How important is a cock size to a woman?

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My wife is not as much about length but she loves the girth which of course I lack

She prefers a 6 to 7 inch cock because anything bigger makes her sore but it has to be 6 to 7 in diameter to get her to a screaming orgasm
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My wife will always say it is not important.

I believe the she means that, in the sense that connection is the more important factor for her and then the attention her partner pays her when playing.

My observation when being there though is, physically her body reacts very differently to an average versus thicker above average length partner.

So, while it is not important to her, I feel that it certainty adds an extra level of physical enjoyment for her.
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My wife’s a size queen with a deep and wide pussy, so really, really thick and 8-10 long is her preference. Im 7x5.5 and too thin for her. Most of my girlfriends loved my size, one would have liked it a bit longer and one thicker.
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My wife actually prefers smaller ones, 5-6" being her optimal maximum. She definitely cares for rigidness over geometry.

That said, one of her buddies was something close to 10" or even more. Turned out he had had enlargement surgery. The procedure to add 5 cm would cost less than $2 grand or so, and those surgeries are pretty common.
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In our camp it is important that the man has enough size to have sex in a variety of positions and still be able to get her to orgasm. She says 8 thick inches are probably her favorite. She has taken 10 legitimate inches and loved it but the soreness the next day made her think again about going that long.
To be honest she has enjoyed sex with men who were not blessed with a large cock, maybe as small as 4 thin inches but he knew how to work that little dick until she climaxed.
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Isn't the real question "what size is important to a woman?". Not every woman is built the same, is going to like the same thing etc? Plus there are all the other factors that go into pleasurable sex.
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Drakebelg wrote: Sun Jul 06, 2025 5:32 am My wife’s a size queen with a deep and wide pussy, so really, really thick and 8-10 long is her preference. Im 7x5.5 and too thin for her. Most of my girlfriends loved my size, one would have liked it a bit longer and one thicker.
Seems like we have pretty much exact same size endowment, and the same outlier Wives with porn star pussies.
From my fairly large sample size, A woman that can handle the truly big boys are as rare as the truly big boys. Of my 100 or so Partners, I've only had 3 or 4 that I felt small inside and my wife happens to be one.
It was initially very intimidating to find out she could handle far more than I could provide, and has experienced many porn star dicks...But now it is the source of endless excitement since I've leaned into it.
Our hotwife journey story so far
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For me it isn’t too important. Sometimes I do like playing with a little dick!
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My wife enjoys cocks that are on the bigger side. I’m a little over 6” and not that thick. She likes a little bit more on the length and definitely enjoys more girth. She has a regular guy that is around 11” and thick. She absolutely loves his size and how he uses it. I understand that 11” is not typical. I tend to believe her though. He is 6’9” tall.
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For years my wife did the song and dance about how size doesn't really matter. Just in the last few years has she become a little more honest about the physical experience and psychological allure of a big cock.

Best I can figure, she's had a variety of thick 6-7 inch men and 4 that were especially huge, all of which she loved except one she said was freak show thick and had an odd shape.
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My wife hasn't had real cocks that were bigger, but she's admitted that the big dildo makes her cum harder than I can...

It's about twice my width and 10 inches long and she's taken it all (lube and patience helps a lot). She says that she loves feeling "full" and that it can hit all of her favorite spots simultaneously (while I can only hit one at a time).

her legs also often tremble when she cums. My favorite part is going in right after and how much smaller I must feel in comparison
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sana9889 wrote: Sat Apr 26, 2025 5:39 pm Most women can only really take about 6" long. Its a physical limitation. So its a turn on seeing a long long monster. But beyond 7 does not really help much any more.

Less than 5 is too small. Especially if she has been opened up by a longer on before.

Btw. Most girls actually do not know how long their partners cocks are. Guys tend to give a more accurate measurement. And even they make it sound longer!
Tank Turner wrote: Sat Apr 26, 2025 8:55 am
Has been my experience at close to 7 in I've only bought them out with one woman. But some way she seemed to like it
sana9889 wrote: Thu Sep 12, 2024 10:26 pm Not as important as you guys think. My bf is 7.5. And still some wastage of dick.
I think around 7 is good.
My wife has assured me that a 6-to-7" thick cock is ideal for most women. Other women have told me the same thing.
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Very. It needs to fit nicely, touch the right areas. So depending on the woman's size and physiology, sensitivity, emotional kicks it will define what she "prefers".
My wife prefers 8.5-9"+, as thick as possible and a slightly upwards curve. She als absolutely loves now and again a really long 10"+.
One ex struggled to take me 7x5.5 but once warmed up she said it was perfect. Another was super loose but not deep so struggled in doggy. A perfect cock for her would have been 6" but monster thick. Another ex was tight as hell, struggling with my depth but wanted deeper. A few exes found mine perfect. So yeah all different, BUT for everyone of my sex partners they were really happy that i was nicely above average.
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If a guy has 7 + inches or more, he can fuck her in many more ways than a 5 incher. For example, some fuck her when she is lying face down on the bed. Now you can't get it very deep in that position but a thick 7 incher can please her in that way as opposed to me where i can hardly find her pussy in that position.

Again, laying on her side with her one leg bent, I can only get a couple of inches of thin cock in her. Not satisfactory... There are others as well. So when we say how big a cock is needed which provides satisfactory intercourse, You have to have length and thickness to make sex varied.

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My best position for fucking is for her to lie on the bed, close to the edge, and i stand allowing me to thrust as hard and as deep as i can. That is our only really good position besides doggy.
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Hillcountry66 wrote: Thu Sep 12, 2024 12:21 am How important is a cock size to a woman? So men always have this dream of having the biggest cock to satisfy a woman. And I’m told too big of a cock hurts a woman. So can I get some honest feedback on what is the ideal size that yall prefer? I understand to each their own. So go ahead and post your thoughts.
While Its not the most important aspect for my wife she would not have sex with small sized guy. I have rather slim 7inch and it is absolute minimum for her. I’m the smallest sized guy she sometimes agrees to have sex with and only because she still loves me. Since childbirth we barely can feel each other.
So I believe it’s about anatomy- some girls have longer and wider vaginas than others. Large vagina won’t have pleasure with small sized dick even if his owner stands on his head and breakdance….
But if girls vagina is very small then big cock might feel uncomfortable or painful at first and might need more time and proper foreplay to relax and adjust.
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My wife has finally admitted after years of claiming mine is perfect, that she wishes it was bigger. It’s not important enough for her to try a bigger one though. We’ve used bigger dildos but she doesn’t like the fake feel. I’d give almost anything to see her fully enjoying a big cock. I’ve never made her orgasm from penetration but im fairly confident a bigger guy that knows how to use it could. For reference im 4.75” long and not particularly girthy. She deserves better.
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