Confidence about body

[ALLMYEXES]

My hotwife Becky was 45 when we started dating. She had borne four children before then and has what to me is a fantastic body but to her... way less than perfect.

I tried searching for "confidence" for previous discussions on this topic and a couple other keywords but the site is running on software from about 1999 and more often than not searches get no results so I'll post this and hope everyone understands that if it has been discussed before I can't find it.

What tips can I give Becky about feeling it's okay if you're no longer 18 years old because most men worth calling themselves a bull are not about the body as much as women worry about?

Thanks.

- Jack

[parklife]

I’m going to say there really isn’t anything that you, as a husband, can say that will help boost that confidence. She expects you to think she looks fantastic because you’re her husband.

To be perfectly honest, I’d skip trying to talk to her at all about Mens perception and desires and work towards ways to focus on her own feelings about self worth.

Try suggesting you take a new class together… maybe it’s a dance class…. But plenty of places have been ne night a week that does “intro classes” for a samba or something. When peiple do new things or learn new things, it often leads to feeling better about themselves. That can lead to more confidence.

Try getting her out and about, maybe it’s a hike or a walk around the neighborhood. Let her know it’s for your health and you’d like to do it together. Exercise breeds endorphins. Endorphins makes us feel good. In a couple weeks, tell her how you’ve noticed a change from the exercise. Even better if she notices first.

also, if you do new things, she’ll see other people and inevitably there will be people of all shapes and sizes and it’s not about comparing, it’s about being.

[ALLMYEXES]

Really great idea.

[Long Lurker 34]

My hotwife Becky was 45 when we started dating. She had borne four children before then and has what to me is a fantastic body but to her... way less than perfect.

I tried searching for "confidence" for previous discussions on this topic and a couple other keywords but the site is running on software from about 1999 and more often than not searches get no results so I'll post this and hope everyone understands that if it has been discussed before I can't find it.

What tips can I give Becky about feeling it's okay if you're no longer 18 years old because most men worth calling themselves a bull are not about the body as much as women worry about?

Thanks.

- Jack

AME
- Firstly does she you know you are here? And or, how might she be with a site like this?
- If she doesn't find the site too offensive have her get on and have look around (IMPORTANTLY) know there is a Ladies Only (not correct I know) forum.
- And if she is ok with it, take some pic of her, cloths on is fine (there's a thread for that) and then read the comments. I can almost certainly assure you she won't be 'trashed'.
- There's more to a woman than being a centre fold.

[Parsifal]

Hotwifing can't help but improve the confidence of most women. This is because most women seriously underestimate their desirability. My wife only recently has come to realize she can score with her choice of men. She's unstoppably secure in all that now, which is a big change in her whole persona.

So what happens to most women who take up hotwifing is that they often find themselves pleasantly surprised by how many men want to fuck them. My wife recently changed up her stable of guys and found two new ones within a month. She's never without. And her confidence has built on itself. She does matt pilates and yoga because she's going after being able to move and pose beautifully during sex. Women who are confident put on show that will captivate men.

[johnswan]

Have a read of this article.....

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyl ... aphy-women

[luvwives999]

My hotwife Becky was 45 when we started dating. She had borne four children before then and has what to me is a fantastic body but to her... way less than perfect.

I tried searching for "confidence" for previous discussions on this topic and a couple other keywords but the site is running on software from about 1999 and more often than not searches get no results so I'll post this and hope everyone understands that if it has been discussed before I can't find it.

What tips can I give Becky about feeling it's okay if you're no longer 18 years old because most men worth calling themselves a bull are not about the body as much as women worry about?

Thanks.

- Jack

Wife and I decided to try swing clubs when she was 46. First club we went to we sat in the car and watched couples go inside and my wife said, I can't go in there. They were all 20- and 30-year-olds and very well put together. After 9/11 she relented and we went to a different club. There were a few couples our age , but most were younger. What surprised her was how many of these younger guys were interested in her. We started to go to the clubs almost every sat night, as she got more comfortable, she'd be down to just a thong on the dance floor, dancing and kissing much younger men. After that, confidence was never an issue.