Valentine’s Day Alone - Wife will be on a date

[Allankluge]

It’s February 14/Valentine’s Day.

My wife’s new boyfriend called me yesterday to inform me that my wife wouldn’t be around much today. She asked him if he was free, and turns out he is. This means me at home alone while they have a romantic and saucy date. He did say he might send her home with an extra “gift” for me.

My wife was the most pure and innocent person when we started dating. I never saw this coming. Couldn’t be happier.

[Bloomincpl]

Congratulations Isn't it wonderful when things work out?

[Harleyriders99]

Congratulations. I'm in the same boat as you. They have a date and sleep over tonight.

[Geev]

Congrats. Hope she has a great time. We will be having a Valentine's day dinner followed by a movie together and then her FWB will be coming by to provide her the top notch sexual experience she needs and craves, esp for the holiday.

[Harleyriders99]

Checking in to see how you're doing Allan. My wife is getting ready now, he's picking her up in 45 minutes

[venus-can99]

It’s February 14/Valentine’s Day.

My wife’s new boyfriend called me yesterday to inform me that my wife wouldn’t be around much today. She asked him if he was free, and turns out he is. This means me at home alone while they have a romantic and saucy date. He did say he might send her home with an extra “gift” for me.

My wife was the most pure and innocent person when we started dating. I never saw this coming. Couldn’t be happier.

Would love to hear your journey- how and when did she become a hotwife, etc.

[Long Lurker 34]

It’s February 14/Valentine’s Day.

My wife’s new boyfriend called me yesterday to inform me that my wife wouldn’t be around much today. She asked him if he was free, and turns out he is. This means me at home alone while they have a romantic and saucy date. He did say he might send her home with an extra “gift” for me.

My wife was the most pure and innocent person when we started dating. I never saw this coming. Couldn’t be happier.

AK
- First how did the big V-day date go?
- And could you give us the 'back story' of how you slid into HWing? These stories are always interesting.

[Allankluge]

My apologies: life gets in the way more often than I expect. I know it’s been months, but I felt I owed it to the community to reply.

V-Day: She dolled herself up and even wore makeup (she doesn’t do it for me). She was hot. Fucking hot. So I sent her out the door when the Uber (he arranged) arrived. I actually watched the innocent woman I met in high school walk out to that car with excitement because she was seeing her boyfriend. I don’t know what they did together that night (I rarely know) but I can tell you I was turned on with a slight tinge of anguish when she was gone.

When we discussed this lifestyle, she wanted me to watch, and I wanted to be there to see for myself. Suddenly this passive and demure woman decided that she wanted to do this on her own with me back at home. We planned a shared experience, and suddenly she changed it to her enjoying “new things” alone leaving me home to deal with it.

Those nights were tough to bear, and I got used to experiencing both anguish and arousal. Cleaning and reclaiming made it better for me. This was different. He was the one who told me that my wife was his that day, but after she left, I remember thinking that she wouldn’t have left if she didn’t want to. It was a mutual decision to leave high and dry while they had plenty of fun. At that point, I was wondering if this decision to make her a hotwife was terrible judgment.

Sorry. I need to go to bed. I have to be somewhere With too little sleep.

[Allankluge]

I wanted to finish the date. He came in her several times, and he bought he a pair of panties that would hold his cum in. She came home leaking and dripping, even with the new panties. That was his “gift” to me.

[Allankluge]

I wanted to finish the date. He came in her several times, and he bought he a pair of panties that would hold his cum in. She came home leaking and dripping, even with the new panties. That was his “gift” to me.

[Long Lurker 34]

My apologies: life gets in the way more often than I expect. I know it’s been months, but I felt I owed it to the community to reply.

V-Day: She dolled herself up and even wore makeup (she doesn’t do it for me). She was hot. Fucking hot. So I sent her out the door when the Uber (he arranged) arrived. I actually watched the innocent woman I met in high school walk out to that car with excitement because she was seeing her boyfriend. I don’t know what they did together that night (I rarely know) but I can tell you I was turned on with a slight tinge of anguish when she was gone.

When we discussed this lifestyle, she wanted me to watch, and I wanted to be there to see for myself. Suddenly this passive and demure woman decided that she wanted to do this on her own with me back at home. We planned a shared experience, and suddenly she changed it to her enjoying “new things” alone leaving me home to deal with it.

Those nights were tough to bear, and I got used to experiencing both anguish and arousal. Cleaning and reclaiming made it better for me. This was different. He was the one who told me that my wife was his that day, but after she left, I remember thinking that she wouldn’t have left if she didn’t want to. It was a mutual decision to leave high and dry while they had plenty of fun. At that point, I was wondering if this decision to make her a hotwife was terrible judgment.

Sorry. I need to go to bed. I have to be somewhere With too little sleep.

AK
- Seeing as she all dolled up, do you know if they do public vanilla dates too?
- Generally it takes some time, based on what I see here at OHW, for HW's to go the BF route. Can you relate her journey to her's.
- How long have the two of you been doing this?
- What caused the change?

[Allankluge]

Several of you have asked about our situation/arrangement. They have recurring themes: How did we get here? What does our situation look like now? There are more specific questions.

How did we get here?

Well it started with a fantasy for me of watching a man with a much bigger cock inside her. She’s quiet and reserved, and I wondered if the extra size/skill would make her more expressive. Our sex was good; I just wondered what her pleasure ceiling was.

I started introducing the idea when we were intimate. She was turned on by it. Her voice, her moans, and her wetness told me it aroused her. The sexy talk progressed to the point where I made it clear I would love to watch her fuck another man. That idea took a while to settle. Then we seemed to get more interested/serious as time went on. We were getting close to the searching/interview step. It kind of slowed down at that point.

It all changed one night when she met her friends at a honky-tonk bar in our area. Months earlier she got a pair of cowboy/cowgirl boots, and they worked quite well up in the air as I was pounding her.

We live in a metro area larger than say the Quad Cities or Chattanooga, TN, but smaller than the huge spots like NYC, Chicago , Atlanta, Dallas, Houston, Denver, DC, Boston, etc. She loves line dancing and the C&W scene, and while I like the music, going to a honky tonk is not something I would choose. 

To be continued.

[Allankluge]

I’ll never forget that night her friends picked her up. Wifey (let’s call her J) was wearing the boots with boot-cut jeans. Her ass was luscious. She had on a long sleeve Western-style shirt: no fringe, no big belt buckle, no cowboy hat. (All of which are sexy AF.) I’d seen her wearing something similar, and once I got her out of the outfit, it was quite hot and fun. However, something seemed different that night. (I do remember her walking out the door thinking… Tap that.)

J was not driving that night; that matters. It was a Saturday night in Fall/Spring where it’s cool enough to wear jeans and a long-sleeve shirt. I wasn’t there, but she and her friends tell me the place was packed. J is a bourbon girl, and she ordered a Kentucky Mule (her main go-to: bourbon, ginger beer and a lime). Once she finished the first one (10-15 minutes), one of her friends bought her another. There are conflicting reports, but her friends recall one of them buying a third Kentucky Mule.

[Bloomincpl]

And? ...AND?

[MarknSusan]

Susan, me and one of her old FWB from many years ago (>30 years ago) had an interesting Valentine’s Day experience a few years ago.

I had never met him, but Susan had been communicating and talking with him on the phone for a couple years. She told me that back in the day he was the best sex she had ever had and wanted to hook up with him again.

They finally got together for the night at 5 star resort. I dropped her off and was was planning on picking her up in the morning, but he unexpectedly (he’s a very vanilla guy) offered to drive her home on Valentine’s Day.

I met him for the first time when he arrived at our home around noon. Susan had a glow about her when she walked into the home and he followed her carrying her suitcase. He was a very professional gentleman and when he got in our home he looked me in the eyes, shaked my hand and just said “thank you”.

After he left, Susan gave me all the details on what they did. Needless to say, Susan and I were on each other for the rest of Valentine’s Day!

Oh..something worth noting. He had gotten out of a long term relationship with a gal and we both think it was kind of a therapy session for him.

[Allankluge]

I’m really busy with work, so I’ll do my best to keep this moving along.

One of the reasons J likes going to C&W bars is to line dance. No fucking way I’m line dancing! I did watch her once or twice before and the joy in her face was priceless. It was special enough to accompany her to a honky tonk just to se her light up. I did that a few times, but over time it became a girl’s/ladie’s night thing. They would all take turns driving; there were usually 4-8 so it was a good rotation.

J already had 3 drinks in her, and she was on the floor line dancing. I wasn’t there, but her friends noticed how she moved differently. It was smoother, less inhibited, and sexy enough to draw attention. While not completely out of character, she seemed more relaxed and more confident. The line dancing session ended so people could unwind and come back later. She went back to their table, had a couple of sips of her beverage, and went outside to get some cool, fresh air. She went outside as one person, but came back in as someone else. 



To be continued…

[Allankluge]

Nice Valentine’s Day that year, MarknSusan.

[MarknSusan]

Nice Valentine’s Day that year, MarknSusan.

Yes it was!

[Allankluge]

Sorry for breaking this up. Once again, I’m in the middle of a huge project at work which prevents me from writing a ton at once.

Moving on: J was outside, just getting some fresh air. And there were probably about... five to eight other people just trying to cool off. Slowly, people made their way in. There were three left, her, this guy and another woman smoking. This guy comes over and starts talking to her. He talks to her quietly, so the third person can’t hear. This is easy if you stay away from the smoke as a reason to keep distance. He starts telling her how beautiful she was, and how sexy she looked when she was dancing. And he kept on laying on the charm. He laid on the charm to the point where she started to like him. He was accomplished, of decent means, and seemed like a stand-up guy. She began feeling a slight attraction to him as their conversation continued.

He began to hit on J (gently and coyly) after a minute or two. She thought, “why is he being so nice to me?” After all, the last person to hit on her was me in high school. This was a new experience. He suggested they go back in and join the fun happening in the bar.

J stopped by her friend’s table, got her drink, and excused herself for a bit. He had a table on the other side of the room. Since the large bar was in the middle, her friends could not see her and this guy. He knew it as well, and introduced himself as Adam. It started with small talk, and it moved on from there…

To be continued…

[CanadianStag]

Great thread, keeps me wanting more! Haha

[MarknSusan]

Looking forward to this story unfold!

[venus-can99]

Looking forward to hearing about J and Adam.

[Allankluge]

Just after they sat down, he saw her wedding ring, and asked the obvious question: “are you married?” (Answer: I am.) He asked her to briefly explain her/our history. J went back to us dating in HS, getting married young, our three kids, and how we are still married 30+ years later.

She asked for his story. He’s 42, never married, has a nice and very-well-paying job. He is OK being alone for the most part, but he still needs to get together with women to feel complete. After J pried, he admitted that he didn’t always have a long-term girlfriend, but wasn’t hopping around too much. Curious, she asked what types of women he sees and gets together with. How old are they, general “types,” stuff like that. After telling J most of it, he ended it with, “more than a few of my longer flings were with married women.”

J asked what his age range was for married women. He replied, “my age plus/minus 12 or so.” She did the math: 42 + 12 = 54.

Her next words were, “I would fall in that range.”

“You would?”, he replied.

Jokingly, she said “Barely. I do now, but I won’t after my birthday in 5 weeks.”

His reply was rather forward. “In 5 weeks it goes up to 13 years.”

To be continued…

[Allankluge]

I know it’s in chunks, but I only have so much time in the day. Sorry…

[Bloomincpl]

No worries We're following along!