Cuckolding Frequency / Intensity / Duration

[ucaneffher]

Cucks/wannabes, beloved (hot) wives, and third parties (most commonly called bulls around here). What level of intensity do you hope for when it comes to cuckolding?

Some are okay with light cuckolding that occurs once in a while. Others want a little more frequency. And there's those of us who don't want to exit the full time state of cuckolding.


So that you can understand the question/poll, here is a bit of background
Having been a cuck for 7 years and lived different dynamics, lately I find it that those experiences shaped my current mindset and have led me to desire a dynamic with my partner where she cucks me constantly. It's not just once a week or several but instead I am kept in a cuckold state 24 hours a day 7 days a week. I want to know what it feels like to be permanently cucked by her. I want to experience knowing what it feels like being unable to turn it off, unable to walk away from it, or get away from it other than obviously ending the relationship but that's not the goal here.

I find it that the only way that I could ever achieve this is by her having a boyfriend, him moving in with us, and allowing him to fully take over while I become the 3rd wheel/ spectator. Technically I could get away from it by leaving the house such as going to work but the minute I walk in the door of my home, I am reminding that I am a cuckold .

You just can't ignore it, especially when I see her with her boyfriend on the couch together, when they're in their bedroom together, perhaps discover them taking a shower together, see them both getting ready for their date or going out with his friends, waking up on a Saturday morning to find them in the kitchen with her only in a thong making breakfast and him behind her unable to keep his hands off her, and the most intense one is when I hear them making love in THEIR bedroom in the middle of the night while I am alone in my room in the dark.

This is what I mean by wanting to be kept in a cuckold state 24/7. They would not hold anything back in front of me and their relationship would become full-time in front of me without filters.

Feel free to share how much you want to be cucked or how much you want to be cucking him.

[Cdncuck]

Cucks/wannabes, beloved (hot) wives, and third parties (most commonly called bulls around here). What level of intensity do you hope for when it comes to cuckolding?

Some are okay with light cuckolding that occurs once in a while. Others want a little more frequency. And there's those of us who don't want to exit the full time state of cuckolding.


So that you can understand the question/poll, here is a bit of background
Having been a cuck for 7 years and lived different dynamics, lately I find it that those experiences shaped my current mindset and have led me to desire a dynamic with my partner where she cucks me constantly. It's not just once a week or several but instead I am kept in a cuckold state 24 hours a day 7 days a week. I want to know what it feels like to be permanently cucked by her. I want to experience knowing what it feels like being unable to turn it off, unable to walk away from it, or get away from it other than obviously ending the relationship but that's not the goal here.

I find it that the only way that I could ever achieve this is by her having a boyfriend, him moving in with us, and allowing him to fully take over while I become the 3rd wheel/ spectator. Technically I could get away from it by leaving the house such as going to work but the minute I walk in the door of my home, I am reminding that I am a cuckold .

You just can't ignore it, especially when I see her with her boyfriend on the couch together, when they're in their bedroom together, perhaps discover them taking a shower together, see them both getting ready for their date or going out with his friends, waking up on a Saturday morning to find them in the kitchen with her only in a thong making breakfast and him behind her unable to keep his hands off her, and the most intense one is when I hear them making love in THEIR bedroom in the middle of the night while I am alone in my room in the dark.

This is what I mean by wanting to be kept in a cuckold state 24/7. They would not hold anything back in front of me and their relationship would become full-time in front of me without filters.

Feel free to share how much you want to be cucked or how much you want to be cucking him.

When my wife was younger she was having sex with others 2 or 3 times a week. Sometimes her frequency was more. She worked as a waitress in a hotel bar for a number of years. The job gave her the opportunity to meet many men and she took advantage of the opportunity.

When she was working there she would sometimes be out overnight for several days. Other times she did short term live ins where she would stay with a guy for a couple of weeks.

We also had men stay with us for a couple of months or more. Neither of us could deal with a live in a 24/7 situation. We found after a while we just needed our house back. With someone else staying in your home we began to feel crowded in our own heads so full time wouldn't have worked.

[ucaneffher]

Cucks/wannabes, beloved (hot) wives, and third parties (most commonly called bulls around here). What level of intensity do you hope for when it comes to cuckolding?

Some are okay with light cuckolding that occurs once in a while. Others want a little more frequency. And there's those of us who don't want to exit the full time state of cuckolding.


So that you can understand the question/poll, here is a bit of background
Having been a cuck for 7 years and lived different dynamics, lately I find it that those experiences shaped my current mindset and have led me to desire a dynamic with my partner where she cucks me constantly. It's not just once a week or several but instead I am kept in a cuckold state 24 hours a day 7 days a week. I want to know what it feels like to be permanently cucked by her. I want to experience knowing what it feels like being unable to turn it off, unable to walk away from it, or get away from it other than obviously ending the relationship but that's not the goal here.

I find it that the only way that I could ever achieve this is by her having a boyfriend, him moving in with us, and allowing him to fully take over while I become the 3rd wheel/ spectator. Technically I could get away from it by leaving the house such as going to work but the minute I walk in the door of my home, I am reminding that I am a cuckold .

You just can't ignore it, especially when I see her with her boyfriend on the couch together, when they're in their bedroom together, perhaps discover them taking a shower together, see them both getting ready for their date or going out with his friends, waking up on a Saturday morning to find them in the kitchen with her only in a thong making breakfast and him behind her unable to keep his hands off her, and the most intense one is when I hear them making love in THEIR bedroom in the middle of the night while I am alone in my room in the dark.

This is what I mean by wanting to be kept in a cuckold state 24/7. They would not hold anything back in front of me and their relationship would become full-time in front of me without filters.

Feel free to share how much you want to be cucked or how much you want to be cucking him.

When my wife was younger she was having sex with others 2 or 3 times a week. Sometimes her frequency was more. She worked as a waitress in a hotel bar for a number of years. The job gave her the opportunity to meet many men and she took advantage of the opportunity.

Sounds like my first hot GF. In our 20s 2-3 was the norm but there were times where she would get ambitious and squeeze in a couple of quickies so the frequency increased with the same 1-3 guys that she had as regulars but there was one week where for some reason we couldn't see each other as usual and later that Sunday when we caught a break she admitted a new personal record. She said something along the lines of "I have a confession and I know you're probably going to love this, I've had sex with 5 different men this week and that's not counting you tonight"

Gotta love when our women are in a line of work that literally puts men in a platter for them to pick and vice versa. Mine also had a series of coworkers and customers and it was great.

When she was working there she would sometimes be out overnight for several days. Other times she did short term live ins where she would stay with a guy for a couple of weeks.

This was also the norm in our relationship for my gf to be gone several nights. Most often it was staying overnights on the weekends but there were this random Tuesdays where horniness and desire would have her staying with a lover. . But it wasn't uncommon at all for her to disappear on a Friday and show up on a Monday evening after work. The several weeks thing only occurred 2-3 times in a 7 year period so not too much.

Although I will add that my gf and I did a public separation in order for her to become another man's girlfriend and go live with him. She was gone for 18 months which was exhilarating to know she was completely and unrestricted and fully available to him in their own home.

We also had men stay with us for a couple of months or more. Neither of us could deal with a live in a 24/7 situation. We found after a while we just needed our house back. With someone else staying in your home we began to feel crowded in our own heads so full time wouldn't have worked.

We never had this which is why I want the shenanigans brought into our home. All I ever had was my GF going away while I sat and waited. You raise a good point about it becoming too much and crowded. I think that starting in increments and getting a feel for it would be a good idea, just like when she would stay overnight 1 night, then 2, 3, and eventually 1 week, and the next minute your gf is living with another man and posting pictures of her with him. Thanks for all your great feedback, certainly a lot of things to take into consideration.

[masculinecuck]

As her cuck for over 8 years now our frequency is usually 3/4 nites a week. My wife has 3 steadys and LOVES sleepovers. She has a rotation where one guy will usually arrive on a Thursday and leave on Monday am. They all have multiple sets of clothes here along with toiletries.
She's VERY happy.

[Cgb29]

You actually present this question in a framework I'd never really considered. We've been together since high school. It took her a while to go all the way, but there was never really a period in our relationship where she didn't at least have a guy friend who got some of her attention.

Before we had kids, we had an arrangement where she was splitting time living with both me and a boyfriend. And there have been periods where she was just having occasional hookups with long lulls in between.

Right now, she has a boyfriend who is also married with kids. Family obligations limit their time, obviously, but they still manage to see each other a couple times a week, at least. He travels for work and she will accompany him sometimes. He's spent overnights with us when the kids are gone. But their relationship is serious and it's always present. He comes up in casual conversation constantly. So I guess in that way, I am cucked 24/7, since he's always a presence in our lives, even if it's passive at times.

But she and I still have an active sex life, we're still primary in each other's lives. We've played around with denial, but never very long term. How would you quantify that? It's interesting to think about.