Do you cum faster now that you are a cuckold?

[bewareoflizzy]

We would have our sexy date night on Saturday the day after Liz usually saw Jim late Friday nights at his apartment. She would come home well fucked and tell me all about it while stroking me with baby oil and making me cum. By Saturday night I was horny again and anxious to fuck her. She would get all dolled-up in lingerie and stockings and we would get stoned, then I would go down on her and start licking and kissing her gushing pussy imagining what her young lover was doing to her pussy the night before. She would get so turned-on by my oral pleasure she would slip her fingers slowly down from tweaking her nipples to slide over her pussy lips and clitoris. I would get so turned-on by the visual of her surrendering to her sexual desires, knowing she was thinking of Jim, I would cum without touching myself.

[Kate88]

My husband cums a lot quicker than earlier especially as we progressed into cuckold relationship. I don't mind it too much, I think it's cute, but obviously doesn't satisfy me.

[True Cuckold]

Ok, so I showed my wife this thread. She smiled and said "yeah lately when you jack off for me, you cum in about 30 seconds. I like it. That turned me on, but I haven't had the opportunity to fuck her since she found a boyfriend about 2 months ago. Last night in bed, she invited me to enter her. When I started thrusting, she started talking about how well her bf fucks her
Five seconds after that, I came hard. She giggled and said "well you lasted more than 3 seconds at least "
I couldn't help it.

[Ijustloveher]

Sex is all about letting go. When my gf took a friend of ours as her lover, I couldn't let go of the idea that I had to somehow match him or at least contribute as well. Trouble was, from the start, I couldn't. I just couldn't last during threesomes or having her second. I'd last 10-15 seconds and either come or pull out in a useless attempt to buy time. I just didn't get it, afterwards, when she'd say that she was sore so please come quick I still tried to outdo him which I was incapable of. When we had threesomes, she'd just focus on him, leaving me somewhat aside - what was the point, I was edging already - and besides she wanted him! It was humiliating, but also truth.

My performance during regular sex started to suffer as well. Over time, I began to notice that she just let me have her because, well, she she loved me. It still wouldn't sink in that she only did this for me, it didn't do it for her anymore. The worst was, being denied most of the time and being allowed in her on occasion only, so long I wouldn't come in her. I'd be on the edge right away and freeze. Soon as she noticed what was going on, she'd tell me to get out or gently push me off her. It's hard to let go. This is what cuckolding does. It eats away your confidence till you have nothing left, and are ready to let go.

And there's tremendous intimacy in that. It's weird, but some of us are (re)wired that way by cuckolding.

[Ijustloveher]

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[wetriedit3]

This is out of my confront zone, but this string of posts has me asking a couple quesitons. First my husband and I got into this slowly and carefully about a yr ago, we are he, 33 me 32, married, 6 yrs, and happily by the way.
This has progressed to me dating mr right, the first guy, for over 10 months intimitely.
The questions:
1. i was unaware until finding this post, that husbands often become less virile and i noticed that after a month, and wondered,, So is this normal more times than not? I feel i still desire husband as much as before but ejac quickert and also desires to fuck me less, it seems.
2. So second quedstion, i plan to break this off with guy, since he is moving and will be hard to see each other. WIll my husband regain some of the craving to fuck me , he had prior to me dating?
thanks,

[coastalkid]

This is out of my confront zone, but this string of posts has me asking a couple quesitons. First my husband and I got into this slowly and carefully about a yr ago, we are he, 33 me 32, married, 6 yrs, and happily by the way.
This has progressed to me dating mr right, the first guy, for over 10 months intimitely.
The questions:
1. i was unaware until finding this post, that husbands often become less virile and i noticed that after a month, and wondered,, So is this normal more times than not? I feel i still desire husband as much as before but ejac quickert and also desires to fuck me less, it seems.
2. So second quedstion, i plan to break this off with guy, since he is moving and will be hard to see each other. WIll my husband regain some of the craving to fuck me , he had prior to me dating?
thanks,

Just by looking at the responses to the poll it tends to indicate that most men lose their virility either to degrees or fully. The bigger question for you is what you want. Do you want your husband to get his virility back? If so, I don't believe that will happen on his own or just by waiting for it. If you truly do want your husband to want to have sex with you like you did when you were dating you'll probably have to do something to help him.

Since you had mentioned that you entered into finding "Mr. Right" slowly and carefully you may have to have that same slow and cautious approach to restoring his virility. It's my opinion and nothing more, but by observation of this forum, it is clear to me that the husband's experience is greatly influenced by his mental/emotional state. When a husband perceives himself to be inadequate his confidence plummets, which is made even more obvious when he sees his wife's confidence soar. The task of restoring is made even more difficult especially over time and repetition.

Ultimately there ends up being two courses of inevitability. One, you join the group of people that believe that there's absolutely nothing you can do, the genie is out of the bottle, there's no going back. You just have to live with the "new normal" and carry on until it blows up or everyone accepts the new personal behaviors. Two, you stop and realize that your play has some unwanted results that have affected someone you love and care deeply for. If it's important enough, then you jealously protect the person, like a lawyer would do for a client.

If you are wanting your husband back to how he used to be, then ironically, your roles are kind of flipped. When you started I'm sure you had some insecurity or lack of confidence that your husband in some way helped you work past. It was something he wanted too. He was motivated! Now, if you do want to fix things, it will be you that helps your husband past his insecurity or lack of confidence because it's something you want too because you're motivated.

It's clear to me that there's a lot of mental/emotional stuff that affects the physical stuff the husband/bf experiences. Some obviously love it. Some learn to live with it. Some are overwhelmed by it.

[wetriedit3]

Thankyou "coastalkid". You gave a very well worded and informative message. Thank you
So, as i mentioned, I planed to break it off with MR RIght. Not that he is not right any longer, but he is moving and we mutually felt it was best. Yesterday was the last time my lover and I will meet..It was a good time yet a tear jerker, we had got so confrontable.
So I told hubby it would be last date and that when I got home this morning, that I was all his once again. He left soon after for work and said he would enjoy talking, etc when he got home from work. I will think over the rebuilding his virility and masculinity at Coastalkid mentioned..
But honest, i feel in time i will desire to find another,, like he said cat is out of the bag.
thanks forum for time and a place to vent

[Tamilcuck]

Hi all. I never lasted very long prior to being a cuckold. Now I cum quite fast and can cum without touching myself while watching wife and bull

[MartasBoy]

I read the quote below in another post, and I began to wonder. How many of us saw our stamina significantly drop after becoming a cuckold?

before my wife made me a real life cuckold, I thought my dick was about average, I could fuck for over 30 minutes, and thought I was a good lover

I cum in less than a couple minutes now.

My stamina got much worse, lasting only seconds in certain situations. It adds to the humiliation, as my wife wants to fuck much longer than I can last. Her FWBs can fuck her long enough to keep her happy. I know, she often tells me.

It's hard to tell. My wife often keeps me locked in my chastity device for extended periods of time. When I am allowed to come out of my chastity device, I come very quickly because I have all of that stored up horny energy.
When I am not locked in chastity, I have a problem with a porn addiction, and chronic compulsive masturbation.

I have never had a good refractory period. I have never been able to be ready to have sex again, very soon after I have ejaculated. When I am not kept in chastity, I masturbate compulsively and never have enough time to build my stamina back. When I am locked in chastity for a full 2 weeks, when I come out, I get hard enough that I could almost complete intercourse. But when I am in my compulsive masturbation cycle, I'm only able to achieve a soft erection that is not firm enough for intercourse, and I only ejaculate a negligible amount of dribbling.

So I can't really say how being cuckolded has affected my ejaculations.

[coastalkid]

When I am not locked in chastity, I have a problem with a porn addiction, and chronic compulsive masturbation.

I have never had a good refractory period. I have never been able to be ready to have sex again, after I have ejaculated. When I am not kept in chastity, I masturbate compulsively and never have enough time too build my stamina back. When I am locked in Chastity for a full 2 weeks, when I come out, I get hard enough that I could almost complete intercourse. But when I am in my compulsive masturbation cycle, I I'm only able to achieve a soft erection that is not firm enough for intercourse, and I only ejaculate a negligible amount of dribbling.

So I can't really say how being cuckolded has affected my ejaculations.

I have to believe that your wife knows about your porn and masturbation issues. Do you think she takes advantage of that to perpetuate any feelings of inadequacy you already have? Like if she knows you're out of chastity that you'll be whacking away and if she asks for sex from you she know you won't be able to get it done. Thus further entrenching your cuckold place. You have a sharp wife.

Are you out of unsupervised chastity for lengths of time?

[Colliercuck]

My stamina has decreased quite considerably since confessing my fantasies and becoming a cuckold
My wife laughs at the fact that I only last 30 to 60 seconds at most

[MartasBoy]

When I am not locked in chastity, I have a problem with a porn addiction, and chronic compulsive masturbation.

I have never had a good refractory period. I have never been able to be ready to have sex again, after I have ejaculated......

So I can't really say how being cuckolded has affected my ejaculations.

I have to believe that your wife knows about your porn and masturbation issues. Do you think she takes advantage of that to perpetuate any feelings of inadequacy you already have? Like if she knows you're out of chastity that you'll be whacking away and if she asks for sex from you she know you won't be able to get it done. Thus further entrenching your cuckold place. You have a sharp wife.

Are you out of unsupervised chastity for lengths of time?

Yes, she resents my porn addiction, and chronic masturbation. She has an uncanny ability to know when I have masturbated, even when I think I've done a good job of being discreet. There are times when she has come to me, dressed in a sexy nightgown, to tell me that she's, "in the mood to fool around." When I'm unable to do anything, she will say, "Well, it seems obvious that you must have masturbated very recently. I hope you enjoyed yourself. Good night." And then she'll roll over to go to sleep.

There are times when I'm left out of chastity.

[True Cuckold]

Much to my surprise, my wife invited me inside her yesterday after unlocking my cage. When I didn't cum in like 5 seconds, she said "why are you taking so long"? I came immediately after that. Later, I said: " I bet i lasted 45 seconds ". She said "yeah that's a long time for you ".

[aliefguy]

My stamina has decreased for sure, every time she fucks one of her friends and/or tells me stories of things she did or they did to her. The excitement and arousal cause to me cum faster than normal. I absolutely love it though.

[FormerBullnowCuck]

I don’t know how my stamina would be with her because she made me pussyfree

[loyaltoher]

yes, she knows that when she has me wishihing to enter her pussy she taks all about her lover and how good he is and that i have 15 seconds to cum…..i try to get there knowing she will pull away when the countdown is over. im probably successful about 30% of the time.

[Caribwaters]

My stamina has decreased for sure, every time she fucks one of her friends and/or tells me stories of things she did or they did to her. The excitement and arousal cause to me cum faster than normal. I absolutely love it though.

This is the exact same situation that I have been living during most of the years I have been a cuck. Allowing me to have an opportunity for full intercourse has significantly diminished over the past decade, primarily because I cannot bring her to the level of satisfaction anywhere to the degree she enjoyed with her long time boyfriend (and also a previous multi year affair). She now has no hesitation in verbally explaining in a direct manner my intimate inadequacies in attempting to pleasure her. Her descriptive verbalization of the enjoyment she always seems to derive from being with him causes me to cum quite quickly. This "pillow talk" is for the intention of speeding up my organism. as my wife claims, she no longer gets any real sensual gratification having intercourse with me. The quicker I cum, the quicker it is over for her.
So much for my stamina.

[BBCfan]

So I wouldn't say it's necessarily my stamina that's decreased, although that has happened with age, it's more that the brain wiring has changed where she can easily control my orgasms with a few choice words.

Even though I'm just a wannabe when she fake cucked me and let me believe she had done it for a few days,  My brain experienced that crazy rush that I've never experienced before and I was "rewired".

Over the years she knows now that all she has to say is "are you ready to watch him stretch out my pussy again with his huge black cock" and she knows I'll nut within seconds.

I think she loves that power over me more than she realized she would, But lately she hasn't been doing that because she knows once I do nut, my re-Charge is very slow so if she hasn't gotten off, she won't be able to.

I have to be fully rock hard to reach the place she needs to ride me on so she can get off. The last few times she immediately rides me till she comes, then She goes right to sleep after she orgasms and doesn't say a word to me with me still inside her.  When that happened in the past she would usually ask if I want to finish off before she sleeps but now doesn’t even bother

I'm left hard and horny and will usually go soft quickly out of frustration. But I noticed lately she comes way quicker than she ever has, so instead what I'll do is think about the idea that maybe she is fucking him again, or fantasizing about doing it. 

I'll slowly move inside as I'll be super hard picturing her with him, or imagining her pussy is so wet and loose because he had just finished off inside, and I'll usually come within a few minutes.  She doesn't even seem aware of it or acknowledge it and just keeps sleeping as I pull out soft but satisfied.

[Sharemywife1968]

when my wife comes home used,loose and full of cum ,I can barely last when I slide in her pussy,if she starts talking,asking if she feels loose,can I feel his cum , his cock is so big,,im done im seconds

[SubSnuggler]

I have a bit of a different take. Living as the submissive of a dominatrix. Chastity degrades your stamina.

My Wife locked me up from time to time for several years, but starting in 2020 she had my dick pierced for 24/7 lockups.

Before the permanent lock-ups I could hold out long enough for her to occasionally have an orgasm. However, long lockups in chastity erode that stamina. On the rare occasions I am granted a release now, I'm overwhelmed with the unusual sensory sensation and come really fast.

In 2022 her devious mind came up with a domination scheme where she gave me a reward- I could be unlocked for an entire week! However to remain unlocked, she required me to fuck her twice a day for 5 days. Once in the morning, once at bedtime.

My stamina rapidly improved even after day 1 but then in the following days my refractory period started to make it harder and harder for me to get an erection - which was part of her humiliation plan from the jump! I felt her whip and after a couple of failures and punishments, locked up again before the week was even over.

[Swe_male]

As a BF, I find that once I am with a wife her husband cums much faster.. To the point of as soon as he enters her sometimes. It is so exciting to a cuck when his wife is being fucked by a BF that he can't really help it.

My fantasy of her being fucked by another man better than I can fuck her has caused me to actually become less able to fuck her as good as I used to. Therefore, most any another man can easily fuck her better than me now. My cuckold fantasy has caused it to become a reality.

At the moment while I am at the height of my sexual pleasure, cumming inside of her, I am also humiliated at the fact that I can no longer fuck my wife the way that she deserves to be fucked. In the moments afterwards, I begin to accept that she deserves to be sexually satisfied by another man who can fuck her better than me. She now needs to cuckold me for her benefit. It wouldn't be fair to her for me to deny her that benefit.

I'm not cuckolded yet but I feel exactly like this, my stamina has decreased, I'm not able to fuck her as I did years ago. I feel bad of not being able to give her what she needs and am accepting her to find a good fuck somewhere else. Now it was 6 months ago I was inside her and next time I guess I'll cum in 60 seconds, if I could even get hard, and that will be humiliating for me.

[mrfuntime39]

This seems to be the case for me, i used to last very long periods of time, in our 20's we'd fuck for 30+ mins - actual peneration time forplay was additional, often multiple rounds if i didnt cum. Now I can wank for hours but i only get semi firm at best, but if i use a large sildenafil dose i can sometimes get firm enough to try but then i typically cum as she slides onto me (so seconds) or as she aims me to enter her and i'm not what you'd call rock hard. I can cum from just her holding my cock or her swiping her fingers above my groin area. It got so frustrating for her that we havent fucked for over two years. She has given me a goal, to fuck her i have to be able to get rock hard and last 5 minutes of a handjob. I currently average seconds, with the odd time reaching 20 to 30 seconds.

Two things get me hardish, firstly when she pegs me, sexual pain (kicking, needles, etc) andif i touch myself when like that i cum very quickly, typically pulling the foreskin back does it.

Doctors agree nothing physically wrong with me. We saw a counsellor over it, we shared what we do, wow that was embarrassing telling her that i get aroused by guys fucking S, but after talking to us separately and together she agreed its working for us and helps us stay connected. I go down on her a number of times a week and she likes to hold me in bed.

I do miss the feeling, the staying power and making her cum. Now i have to watch some other guy do it.