He’s an asshole but I hope he fucks her again

[bltn1966]

Marie grew up in a small town thats over 100 miles away from us. A few years ago, while in a swingers club Marie bumped into a guy she grew up with name Mike. I immediately didn’t like him because he was a loudmouth brash asshole. That night ended with me watching Mike fuck Marie. I really don’t like him but I love the way he fucked my multi-orgasmic wife. He makes stupid comments the whole time they’re having sex. “I’m about to fuck the shit out of your wife”. “I got that pussy purring”. “She won’t be able to walk straight when I’m finished with her”.

A few months later Marie and Mike just happen to be back in their small town at the same time. That night Marie called and let me listen to them have sex. A few years later he invited Marie and her mother to his family BBQ. That night Mike had Marie FaceTime me so I can watch him fuck her. He bragged about fucking Marie while both of their unsuspecting mothers were outside eating BBQ together.

This morning Marie is driving back to her hometown. I, half jokingly, asked if Mike was going to be there too. She hesitated before answering “maybe”. She knows I really don’t care for the guy. She promised she would stay to away from him if that’s what I wanted. She’s said this to me a few times. However, she knows I’m not going to tell her at avoid him. I don’t like him but I love the way he fucks her. So I’m hoping Mike fucks the living daylights out of her this weekend.

[wannabecUKold]

Good approach. Let her get it full force.

[NSEW1]

How would you feel if she let you watch? What if she had you clean up after her fucked her? How about if she told you to suck his dick?

Would you do it?

[Ready2StartAgain]

How would you feel if she let you watch? What if she had you clean up after her fucked her? How about if she told you to suck his dick?

Would you do it?

Sounds like a wild night to me!!

[bltn1966]

How would you feel if she let you watch? What if she had you clean up after her fucked her? How about if she told you to suck his dick?

Would you do it?

Cleaning up and sucking dicks is not my thing. I’d rather kick his ass before I do that. The only time I feel like a cuck is when she’s with him. My wife knows I don’t like him. And, I’m pretty sure he knows I don’t like him. I believe that’s the reason he insist on fucking her in front of me or over the phone. He’s the only guy my wife will let me watch fuck her. So, I have to take the wins when I can.

[ucaneffher]

Marie grew up in a small town thats over 100 miles away from us. A few years ago, while in a swingers club Marie bumped into a guy she grew up with name Mike. I immediately didn’t like him because he was a loudmouth brash asshole. That night ended with me watching Mike fuck Marie. I really don’t like him but I love the way he fucked my multi-orgasmic wife. He makes stupid comments the whole time they’re having sex. “I’m about to fuck the shit out of your wife”. “I got that pussy purring”. “She won’t be able to walk straight when I’m finished with her”.

A few months later Marie and Mike just happen to be back in their small town at the same time. That night Marie called and let me listen to them have sex. A few years later he invited Marie and her mother to his family BBQ. That night Mike had Marie FaceTime me so I can watch him fuck her. He bragged about fucking Marie while both of their unsuspecting mothers were outside eating BBQ together.

This morning Marie is driving back to her hometown. I, half jokingly, asked if Mike was going to be there too. She hesitated before answering “maybe”. She knows I really don’t care for the guy. She promised she would stay to away from him if that’s what I wanted. She’s said this to me a few times. However, she knows I’m not going to tell her at avoid him. I don’t like him but I love the way he fucks her. So I’m hoping Mike fucks the living daylights out of her this weekend.

I totally feel you, man! After cooling down, at one point my then hot GF was down to only about 5 or 6 friends with benefits on rotation whom she met with on a monthly basis (every other day/ few days she saw one of them).

There was one friend she really connected with and she tended to see him more and do more fun stuff with which would 100% of the time result with her in bed with him and my girlfriend always coming home with no less than 2 or 3 loads left in her by him. At this point they had already been FWBs for a couple of years.

Like you, I did not like his loud obnoxious demeanor but I accepted her seeing him because she absolutely loved his personality and his company. As result of that she connected with him on a very deep level and she truly enjoyed being with him intimatly. I loved knowing how she never held back with him. There were absolutely no restrictions or limitations for him, literally no boundaries whatsoever. When she was with him, nothing else in the world mattered and she was one million percent his.

Because of how intense their intimacy became, I continued to accept and encourage her to give herself to him. She later admitted to wanting to be his which I agreed again. Once she was his, she finally confessed that the reason she never held back and gave herself to him without boundaries was because she was making love to him the entire time. For 3 years they were making love and having mind blowing sex with my knowledge after she told me, that's not counting the multiple weekly sessions they'd been having for the year or two before becoming official and telling me.

We both saw it coming and both naturally felt our relationship transitioning to her seeking more than just sex. We both seemed okay with our relationship heading in the direction, he inevitably took over the sex department with her once she was his girlfriend.

If I would not have also enjoyed the way he fucked her and the way she gave herself to him, then I would have done everything to discourage her from seeing his annoying ass but instead I got front row seats to watch my girlfriend transition into a new relationship and witnessed him be the one making love to her on a daily basis for 3 years instead of me. Being a cuck with masochist tendencies is one hell of a drug. Everyday I wished it was me making love to her but at the same time I craved and looked forward to every single evening for him to come and take her away from me for their nightly 6 hour hangout and love making sessions. The inner conflict was rough.

[ucaneffher]

Marie grew up in a small town thats over 100 miles away from us. A few years ago, while in a swingers club Marie bumped into a guy she grew up with name Mike. I immediately didn’t like him because he was a loudmouth brash asshole. That night ended with me watching Mike fuck Marie. I really don’t like him but I love the way he fucked my multi-orgasmic wife. He makes stupid comments the whole time they’re having sex. “I’m about to fuck the shit out of your wife”. “I got that pussy purring”. “She won’t be able to walk straight when I’m finished with her”.

A few months later Marie and Mike just happen to be back in their small town at the same time. That night Marie called and let me listen to them have sex. A few years later he invited Marie and her mother to his family BBQ. That night Mike had Marie FaceTime me so I can watch him fuck her. He bragged about fucking Marie while both of their unsuspecting mothers were outside eating BBQ together.

This morning Marie is driving back to her hometown. I, half jokingly, asked if Mike was going to be there too. She hesitated before answering “maybe”. She knows I really don’t care for the guy. She promised she would stay to away from him if that’s what I wanted. She’s said this to me a few times. However, she knows I’m not going to tell her at avoid him. I don’t like him but I love the way he fucks her. So I’m hoping Mike fucks the living daylights out of her this weekend.

I totally feel you, man! After cooling down, at one point my then hot GF was down to only about 5 or 6 friends with benefits on rotation whom she met with on a monthly basis (every other day/ few days she saw one of them).

There was one friend she really connected with and she tended to see him more and do more fun stuff with which would 100% of the time result with her in bed with him and my girlfriend always coming home with no less than 2 or 3 loads left in her by him. At this point they had already been FWBs for a couple of years.

Like you, I did not like his loud obnoxious demeanor but I accepted her seeing him because she absolutely loved his personality and his company. As result of that she connected with him on a very deep level and she truly enjoyed being with him intimatly. I loved knowing how she never held back with him. There were absolutely no restrictions or limitations for him, literally no boundaries whatsoever. When she was with him, nothing else in the world mattered and she was one million percent his.

Because of how intense their intimacy became, I continued to accept and encourage her to give herself to him. She later admitted to wanting to be his which I agreed again. Once she was his, she finally confessed that the reason she never held back and gave herself to him without boundaries was because she was making love to him the entire time. For 3 years they were making love and having mind blowing sex with my knowledge after she told me, that's not counting the multiple weekly sessions they'd been having for the year or two before becoming official and telling me.

We both saw it coming and both naturally felt our relationship transitioning to her seeking more than just sex. We both seemed okay with our relationship heading in the direction, he inevitably took over the sex department with her once she was his girlfriend.

If I would not have also enjoyed the way he fucked her and the way she gave herself to him, then I would have done everything to discourage her from seeing his annoying ass but instead I got front row seats to watch my girlfriend transition into a new relationship and witnessed him be the one making love to her on a daily basis for 3 years instead of me. Being a cuck with masochist tendencies is one hell of a drug. Everyday I wished it was me making love to her but at the same time I craved and looked forward to every single evening for him to come and take her away from me for their nightly 6 hour hangout and love making sessions. The inner conflict was rough.

As you said, he was an asshole but I just couldn't get enough of hearing her trying new things with him. I couldn't get enough of seeing countless pictures of her on social media with him full on claiming my girlfriend of 8 years. I loved that bittersweet feeling of her openly and proudly being with him while she had her cuck at home being contacted and asked why they were seeing the girlfriend dressed like that and hugging/dancing with that other guy. That was just the beginning and only a matter of time before she made their relationship public on social media as well. It was only obvious by then.

[Dream Weaver]

How would you feel if she let you watch? What if she had you clean up after her fucked her? How about if she told you to suck his dick?

Would you do it?

Cleaning up and sucking dicks is not my thing. I’d rather kick his ass before I do that. The only time I feel like a cuck is when she’s with him. My wife knows I don’t like him. And, I’m pretty sure he knows I don’t like him. I believe that’s the reason he insist on fucking her in front of me or over the phone. He’s the only guy my wife will let me watch fuck her. So, I have to take the wins when I can.

Your wife sounds like she loves to make you squirm.... and you love it. I hope you thank her every day.

[sml_peterBR]

We've met a few "assholes" during our journey in the cuckolding lifestyle, but I've never asked my wife to stop dating any of them too.
Instead, my wife used to play with me about me helping her to prepare to date men I didn't like, and sometimes even watch and serve them during the date. It's hard to explain but its very erotic.
She also says that if I'm not confortable, I can stay and she goes to date alone, but never suggested stop dating someone because I didn't like the person.
The choice about dating or not a man is exclusive hers.

[mdevaux]

So did Mike end up fucking Marie again?

[D+D]

Debbie fucked an asshole for four years but he made her very happy so it didn’t matter what I thought.

[coastalkid]

Here's another baffling scenario to me. If your wife doesn't care if you despise her lover and carries on with him anyway, how does that affect other things that a husband may be opposed to? Is it easy to have complete autonomy for sex and sex related things and not have it spill over into other non-sexual things? Is this more about an FLR type of relationship? At this point is any objection about anything given any credence or is it dismissed because of the authority of the wife? It's hard to imagine that this scenario is constrained to just a person's sex life.

Even more confusing is knowing that your wife is attracted to assholes. Wouldn't it be a natural conclusion for a husband to think that if he was more like an asshole then his wife would be more attracted to him? If he is incapable of being an asshole then wouldn't he also assume that he's incapable of being attractive to his wife?

How does a wife know when to exercise caution? If a wife can say, "That's his (the husband's) problem, not mine!", it makes me wonder when is a problem shared? If nothing a husband says matters, then when will it matter? Is the overriding impetus to defy her husband or is it because the sex is so good that nothing else matters? If the sex is so good that she goes ahead despite any objection, then wouldn't any failure be her full responsibility? Can people really distinctly compartmentalize this?

I don't believe this is mostly about liking or not liking the lover. It's more about the power. Taking on a lover that a wife knows is not liked by her husband is nothing more than a statement of that power. Bottom line, if it works for you then it's perfect, you're getting exactly what you want and crave. It checks off the cuckold boxes. If it doesn't work then there will be collateral damage beyond the sex. Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Just because a wife has unlimited authority it does not mean or assure that a husband has unlimited capacity to accept that authority.

I'm NOT judging anyone's kink. If this is your jam more power to you, sincerely. I can understand how it can be a thrill while in the moment. Where I get lost is how it works when you're not in the moment.

[Decman]

My wife has dated a few assholes… one of which was terrible, but it took her to realize how toxic he was. I do this with her because it makes her so happy — and while he was satisfying her, he wasn’t making her happy.

[Tryagain]

Agree with coastal kid...

[Cdncuck]

In our case, she fucks who she wants. I don't always understand what attracts her to some of the guys she's fucked but it worked for her. We both like her fucking other guys but I've always felt the woman brings more to the party than the men. Therefore, despite how I may feel about a guy, she ultimately decides who she fucks.

[coastalkid]

I get the whole "it's her decision who she fucks". It is her body. That sounds completely reasonable and easily accepted.

I'm curious to know if that is a blanket statement? Does that cover all circumstances?

In this particular case does it make a difference if she knows beforehand that you don't like the guy and does it knowing you won't be happy about it? There's something more than sex there. It's a power trip. You have to get used to enjoying being unhappy while she has to get used to not caring what you think about the matter.

That seems lots different than finding a guy that starts out as regular but over time shows himself to be an asshole. You know that whole "Yeah he's a jerk but he fucks good!" I have to imagine that this is the more prevalent scenario. It takes a while sometimes for people to show their real personality. There's a lot of head cases out there that seem normal at first glance.

What do you think?

[sw6]

The asshole factor can make for a spicier dynamic
HW know she'll stop if hubbie insists
He is torn but finds it exciting ultimately
That guy just talks a big game cause it helps him rev up and give it to her good
Where's the problem?

[coastalkid]

The asshole factor can make for a spicier dynamic
HW know she'll stop if hubbie insists
He is torn but finds it exciting ultimately
That guy just talks a big game cause it helps him rev up and give it to her good
Where's the problem?

I'm sure that it CAN be as simple as this and work out.

Things don't always play out that way though. What if the hubby insists and she doesn't abide by his desire? What if he's torn and finds it INITIALLY exciting but over time it builds resentment? What if it only revs up the lover and not the husband?

I'll go back to the scenario where a wife wife knows full well beforehand that her husband doesn't like someone and she intentionally goes after that person disregarding her husband's objection. There's more than sex in that dynamic. That's more about power.

When you involve a power trip like that you add more potential complications and conflicts beyond "just sex"! Not everyone possesses the capability to wield that power without causing damage whether intentionally or unintentionally. Most people rarely have that kind of power ever in their lives, it's unfamiliar and prone to mistakes in judgement. Especially since you haven't had experience with having full authority.

You can dismiss my opinion and I won't be upset. This whole going out with an "acceptable asshole" idea is beneath a woman's integrity. Even if she didn't see her lover as an asshole but her husband did, could she so easily dismiss her husband's reason for thinking that? Why would she feel content to settle for less than the best? Why wouldn't she rather have a man that isn't an asshole that fucks her until her hearts content? If a well qualified non-asshole was available and she stayed with the asshole wouldn't that tell you it's more about mental/emotional aspect than it is the sexual one?

All bets are off if a husband thinks the guy is an asshole as doesn't say anything. If he doesn't say anything he's getting what he wants just with some extra unwanted parts. He's so wrapped up in his kink that he's willing to settle.