Wives preferring interracial sex
Wives preferring interracial sex
After reading a post by HWC on Likes and dislikes I responded with the below and wondered how many of couples out there are in a similar relationship? Thought it might deserve a post of it's own.
For my wife and I it would be interracial adventures.
We are a white couple and my wife who was incredibly active with many partners when we first got together never really played with many black guys.
After we married and had kids she became totally committed but we often discussed her playing around still. She then told me her only real interest in playing around again would be with black guys as she found them way more attractive. This was absolutely nothing to do with the taboo side of things just a genuine attraction. She has now had a few sex dates with 2 different guys and the last date resulted in her lover cumming inside her 3 times that night.
On a slightly side note side we have been together (14 years) I have never been near another woman as i love to stay true to my wife and do nothing but encourage her wild side as she is naturally sexually promiscuous and always returns from a date very happy and stays that way for a good while afterwards.
For my wife and I it would be interracial adventures.
We are a white couple and my wife who was incredibly active with many partners when we first got together never really played with many black guys.
After we married and had kids she became totally committed but we often discussed her playing around still. She then told me her only real interest in playing around again would be with black guys as she found them way more attractive. This was absolutely nothing to do with the taboo side of things just a genuine attraction. She has now had a few sex dates with 2 different guys and the last date resulted in her lover cumming inside her 3 times that night.
On a slightly side note side we have been together (14 years) I have never been near another woman as i love to stay true to my wife and do nothing but encourage her wild side as she is naturally sexually promiscuous and always returns from a date very happy and stays that way for a good while afterwards.
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Hello, from Wesley very happily married to my Hotwife Kelly.
Just like everything else in life we our have our own individual preferences from food, hobbies, entertainment, music, clothing.
It is just a natural extension our preferences extend to characteristics we are attracted to in the opposite sex. My wife Kelly is a natural blonde with blue eyes and she has always been drawn to black men. As her white husband I am very fortunate she married me regardless that I am not black, love did prevail in my case.
I love the fact my wife prefers black men in our Hotwife lifestyle and could not be more content and turned on by it.
Back when Kelly and I were using and online lifestyle “dating” site, Kelly’s listing clearly stated….This blonde prefers her men, black, tall, handsome, and well hung, which she very proudly stated !!!
So to sum up my point of view a white wife with a preference for black men in the Hotwife lifestyle is very much a beneficial preference. Wesley
Just like everything else in life we our have our own individual preferences from food, hobbies, entertainment, music, clothing.
It is just a natural extension our preferences extend to characteristics we are attracted to in the opposite sex. My wife Kelly is a natural blonde with blue eyes and she has always been drawn to black men. As her white husband I am very fortunate she married me regardless that I am not black, love did prevail in my case.
I love the fact my wife prefers black men in our Hotwife lifestyle and could not be more content and turned on by it.
Back when Kelly and I were using and online lifestyle “dating” site, Kelly’s listing clearly stated….This blonde prefers her men, black, tall, handsome, and well hung, which she very proudly stated !!!
So to sum up my point of view a white wife with a preference for black men in the Hotwife lifestyle is very much a beneficial preference. Wesley
Last edited by Wesley Hudson Valley on Fri Nov 07, 2025 8:00 am, edited 1 time in total.
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My wife also has a very strong preference for black men. She is not black only, but black men definitely get to skip the line. Lol
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Re: Wives preferring interracial sex
Whatever causes it, it seems to be extremely common.
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Wesley Hudson Valley
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That is a huge understatement, very common for a white Hotwife to prefer black men. Grateful they do !!!
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Wifesharing
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I would say from my observations over the years my wife has a sexual preference Attraction to black men.
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My wife definitely went through a phase of wondering about this, mostly because a friend did it. I would have been fine if she did it, but no opportunity happened and she became pregnant with out first and she pretty much forgot about it, funnily enough.
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Over the 10 years of our experiences, she mostly played with black men. She ended up with two long term partners and one was a 42 year old divorced black man and the other was a 27 year old single white man. Her black partner was a practicing bull who actually had several wives that he was playing with. All long term. He was a great partner.
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Thanks for the great reply Wesley.Wesley Hudson Valley wrote: ↑Fri Nov 07, 2025 7:08 amHello, from Wesley very happily married to my Hotwife Kelly.
Just like everything else in life we our have our own individual preferences from food, hobbies, entertainment, music, clothing.
It is just a natural extension our preferences extend to characteristics we are attracted to in the opposite sex. My wife Kelly is a natural blonde with blue eyes and she has always been drawn to black men. As her white husband I am very fortunate she married me regardless that I am not black, love did prevail in my case.
I love the fact my wife prefers black men in our Hotwife lifestyle and could not be more content and turned on by it.
Back when Kelly and I were using and online lifestyle “dating” site, Kelly’s listing clearly stated….This blonde prefers her men, black, tall, handsome, and well hung, which she very proudly stated !!!
So to sum up my point of view a white wife with a preference for black men in the Hotwife lifestyle is very much a beneficial preference. Wesley
Curious to know if it was just your wife Kelly that played or did you get to have some fun as well?
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My wife doesn't admit to any racial preference. But she does like interracial sex and is conscious of certain race specific aspects of the attraction, hers and his. She has what I call an eclectic diet.
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I like that.
My girl had interracial activities in college (Black and Latino), and married a Latino, a brief marriage for just a year after college. She is 63 and only white since. Including another white marriage before me. Fortunately, she is open to the idea of interracial, black specifically.
She is from a white-bread kind of Connecticut family.
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My girlfriend Kelley's side piece is black, but it's more about size, stamina, and skill (both bedroom and all around social) than just skin color. He's a perfect fit for her. Pun intended. 
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This here my Wife doesn't claim she has a preference and she is not exclusive to any one type. I think her attraction is purely physical and that Black men to her more often have the traits that turn her on I don't think it is just about being black, plenty of black men that she has not been attracted to as well.
All that said I keep tract of stats and since her first encounter with a black man 83.2% of the men she has choosen on the 10 years since have been black so the numbers don;t lie.
Also the part that tells for me if we watch a show before bed with a lot of Black men she comes to bed much more aroused. Also is say a tall sexy black man is standing near her I can promise you her pussy will be dripping wet just being close. So while she doesn't say it or admit it is clear to me.
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we have been in the lifestyle for over 21yrs ,the last 10yrs of that was hotwife lifestyle, black men have always been my wife's desire, she had been with a few before me and cheated with black when we were
dating and married,when we started the lifestyle black was always her 1st choice, even now as we have slowed to almost nothing ,if she sees a good looking black man ,she spoons and makes lil pur moans,prefers
the stamina ,size ,colour and swagger of a Blackman,and love that they crave her booty,and of course the lil submissive part in me loves the fact she wants a hung Blackman over me
dating and married,when we started the lifestyle black was always her 1st choice, even now as we have slowed to almost nothing ,if she sees a good looking black man ,she spoons and makes lil pur moans,prefers
the stamina ,size ,colour and swagger of a Blackman,and love that they crave her booty,and of course the lil submissive part in me loves the fact she wants a hung Blackman over me
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Me and my wife are an interracial couple. I’m black and she’s Hispanic. After a year of me trying to convince her to become a HW, my wife told me a shocking confession. She told me she was curious about white guys. WTF??
I reminded her of the old saying “once you go black…..”.
I used that confession to nudge her into becoming a HW.
The first three guys were fucking terrible. And I mean that literally. I felt sorry for my wife. I thought she had given up on becoming a HW. Thankfully the fourth guy more than redeemed all the white guys in the world. He had a short but super thick cock that drove my wife crazy. He more than fulfilled me and my wife’s fantasy. After that night my wife started dating guys of different races. She jokingly refer to guys as vanilla, caramel or chocolate when she talk about the race of the guy she dated.
I reminded her of the old saying “once you go black…..”.
I used that confession to nudge her into becoming a HW.
The first three guys were fucking terrible. And I mean that literally. I felt sorry for my wife. I thought she had given up on becoming a HW. Thankfully the fourth guy more than redeemed all the white guys in the world. He had a short but super thick cock that drove my wife crazy. He more than fulfilled me and my wife’s fantasy. After that night my wife started dating guys of different races. She jokingly refer to guys as vanilla, caramel or chocolate when she talk about the race of the guy she dated.
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My wife was raised by a racist Baptist preacher and was taught to stay away from black men. After we were married and in the lifestyle, she revealed that it was a fantasy of hers to be with a black man. The first black man she was with was amazing and definitely set the scale moving forward. Since then, she has been with 38 different black men and all but one of them has fucked her multiple times. She says that not only are they very sexy & masculine, but that they are confident and animalistic in how they fuck her. She loves being "taken" and she says they do it like none other.
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Wifesharing, I loved the precision of the way you shared your wife’s partner preferences as a percentage.
That prompted the semi-random thought of considering the actual numbers.
I realized 5 out of 6 gives about 83.33%, but your exact percentage indicates 104 black out of 125 total.
Cheers!
That prompted the semi-random thought of considering the actual numbers.
I realized 5 out of 6 gives about 83.33%, but your exact percentage indicates 104 black out of 125 total.
Cheers!
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Wesley Hudson Valley
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Hi from Kelly, (Hotwife married to Wesley)
From my years of experience in this lifestyle quite a few white couples have a preference for their wife to be with a black man or men. More common than some people might realize……Kelly. Certainly true for me
My husband preference is for me to have a preference for black men, a win win Hotwife relationship
From my years of experience in this lifestyle quite a few white couples have a preference for their wife to be with a black man or men. More common than some people might realize……Kelly. Certainly true for me
My husband preference is for me to have a preference for black men, a win win Hotwife relationship
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Thanks for running the numbers for me I fear my exact number may be a bit off but but we were very active in that time period. Much slower nowCandA wrote: ↑Mon Dec 08, 2025 5:42 amWifesharing, I loved the precision of the way you shared your wife’s partner preferences as a percentage.
That prompted the semi-random thought of considering the actual numbers.
I realized 5 out of 6 gives about 83.33%, but your exact percentage indicates 104 black out of 125 total.
Cheers!
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We're probably the same as most couples here. Personality, respect, cleanliness etc play a far more important role than skin colour when it comes to boyfriends.
Becky has had several black guys since we've been together. None of them have been chosen because they were black, it just happened that way.
But we can see why some ladies prefer interracial sex, certainly if the guy is muscular.
One of her current boyfriends is the only black guy she has bedded more than once, all the others have been one night stands.
Becky has had several black guys since we've been together. None of them have been chosen because they were black, it just happened that way.
But we can see why some ladies prefer interracial sex, certainly if the guy is muscular.
One of her current boyfriends is the only black guy she has bedded more than once, all the others have been one night stands.
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My wife fantasized about taking a black lover for a long time. Once she'd satisfied her curiosity, it became a case of been there, done that.
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My wife only into BWC just her preference.
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My wife hasn't been with a black man yet, but is interested
We had a fun experience with 2 men being different race to us (Asian & Middle-East/Indian), not sure if it was the novelty of the experience or racially motivated though as long term loves so far have been White.
We had a fun experience with 2 men being different race to us (Asian & Middle-East/Indian), not sure if it was the novelty of the experience or racially motivated though as long term loves so far have been White.
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My wife never mentioned black men at all, even though we had been in a hotwife marriage for over 25 years.
Then earlier this year whilst on a holiday we got chatting to a black guy one night. When he went for drinks she admitted he was getting her extremely wet.
We had only been talking, but I suggested she try and see if it could develop. One thing lead to another and they ended up in our room while I stayed in the bar.
A long evening on my own, but after he left it was worth it, she was insatiable, and since then has developed a liking for black... she is 53
Then earlier this year whilst on a holiday we got chatting to a black guy one night. When he went for drinks she admitted he was getting her extremely wet.
We had only been talking, but I suggested she try and see if it could develop. One thing lead to another and they ended up in our room while I stayed in the bar.
A long evening on my own, but after he left it was worth it, she was insatiable, and since then has developed a liking for black... she is 53
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This was my wife's recent experience too, which proves that 1. size (he did fit that stereotype) isn't everything or even the main thing, 2. nor is color - the notion that once a woman goes black she never goes back doesn't always hold true. The guy was handsome and gentlemanly. But it turns out that the chemistry wasn't right, something that happens with some of her white and handsome gentleman dates too. Some things just aren't racial. On the other hand, I suspect she'll be up for another interracial sex experience if someone else strikes her fancy.LongTermHubby wrote: ↑Tue Dec 09, 2025 4:24 amMy wife fantasized about taking a black lover for a long time. Once she'd satisfied her curiosity, it became a case of been there, done that.