Your wife....MY girlfriend!

[IronCockJohnson]

@JohnSwan

I made one before this one here

viewtopic.php?f=7&t=74604

Interested in seeing what I can do with your wife?

[zorro]

We have never really discussed this but I do know that she would love to have a regular boyfriend. We spent a few days with one person in Tucson a few years back and she did have some strong feelings for him that could have grown into more. I was not threatened by it at all. A poly situation I think would work really well for us.

What changed for you to make the difference?

[Hot4mywife]

That is our ideal relationship as well and is mostly how it has played out for us over time. I am sure people think we are playing with fire, but it has worked well and besides we can’t choose what turns us on.

We discussed what we wanted to get out of sharing her and both decided that we wanted her to have a proper boyfriend.
My wife wanted to go out on dates with someone she really liked as well as found sexually attractive and wanted sex to be just a natural part of their relationship.
I was turned on by her sharing her feelings with me as well as hearing the details of their lovemaking. I told her that when she was with him I wanted her to feel like she was his girlfriend, not my wife, and be free to do whatever she wanted without checking with me.

What a great relationship you two have and such an unselfish husband.

[Hot4mywife]

That's why the ideal situation is when the boyfriend is younger. Five years younger good, ten years or more depending on her age is optimal.

Mitigates the threat of him taking her away for good.

From our experience, I would agree with this. Young men make my wife feel younger and she is able to sexually keep up with them. However, in an on going romantic relationship (which we have all enjoyed) the age difference begins to come out. With her last BF she felt more motherly towards him near the end. Both of her steady lovers were 10 to 20 years younger.

[loyaltoher]

i am currently in a cuck role for my wife and her boyfriend of 3+ years. i drive her to dinner dates with him and he brings her back to the master bedroom in our house for hours of intimacy wo my involvement. He is her boyfriend and im just her obedient cuck…and i know and love my role. if it was to go further, i'd find my way to support. the most scary yet exciting aspect is being outed by a neighbor, a friend, a family member, by the boyfriend or even my hotwife just telling her closest friends. i believe our life is close to having this happening as her socializing with her boyfriend is getting more open…restaurants we have been to w friends, grocery shopping at our local store, car in the driveway for sunday nights almost 2-3 times a month. the BF is a very nice gentleman who treats her very well and from what I hear from her is the lover of her life. She actually often tells me when i have that rare chance of entering her warm, wet pussy, that “he is my lover, he fucks me like no one else can, he is so strong and sensuous, you will never be able to be as good as him, now cum in his pussy, do it now….” and in those 20 seconds of her saying this i cum. She thanks me for being a supportive husband for her to have the hotwife life with him.

[Hot4mywife]

This has been our ideal situation as well. I will admit it is playing with fire and that is hot. That said we don't want a real threat to our primary relationship. It is beautiful and erotic for me to see my wife and her lover develop feelings and an attachment beside just dating and having passionate sex.

[1999]

I’m still very much a wannabe, but I introduced my fantasy by telling my wife I want to see her have that first date excitement and new relationship butterflies again. I know she’s a “good” girl and hasn’t been raised to cheat and fuck around, but I’ve told her if she could find someone to date and it led to more I’d be over the moon for her.

In my mind I’d like her to find someone she’s genuinely attracted to and form a bond with her boyfriend, like many of the guys in this thread. Dating, instead of just fucking, weekends away together, meeting his friends and family before coming home and telling me all about it. Bonus points if it’s an older guy, jackpot if he ends up “proposing” to her, even though she’s married to me.

[SquirmingSub]

That is our ideal relationship as well and is mostly how it has played out for us over time. I am sure people think we are playing with fire, but it has worked well and besides we can’t choose what turns us on.

We discussed what we wanted to get out of sharing her and both decided that we wanted her to have a proper boyfriend.
My wife wanted to go out on dates with someone she really liked as well as found sexually attractive and wanted sex to be just a natural part of their relationship.
I was turned on by her sharing her feelings with me as well as hearing the details of their lovemaking. I told her that when she was with him I wanted her to feel like she was his girlfriend, not my wife, and be free to do whatever she wanted without checking with me.

Perfect Relationship Model.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum SquirmingSub.

[SquirmingSub]

Welcome to the forum SquirmingSub.

Thank you, I was a member many years ago under another name. Looking forward to contributing again.