The more subtle thing's that float your boat.
The more subtle thing's that float your boat.
I've always been interested in some of the more subtle things that really float the HW's other half's.
My particular thing is when a woman (my wife preferably) or her lover pull down her knickers. For me that's incredibly erotic, I guess it's because it really seals the deal on the fact that they are about to have sex.
Would love to know what does it for you?
My particular thing is when a woman (my wife preferably) or her lover pull down her knickers. For me that's incredibly erotic, I guess it's because it really seals the deal on the fact that they are about to have sex.
Would love to know what does it for you?
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Since the evening of our first date when I watched my wife get naked to the last time she shed her clothes to swim in his sister's pool, I love to watch my wife get naked. She has an adorably innocent method of getting naked as though it's completely normal.
She's seductive when getting naked for sex. When she's getting naked to be naked or to swim, she yanks off her clothes. She doesn't care who's present. Her brother-in-law is used to my wife being naked at their home if their kids and our kids aren't there.
She has her sister have loved to be naked since they were children. My wife believes nudity is normal and natural if the environment is conducive to nudity. She'll probably be the first person naked at the Labor Day party we're attending.
She's seductive when getting naked for sex. When she's getting naked to be naked or to swim, she yanks off her clothes. She doesn't care who's present. Her brother-in-law is used to my wife being naked at their home if their kids and our kids aren't there.
She has her sister have loved to be naked since they were children. My wife believes nudity is normal and natural if the environment is conducive to nudity. She'll probably be the first person naked at the Labor Day party we're attending.
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Slight variation or addition on the panty thing. It’s when the woman is lying on her back and her lover goes to pull the panties down. I love the moment when the woman raises her ass slightly off the bed to allow her lover to slide them off. Tacit agreement that she’s giving her pussy to him!
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My ex didn't wear a bra very often but when she did, it'd be seam free, see through with the clasp at the front. Seeing her take her blouse off, revealing her nipples through her bra to another man and then undoing the clasp and pulling the bra open was always my favourite little thing. I could almost imagine the drumroll as she went to undo it. To me, it was the ultimate sign that she wanted him to suck on her tits.
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Makeup. She puts on a tad more aggressive makeup before the event.
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Watching my wife passionately kissing another man, a preview of what's to come.
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I love it when a woman I'm involved with is just in the moment. As an example, I had gone away for the weekend with my hotwife. We'd been invited to an older friend's weekend home. We were young, and he was doing well in life and generous with his time. He invited us up with the understanding that she'd be available for fun and games. She pretty much stayed naked, and had sex the whole time with us and a few of his friends.
I woke up to go grab coffee and she was bent over the kitchen island getting fucked. She casually looked up and said, "Coffees ready". It was like that all weekend. Somebody would pat their lap, and she'd go sit on it. They'd grab her hand she'd start jerking them. Someone would fuck her, and then someone else would just politely walk up and say "mind if I have a turn". Just what ever whim or direction that was asked, she'd go.
I woke up to go grab coffee and she was bent over the kitchen island getting fucked. She casually looked up and said, "Coffees ready". It was like that all weekend. Somebody would pat their lap, and she'd go sit on it. They'd grab her hand she'd start jerking them. Someone would fuck her, and then someone else would just politely walk up and say "mind if I have a turn". Just what ever whim or direction that was asked, she'd go.
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I used to love watching my ex kissing another man too. I quickly noticed that if I was cleaning him while they were kissing, his kissing seemed more passionate so I used to enjoy fondling, sucking and licking him, just so their kissing would be more intense.luvwives999 wrote: ↑Wed Aug 27, 2025 1:34 amWatching my wife passionately kissing another man, a preview of what's to come.
I mentioned earlier how I loved watching her undo her front loading bra in front of a man and I've remembered another bra related thrill I used to like.
She used to wear a bra when she worked the night shift in a warehouse and every morning after work she used to give a blowjob to a colleague in her car. He always lifted her bra and shirt up over her tits and suck them before she sucked him off and when she'd arrive home her bra was always left over her tits, under her top. Whenever I'd see the lump of her bra sticking up above her tits, through her top, I knew he'd just sucked her tits and she'd sucked him off. That was a great way to start my day. For some reason, I loved sucking her tits after someone else had, man or woman.
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I love the little grunt she makes just as the tip of his cock first enters her.
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Yessss I totally agree!! It's such a turn on watching a bull undress my wife, and when they get to the panties, and begin to pull them down, that cute Lil boots lift to get them passed her ass is an unbelievable sight. I think its the witnessing of my wife willing participating in getting herself naked to get fuckedBobs52 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 26, 2025 1:31 pmSlight variation or addition on the panty thing. It’s when the woman is lying on her back and her lover goes to pull the panties down. I love the moment when the woman raises her ass slightly off the bed to allow her lover to slide them off. Tacit agreement that she’s giving her pussy to him!
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I totally agree. Just imagining it gives me mind-blowing orgasms. I could orgasm countless times just imagining this scene happening and I'll never get tired of it. It is difficult to express in words the excitement this gave me.foxylcfc wrote: ↑Tue Aug 26, 2025 10:17 amI've always been interested in some of the more subtle things that really float the HW's other half's.
My particular thing is when a woman (my wife preferably) or her lover pull down her knickers. For me that's incredibly erotic, I guess it's because it really seals the deal on the fact that they are about to have sex.
Would love to know what does it for you?
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Femininity is the essence of nature's most magical beauty.
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It's nice to know I'm not alone in being so affected by such small details. I am happy to know that it is possible for others to understand the emotions I feel.Bobs52 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 26, 2025 1:31 pmSlight variation or addition on the panty thing. It’s when the woman is lying on her back and her lover goes to pull the panties down. I love the moment when the woman raises her ass slightly off the bed to allow her lover to slide them off. Tacit agreement that she’s giving her pussy to him!
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One of the little things I get to enjoy is buying condoms with her before she goes out on a trip, and watching her slip that little box into her purse. It's a real treat when she gets home to see the opened box still there, or the odd wrapper on occasion. Hot knowing it was the last thing that one of them handled before they got down to it!
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Fascinating subject. There are many things my wife does. Many years ago she and a couple of her girlfriends were into one night stands and picking up guys at the bar. When she was going out without me she would put on a bit more makeup than usual. She didn't quite look cheap but it made her a different woman because normally she wore little makeup.foxylcfc wrote: ↑Tue Aug 26, 2025 10:17 amI've always been interested in some of the more subtle things that really float the HW's other half's.
My particular thing is when a woman (my wife preferably) or her lover pull down her knickers. For me that's incredibly erotic, I guess it's because it really seals the deal on the fact that they are about to have sex.
Would love to know what does it for you?
Before she would go out she would adjust her tits in her bra to make them look their best before slipping on her dress. There are many other things but those are the ones that gave me the extra tingle in my cock.
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When my wife and I have MFMs with one of her lovers, I always enjoy hearing her sounds. Her sounds are delicious! I always anticipate the moment her lover first enters her, driving his penis into her. What sounds she makes! The really cool thing that I always get a kick out of is that her sounds are subtly different with each lover. It's never the same. Close, but not the same. I know her well of course, having been with her for decades. I know her little noises. With each lover, it really is different. I've told her about this. She says she has no conscious thought about it, and isn't aware of it. It's just how each lover affects her....and I love it!
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I have two things that "float my boat" in particular, but neither qualify as "subtle".
The first is I love it when I first see her full frontal naked, hard tits, black bush, for her lover. The second is I love to get up close, but not so close as to be intrusive, and watch his cock penetrate her, and again when he comes deep inside her.
I also get together sexually with a woman friend. I get really turned on when I know my wife is watching me, but, alas, it has the opposite affect on her - she dislikes it.
The first is I love it when I first see her full frontal naked, hard tits, black bush, for her lover. The second is I love to get up close, but not so close as to be intrusive, and watch his cock penetrate her, and again when he comes deep inside her.
I also get together sexually with a woman friend. I get really turned on when I know my wife is watching me, but, alas, it has the opposite affect on her - she dislikes it.
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My wife usually dated solo so my turn on is her describing what they did in detail.
How he undressed her, it’s a big turn on for her to be undressed by a boyfriend and then naked while he’s still fully clothed. It’s a submissive thing for her.
The moment he penetrates her, especially if he takes it slowly, her holding her lips open and guiding him into her is especially erotic for me.
My all time favourite is when she describes his mounting excitement when she knows he’s about to cum and his orgasm inside her.
How he undressed her, it’s a big turn on for her to be undressed by a boyfriend and then naked while he’s still fully clothed. It’s a submissive thing for her.
The moment he penetrates her, especially if he takes it slowly, her holding her lips open and guiding him into her is especially erotic for me.
My all time favourite is when she describes his mounting excitement when she knows he’s about to cum and his orgasm inside her.
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[Note: the verbs are past tense here, since we are somewhat older, and "retired" from the lifestyle. But trust me, we both had enormous fun back in the day.]
I have to copy a couple of the responses in this thread, since they're my answers too. If you're looking for something a bit more subtle but which nonetheless got me hotter than hell, it was how she approached the nudity. When we first started I was pretty shocked by how quickly and cheerfully the clothes came off, and then stayed off all night long without her batting an eye. I LOVED how she paraded her luscious tits, ass, and snatch around, to the appreciative stares of other men. These were often men we didn't know that well, or...in the case of visits to the sex club...a roomful of twenty or thirty men she didn't know at all. Didn't matter. She proudly showed it all, to everybody.
Someone else here talked about the sounds the wife makes. For us, there was that too. My wife is....hands down...THE loudest woman I've ever been around. When she was being fucked...whether by me or another man...she was a cacophony of moans, groans, and loud yells. She just couldn't help herself. One of our favorite couples for swapping lived in a very large house in the suburbs. We would exchange partners, and then go and find somewhere to get down to business. She and the other husband would be clear on the other side of the house, and I would still hear EVERYTHING. To hear your wife deriving that much pleasure from having her brains fucked out...well, I don't have to describe how arousing that is.
And those are some of my fondest memories...
I have to copy a couple of the responses in this thread, since they're my answers too. If you're looking for something a bit more subtle but which nonetheless got me hotter than hell, it was how she approached the nudity. When we first started I was pretty shocked by how quickly and cheerfully the clothes came off, and then stayed off all night long without her batting an eye. I LOVED how she paraded her luscious tits, ass, and snatch around, to the appreciative stares of other men. These were often men we didn't know that well, or...in the case of visits to the sex club...a roomful of twenty or thirty men she didn't know at all. Didn't matter. She proudly showed it all, to everybody.
Someone else here talked about the sounds the wife makes. For us, there was that too. My wife is....hands down...THE loudest woman I've ever been around. When she was being fucked...whether by me or another man...she was a cacophony of moans, groans, and loud yells. She just couldn't help herself. One of our favorite couples for swapping lived in a very large house in the suburbs. We would exchange partners, and then go and find somewhere to get down to business. She and the other husband would be clear on the other side of the house, and I would still hear EVERYTHING. To hear your wife deriving that much pleasure from having her brains fucked out...well, I don't have to describe how arousing that is.
And those are some of my fondest memories...
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Yes, this. Someone else said the noises also, especially when it's a moaning I'm not used to hearing while having sex with me!Bobs52 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 26, 2025 1:31 pmSlight variation or addition on the panty thing. It’s when the woman is lying on her back and her lover goes to pull the panties down. I love the moment when the woman raises her ass slightly off the bed to allow her lover to slide them off. Tacit agreement that she’s giving her pussy to him!
You all did a good job on this thread, these are all good.
The only one I'd add is perhaps less obvious, but if she sits on his lap or just beside him on the couch, she might put a hand on his knee or even groom him somehow, like stroke his hair up over his ear or pick a random whatever from his shirt, fix his collar, etc.
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Ok, I’m old. Alan Sherman (Camp Granada) write a book called The Naked Ape. In it, he directly references this maneuver - this is when you know she’s down for what’s coming. Read it at age 11, never forgot the imagery.Bobs52 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 26, 2025 1:31 pmSlight variation or addition on the panty thing. It’s when the woman is lying on her back and her lover goes to pull the panties down. I love the moment when the woman raises her ass slightly off the bed to allow her lover to slide them off. Tacit agreement that she’s giving her pussy to him!
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On the very first night my wife spent with Connor she sent me a photo which drove me crazy with cuckold angst.
Connor had booked a suite at a lovely boutique hotel many miles away. After dinner they went upstairs and stood in front of a full-length mirror to take the shot. Connor was behind Joyce with a huge smile on his face and his hands on her hips. Joyce was smiling too. It was clear what was about to happen next.
Joyce's slacks were round her ankles revealing a lovely figure-hugging pair of full-cut floral patterned panties. I had never seen them before so clearly she'd been shopping for her date.
Connor had booked a suite at a lovely boutique hotel many miles away. After dinner they went upstairs and stood in front of a full-length mirror to take the shot. Connor was behind Joyce with a huge smile on his face and his hands on her hips. Joyce was smiling too. It was clear what was about to happen next.
Joyce's slacks were round her ankles revealing a lovely figure-hugging pair of full-cut floral patterned panties. I had never seen them before so clearly she'd been shopping for her date.
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Yes, buying condoms for my wife's lovers was definitely a turn-on.Greywolf and Vixen wrote: ↑Wed Aug 27, 2025 1:18 pmOne of the little things I get to enjoy is buying condoms with her before she goes out on a trip, and watching her slip that little box into her purse. It's a real treat when she gets home to see the opened box still there, or the odd wrapper on occasion. Hot knowing it was the last thing that one of them handled before they got down to it!
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I love seeing her put on high heels when getting ready for a date night. She only wears high heels with her boyfriend, not with me. Somehow she doesn't feel comfortable wearing them with me, not sure why.
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I love when they are making out together, standing beside the bed, and she pulls his shorts own, his cock springing up so hard and she grabs it and says "wow".
yes...the sounds she makes that she does make with me.
The enthusiasm she displays suggesting they change positions like "fuck me from behind while I am standing".
How sexy her body is when she just stands completely naked in front of me.
yes...the sounds she makes that she does make with me.
The enthusiasm she displays suggesting they change positions like "fuck me from behind while I am standing".
How sexy her body is when she just stands completely naked in front of me.