Better for the dom bulls?

[DanW]

I know most of the discussion on here is about the dynamic cuckolding brings between a husband and a wife. But I've always been interested in how it makes the bull feel, especially if he has exclusive access to the wife, and especially if the cuck is forced to watch them having sex.

I haven't been cuckolded by my current partner, but during sex I often fantasize that I'm the bull and that she has her husband in a cage or tied to a chair, and he has to watch me fuck her, while he hasn't been allowed to for at least the last 6 months. That fantasy always puts me over the top.

I would think that for a dominant bull that kind of dynamic would keep him coming around for more and would be another reason for the wife to want to continue that kind of situation if she really wants him to stick around.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum DanW.

[Michigan1]

I know most of the discussion on here is about the dynamic cuckolding brings between a husband and a wife. But I've always been interested in how it makes the bull feel, especially if he has exclusive access to the wife, and especially if the cuck is forced to watch them having sex.

I haven't been cuckolded by my current partner, but during sex I often fantasize that I'm the bull and that she has her husband in a cage or tied to a chair, and he has to watch me fuck her, while he hasn't been allowed to for at least the last 6 months. That fantasy always puts me over the top.

I would think that for a dominant bull that kind of dynamic would keep him coming around for more and would be another reason for the wife to want to continue that kind of situation if she really wants him to stick around.

I too have not been cuckolded but I use this same fantasy almost every time my wife and I make love. I imagine being a small dicked, premature ejaculator, (not far from the truth btw) that is denied by my wife while the alpha bull gets any pleasure he requests from her.

[MartasBoy]

I know most of the discussion on here is about the dynamic cuckolding brings between a husband and a wife. But I've always been interested in how it makes the bull feel, especially if he has exclusive access to the wife, and especially if the cuck is forced to watch them having sex.

I haven't been cuckolded by my current partner, but during sex I often fantasize that I'm the bull and that she has her husband in a cage or tied to a chair, and he has to watch me fuck her, while he hasn't been allowed to for at least the last 6 months. That fantasy always puts me over the top.

I would think that for a dominant bull that kind of dynamic would keep him coming around for more and would be another reason for the wife to want to continue that kind of situation if she really wants him to stick around.

So it sounds like you would like to be a bull at some point.

[sconesy73]

that is denied by my wife while the alpha bull gets any pleasure he requests from her.

That's a very good description of how my relationship has always been!
Apart from when we were trying to get pregnant, I've nearly always had to use condoms but her bulls never have.
I've never fucked her ass - bulls have.
She'll rim a bull if he told her to.
She'll have her pubic hair the way they want it- from full bush to completely bare.
Probably more examples but those are the most obvious ones I can think of.

It's the way it should be!

[NSEW1]

I think it would be interesting for the bull and the husband to have a balanced relationship in which during normal hours they are like friends, but at some point when the time is right, a switch goes off. The bull may snap his fingers and the husband will be expected to go into submission. They may have sitting on the sofa, watching a football game and having a beer together. But now he is suddenly required to sit on the floor or go make dinner and refer to the bull as Sir. Whereas he might have greeted his wife with a kiss earlier, he is suddenly prohibited from even looking at her in a sexual way. The bull may even order him to suck his dick before taking the wife upstairs. The next morning it goes back to “normal”. Until the evening…

[MartasBoy]

I've always been interested in how it [the cukolding relationship] makes the bull feel, especially if he has exclusive access to the wife, and especially if the cuck is forced to watch them having sex.

I would think that for a dominant bull that kind of dynamic would keep him coming around for more and would be another reason for the wife to want to continue that kind of situation if she really wants him to stick around.

I know ours walks in the house like a very confident rooster in the hen house. When he leaves, he seems very satisfied.

He always seems curious to know whether or not I am locked in chastity, and he will usually ask my wife. If I am, she will tell him so, and he gets a very satisfied smile on his face. There have been times that they have gone into the bedroom, and my wife has come out and announced that she has decided to lock me in my chastity device. I suspect that he has requested it. He seems to like knowing that I am locked in my device. There seems to be something he finds satisfying about knowing this.

When he comes to town for business, he is usually here for a week. He will see her on both weekends and a few times through the week. Often at those times, she will lock me in my chastity device. When I ask her why, she just says because she feels like it. I believe that he may be requesting it.

[NSEW1]

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He always seems curious to know whether or not I am locked in chastity, and he will usually ask my wife. If I am, she will tell him so, and he gets a very satisfied smile on his face... When I ask her why, she just says because she feels like it. I believe that he may be requesting it

Maybe it’s an alpha dominance behavior to know that you are locked up, harmless like a eunuch. Your wife should show him your imprisonment and give him the key for more power over you. If you misbehave he may even decide to keep you locked up even while he’s away.

[hubudig2]

I think it would be interesting for the bull and the husband to have a balanced relationship in which during normal hours they are like friends, but at some point when the time is right, a switch goes off. The bull may snap his fingers and the husband will be expected to go into submission. They may have sitting on the sofa, watching a football game and having a beer together. But now he is suddenly required to sit on the floor or go make dinner and refer to the bull as Sir. Whereas he might have greeted his wife with a kiss earlier, he is suddenly prohibited from even looking at her in a sexual way. The bull may even order him to suck his dick before taking the wife upstairs. The next morning it goes back to “normal”. Until the evening…

That mostly describes how I like to go about it. The way I interact with the husband not being dissimilar to how I interact with his wife or my own, as equals/friends until it comes to sex. The submission doesn't happen suddenly though, people need time to get in the mood, I enjoy teasing them into it, it's possibly my favourite part, teasing them into something taboo while it still feels taboo to them. Once I start feeling their submission, "a switch goes off" within me, where I get much more horny and stop seeing them as equals (or potential subs) and see them as my subs. It probably takes a couple of seconds but is also really hot to feel both mindsets at the same time.

I know some bulls prefer to assert some kind of superior status at all times, that is probably an alpha thing whereas I'm a sigma and sigma's generally don't feel a need to assert themselves above or below anybody else. (Sex is an exception)

[frank12]

That shift of the expressed personalities/roles is occasionally subtle but I'm more comfortable being the catalyst with those who have their eyes open and self-aware of how that shift happens and how it works. It can be tedious to step gingerly along with those who rigidly adhere to some role of "completely submissive" (or wherever they feel they have to be). Much, much more enjoyable is to be able to discuss and talk about things at a thoughtful awareness and openness level, and then, as it become time to shift into playtime roles, as HUD2 notes it can be VERY enjoyable to observe that switching to the submissive roles.

And then after (though sometimes not the same day!) to be able to discuss just what parts of the playtime were the most enjoyable, its fun to have playmates ask for more.

[zecko]

True, the forum is very focused on the husband's point of view and somewhat on the wife's, but little on the bull's. Over the last few decades I have had the extraordinary pleasure of having sex with men's wives or girlfriends. It wasn't always hotwife situations, every now and then it was classic cheating. But you never know if you're being played at cheating. You read something like that here from time to time.

But this is about the hotwife situation.
I've always enjoyed playing the dominant part. Although ‘playing’ is perhaps the wrong term. It always challenged me to tease out of the hotwife what she doesn't normally do. And there was almost always something.

The classic scenario was usually that the prim and proper wife, mother, who masters her life with all its family challenges, becomes the submissive giver to me during sex and lets herself fall into the vastness of sexual pleasures.

For example, and not just once, anal sex was absolutely taboo and yet at some point they consented and let me take their virginity anally. That was the start of regular anal sex. The husband is knowing about it, but often gets none. Or to get them to dress more provocatively. Not too provocative, after all, they are often respected members of society and unfortunately you are quickly judged here. What I mean is not granny panties, but pretty female underwear and not just when it comes to sex, but always and in everyday life. Skirts and stockings instead of socks and jeans. Funnily enough, this small change has often changed the self-confidence and appearance of these women for the better.

One more thing before it gets too long: In a few situations, I've had sex with the wives or girlfriends of my close friends. Of course, I also interacted with these women outside of the bedroom. I've been to their weddings, children's birthdays or other get-togethers. There, of course, they are in a completely different roles. But knowing what these women do when you're alone with them is something special and that's what makes it so special for me.

It's just very interesting when you're at a wedding, see the bride in her beautiful innocent white dress and remember that just a few days ago she was standing outside my door in nothing but black stockings and high heels under her coat and asked me to give it to her properly.

[frank12]

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The classic scenario was usually that the prim and proper wife, mother, who masters her life with all its family challenges, becomes the submissive giver to me during sex and lets herself fall into the vastness of sexual pleasures.

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But knowing what these women do when you're alone with them is something special and that's what makes it so special for me.
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Yes! These are some of the very special and enjoyable parts of being the lover, dominant, or "bull" for a woman or a couple. Especially that part zecko notes of knowing what they do when they are in their play "head space", and having that shared secret that others out in "proper society" have no inkling of.

This is a shared feeling, they holding their secrets, whether wife's or couples, and sometimes talking at length with me to tell of how exciting it is for them as well. It adds to the electricity.

Prof Wood