Young married guy here

[RunDannyRun]

First and foremost, apologies for the brevity when I am posting in this thread. I rarely get free time these days due to work and I am also trying to change jobs. The job market sucks ass and it seems like full time remote positions which pay more that what I am currently earning don't exist anymore.

I am still not sure what is gonna happen about this pregnancy and I asked Lauren to think this through before informing Adam. I asked her to wait for a couple of months and journal here feelings end of everyday and see how she feels about this after two months, which is roughly in January. We don't talk about this that much. We went to SC few days before thanksgiving and we still do long runs during the weekend. I am not saying things didn't change but I am trying to keep them as stable as possible.

[Jujube]

Well done, and I sympathize with your frustration with the current job market.. it sucks to find any you’d be happy with. As far as Lauren and Adam are concerned, I can see how she wants his children after a year of almost non-stop intimacy. But I think no matter how much Lauren doesn’t want him involved with them, his “paterfamilias” will probably be difficult to deal with occasionally. It’s just natural for a father to be interested in his children’s development, and unless you have a true poly relationship, his interest may irritate you both from time to time. Just my 2 cents.

[dajson]

How about Lauren and Adam relationship outside the bedroom, they spend more time with each other ?

[Anders86]

Hey Danny, have been following your thread since page 1. But since I am a wannabe cuckold myself. I mostly just lurk on this forum and read about all you who living the dream.
I just wanted to but in and say that your thread is one of the hottest on here and I’m honestly jealous of you. I hope you’re staying on here and keep on posting, ignore all those negative people, they’re not worth your energy.
And I know that if Lauren chooses to have Adam’s baby, you and Lauren will be the best of parents to that child.
Best regards
Anders from Sweden

[AstaSilva]

First and foremost, apologies for the brevity when I am posting in this thread. I rarely get free time these days due to work and I am also trying to change jobs. The job market sucks ass and it seems like full time remote positions which pay more that what I am currently earning don't exist anymore.

I mean it depends bro. I'm working remote full time at 60K, I know my manager is at 80K. If you're talking like 100K you'd have to be a boomer with a massive work history and it would be a very narrow line of jobs there I agree. But I do know our CFO and CMO are about to be fired so I still see movement at the six figure level. Jobs opening and such. You have to apply basically daily for 12 months straight but once you get in, you'd have to be genuinely awful to get fired. Don't give up hope Danny. Also regardless of what comes next, always treat your family with love. The job market search made me such a goblin a few years ago when I was searching.

[Blue22]

Just want to say I’ve enjoyed reading your story so far.

[venus-can99]

Danny - thanks for taking the time to update. Good luck with the job hunt - hope that goes well. You and Lauren know the best for your relationship so best wishes on that front as well in overcoming all the hurdles. Wishing you and Lauren the best of the holiday season and may 2026 give you all that you desire.

[ColoCuck75]

First and foremost, apologies for the brevity when I am posting in this thread. I rarely get free time these days due to work and I am also trying to change jobs. The job market sucks ass and it seems like full time remote positions which pay more that what I am currently earning don't exist anymore.

I am still not sure what is gonna happen about this pregnancy and I asked Lauren to think this through before informing Adam. I asked her to wait for a couple of months and journal here feelings end of everyday and see how she feels about this after two months, which is roughly in January. We don't talk about this that much. We went to SC few days before thanksgiving and we still do long runs during the weekend. I am not saying things didn't change but I am trying to keep them as stable as possible.

Danny,

For the job part I used to do this for a living a little while ago. First is to start reaching out to people on LinkedIn especially the experts who help people navigate this new employment situation. They can help with both resume updates and also you need to find folks who don't have job postings but are hiring. It won't be fast but you need to spend say an hour max a day working on reaching out, finding new people in other fields and just keep asking for help. You'll be amazed at how many people will help you with your stuff and maybe connect you with a friend or contact they know is hiring. Just don't be discouraged. But also, don't spend all day and night on it either. You can DM me and I'll send you some folks on there to start off with if you like.


Now as far as Lauren goes. How about you come back one day a week for an hour and post a quick update? I know we are probably flooding your inbox right now. Your life has taken such a hot turn every step of the way this year. You could do a quick weekend update and then run.


I do have one huge real question to ask you now.

• When you said things have changed but you're trying to keep things stable. What do you mean? What has changed for you both? Has your relationship and living arrangements changed?

Hopefully you're getting to read her journal to see what she's thinking on a daily basis about having his kid. Since it's not a daily subject. We all hope Lauren and you are both happy. Everyone knows Adam is happy. Here's to your wife getting everything she wants. Take care.

[Rebloxdevu]

First and foremost, apologies for the brevity when I am posting in this thread. I rarely get free time these days due to work and I am also trying to change jobs. The job market sucks ass and it seems like full time remote positions which pay more that what I am currently earning don't exist anymore.

I am still not sure what is gonna happen about this pregnancy and I asked Lauren to think this through before informing Adam. I asked her to wait for a couple of months and journal here feelings end of everyday and see how she feels about this after two months, which is roughly in January. We don't talk about this that much. We went to SC few days before thanksgiving and we still do long runs during the weekend. I am not saying things didn't change but I am trying to keep them as stable as possible.

Thank you for atleast keeping us more up to date hopefully you can find a new job with a remote position.

Don't fall down when mabye some posts something that you don't like.
There are still people rooting for you!

[readyy2009]

First and foremost, apologies for the brevity when I am posting in this thread. I rarely get free time these days due to work and I am also trying to change jobs. The job market sucks ass and it seems like full time remote positions which pay more that what I am currently earning don't exist anymore.

I am still not sure what is gonna happen about this pregnancy and I asked Lauren to think this through before informing Adam. I asked her to wait for a couple of months and journal here feelings end of everyday and see how she feels about this after two months, which is roughly in January. We don't talk about this that much. We went to SC few days before thanksgiving and we still do long runs during the weekend. I am not saying things didn't change but I am trying to keep them as stable as possible.

Thank you for atleast keeping us more up to date hopefully you can find a new job with a remote position.

Don't fall down when mabye some posts something that you don't like.
There are still people rooting for you!

I think we are all rooting for him as he seems like a very likeable guy...It is the aftermath of the decisions that people have different opinions on

[RedRiot]

Aw I was hoping he'd let me get her pregnant....

[Watchinu69]

Danny if your gonna be taking on a newborn of Adam's? Maybe going into an office is good to increase your income. Aside from cooking, cleaning & laundry for three earning kite dill be good as Lauren will end up going out on maternity. Good luck - hey is Adam planking on on getting out anytime soon... alone or with Lauren? Thanks- love your journey my friend!!

[phb]

Hi Danny, try ChatGPT or any other good LLM to optimize your CV and application letter. Let ChatGPT generally optimize your CV in terms of focus on results, value creation and responsibilities instead of just roles you had. In a second step let ChatGPT optimize your CV and the application letter for the individual job description and company.
You mentioned that you had episodes of panic and kind of depression, I hope you are getting professional help, like a good therapist. This was also for me during difficult times an important help in my life and its no shame to get help.
Best of luck to you and enjoy life!

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum phb.

[RunDannyRun]

First and foremost, apologies for the brevity when I am posting in this thread. I rarely get free time these days due to work and I am also trying to change jobs. The job market sucks ass and it seems like full time remote positions which pay more that what I am currently earning don't exist anymore.

I mean it depends bro. I'm working remote full time at 60K, I know my manager is at 80K. If you're talking like 100K you'd have to be a boomer with a massive work history and it would be a very narrow line of jobs there I agree. But I do know our CFO and CMO are about to be fired so I still see movement at the six figure level. Jobs opening and such. You have to apply basically daily for 12 months straight but once you get in, you'd have to be genuinely awful to get fired. Don't give up hope Danny. Also regardless of what comes next, always treat your family with love. The job market search made me such a goblin a few years ago when I was searching.

Not to toot my own horn but I earn around 200K and some stock options. I am happy that I got grandfathered in to a permanent remote position and have managers fighting on my side to keep it that way. I surprisingly interview well but I didn't bother entertaining some recruiter's emails as they said that I either have to move to west coast or I have to take a pay cut as I live in a low COL area. Just after/during covid the job market was so hot. I miss those days.

[RunDannyRun]

• When you said things have changed but you're trying to keep things stable. What do you mean? What has changed for you both? Has your relationship and living arrangements changed?

Things have changed in our relationship over the past year. There were some ups and and some downs. You all were part of it.

I thought about this question and listed some changes / general observations over the last year.

• I am happy with the whole arrangement. I dreamed about this setup for years and it is literally all I ever wanted. Listening to them having sex and I still think about the time i got to watch her have sex with Adam.

• My mental health is surprisingly at its best. I am also feeling more confident and that is the only reason I even decided to look for a new job.

• Lauren and I are still close. While this is not exactly a change, I am happy that nothing changed as I assumed that she might get more distant or dosn't love me anymore. There were moments that I had some doubts but she assuaged them quickly through various actions like doing our favorite activities

• I am doing surprisingly well with the idea that I am not having sex with her anymore. I mean I am masturbating but I don't miss sex with her that much.

• She spends 4-5 nights with him. But due to his work and family, they only have time for each other during the nights. These days, they settled into a comfortable rhythm. She also put her foot down about how many times they have sex during the night. It used to be thirce -- twice in the night and once after he wakes up. But she really is getting sleep deprived. So it's just twice now. once just before sleeping and once after he wakes up. Once in a while, she wakes up to him fondling her boobs and shoving his cock up her pussy. She used to get upset by these kinds of intrusive acts but now, she just whines but he silences them with his mouth.

• I sometimes feel a bit lonely. My stepdad moved to Texas and Jason moved to Kentucky. We used to see each other often but now, they all have their own relationships and I am not even going to see them for holidays. It's just Adam now. On the other hand, Lauren has everyone whom she grew up with at stone's throw. Although, both my stepdad and Jason saw my wife's pussy through a photograph. So I am happy that they are not around.

• Surprisingly no fallout from people knowing - Kate, my nephews, their mom. Adam's ex is seeing someone and she is surprisingly, not being shitty towards him (although totally deserved oftentimes).

• Lauren got better at sex? I assume they know each other's bodies better by now. She comes quicker and squirts faster. They don't try too many positions (doggy hurts her a lot) but they perfected some positions

• She still tells me everything in detail if I ask her. Due to work, I rarely ask her during the week to retell the previous night's encounter but on the occasions that I do ask her, she tells everything and she gets super horny.

• I do lot of laundry. I replace their sheets, wash his gym and street clothes, wash our clothes. I like doing this as my cleanliness obsessed brain can't see the mess in their room just piling up.

• There were moments where I think Lauren and I are closer than ever but sometimes, like when she mentioned that she wants to have his kid, I feel that everything is gonna break apart.

• I know that lot of cuckolds like if their wife has sex with different men but for me, i am surprisingly okay with just Adam. Lauren seems perfectly fine with this too.

• It doesn't happen that often, but Lauren has a freaky side to her. She sometimes has sex with Adam after he comes from gym and before he hits the showers. I think it is disgusting but she says that it usually is the best sex.

• She never once said "I love you" or even "I like you" to Adam. She tells me that while she appreciates his generosity in the bedroom, she tells me that he can never be a long term partner.

Through out these minor and major changes, I always tried to maintain composure and trusted Lauren that she loves me.

[venus-can99]

Danny thanks for documenting the "changes" in your relationship with Lauren. It appears that you both have a good relationship based on trust and love minus the sex part for now. Do you think that perhaps after having Adam's kid(s) and the relationship has run its course you and Lauren may have sex again?

[RunDannyRun]

Danny thanks for documenting the "changes" in your relationship with Lauren. It appears that you both have a good relationship based on trust and love minus the sex part for now. Do you think that perhaps after having Adam's kid(s) and the relationship has run its course you and Lauren may have sex again?

I am still hoping that she changes her mind about having kids. Not because I am opposed to the idea but because I don't want to rock the boat.

I have not thought about the end of their relationship. Just taking it one day at a time. I mean we can't plan for everything, can we?

[Midnight Joker]

Wow Danny, amazing update! Having a peek behind the curtain puts a lot of what's going on into perspective. Having children will change everything. I think you're selling yourself short on wanting to be the father, both biologically and in name. You'd be surprised how your child, your own flesh and blood, will put everything into perspective in your life. It will give you strength you didn't know you had, too.