When was the cuckold seed planted in your head?

[stagswitch]

I grew up in a house where it was fairly normal to see my parents naked.

I remember seeing my mother's tits and hairy pussy and my father's large penis dangling between his legs before they were dressed in the morning.

As I became older I realised that having a six inch flaccid cock is not normal.

One day we were discussing nicknames and one of my siblings asked my dad what his nickname was at work, he said it was Donkey. My mother just smirked. Only later did I learn the expression hung like a donkey.

Even when dressed his big bulge is very obvious to anyone who looks.

I think it is when I hit puberty and failed to measure up that the cuckold seed was planted.

[Cuck4Life]

I dated a girl in high school for all of my Jr year. She had a great body but would only let me fondle and suck her tits. Our routine was when we would come back to her house after a date she would turn off the bright over head light in the formal living room. She would then turn on a lamp on low and this was how we would begin our make out sessions. I knew I would soon have her tits out of her bra and sucking on those beautiful nipples. She unexpectedly broke up with me and it broke my heart. She almost immediately started dated a good buddy of mine and it really got under my skin. Late one evening i rode by her house and he was still there, I noticed the lamp was on and I was sure he was playing with her tits. It’s hit me hard but I also got a major hard on. I happened to see him one night after he left her house and he told me he fingered fucked her. I again got a hard on, my emotions were overwhelming but it was one hell of a rush. This was my beginning.

[Cdncuck]

For me there is no single moment where a light bulb went on and tada!!! You are a cuckold. It was more a series of odd moments separated by time.

From the first memories of noticing and being attracted to girls, it was the slutty ones that drew me. Why that was remains a mystery. I became friends with some of them and they would talk about problems with their boyfriends or how they felt about this guy or that one. They weren't dating me but they did spend time with me as a friend which seemed to be enough.

Nothing much happened for a few years. Eventually I began dating an had been going out with one girl Linda. We were exclusive to each other. One night she had said she had some family thing she had to attend. No big deal. However, later that night I was driving around with some friends and I saw her coming out of a movie with another guy.

That experience messed me up for some time. The second I saw them, there was this incredible hard on. I was hornier than ever before. What messed me up was there was no guilt. There was lust, a strange sense of deeper affection for her but no jealousy at all.

That threw me because my friends all displayed jealousy about their girlfriends. A couple of them even got into fist fights over girls. The night I saw them coming out of the movie I had my buddy take me home. I went to my room and jerked off so long there was a friction burn on the side of my cock.

She broke up with me not long after that and it did hurt but still no jealousy. My lack of jealousy made me think for the longest time there was something wrong with me. Of course there was no one to talk to about this. One didn't talk about feelings back in the day, especially feeling that were outside the accepted norm.

A few years later I was married. She got pregnant. Our parents said we had to do the right thing and get married. We did and it turned out not to be the right thing. About 2 years into the marriage I found out she was cheating.

Again, no jealousy, just lust and joy. Upon finding out she was cheating, the level of my respect and affection for her increased amazingly. I still didn't understand it or have a name for it. Overall, I wanted sex with her more often. On the nights I knew she had seen a boyfriend, it was even more important to have sex with her. On those nights the sex was very much better.

That went on for about 18 months. I finally talked to her and told her I knew what she was doing. Her reaction was surprising. When she found out it turned me on she was angry and disgusted.

The marriage ended shortly afterwards. However, by that time, I realized the kind of woman that would be good for me. It was obvious to me a woman who slept with other men was what it would take too be happy and satisfied.

Then I met the woman who is now my wife. She has been the perfect hotwife for me. We've been married over 30 years now.

[surry]

I always enjoyed sharing my toys so why not my wife? But maybe having a sex experience early in life may have caused this desire,

[OrlandoCPL]

When I was in HS, my girlfriend cheated on me. I was angry, but I also had this need to know every single detail. We ended up breaking up, but I remember being so turned on by her cheating.

A few years later, I saw my mom fucking her best friend's son. I had the chance to fuck her best friend at the same time, but I ended up cumming prematurely and was humiliated by the whole thing.

In college, I got my girlfriend to tell me all about the guys she fucked before we met. Once, we were apart for like six months and she cheated on me a few times. Instead of getting angry, I just made her tell me every detail. It got both of us off and that's when I kind of knew and was figuring things out. We had a chance to make it official, with her fucking a guy while I watched, but the scheduling never quite worked out. It was actually with an older couple (we were early 20s and they were late 40s). My girlfriend was bi curious and the couple was going to have fun with her while I watched.

Sadly, I got a job in FL and my girlfriend stayed home for grad school. She did end up hooking up with the couple several times, until the wife got jealous. But the long-distance thing wasn't working for us and we broke it off.

I then met my ex-wife and I've detailed that entire experience, including why she is my ex, elsewhere on the site.

[canadianwittol]

After I discovered my university gf cheating me after 9 months of dating, after which she promised never to do it again.

When a few months later I caught her again she sheepishly apologized and said she screwed up and never again.

Each subsequent apology was a little less sorrowful until finally she just explained that she didn’t want to “waste” her college years being faithful to one man.

We continued to date for another year, with me being very aware that I was a cuckold, although I did not yet know the term for it at the time.

[knight4princess]

Every time I see a thread like this it makes me consider what made me a cuckold.

It was a number of things -- a cheating high school girlfriend, two other cheating long-term girlfriends before I finally met the woman who became my wife of 40 years now -- and even she cheated on me before we married and even got pregnant from another guy but miscarried. Whow. Yeah. That is a lot.

But that's an express trip through my journey up to my marriage. I could write a book about our Hotwife and FLR experiences.

Everyone evolves over time through their lives. I'm thankful that my wife and I continued to evolve and grow together over the course of our marriage.

[windymiller]

I met a young women one evening, she chased me i wasnt interested, however i then saw her the following day, she was stunning, young, pretty, a fantastic wearer of tight jeans, 33 inch legs,6ft, slim, with an outgoing sort of personality. We got on immediately she was excellent company and a tomboy.

I soon found i actually liked other men admiring her, my friends couldnt believe how i had got such a fitty.

I loved her wearing jeans on a night out, already a fetish of mine, i would hear other men comment on her slim curvy figure and height. it wasnt too long before she wore a dress and suspenders (a garter belt) for me. I loved the feel of the suspenders more than the dress and asked if she would wear her suspenders under her jeans for me. Sometime later she did.

But i hadnt intended she would wear them to the pub, the straps pressing through the denim at the front and at the rear the straps curved over her small shapely bottom, i loved this and knew others could see too.

If i briefly left her alone in a pub or club often id comeback and a man would be chatting to her, then she would walk over to me put her arms round me.

So it appears that overtime that as i enjoyed other men looking at her, then chatting her up that it was a natural progression that sooner or later i wouldnt mind her kissing another man.

The seed was sown in my mind, little did i know it was she that would watered it...........

[luvwives999]

I was dating my wife for about 2 months in college. Winter break we both came to Florida, she came a few days before me. She told me when I came down that the night before she had sex with a guy on the beach. She knew I'd never find out, but she wanted our relationship to be based on honesty, and also wanted to judge my feelings towards her. I was so turned on, I knew that if we ended up together, which obviously we did, that I wanted her to never stop fucking other guys.

[Teensy1]

My best friend came for an overnight stay not long after my wife and I were married. He was recently divorced and extremely horny, After she gave him a friendly kiss hello he playfully pushed her onto the guest bed and playfully began humping her. We all were giggling and then I noticed that she had wrapped her legs around him and that he had a huge erection. I was getting hard too. They stopped there and I found that I was disappointed. I wanted him to fuck her silly while i watched and masturbated. That’s when the cuckold seed was planted,

[CTHotwifeHusband]

In my senior year of college, I had a huge crush on a gorgeous girl (also a senior) who hung out with a lot of athletes and whose boyfriend was on the lacrosse team. One night when we left the library together she unexpectedly invited herself back to my room, where we flirted for a while and to my surprise ended up making out. Obviously I got totally hard, and this led to her asking to see my cock, which I happily showed her. The first thing she said was that it was "so cute" before proceeding to take it in her mouth. I was so turned on that I came within minutes.

Before she left, she explained to me that she already had a "big cock" boyfriend but that I could be her "little cock" boyfriend, and that even though my cock was too small for her to want to fuck it that often, she liked me a lot and wanted to spend more time together. Long story short..., she had sex with her "big cock" boyfriend nearly every day at some point, but spent every with me in my bed, as I learned how to please her orally. Psychologically, I was totally cucked from this point forward.

[hubudig2]

Gonna add my 2¢ (against the grain) in case it's interesting to anyone.
The "bull seed" was planted in me when my friends girlfriends made advances on me and my friends did nothing to stop it.
The first time being when he woke up to her taking my dick out and stroking it. At the time I didn't know this but he is less than half my length and girth, was probably shocked at the sight but of all the options available to him, he pretended that he never woke up, pretended to sleep through everything else that happened and then admitted to it the next day as if it was just one of those crazy drunken things.
I was so confused to why he was so fine with it but these incidents became more and more common with combinations of other friends as rumours/reputations spread.
Each time it was as if the guy was stunned into submission, helpless to do or say anything to stop it and that feeling was intoxicating to me. It was something I needed to push further to try and understand how much I could get away with and whether it worked on everyone. I had no idea that cuckolding was a thing back then.

Do you know how when you find out that a seemingly classy/shy girl is actually a dirty slut, it seems way hotter than if you expected it. I'd say getting that look of stunned/submission from a boyfriend is like that. It's hot to be given that green light.

[sixpack]

Before she left, she explained to me that she already had a "big cock" boyfriend but that I could be her "little cock" boyfriend, and that even though my cock was too small for her to want to fuck it that often, she liked me a lot and wanted to spend more time together. Long story short..., she had sex with her "big cock" boyfriend nearly every day at some point, but spent every with me in my bed, as I learned how to please her orally. Psychologically, I was totally cucked from this point forward.

Damn, I can see how that could plant the cuckold seed for life ! Nothing will turn you into a pussy licker faster than finding out you’re the little cock guy in a woman’s life.

This is an awesome thread.

[theothercuck]

There were three incidents that started it.

First was my ex-wife and I had dated for about 3 weeks, andI hadn't seen her boobs yet (she's French, this is weird). She told me she likes to show them and feels close enough to a guy friend for him to see them. He was coming over and she told me she's going to flash him. I was a little disappointed about having to share the experience of seeing them for the first time with another man, but excited to see them. She told him her plan, he got excited. She put her thumbs under her tank top and bra straps getting ready to pull them down to reveal her breasts. She looked at me and scared me for life. She said, "turn around and close your eyes". I did, and then she showed him.

The second was she was a school dance date. We had to discuss boundaries while she was on the date. I consented to him holding her bum during the slow songs, a kiss on the lips hello, and a good kiss on the lips good bye.

The third was having to watch her do a tongue kiss for a short film with her male roommate.

We broke up before we got married. When I was single I thought about those three incidences every day, and eventually they started turning me on.

[Michigan1]

For me there is a few things that come to mind, however at the time I wasn’t sexually excited but I look at it as more of a subconscious thing that was planted and formed then over several years. When I was a young adolescent I learned of my mother’s affair. She never knew that I knew about it but I have a feeling my father knew about the affair. They stayed together and still are. Also in high school I dated a few really easy girls that had lots of experience but I lacked the confidence to ever have sex with them. A few attempts were made but I struggled to get hard due to being intimidated by their experience and my small endowment. A one night stand with a known slut ended in premature ejaculation after a few minutes of penetration and she went downstairs to get fucked properly by one of my friends. I’d say the writing was on the wall for me to be a pussy free cuck which I sometimes desire, but I got over my insecurities, embraced them and have a heathly and very active sex life with my wife who will only remain loyal to me despite being offered the hot wife lifestyle.

[surry]

My wife Jane has always been shy and I was her first and only boyfriend since age 13. At age 16 a man befriended me and invited me into his home. He was nice at first but I ended up him siting on my chest and grabbing my hair and forcing me to suck his dick. I was embarrassed because he reached down my pants and found got me hard. I spent the next couple of hours him sucking me, fucking my ass as he told me to beg him to fuck me.. I had to tell him he was better than my girlfriend. Even though then I had only fingered her. He told me to bring her over so he could fuck her too. I promised to bring her over. I sucked him a lot. He kept my dick dripping. At the end he lifted me by my legs and had me jerk off on my own face. I never saw him again and told my future wife what happened. She was upset but all I could think about was taking her to his house. My shy wife did not like when I started telling her I wish I had taken her to that man's house. When I tried to get her to open up in bed she thought it was a sin and told me to don't be nasty.
Jane started talking about her coworker Jim. Jim was a player and was a jock. He had slept with all the single women. I teased her and told her Jim would want to fuck her. Her reply was "We are friends besides he doesn't want me that way." After thinking it over I called him. I told him I was Janes husband, and she had a crush on him. She had never been with another man, and she was a bore in bed. Would he be interested in seducing her and training her for sex. He has my permission to do anything to her. All I ask is don't hurt her. I told him I had been fixed and she was not on birth control. I would leave that up to him and her. fuck her bareback or use protection. Can you please let me know what you get her to do. I would love if you could make her tell me you are her lover and I will act surprised and encourage her to obey you. Jim told me two weeks later she got a blow job from Jane in his car. He fingered her and made her cum. She told him it was her first cum. She had been faking it with me. This was a surprise. A week later my wife cried and confessed she had been a bad wife. She sucked off Jim and he made her cum. He wants to fuck her and get your permission. My wife was shaking. I held her and acted upset then I told her Jim must be special and she nodded yes. I told her I wanted her to be happy but if she wants to not disappoint Jim, she needs to obey him and never say no to him. Even if he wanted to meet me, I want to see you kissing him and treating him like a lover not a husband. We had hot sex and I witness her cumming for real. She would come home from a date telling me she swallowed his cum. She gave her ass to him. Then she told me Jim want's to keep her body from me. Would I be OK if we both obey Jim. I said I was not sure. She told me Jim was coming over when he gets off work. He wants to fuck me in our marriage bed. My wife did not know Jim and I had talked about this. Jim came over and Jane ran up and kissed him. Jim undressed Jane and my naked wife was sitting on his lap, I got up and got then some snacks and Jim and I discussed him fucking my wife and what he taught her and said for my wife's birthday he was thinking about spending the weekend at a hotel and he has two friends that want to fuck her. So, Jim and I discussed this gangbang Jane's will be involved in. Jim was slowly rubbing Janes pussy and Jane had her legs open wide so I could watch. I thanked Jim for denying Janes pussy from me. Jane said she wasn't sure if she wanted to get fucked by three men. I told her I don't think we had a choice. It's something Jim wants to do. Jim kissed her and fingered her hard until she came very hard. She told me later Jim doing it to her in front of her husband made her cum hard. I watched them fuck and I cleaned her pussy for the first time and Jim told me Jane had told me about the man I had sucked off. He told me I should be a good boy and get him clean then hard again. Jane took a deep breath and watched me. She said she has always wanted to see me do that. Jane did enjoy her birthday and got pregnant.

[elina]

,,,,, So, Jim and I discussed this gangbang Jane's will be involved in. Jim was slowly rubbing Janes pussy and Jane had her legs open wide so I could watch. I thanked Jim for denying Janes pussy from me. Jane said she wasn't sure if she wanted to get fucked by three men. I told her I don't think we had a choice. It's something Jim wants to do. Jim kissed her and fingered her hard until she came very hard. She told me later Jim doing it to her in front of her husband made her cum hard. I watched them fuck and I cleaned her pussy for the first time and Jim told me Jane had told me about the man I had sucked off. He told me I should be a good boy and get him clean then hard again. Jane took a deep breath and watched me. She said she has always wanted to see me do that. Jane did enjoy her birthday and got pregnant.

Dear Surry

From some of your other posts on here, I wonder if Jane is your current Wife or if She has moved on and you have remarried.

Looking at this story here, it is very evident that you are a proper cuckold and need to be kept and trained by Your Superior Female Wife to serve both Her and Her bulls.

Sincerely
elina

[RoyEllas]

I would to say that it comes from being the youngest and growing up with 3 older sisters and having two parents that cheated on each other all the time. I remember feeling jealousy whenever I see guys flirting with one of my sisters, but at the same time also remember being really curious and got really turned on when my sisters would bring a guy over, and I could hear them have sex. Same with my parents. I would even spy on them. When I got older, I told this to my high school girlfriend and was very turned on by it when I said I would love to see her with another guy in our friends circle. We would get all worked up talking about it and having amazing sex role playing that scene until the opportunity presented it self. We were both sure of it and went for it. After that she started having sex with him and me regularly

[canadianwittol]

I'd be very curious to know more about the role one's parents play in forming our views of this lifestyle.

I thankfully know nothing of my parents' sex life, but in my wife's case she became aware of the fact that her mother was carrying on an affair from about the the time she was 14. Nothing was ever said, she has never discussed it with her mother, but it has just been known, accepted, and looked the other way that her mother has carried on affairs over the years.

That only became relevant to us when I revealed my desires to my wife: while it didn't play any role in developing our approach to the lifestyle, it did remove some if the initial reluctance: my wife's initial feeling was that it was an idea not to be dismissed out of hand, which conclusion she arrived at knowing that her parents have had a happy marriage for decades without her mother remaining faithful to her father and that ergo a successful "cuckold" relationship was possible.

We obviously built on that and took it in a whole other kinky direction, but in the early days, her mother's affair is what gave my wife confidence in exploring the subject.

I would to say that it comes from being the youngest and growing up with 3 older sisters and having two parents that cheated on each other all the time. I remember feeling jealousy whenever I see guys flirting with one of my sisters, but at the same time also remember being really curious and got really turned on when my sisters would bring a guy over, and I could hear them have sex. Same with my parents. I would even spy on them. When I got older, I told this to my high school girlfriend and was very turned on by it when I said I would love to see her with another guy in our friends circle. We would get all worked up talking about it and having amazing sex role playing that scene until the opportunity presented it self. We were both sure of it and went for it. After that she started having sex with him and me regularly

[knight4princess]

So my wife would have an answer to this question as well. She has told me that she first realized that she liked being with two men at the same time when she was on a date in high school. She was in the back seat making out and stroking her boyfriend's cock but also had her leg extending forward over the console and somehow managed to use her foot to stroke the cock of the guy in the driver's seat.

So she was playing with two cocks at the same time! I haven't pressed her for the obvious details such as where were they parked and whether there was another person in the other front seat. But she said that was a defining moment for her sexually. And I'm glad it happened!

[hornedhubby]

Hot insightful stories, guys. Keep the cumming.

Just a wannabe myself, so I'll only post compliments on this thread. I've already been posting my ass off in recent months.

Thanks for sharing.

[sherulestherooster]

I gravitated to MFM porn a lot. When I rented porn back in the day, I always looked for a high male to female ratio in the cast. Lesbian scenes never did anything for me. Just turned me on so much to see the woman shared and the cocks jousting for her. One particular porn I saw a MF couple by the pool and a well known porn star jerking off to them. My load shot across the room. Watching and being watched is a big turn on for me.

Strong assertive women always tuned me on too. So the combination of a woman unapologetically enjoying sex and the watching aspect of it led to the idea. One time in college a guy flirted with my then fiancé right in front of me. I was outwardly “mad” but felt funny. Then we went through the post college wedding circuit and my wife would always hug guys. It tuned me on a lot thinking that they were feeling her breasts.

[Mgcouplemn]

It was long time ago, being able to watch her fuck other guys while I jerk off was one of the reasons I married her

[Dogwog]

One of my first sexually active girlfriends often talked about her older brother and that he had a large penis. Im not sure if they ever did anything sexual although one time while bushwalking with their parents he playfully snatched her wrap around off her leaving her in small panties only. Their parents didnt seem care that their young daughter was now almost naked while we were all dressed.

I could only travel to her on weekends and later in our relationship she wanted go with a local apprentice mechanic during the weekdays. She asked I didnt agree and we split up not long after.

I thought about afterward and think that the brother stripping her was a setup to see my reaction to see if I got mad or jealous.
I decided then if I was ever in the same situation again I would agree cause the sex was fantastic.

[safado]

It was in a kind of reverse way, later in life in my late 40s. My ex caught me cheating and even went to confront the "other woman" in person. She didn't speak to me for weeks.

Once we had somewhat reconciled and she was speaking to me again, a feature of her daily conversations was telling me about every flirtation, compliment, or proposition she got from men at her work, or in public places like the supermarket. Surprising in days of sexual harassment lawsuits, some of the stuff these men at work said was pretty raw. There was one young guy who basically kept asking her to fuck him. I guess she took it all in good humor and they didn't see her as someone who would complain. She always liked male attention anyways.

It was obvious she was trying to make me jealous and make the implied threat that there were a lot of men who wanted her. It turned me on and began the cuckold thoughts. As with a lot of other people, the availability on the internet of cuckold stories, forums like this and videos fueled the desire. From there, I started to encourage her to flirt back and told her she could get revenge for my cheating by fucking any man she wanted. It kept progressing from there, but it was five years later that she fucked another man, who was the young guy at work who had been propositioning her for years.

there was one incident a few years before that, when a distinguished looking French army officer chatted her up on a barstool next to her and they both ignored me, but I had mixed feelings about that incident including annoyance