Getting close?

[Tryn]

I think D should take her to dinner followed by someplace that has live music and dancing.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

I think D should take her to dinner followed by someplace that has live music and dancing.

That is a good thought, Tryn. Thanks for the suggestion. I am not sure he will be available in the evenings next weekend, but if so I will pass that suggestion along.

[kaskap79]

Maybe a threesome is too much for your wife. I know it is a step too big for the first time with another man.

You could let her know that D will be your stand-in as a husband while you are travelling. Or that she can be the stand-in wife when D's wife is travelling.

It might be easier for her. I know it is not what you want as a first encounter, but the threesome will come once she knows your are fine with what she is doing.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Maybe a threesome is too much for your wife. I know it is a step too big for the first time with another man.

You could let her know that D will be your stand-in as a husband while you are travelling. Or that she can be the stand-in wife when D's wife is travelling.

It might be easier for her. I know it is not what you want as a first encounter, but the threesome will come once she knows your are fine with what she is doing.

Thanks for your observations, Kaskap. I will raise that issue with her. I don’t know if she will ultimately do anything, although I do get the sense she is slowly warming to the idea of having another man. On the one hand, I understand how not having me there might be easier for her since she would probably want some privacy and might worry about my reaction. On the other hand, though, because she is worried about my feelings, she might want me there to make sure she took care of me as well. But, it does not hurt to raise the possibility you have suggested that she try playing alone at first. I appreciate your thoughts and will let everyone here know how she responds.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Another quick update. My wife and I had lunch at a restaurant today with “D.” My wife was very careful to make sure her makeup looked great, but ultimately, it was just lunch. We are heading out of state for Thanksgiving, as is “D.” We hope to meet up with him again in early December. Nothing terribly exciting to report from today, unfortunately. “D’s” wife is going away on business for a few days in December, and we will certainly plan to see him then. I am also heading out of town for a weekend with my grown sons in mid-December, so perhaps my wife and “D” will see each other then as well. We will have to see if anything develops in the interim. If so, I will report back here. In the meantime, happy Thanksgiving all!

[katslover]

Maybe your wife and D can have a date night, just the 2 of them, while his wife is away? It would be a good opportunity for D to take her somewhere with dancing!

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Maybe your wife and D can have a date night, just the 2 of them, while his wife is away? It would be a good opportunity for D to take her somewhere with dancing!

I will certainly suggest that, Katslover. Thank you for the suggestion!

[kaskap79]

Maybe buy a box of condoms and discreetly let your wife know where they are at home. Tell her that it is just if she changes her mind, that condoms shall not be the reason for not doing it.

Also tell her that she can also just throw them away, if she thinks that is better.

At least she will know you are serious about her having sex with another man, and if she does not throw they away, you know she is thinking about what you have told you.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Maybe buy a box of condoms and discreetly let your wife know where they are at home. Tell her that it is just if she changes her mind, that condoms shall not be the reason for not doing it.

Also tell her that she can also just throw them away, if she thinks that is better.

At least she will know you are serious about her having sex with another man, and if she does not throw they away, you know she is thinking about what you have told you.

Thanks, Kaskap! I’m quite certain my wife knows I’m serious. Plus, if she eventually takes the plunge with”D” I am almost 100% sure she will not want to use condoms. She really likes sperm and I don’t think she has any fears about “D” passing something to her. That said, I appreciate the suggestion and will follow it if she ever mentions a concern about STDs.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Another quick update. This past Saturday morning, my wife asked me to ask “D” if he wanted to meet us at a local farmer’s market - the same one he met us at once before and the same one he took her to when I was out of town the prior weekend. I think she really likes being escorted by both of us. Unfortunately, it was late notice and he was unable to join us. We are all traveling out of state again for Thanksgiving weekend, so we won’t get together again until next week at the earliest. It is clear that my wife wants to “D” to remain close with us, closer than our other friends. So, I think that bodes well.

On a related topic, as I mulled over how to get her more excited about the prospect of having a threesome, I thought about creating A.I. generated images based on our actual pictures (for our private use only) in erotic poses. I have been playing a little with A.I. images, g-rated only, and assume this should be possible. Have any of the readers here tried that yet? What do you think of the idea? My wife gets very excited watching middle aged Asian women in threesomes with two men. Maybe she’d get even more turned on if she saw what the three of us might look like in flagrante delicto!

[william70]

A good way to figure it out is to ask ChatGPT. Just tell it what you want. Follow it from there.

[sharedfantasy]

These AI generated images seem to really work for us wannabes, so I could only assume they would also work for a hotwife in the making. Try to create something that you think would really tickle her feathers..

Not to deviate too much, but I can’t get ChatGPT to do anything of the sort, but let us know if it works for you.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

These AI generated images seem to really work for us wannabes, so I could only assume they would also work for a hotwife in the making. Try to create something that you think would really tickle her feathers..

Not to deviate too much, but I can’t get ChatGPT to do anything of the sort, but let us know if it works for you.

As William70 suggested above, I tried to upload our three images to ChatGPT last night and asked it to show the three of us, naked, with my wife in the middle, holding hands with both me “D.” No go. I had the same experience as sharedfantasy. ChatGPT said it violated its terms of use. It does not permit “sexualized” images . Then I asked it to do the same thing, but with the three of us wrapped in towels. No go again. Still violated the terms of use. How about the three of us in bathing suits seated at the edge of a pool? Nope! I asked ChatGPT to explain its policy. It turns out that ChatGPT does not want its users uploading real people’s images without knowing for certain it has their consent. I understand and respect that policy. After all, I certainly would not want my image being manipulated in a way that could be embarrassing if it was publicly leaked.

Since ChatGPT does not appear to be an option, I started to look for other possible A.I. platforms. It turns out there are a number that allow real images to be uploaded. However, I want to be sure that privacy can be maintained since these images would be for personal use only. I will let you know what I find out about trustworthy options. In the interim, if anybody else has any thoughts about trustworthy AI platforms, I would be interested to hear about it.

Happy Thanksgiving all!

[Wife4Guys]

I wouldn't do a fake without asking her thoughts and expectations about the idea first. Potential is here, I think, for a huge backlash, as well as excited acceptance. There is no telling what she will see in the fake or how she might feel of your perception about her and your relationship with this blindside. Good luck with whatever you choose.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

I wouldn't do a fake without asking her thoughts and expectations about the idea first. Potential is here, I think, for a huge backlash, as well as excited acceptance. There is no telling what she will see in the fake or how she might feel of your perception about her and your relationship with this blindside. Good luck with whatever you choose.

I appreciate your cautionary warning, W4G! Once I figure out how to use my real image, I’ll prepare something erotic (or erotically humorous), featuring me alone, and then show that to my wife. Depending upon her reaction, I will then see if she wants me to try something including her. If that goes well, maybe she’ll get excited about seeing something including “D” as well. This way, I will avoid blindsiding her. Thanks again for your perspective!

[Wife4Guys]

There is a site aifaceswap blah blah that you can google up, free, super easy to use, some results amazing, some meh.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

There is a site aifaceswap blah blah that you can google up, free, super easy to use, some results amazing, some meh.

Thanks for the tip! I will definitely check that out. Happy Thanksgiving!

[RaymondDol1967]

Hi AdventurousCoupleAA thanks for sharing this amazing journey of yours! I just caught up, I was wondering if there was any kind of progress or update with you and your wife?

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum RaymondDol1967.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

Hi AdventurousCoupleAA thanks for sharing this amazing journey of yours! I just caught up, I was wondering if there was any kind of progress or update with you and your wife?

Thanks for your interest, Raymond! There is a little bit of an update. My wife and I just came back from dinner at a nice restaurant. She has been particularly hormonal today (which is somewhat unusual for her) and she told me during dinner that she is not planning to see “D” when I head out of state for a couple of days at the end of next week. She said she was planning to be “busy” during that time. I didn’t contest her statement. Instead, I said, “That’s up to you, honey.”

During our 90 minute dinner she had three complete cycles of being very happy and quite withdrawn, but dinner ended on a high note (thank God!). On our way home, she asked me to send “D” a selfie she took of the two of us tonight and I told her that “D” would be happy to see that. I mentioned that he was going to be alone while I am out of town, so if she changes her mind about seeing him, I am sure he would appreciate that. In fact, “D” sent me an email this evening telling me that he let my wife know this morning that he was looking forward to seeing her while I am away, but she only gave him a “lukewarm” response at that time.

I have since told “D” about her particularly hormonal day and suggested that he reach out again in a day or two and extend the invitation again. She might very well change her mind! I really love my wife and I never cease to be amazed by her. Thankfully, “D” is an exceedingly patient and understanding guy, so I remain optimistic that my wife will eventually take the plunge. She clearly wants to keep a connection with him. Why else would she do that if she wasn’t at least entertaining the idea of something more than just coffee or a meal with him?

If anyone reading this has any other perspective on this, please share it! I really appreciate whatever feedback the readers of this website can provide.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

It has been a busy week! As a result, I forgot to mention one other quick update. I have been playing around with ChatGPT for about three years now. I use it for travel planning, recipes, work-related research, etc. I decided earlier this week to see if I could use it to help me write an erotic story featuring my beautiful Thai wife. What prompted me to think about that is that my wife, who is still learning to speak English, was given the opportunity to work as a waitress at a Thai restaurant by one of her Thai girlfriends who also works there. My wife has never worked as a waitress before, but she wants to make money to help support her family in Thailand, so she thought working a couple of days a week would help in that regard.

We went together to the Thai restaurant last Sunday and had a very nice meal. She was offered a job waitressing two days a week starting this past Tuesday. So, when we got home from the restaurant this past Sunday, I asked ChatGPT to help me write a story. I write constantly for my work, but I have never written an erotic story so I figured, what the hell! I’ll get some AI assistance. However, ChatGPT won’t write anything too explicit. Under its own policies, It apparently can only hint at an erotic development.

So, with that in mind, I prompted it to write a story about my wife, using her first name and physical description, conservative Buddhist background, limited sexual history, etc. and how a couple of guys in their late 30s or early 40s come into the restaurant and start flirting with her. By their third visit to the restaurant they are trying to get her to join them for a drink, not knowing my wife doesn’t drink, and in spite of the fact that she is married and has told them so. In the prompt, I explain that she has told me about them and I have given her a hall pass to meet them outside of work after I have a chance to research a little about who they are in order to make sure she is safe. By their fourth visit, she agreed to meet them at one of the guy’s condos close to the restaurant, and the story stops as she is about to enter his home. The whole story was about a five minute read.

I must say, ChatGPT did a pretty good job, particularly after I refined the prompt a bit more. It built erotic suspense really well, so much so that I got a hard on reading what it composed (in about four seconds). The story did a great job showing how my wife was torn between her conservative Buddhist upbringing and her view of traditional marriage and her curiosity about experiencing other men with her husband’s blessing.

My wife’s initial reaction to the story (translated into Thai by Google Translate) was that it was “well written,” but she was otherwise acting dismissive of it. Nonetheless, she was pretty horny when we went to bed that night and orgasmed quickly. Amazingly, when she went to work at the restaurant for the first time this past Tuesday, two guys who were sitting together - I shit you not - who were in their early 30s started hitting on her. They first commented on her diamond wedding rings and then they told her how beautiful she is. They said they looked forward to coming back to the restaurant to see her again. They gave her a big tip (about 50% of their bill). She could not believe it, and I was pretty shocked as well. She is beautiful and very personable, so I am not surprised that guys will flirt with her, but the coincidence with the story I wrote was pretty amazing. Suffice to say, she was eager to tell me about it and quite horny that night. She orgasmed twice in rapid succession.

I think I am going to do some more erotic writing featuring my wife. Has anyone else done that, with our without AI assistance?

[kaskap79]

I hope your wife changes her mind and will see D while you are travelling. Maybe all they do is talk, but it is a start.

I have used the aichattings (.) com to write erotic stories.

It only gives you a little part of the story each time, but you can continue to give it ideas and you will have a full story in the end. This is the free version. They also have several options for a paid solution and the only difference is how much text it gives you for each information you give it.

There are other ai chats that can do the same, but I like this one.

[AdventurousCoupleAA]

I hope your wife changes her mind and will see D while you are travelling. Maybe all they do is talk, but it is a start.

I have used the aichattings (.) com to write erotic stories.

It only gives you a little part of the story each time, but you can continue to give it ideas and you will have a full story in the end. This is the free version. They also have several options for a paid solution and the only difference is how much text it gives you for each information you give it.

There are other ai chats that can do the same, but I like this one.

Thanks, Kaskap! I will check that out!