Wives sleeping with married men?

[BCiym]

How do others feel about their wives sleeping with married men? I've always had mixed feelings about it. On the one hand the fact that the man's married helps make sure he doesn't try to have a more serious relationship with Karen. On the other I don't have much respect for the husbands because it's horrible they're cheating on their wives. Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong. Opinions?

[armyguyot1]

I have been taking care of this site for a long time and I think the trend is to like married to avoid entanglements. A few are opposed. We will see how they respond.

[iluvmyhw]

we have no problem they are more discrete

[luvwives999]

My wife had no problem sleeping with married men if she did not know the wife. If she knew the wife that was another story. I told her that she may as well, wouldn't it be better if he cheats with someone like her and not a single woman? My logic didn't persuade her LOL

[Thebestdays1]

My ex liked the thought of a married man, in love with his wife, wanting to fuck her. She used to think there'd be less of a chance of any strong emotional entanglement between them, even though she usually developed some feelings towards them.
However, one married colleague she was fucking and sucking almost daily did fall in love with her, to the extent that he didn't notice his wife was also having an affair. He became very clingy and she dumped him which lead to him causing her no end of problems at work. At this point, another married colleague started looking out for her, which ended up with her cheating on me with him and once I'd noticed the change in her, we split up. His wife found out and kicked him out and he ended up living with my wife, whilst I was living in our caravan on the driveway.
Whilst all this was going on she was also cheating on me with her nephew for the last few years of our marriage. A couple of years after my wife and I split up he met a girl and they soon got engaged. My wife went to the wedding and got a thrill from hearing him say his vows, knowing he'd be fucking her soon after coming back from his honeymoon. They've been fucking for over 25 years. He's been fucking his other aunt for a few months longer and more often so I don't know how his wife hasn't found out yet.
She's also enjoyed going with married women.

[BCiym]

Picking up on the point above, Karen hasn't known the wives of the married men she's slept with and hasn't wanted to. The closest was many years ago when she was sleeping with the father of one of the kids in our son's 5th grade class. She saw the mom at a couple of school events, but they never had a conversation.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

Both of my wife’s boyfriends have been single.

Perhaps there’s an ethical proclivity there, but I think it’s moreso because she wants her boyfriends available for her amusement, entertainment, and fuckability at her leisure. No “interference.” When she gets that “itch,” she can head over to his house and get it scratched immediately.

[Jmoney]

Definitely a preference for married guys, both of her boyfriend have been. They are more discreet, don't need pics or constant attention.

[amerus]

I'd prefer for my wife to sleep with other married men. This way, both of them know that they have their primary families, and it is just friendship and a fling, but nothing else.

[armyguyot1]

We were at a bar in Reno at the Silver Legacy when a guy started hitting on my wife. He started a coversation and bought her drinks. I think he had bought her three drinks and she had a drink when he started. He was not very descreet about what he wanted to do to her and was buying one drink after another when his wife walked up to take a break from gambling. She was a good looking nice gal and my wife liked her. It was almost like that turned of the wetness generator to her pussy and she was done. She was OK with him being married but not after she met and liked the wife.

[armyguyot1]

We were at a bar in Reno at the Silver Legacy when a guy started hitting on my wife. He started a coversation and bought her drinks. I think he had bought her three drinks and she had a drink when he started. He was not very descreet about what he wanted to do to her and was buying one drink after another when his wife walked up to take a break from gambling. She was a good looking nice gal and my wife liked her. It was almost like that turned of the wetness generator to her pussy and she was done. She was OK with him being married but not after she met and liked the wife.

[Wifewithothers]

We have no issue with married men whether their wives are involved or not or whether the wives know or don't know.

There is no guarantee a married man won't fall for her. Of course it you want him to be a regular then finding mutual free time can be tricky sometimes.

In our younger less discreet days we/she were not shy of the husband's or bfs of couples we knew even if the wife/gf wasn't involved. Nothing bad ever happened but in hindsight wasn't the best move lol

[Aussiem]

It has only been married men, mostly their wife new but not all.

[annsman]

We are happy for my wife to date married men, their marriage is their business not ours, but she won’t date a friend’s husband without her permission which has only happened once.

The problem we have with married men is that Ann doesn’t want a sordid affair where they have to hide away, but they have to be discreet if he’s cheating.

She doesn’t like men who play around and wants more respect than just being another notch on his bedpost and thinks that married men are safer emotionally and health wise if they are only having sex with her and their wife.

Only once did she admit getting a kick out of cheating on another man’s wife and that was the wife her female boss who had a problem with her work for some reason, probably jealousy that she attracted more attention.

[bbarnsworth]

My wife hasn't played with any married men except for two men she played with when we both played with another couple. There was one guy who wanted to play with her, but she got the sense he was married and called it off. Neither of us wants to be involved in cheating, even if the other wife doesn't know. There's also the potential for serious drama, with all sorts of ways it could play out.

[54321]

Only once did she admit getting a kick out of cheating on another man’s wife and that was the wife her female boss who had a problem with her work for some reason, probably jealousy that she attracted more attention.

Sorry. A bit confused by that one.

54321

[NorthOpen]

Lianna's current boyfriend is married, and his wife doesn't know. He told Lianna early on that he was unhappy in his marriage and was thinking of leaving his wife... but 5 years on and he's still married and (probably) having sex with both of them. I don't think he is being honest with either of them. Well, Lianna hasn't told him that we're still fucking once in a while either, so it's a tangled web regardless.

I've been a bull for a few married women and almost every time they develop feelings and so it gets rocky eventually, and then I choose to exit rather than mess up a marriage any further.

[mychubbyhotwife]

How do others feel about their wives sleeping with married men? I've always had mixed feelings about it. On the one hand the fact that the man's married helps make sure he doesn't try to have a more serious relationship with Karen.

Yes! A definite plus!

On the other I don't have much respect for the husbands because it's horrible they're cheating on their wives.

Have you thought about the possibility of him maybe not having respect for you for letting him fuck your wife?

Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong.

I like Karen's attitude. I agree with her.

[BCiym]

How do others feel about their wives sleeping with married men? I've always had mixed feelings about it. On the one hand the fact that the man's married helps make sure he doesn't try to have a more serious relationship with Karen.

Yes! A definite plus!

On the other I don't have much respect for the husbands because it's horrible they're cheating on their wives.

Have you thought about the possibility of him maybe not having respect for you for letting him fuck your wife?

Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong.

I like Karen's attitude. I agree with her.

Wed Jun 25, 2025 11:11 pm
Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is
[/q

How do others feel about their wives sleeping with married men? I've always had mixed feelings about it. On the one hand the fact that the man's married helps make sure he doesn't try to have a more serious relationship with Karen.

Yes! A definite plus!

On the other I don't have much respect for the husbands because it's horrible they're cheating on their wives.

Have you thought about the possibility of him maybe not having respect for you for letting him fuck your wife?

It's strange, but I really haven't spent a lot of time considering what the men must think of me. I assume that they see me as not being much of a man or that I'm really screwed up (or maybe both). From what Karen's told me they're usually baffled why I would accept it even more that I want it, but it's not like they say awful things about me (if they do Karen won't tell me because she doesn't want my feelings hurt). A close girlfriend of Karen's once told her "Jim's a nice guy ... for a pervert."

Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong.

I like Karen's attitude. I agree with her.

[BCiym]

How do others feel about their wives sleeping with married men? I've always had mixed feelings about it. On the one hand the fact that the man's married helps make sure he doesn't try to have a more serious relationship with Karen.

Yes! A definite plus!

On the other I don't have much respect for the husbands because it's horrible they're cheating on their wives.

Have you thought about the possibility of him maybe not having respect for you for letting him fuck your wife?

Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong.

I like Karen's attitude. I agree with her.

Wed Jun 25, 2025 11:11 pm
Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is
[/q

How do others feel about their wives sleeping with married men? I've always had mixed feelings about it. On the one hand the fact that the man's married helps make sure he doesn't try to have a more serious relationship with Karen.

Yes! A definite plus!

On the other I don't have much respect for the husbands because it's horrible they're cheating on their wives.

Have you thought about the possibility of him maybe not having respect for you for letting him fuck your wife?

It's strange, but I really haven't spent a lot of time considering what the men must think of me. I assume that they see me as not being much of a man or that I'm really screwed up (or maybe both). From what Karen's told me they're usually baffled why I would accept it even more that I want it, but it's not like they say awful things about me (if they do Karen won't tell me because she doesn't want my feelings hurt). A close girlfriend of Karen's once told her "Jim's a nice guy ... for a pervert."

Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong.

I like Karen's attitude. I agree with her.

How do others feel about their wives sleeping with married men? I've always had mixed feelings about it. On the one hand the fact that the man's married helps make sure he doesn't try to have a more serious relationship with Karen.

Yes! A definite plus!

On the other I don't have much respect for the husbands because it's horrible they're cheating on their wives.

Have you thought about the possibility of him maybe not having respect for you for letting him fuck your wife?

Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong.

I like Karen's attitude. I agree with her.

Wed Jun 25, 2025 11:11 pm
Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is
[/q

How do others feel about their wives sleeping with married men? I've always had mixed feelings about it. On the one hand the fact that the man's married helps make sure he doesn't try to have a more serious relationship with Karen.

Yes! A definite plus!

On the other I don't have much respect for the husbands because it's horrible they're cheating on their wives.

Have you thought about the possibility of him maybe not having respect for you for letting him fuck your wife?

It's strange, but I really haven't spent a lot of time considering what the men must think of me. I assume that they see me as not being much of a man or that I'm really screwed up (or maybe both). From what Karen's told me they're usually baffled why I would accept it even more that I want it, but it's not like they say awful things about me (if they do Karen won't tell me because she doesn't want my feelings hurt). A close girlfriend of Karen's once told her "Jim's a nice guy ... for a pervert."

Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong.

I like Karen's attitude. I agree with her.

[BCiym]

How do others feel about their wives sleeping with married men? I've always had mixed feelings about it. On the one hand the fact that the man's married helps make sure he doesn't try to have a more serious relationship with Karen.

Yes! A definite plus!

On the other I don't have much respect for the husbands because it's horrible they're cheating on their wives.

Have you thought about the possibility of him maybe not having respect for you for letting him fuck your wife?

Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong.

I like Karen's attitude. I agree with her.

Wed Jun 25, 2025 11:11 pm
Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is
[/q

How do others feel about their wives sleeping with married men? I've always had mixed feelings about it. On the one hand the fact that the man's married helps make sure he doesn't try to have a more serious relationship with Karen.

Yes! A definite plus!

On the other I don't have much respect for the husbands because it's horrible they're cheating on their wives.

Have you thought about the possibility of him maybe not having respect for you for letting him fuck your wife?

It's strange, but I really haven't spent a lot of time considering what the men must think of me. I assume that they see me as not being much of a man or that I'm really screwed up (or maybe both). From what Karen's told me they're usually baffled why I would accept it even more that I want it, but it's not like they say awful things about me (if they do Karen won't tell me because she doesn't want my feelings hurt). A close girlfriend of Karen's once told her "Jim's a nice guy ... for a pervert."

Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong.

I like Karen's attitude. I agree with her.

How do others feel about their wives sleeping with married men? I've always had mixed feelings about it. On the one hand the fact that the man's married helps make sure he doesn't try to have a more serious relationship with Karen.

Yes! A definite plus!

On the other I don't have much respect for the husbands because it's horrible they're cheating on their wives.

Have you thought about the possibility of him maybe not having respect for you for letting him fuck your wife?

Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong.

I like Karen's attitude. I agree with her.

Wed Jun 25, 2025 11:11 pm
Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is
[/q

How do others feel about their wives sleeping with married men? I've always had mixed feelings about it. On the one hand the fact that the man's married helps make sure he doesn't try to have a more serious relationship with Karen.

Yes! A definite plus!

On the other I don't have much respect for the husbands because it's horrible they're cheating on their wives.

Have you thought about the possibility of him maybe not having respect for you for letting him fuck your wife?

It's strange, but I really haven't spent a lot of time considering what the men must think of me. I assume that they see me as not being much of a man or that I'm really screwed up (or maybe both). From what Karen's told me they're usually baffled why I would accept it even more that I want it, but it's not like they say awful things about me (if they do Karen won't tell me because she doesn't want my feelings hurt). A close girlfriend of Karen's once told her "Jim's a nice guy ... for a pervert."

Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong.

I like Karen's attitude. I agree with her.

[Parsifal]

This is an interesting topic in all of its dimensions. Yes, married men are slightly preferable for my wife (and me too) because those guys commonly are in an otherwise workable marriage and just need a little (or a lot of) variety on the side. So the risk of drama tends to be lower. The moral dilemma of complicity in the other man's adultery, though felt, is rationalized away as the lesser of two evils - if he didn't cheat on his wife with my wife on the side, it would be with some other woman who might wreck his family by alienating his affections. Cheating husbands are often otherwise good husbands in all other ways, as we've come to learn. On the other hand, the format of dating married guys is less desirable for my wife due to the monotony of daytime motel settings to prevent detection. She likes glamming up in nightime cocktail attire at a bar and foreplay that includes a little romantic wining and dining. Single guys also have their own place typically for the final event, which she prefers over sleazy motels or over the front seat of a work truck.

[Shantideva]

This is one of the biggest paradoxes for my wife and I. She was engaged to another guy before me and cheated on him (multiple times with the same guy), and she still to this day, nearly 20 years later, feels extreme guilt over it. But she also told me once that she liked cheating a lot and found it extremely arousing.

One part of my brain doesn't want to be complicit in someone else's infidelity. There are plenty of single men and men in open relationships for my wife to sleep with. But another part of my brain finds the idea of a married man cheating on his wife with MY wife incredibly hot. Knowing that he is risking his marriage and his family because he wants to fuck my wife so bad is a turn on! And I know from conversations with my wife that this aspect of it is sexy for her, too. And of course there are all the other, more practical benefits of sleeping with married men that others have already mentioned.

[BCiym]

There was one man Karen saw a number of years ago who fell in love with her and said he’d leave his wife and kids to be with her. He wanted Karen to do the same. She was in a real quandary over it because she did have feelings for him, but still told him no. (Yay!)n After that they didn’t see each other for eight or nine years until he came here for a conference. They went to dinner at his hotel during which he told Karen he wanted to “clear the air.” That meant calling her an “enabler” who almost wrecked his marriage! Obviously, the whole interaction really upset her Karen, but it also disappointed her because, as she put it, “I was hoping he’d ask me up to his room."

[Flavius]

Karen's attitude is that she can't take responsibility for the choices the men make -- they're big boys and they can make up their own minds about whether sleeping with her is right or wrong.

Same here! It does not cause my wife or me a headache when the man is married.

On the other hand, the format of dating married guys is less desirable for my wife due to the monotony of daytime motel settings to prevent detection. She likes glamming up in nightime cocktail attire at a bar and foreplay that includes a little romantic wining and dining. Single guys also have their own place typically for the final event, which she prefers over sleazy motels or over the front seat of a work truck.

This is similiar to my wife. Maya likes dating the men dressed to the nines. She has her dates mostly at weekends in the evening and likes some nice dining before they withdraw to his hotel room or flat. This is not doable for a lot of married men because they would need a good excuse for their absence from home.

Flavius