025 2:47 pm

I know Sara has that "slutty good girl" level too, though it never appeared before she started on this adventure. Sounds like it was a lot of fun ;)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sat Mar 22, 2025 9:49 am

Saras_Stag wrote:
Fri Mar 21, 2025 2:47 pm
I know Sara has that "slutty good girl" level too, though it never appeared before she started on this adventure. Sounds like it was a lot of fun ;)
It is a weird kink of mine, maybe, but I think it comes from how I was raised and purity culture.

It means that I find it very sexy to go "a little to far". Making out for a long time with roaming hands..even without actual penetration is very hot to me. Fooling around in the backseat of a car? Yes please. Or experimenting with a cock rubbing my pussy, or playing "just the tip"...it totally turns me on. I'm weird. Lol

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Saras_Stag » Sat Mar 22, 2025 11:48 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Sat Mar 22, 2025 9:49 am

It is a weird kink of mine, maybe, but I think it comes from how I was raised and purity culture.

It means that I find it very sexy to go "a little to far". Making out for a long time with roaming hands..even without actual penetration is very hot to me. Fooling around in the backseat of a car? Yes please. Or experimenting with a cock rubbing my pussy, or playing "just the tip"...it totally turns me on. I'm weird. Lol
Very similar to Sara, whose daughter of Catholic immigrants upbringing meant denying pleasure and making it shameful, so that definitely makes sense. She does love a lot of what you mentioned too 😈

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by TheRealMrs » Tue Mar 25, 2025 5:47 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Fri Mar 14, 2025 5:29 am
An excellent "The kids are away, so the parents can play" plan, in my opinion.
These are THE BEST days at our house!
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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by boing469 » Wed Mar 26, 2025 8:58 am

My guess is that most of us on OHWs really are mesmerized by your sizzling "weirdness" Lfa... love your attitude and joy of new delights... keep being HOT and adventurous... lots of virtual hugs & kisses for all of your delightfulness !! :P :mrgreen:

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Wed Mar 26, 2025 11:26 am

TheRealMrs wrote:
Tue Mar 25, 2025 5:47 pm

These are THE BEST days at our house!
I totally agree!! I wish we had more of them :)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Wed Mar 26, 2025 11:43 am

boing469 wrote:
Wed Mar 26, 2025 8:58 am
My guess is that most of us on OHWs really are mesmerized by your sizzling "weirdness" Lfa... love your attitude and joy of new delights... keep being HOT and adventurous... lots of virtual hugs & kisses for all of your delightfulness !! :P :mrgreen:
Aw. Thank you. That is very sweet of you to say.

And since you've validated and encouraged my weirdness, I will tell you another story. It starts with a confession that one of my "slutty good girl" things is that when Adventurer and I were dating, we had anal sex WAAAAAY before any vaginal penetration, because I had all sorts of guilt about premarital sex and anal sex seemed somehow a "cheat." I can't understand my thinking anymore, but at the time it made sense to me: "everything but PIV" seemed like a good solution.

In any case, it means that I still have a soft spot for anal, and we played with that this weekend. I wore leggings and a sports bra to a boot camp class at the gym in the morning, and Adventurer sent me a text to let me know that my ass looked very fuckable. I said we could definitely follow through on that urge.

Later that afternoon, we had a bit of alone time. He asked if I wanted to go to the bedroom. I was quick to agree.

I can't remember all of the sexy details, but I do know that my butt was very much the center of attention. He kissed it and fingered it. There was a butt plug inserted while he licked my pussy and made me cum. And there was a vibrator on my clit while he licked my asshole. At some point I couldn't take it anymore and said that I needed him to fuck me.

His cock was pretty wet from rubbing my pussy, but he's also very girthy, so he applied extra lube and had me scoot to the edge of the bed. I lay on my side with my butt right on the edge. He pushed his cock against my rosebud. With all our foreplay, it didn't take much effort to slide in. But I did feel the noticeable stretching and that pleasurable moment of when his head pushes past my sphincter muscles and he can slide right in.

Because my legs were pressed together as I lay on my side, there was external clitoral stimulation with each thrust. I could also feel him deep inside me. As a result, it didn't take long for me to cum around his cock. He loves when I have an anal orgasm, and I love when he looks at me with that look of admiration and lust. Win! Win!

We took a break and I kissed his body for awhile. I sucked his balls and even licked his cock clean. He teased me about being an ass-to-mouth slut, but I smiled because I know he loves all my slutty sides. I ended up taking him deeper in my mouth and he said he was going to cum if I kept that up. So, instead, he stood up, flipped me on my back, pulled me to the edge of the bed, plunged back into my ass. He fucked me hard until he filled me with my cum.

When we cuddle to recover afterwards, I said that I should wear those leggings more often.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Her number1 » Wed Mar 26, 2025 6:26 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Wed Mar 26, 2025 11:43 am
It starts with a confession that one of my "slutty good girl" things is that when Adventurer and I were dating, we had anal sex WAAAAAY before any vaginal penetration, because I had all sorts of guilt about premarital sex and anal sex seemed somehow a "cheat." I can't understand my thinking anymore, but at the time it made sense to me: "everything but PIV" seemed like a good solution.

In any case, it means that I still have a soft spot for anal, and we played with that this weekend. I wore leggings and a sports bra to a boot camp class at the gym in the morning, and Adventurer sent me a text to let me know that my ass looked very fuckable. I said we could definitely follow through on that urge.

Later that afternoon, we had a bit of alone time. He asked if I wanted to go to the bedroom. I was quick to agree.

I can't remember all of the sexy details, but I do know that my butt was very much the center of attention. He kissed it and fingered it. There was a butt plug inserted while he licked my pussy and made me cum. And there was a vibrator on my clit while he licked my asshole. At some point I couldn't take it anymore and said that I needed him to fuck me.

His cock was pretty wet from rubbing my pussy, but he's also very girthy, so he applied extra lube and had me scoot to the edge of the bed. I lay on my side with my butt right on the edge. He pushed his cock against my rosebud. With all our foreplay, it didn't take much effort to slide in. But I did feel the noticeable stretching and that pleasurable moment of when his head pushes past my sphincter muscles and he can slide right in.

Because my legs were pressed together as I lay on my side, there was external clitoral stimulation with each thrust. I could also feel him deep inside me. As a result, it didn't take long for me to cum around his cock. He loves when I have an anal orgasm, and I love when he looks at me with that look of admiration and lust. Win! Win!

We took a break and I kissed his body for awhile. I sucked his balls and even licked his cock clean. He teased me about being an ass-to-mouth slut, but I smiled because I know he loves all my slutty sides. I ended up taking him deeper in my mouth and he said he was going to cum if I kept that up. So, instead, he stood up, flipped me on my back, pulled me to the edge of the bed, plunged back into my ass. He fucked me hard until he filled me with my cum.

When we cuddle to recover afterwards, I said that I should wear those leggings more often.

I knew I loved you ;) !

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu Mar 27, 2025 11:16 am

Her number1 wrote:
Wed Mar 26, 2025 6:26 pm

I knew I loved you ;) !
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