Chinese hotwife in the making

[silveranklet]

A few words of introduction, as I recently came across this website. My wife is 40yo and a pure Chinese (i.e. born and raised in China and living there, with the full societal implications that come with that). For quite a few years, we have enjoyed the hotwifing idea (cuckolding not so much, rather hotwifing with her being the center of attention and me looking after her to make sure she fully enjoys), and used role playing for dirty talk in bed.

She loves salsa (and bachata) dancing and has started to also enjoy the physical closeness that naturally comes with it, especially feeling her body touched and (neck) kissed by a passionate dancer. After coming home from a dance night, she would usually be super horny and cum quickly multiple times from re-telling the story of the night and imagining how it would be if he had taken things a bit further and touched her intentionally at her right spots.

So last year in May, we progressed and went to a lifestyle club in London. In the open playroom, she was approached by a respectful Italian gentleman, who not only managed to take her hand, caress her arm and kiss her neck, but had his hands on her naked nipples and was massaging her clit. She was moaning openly to him, massaging his BWC through his pants, while I was sitting next to her encouraging and supporting her.
Unfortunately, he was advancing a bit too fast, wanting to insert a finger into her dripping wet pussy - which caused her to reject any further action.

She told me afterwards that she thought that this went a bit too fast and that she would have preferred him going a bit more slowly and taking more care of her nipples. Her nipples are actually the key to her body - she cums easily from being caressed and sucked there. She admitted that afterwards her resistance would have been gone and she would have allowed to kiss her and take things further. She was also very curious to take out his manhood - I guess she would have been a bit shy, only stroking him for a start before her desire is taking her over...

Surprisingly, in July, she took things further on her own. She went to a crowded bar in Beijing to watch some soccer match during the UEFA Euro. she sat next to a German guy and ended up being fingered by him to two orgasm. She was wanking his naked cock outside of the bar. He was eager to fuck her but since he didn’t have any condoms with him she told me that she declined.
She unfolded everything (or so I thought…) to me afterwards and said that her desire for any more hotwife adventures was now satisfied.

To be continued…

[a51anh0tw1fe]

Sounds incredibly hot. Are you also Chinese?

[silveranklet]

No, we are a WMAF couple. So I am very open to the idea of her sexual freedom and liberation of thought.

[Bogdan]

Sounds pretty good silveranklet and welcome to the forum

[silveranklet]

We met only a few hours after she had her first hotwife adventure - I was actually on a plane to China when this took place. During my approach flight to Beijing, she mentioned that she was a bit naughty the evening before and would have quite a bit to unfold to me. As you can imagine, I was very nervous the remaining two hours of the flight. I did not believe that anything had actually happened and I thought she was only messing with me.
When we started off on this lifestyle journey, I had thought that we would play occasionally and together, ie. with me being present. Luckily for us, I had warmed up during the months of May and June more and more to the idea of her having solo play.
Once we saw each other at Arrivals, she was really very shy and had a guilty look, not daring to look me into the eyes. So it dawned on me slowly that what she had told me was really what had happened. As she warmed up to me slowly, and seeing that I was not angry at her or dumped her, she unfolded more details - and our first reclaiming sex was very intensive.
The scenario she had played out that night was the one that she had watched 2 decades ago when looking at Japanese AV. A younger woman with an experienced man who is bringing her to orgasm. Combined with the openness of the situation (she was sitting in front of the bar in a public space), this was exactly fulfilling her inner desires.
For the following months, I was nevertheless feeling a lot of compassion for her. She had lived out her AV dream, but unfortunately he had not cum and she had not completed her transformation to a hotwife. So in our dirty talk and role play, we were frequently replaying this night out. One Sunday in January, I was teasing her, telling that she could have taken the guy raw and that he could have shot into her naked pussy. As a reply, she simply stated: „He did!“
What an incredible confession - after 6 months of the actual event, she only now felt secure enough to tell me that she got a creampie from him and that actually, when I met her a few hours later, I was shooting into her pussy with some of his cum still inside of her.
What she unfolded then to me was as follows:
As described she had taken out his cock and wanked him a bit outside of the bar after he had fingered her to two orgasms, but he wanted to insert and she did not let him - at first. Turns out that right before his taxi came to take him to his hotel, he tried to convince her to join him there, but she did not want. She then gave in to him and he pushed her against a wall of the bar building and shoved his dick into her tight and wet pussy, taking her doggy style. Given his blue balls, he did only last 4 thrusts until he exploded inside of her and then left.

So it turns out that my innocent wifey turned into a naughty hotwife while I was flying over to meet her

To be continued…

[Pecannut]

Wow! So amazingly hot! Looking forward to hearing more!

[a51anh0tw1fe]

We met only a few hours after she had her first hotwife adventure - I was actually on a plane to China when this took place. During my approach flight to Beijing, she mentioned that she was a bit naughty the evening before and would have quite a bit to unfold to me. As you can imagine, I was very nervous the remaining two hours of the flight. I did not believe that anything had actually happened and I thought she was only messing with me.
When we started off on this lifestyle journey, I had thought that we would play occasionally and together, ie. with me being present. Luckily for us, I had warmed up during the months of May and June more and more to the idea of her having solo play.
Once we saw each other at Arrivals, she was really very shy and had a guilty look, not daring to look me into the eyes. So it dawned on me slowly that what she had told me was really what had happened. As she warmed up to me slowly, and seeing that I was not angry at her or dumped her, she unfolded more details - and our first reclaiming sex was very intensive.
The scenario she had played out that night was the one that she had watched 2 decades ago when looking at Japanese AV. A younger woman with an experienced man who is bringing her to orgasm. Combined with the openness of the situation (she was sitting in front of the bar in a public space), this was exactly fulfilling her inner desires.
For the following months, I was nevertheless feeling a lot of compassion for her. She had lived out her AV dream, but unfortunately he had not cum and she had not completed her transformation to a hotwife. So in our dirty talk and role play, we were frequently replaying this night out. One Sunday in January, I was teasing her, telling that she could have taken the guy raw and that he could have shot into her naked pussy. As a reply, she simply stated: „He did!“
What an incredible confession - after 6 months of the actual event, she only now felt secure enough to tell me that she got a creampie from him and that actually, when I met her a few hours later, I was shooting into her pussy with some of his cum still inside of her.
What she unfolded then to me was as follows:
As described she had taken out his cock and wanked him a bit outside of the bar after he had fingered her to two orgasms, but he wanted to insert and she did not let him - at first. Turns out that right before his taxi came to take him to his hotel, he tried to convince her to join him there, but she did not want. She then gave in to him and he pushed her against a wall of the bar building and shoved his dick into her tight and wet pussy, taking her doggy style. Given his blue balls, he did only last 4 thrusts until he exploded inside of her and then left.

So it turns out that my innocent wifey turned into a naughty hotwife while I was flying over to meet her

To be continued…

Totally understand what you've been through, especially the part when she's keeping parts of the true situation to herself, for fear of your reaction. And also how horny Chinese wives can be.

[silveranklet]

Her horniness is indeed really incredible. Such a turn on to know that she went so wild with that guy.
It was ticking quite a few of her boxes, most important her long standing, deep-rooted fantasy of an elder guy having his way with her in public…

[a51anh0tw1fe]

Her horniness is indeed really incredible. Such a turn on to know that she went so wild with that guy.
It was ticking quite a few of her boxes, most important her long standing, deep-rooted fantasy of an elder guy having his way with her in public…

Being submissive is a real powerful kink for them, especially for men who aren't their husband.

[silveranklet]

Indeed, I get that impression as well. She really likes men to be assertive when going out, imposing their will on her.
Do you have had similar experience?

[a51anh0tw1fe]

Indeed, I get that impression as well. She really likes men to be assertive when going out, imposing their will on her.
Do you have had similar experience?

My hotwife is Chinese too. From what we experienced, she definitely has that submissive kink in her.

[silveranklet]

In our call tonight I mentioned to her that she seems to be enjoying the attention and experience of mature man - she did not deny it at all and said she would like to take it further with them…

[a51anh0tw1fe]

In our call tonight I mentioned to her that she seems to be enjoying the attention and experience of mature man - she did not deny it at all and said she would like to take it further with them…

The first guy that my hotwife was interested in (after marriage) was nearly 20 years older than she was. A very senior colleague from another department. He frequently texted her, brought her out for expensive lunches. She had no shortage of male attention before and after marriage but he was by far the oldest and the most interesting one to her till that point.

[snoogaloo82]

A few words of introduction, as I recently came across this website. My wife is 40yo and a pure Chinese (i.e. born and raised in China and living there, with the full societal implications that come with that). For quite a few years, we have enjoyed the hotwifing idea (cuckolding not so much, rather hotwifing with her being the center of attention and me looking after her to make sure she fully enjoys), and used role playing for dirty talk in bed.

She loves salsa (and bachata) dancing and has started to also enjoy the physical closeness that naturally comes with it, especially feeling her body touched and (neck) kissed by a passionate dancer. After coming home from a dance night, she would usually be super horny and cum quickly multiple times from re-telling the story of the night and imagining how it would be if he had taken things a bit further and touched her intentionally at her right spots.

So last year in May, we progressed and went to a lifestyle club in London. In the open playroom, she was approached by a respectful Italian gentleman, who not only managed to take her hand, caress her arm and kiss her neck, but had his hands on her naked nipples and was massaging her clit. She was moaning openly to him, massaging his BWC through his pants, while I was sitting next to her encouraging and supporting her.
Unfortunately, he was advancing a bit too fast, wanting to insert a finger into her dripping wet pussy - which caused her to reject any further action.

She told me afterwards that she thought that this went a bit too fast and that she would have preferred him going a bit more slowly and taking more care of her nipples. Her nipples are actually the key to her body - she cums easily from being caressed and sucked there. She admitted that afterwards her resistance would have been gone and she would have allowed to kiss her and take things further. She was also very curious to take out his manhood - I guess she would have been a bit shy, only stroking him for a start before her desire is taking her over...

Surprisingly, in July, she took things further on her own. She went to a crowded bar in Beijing to watch some soccer match during the UEFA Euro. she sat next to a German guy and ended up being fingered by him to two orgasm. She was wanking his naked cock outside of the bar. He was eager to fuck her but since he didn’t have any condoms with him she told me that she declined.
She unfolded everything (or so I thought…) to me afterwards and said that her desire for any more hotwife adventures was now satisfied.

To be continued…

Sounds promising. My ex-sweetie was shy at first too. But she quickly warmed up to him!

[snoogaloo82]

We met only a few hours after she had her first hotwife adventure - I was actually on a plane to China when this took place. During my approach flight to Beijing, she mentioned that she was a bit naughty the evening before and would have quite a bit to unfold to me. As you can imagine, I was very nervous the remaining two hours of the flight. I did not believe that anything had actually happened and I thought she was only messing with me.
When we started off on this lifestyle journey, I had thought that we would play occasionally and together, ie. with me being present. Luckily for us, I had warmed up during the months of May and June more and more to the idea of her having solo play.
Once we saw each other at Arrivals, she was really very shy and had a guilty look, not daring to look me into the eyes. So it dawned on me slowly that what she had told me was really what had happened. As she warmed up to me slowly, and seeing that I was not angry at her or dumped her, she unfolded more details - and our first reclaiming sex was very intensive.
The scenario she had played out that night was the one that she had watched 2 decades ago when looking at Japanese AV. A younger woman with an experienced man who is bringing her to orgasm. Combined with the openness of the situation (she was sitting in front of the bar in a public space), this was exactly fulfilling her inner desires.
For the following months, I was nevertheless feeling a lot of compassion for her. She had lived out her AV dream, but unfortunately he had not cum and she had not completed her transformation to a hotwife. So in our dirty talk and role play, we were frequently replaying this night out. One Sunday in January, I was teasing her, telling that she could have taken the guy raw and that he could have shot into her naked pussy. As a reply, she simply stated: „He did!“
What an incredible confession - after 6 months of the actual event, she only now felt secure enough to tell me that she got a creampie from him and that actually, when I met her a few hours later, I was shooting into her pussy with some of his cum still inside of her.
What she unfolded then to me was as follows:
As described she had taken out his cock and wanked him a bit outside of the bar after he had fingered her to two orgasms, but he wanted to insert and she did not let him - at first. Turns out that right before his taxi came to take him to his hotel, he tried to convince her to join him there, but she did not want. She then gave in to him and he pushed her against a wall of the bar building and shoved his dick into her tight and wet pussy, taking her doggy style. Given his blue balls, he did only last 4 thrusts until he exploded inside of her and then left.

So it turns out that my innocent wifey turned into a naughty hotwife while I was flying over to meet her

To be continued…

What does AV stand for?

[silveranklet]

AV = Adult Video

Especially the Japanese productions have quite a bit of this submission theme, elderly guy, public exposure, etc

She got those videos some 20 years ago in Hongkong, as it is not allowed in China (of course)

[silveranklet]

Trying to catch up a bit more to where we are standing today…

After her coming out about her first hotwife experience and basically going all the way to becoming a real hotwife, my wife seems to have been more relaxed in respect of additional hotwife adventures.
So in February, she was having the annual dinner of their company in a restaurant on Puxi side of Shanghai. Food was ok‘ish, but luckily they had a free flow of drinks, including cocktails. Naturally, that made for a great start of the evening. Since the event was over by around 10pm, she decided to go to a Latin bar (La Social, for those of you with Shanghai knowledge) to relax a bit with some music. When she was at the bar, I was teasing her via WeChat that she could spend the evening with a male friend of hers at his place, who we know is going crazy for her (more on him later on).

She was tempted but went quiet and after 2 hours I got a simple message from her: „Oh my god“. It turned out that she had stayed at the bar to enjoy the music and environment. Since it was ladies night, she got a few more drinks and was in a very good mood, dancing closely with three guys. While sitting at a bar table with one of them, he took out his cock and she started to masturbate him. At the same time, he had moved up her long dress and was massaging her clit through her panties - until she was moaning to him and ultimately had an orgasm. He offered to lick her wet pussy in the toilet, which she refused.

Afterwards, she continued to dance, until the DJ of the house came to dance with her. He grabbed her by the hand and told her that he wanted to show her something. He went straight to the toilet with her, but she stopped him before, saying that she will not go into the toilet with him. So he pulled up her dress and slipped a finger into her panties from above. Inserting her dripping wet pussy, he fingered her to an orgasm. She was particularly turned on as the guy she had wanked before watched openly as she climaxed, screaming loudly.

Afterwards, she sneaked out before it could go any further. Once home, she and I had a call and she had another 6 orgasms to me over video chat. Unbelievable how horny she was. I guess this cheating scenario of hotwife play turned her on even more.

At the time, she told me that she only needs this kind of extra adventure maybe twice a year (looks like her guess is very wrong). My guess was that it would probably regularise at around once every 2 months, and that going forward she will not stop at the toilet door but take it further…

[a51anh0tw1fe]

Trying to catch up a bit more to where we are standing today…

After her coming out about her first hotwife experience and basically going all the way to becoming a real hotwife, my wife seems to have been more relaxed in respect of additional hotwife adventures.
So in February, she was having the annual dinner of their company in a restaurant on Puxi side of Shanghai. Food was ok‘ish, but luckily they had a free flow of drinks, including cocktails. Naturally, that made for a great start of the evening. Since the event was over by around 10pm, she decided to go to a Latin bar (La Social, for those of you with Shanghai knowledge) to relax a bit with some music. When she was at the bar, I was teasing her via WeChat that she could spend the evening with a male friend of hers at his place, who we know is going crazy for her (more on him later on).

She was tempted but went quiet and after 2 hours I got a simple message from her: „Oh my god“. It turned out that she had stayed at the bar to enjoy the music and environment. Since it was ladies night, she got a few more drinks and was in a very good mood, dancing closely with three guys. While sitting at a bar table with one of them, he took out his cock and she started to masturbate him. At the same time, he had moved up her long dress and was massaging her clit through her panties - until she was moaning to him and ultimately had an orgasm. He offered to lick her wet pussy in the toilet, which she refused.

Afterwards, she continued to dance, until the DJ of the house came to dance with her. He grabbed her by the hand and told her that he wanted to show her something. He went straight to the toilet with her, but she stopped him before, saying that she will not go into the toilet with him. So he pulled up her dress and slipped a finger into her panties from above. Inserting her dripping wet pussy, he fingered her to an orgasm. She was particularly turned on as the guy she had wanked before watched openly as she climaxed, screaming loudly.

Afterwards, she sneaked out before it could go any further. Once home, she and I had a call and she had another 6 orgasms to me over video chat. Unbelievable how horny she was. I guess this cheating scenario of hotwife play turned her on even more.

At the time, she told me that she only needs this kind of extra adventure maybe twice a year (looks like her guess is very wrong). My guess was that it would probably regularise at around once every 2 months, and that going forward she will not stop at the toilet door but take it further…

Once she has cross over to the other side, there's no U-turning for her. It’s only how nasty she's willing to be or how honest she's gonna be to her true slutty self.

[silveranklet]

I think this adventure in February was the first step towards the crossing over, because it was her second time. It was still accidental, but different from her first adventure in July last year, it was not a complete surprise.
We have advanced a bit further until today (I will catch you guys up on this), so that we are now standing at the edge of her really taking a conscious decision to arrange a true hotwife date and take the conscious step to cuckold her husband.

[playwifeplease]

I hope she takes that next 'conscious decision' to cuck you properly and become a true hotwife Silveranklet. Looks like exciting times ahead for both of you?
I can't wait to hear what happens next!

[silveranklet]

With the positive development described above we went into April this year. My wife continued to enjoy going to some bar, but only for simple dancing and drinking, not for any hotwifing. One night she went to the same place where she previously had her second hotwife adventure. She wanted to go „only“ dancing and enjoying herself. But a male friend of hers had also decided to go - in the past, she has been dancing dirty with him, feeling his hard cock push against her crotch on the dancefloor. and he has been trying to get her into the toilet at exactly this bar. I have seen pictures of the restrooms, and these are not mere cubicles but real rooms with solid walls. Once inside nobody from the outside will realise what is going on inside. So, there she went to the dancing/bar place - for her 4th hotwife adventure.
They spend 2 hours at the bar place, initially only dancing. They were placed at the far end of the bar, with possibility to sit on a bar chair. After a whiskey sour and a margarita she was feeling the right buzz.
As she was getting hot from the dancing, she took off the nipple pads that she had been wearing. Her friend immediately felt that her tits were now exposed inside her lose black top and he started to take care of them thoroughly. At one time, he had even pulled down the strings of her top and exposed her naked tit in the bar. He proceeded by licking and kissing her nipples while massaging her clitty from the outside of her tight pants.
Seeing how aroused she was, the guy proceeded to kiss her mouth. While still resisting in the beginning (so far, her mouth had been the one part of her body reserved for her hubby), she relatively quickly gave up her resistance entirely. They proceeded to make out heavily with very deep French kisses. She was moaning as he continued to play with her tits and ultimately she came to him. He continued to kiss her deeply and she sucked on his tongue, imagining how her dripping wet pussy would be wrapping around his cock. As he was massaging her pussy while kissing, she came to her second orgasm of the night, moaning into his mouth.
Afterwards, they moved to the sofa. There, she straddled him and was dry humping him in cowgirl position. His cock was super hard as she moved along his shaft. Ultimately, she had her third orgasm of the night, loudly moaning his name.
By midnight they left the bar and went to an after party food place. There, she struggled whether she should go home with him or not. He was pushing her to join him at his place so that she could jerk him off. But finally she decided against it. I asked her afterwards, why she didn‘t go - she told me that they would ultimately have fucked and that she thought that I am not yet ready for this.
Almost three hours later she sent me the emoji that we agreed means that she has orgasmed. You can imagine that I was in agony the entire time - even taking a cold shower to cool my boiling blood.
Once home, she sent me a photo of her dripping wet slip - really unbelievable traces of her hotwifing night out. We had a call and she unfolded her night to me. Retelling me the story, she had another 10 orgasms (I know it sounds unbelievable, but she basically moved from climax to climax).

[a51anh0tw1fe]

With the positive development described above we went into April this year. My wife continued to enjoy going to some bar, but only for simple dancing and drinking, not for any hotwifing. One night she went to the same place where she previously had her second hotwife adventure. She wanted to go „only“ dancing and enjoying herself. But a male friend of hers had also decided to go - in the past, she has been dancing dirty with him, feeling his hard cock push against her crotch on the dancefloor. and he has been trying to get her into the toilet at exactly this bar. I have seen pictures of the restrooms, and these are not mere cubicles but real rooms with solid walls. Once inside nobody from the outside will realise what is going on inside. So, there she went to the dancing/bar place - for her 4th hotwife adventure.
They spend 2 hours at the bar place, initially only dancing. They were placed at the far end of the bar, with possibility to sit on a bar chair. After a whiskey sour and a margarita she was feeling the right buzz.
As she was getting hot from the dancing, she took off the nipple pads that she had been wearing. Her friend immediately felt that her tits were now exposed inside her lose black top and he started to take care of them thoroughly. At one time, he had even pulled down the strings of her top and exposed her naked tit in the bar. He proceeded by licking and kissing her nipples while massaging her clitty from the outside of her tight pants.
Seeing how aroused she was, the guy proceeded to kiss her mouth. While still resisting in the beginning (so far, her mouth had been the one part of her body reserved for her hubby), she relatively quickly gave up her resistance entirely. They proceeded to make out heavily with very deep French kisses. She was moaning as he continued to play with her tits and ultimately she came to him. He continued to kiss her deeply and she sucked on his tongue, imagining how her dripping wet pussy would be wrapping around his cock. As he was massaging her pussy while kissing, she came to her second orgasm of the night, moaning into his mouth.
Afterwards, they moved to the sofa. There, she straddled him and was dry humping him in cowgirl position. His cock was super hard as she moved along his shaft. Ultimately, she had her third orgasm of the night, loudly moaning his name.
By midnight they left the bar and went to an after party food place. There, she struggled whether she should go home with him or not. He was pushing her to join him at his place so that she could jerk him off. But finally she decided against it. I asked her afterwards, why she didn‘t go - she told me that they would ultimately have fucked and that she thought that I am not yet ready for this.
Almost three hours later she sent me the emoji that we agreed means that she has orgasmed. You can imagine that I was in agony the entire time - even taking a cold shower to cool my boiling blood.
Once home, she sent me a photo of her dripping wet slip - really unbelievable traces of her hotwifing night out. We had a call and she unfolded her night to me. Retelling me the story, she had another 10 orgasms (I know it sounds unbelievable, but she basically moved from climax to climax).

Awesome experience. Sounds like she's quite ready to go all the way.

[Pecannut]

That is so amazingly hot ! Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us!

[silveranklet]

Indeed. A very hot development.
Today, she was dropping me a message, simply writing: „Waxed“

And we wont even meet for the next 10 days…