Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

[loving_hubby]

Welcome to the forum loving_hubby.

Thank you!

[vette19690]

My wife is not a 'cow' and would neve tolerate being called such. She wouldn't want a 'bull' and we both find that term distasteful. She would want a loving session where she would control the intensity and quite honestly the soft or pounding sex, depending on her mood. Bulls should be in a pasture

[John Ryan]

Bull is the wrong term. When i think of the term bull I think size. The size of a bull's penis can be as long as 30 to 40 inches.

[John Ryan]

Bull is the wrong term. When i think of the term bull I think size. The size of a bull's penis can be as long as 30 to 40 inches.

[Aussiem]

Never use the term bull. Just a good friend she fucks.

[Aussiem]

Never use the term bull. Just a good friend she fucks.

[Infiniti1970]

We don’t use the term bull. She’s all about connection, friendship, trust and the feeling that comes with having a friend with all the benefits.

[Infiniti1970]

We don’t use the term bull. She’s all about connection, friendship, trust and the feeling that comes with having a friend with all the benefits.

[BCiym]

I think the term is gross and would never use it. My wife is not a cow.

[John Ryan]

A friend is a better term

[extcpt2387]

Anyone that wants to be called a bull is probably not a safe partner to invite into the bedroom. I think many people get off on reducing sexuality to is most basic and raw form, which is fine in some moments, but is pretty basic to be that way all the time. What happened to the swinger attitude of erotic party with trusted play pal or two? It's not a rodeo auction, its sex with other people. LOL

[Jimbo7giveher]

we dont use the term bull. just friends. and everyone is friendly and respectful. everyone, to everyone. each to his own but in my interviews with her perspective playmates, i look for what are for us red flags. any guy talking about how he's a bull is out. if he sounds like he's in to pain, giving or recieving, hes out. if he says he's a "big nerd" or sends a picture of him with his dog, he's out. not sure why the last two are a rule, but they are lol

[John Ryan]

we dont use the term bull. just friends. and everyone is friendly and respectful. everyone, to everyone. each to his own but in my interviews with her perspective playmates, i look for what are for us red flags. any guy talking about how he's a bull is out. if he sounds like he's in to pain, giving or recieving, hes out. if he says he's a "big nerd" or sends a picture of him with his dog, he's out. not sure why the last two are a rule, but they are lol

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[LVyoung]

A lot of the couples I've known have used "bull" to describe me, but I don't like it. I prefer being her boyfriend, a third, or just a friend. Bull feels wrong to me. I can absolutely be dominate like the term implies, but it's not my entire identity.

[1FoxxyCajun]

I like the terms friend, fwb, third, paramour, or fuckbuddy. Bull doesn't work because it goes with the cuck dynamic and we are stag/vixen. I also don't like playmate (sounds too immature), or boyfriend unless the relationship is a bit more serious. The jury is out on lover, I think paramour is just a better word for it and lover could also feel too serious.

I don't mind stag or vixen though, can we get another animal name for a third who's not into humiliation? What would be a good animal?