Wife fallen in love with close friend

[cuck88]

Has anyone experienced a hotwife/poly situation where wife falls in love bull/partner

[rypmar7]

My wife and my best friend fell madly in love with each other after thy had been fucking for a while. For about 18 months, she was really his and I only saw her about once a week. Because I knew that they did not want to break up our marriage, I encouraged them to push their feelings even further. It was the hottest thing I have ever experienced and was jerking off several times a day as a result. It eventually ran its course and things settled down again, but watching my wife fall in love with someone else was incredible!

[tn_cpl_4bull]

My wife was seeing a Bull for about 3 months, but then things ended. She later confessed to me that when she was with him, she had to keep her feelings guarded and keep her emotional defenses up. She was a bit surprised when I encouraged her to do otherwise in the future. I didn't want to cheat her of the rich, euphoric emotions she could be enjoying with a fresh romance. I think it is only normal and natural for a woman to develop some level of attachment to a man she is having sex with. So I told her that in the future, I wanted her to relax and just let whatever feelings developed to just happen, unobstructed. Whatever she felt in the heat of the moment, to just be open, and not hold back.

It is this delicious mix of cuckold angsts and mixed emotions that makes this lifestyle so intense. Just the thought of not only watching her getting properly fucked, but also seeing her being romantic and intimate and making love, is a huge turn-on. I don't claim to understand how that arouses me so much, but just accept it does, and that I relish in the pleasure of knowing she is 100% free and supported in opening herself up to another man, so there are absolutely no obstructions or barriers to her mental, emotional, or physical pleasure.

[rypmar7]

Here is our story of wife falling in love with best friend: viewtopic.php?f=8&t=41578

[troilusand]

Tn and Ryp, how do/did you cope with the possibility of her leaving you for him?

I also encouraged my wife's love with the other men in her life; and while I did NOT want her to leave me, I was fully prepare for that outcome...and it kept me RAGING HARD!!

Cressida dated her final lover for almost 2 months before deciding it was time to fuck (she was protecting him because he'd had relationship problems in the past and didn't want to hurt him if things didn't work out). Needless to say, in that time they fell deeply in love and Cress told me it was time for them to make love and consumate their relationship. HOWEVER...she told me how much she loved him and this was my one chance to stop it, for once she fucked him she was NEVER going to leave him! AND...if in the future either of us forced her to choose between us, she was going to pick the other man to stay with! Sooo, last chance to stop it...

I sent her to his house to fuck him...I was in HEAVEN!!

Troilus

[tn_cpl_4bull]

Her choosing to leave me has never been an option. She it 100% satisfied with our life together, and loves me even more, in that I let her explore her sexual freedom. And love that she would develop for a Bull/Boyfriend would be a lesser degree of love than we have. That is because it is based on lust and companionship. But a marital love goes so much deeper. It is based on lust, companionship, finances, support, life experiences, children, common interests, past histories, etc.

We also take common sense steps to make sure I am regularly involved in their interactions. Of the times I have read about couples having a wife leave the husband, these seem to have either been problematic marriages to begin with, too much excluding of the husband, and doing things behind the husband's back. So we do everything in the open with no secrets. That isn't to say that she hasn't enjoyed a few alone times with a Bull. But that is very much a rarity. For the most part, I have been right there in the bedroom, in the cuck chair or on my knees, serving in my role as a submissive cuckold to facilitate their pleasure. Even in my cuck role, I am still the husband and the Bull is still just a guest in our home.

[Cuck_Steve]

My wife has been in a relationship with one of our close friends for 8 years. She’s in love with him and when she first told me, the fear was she was about to leave.

She told me was in love with me as much as ever and never wants us to seperate, but the thought of her leaving me for him still crosses my mind (It makes me so hard thinking about it but know I wouldn’t want her to for real)

[cuck88]

My wife has been in a relationship with one of our close friends for 8 years. She’s in love with him and when she first told me, the fear was she was about to leave.

She told me was in love with me as much as ever and never wants us to seperate, but the thought of her leaving me for him still crosses my mind (It makes me so hard thinking about it but know I wouldn’t want her to for real)

Would you accept it if she did leave you?

[Cuck_Steve]

My wife has been in a relationship with one of our close friends for 8 years. She’s in love with him and when she first told me, the fear was she was about to leave.

She told me was in love with me as much as ever and never wants us to seperate, but the thought of her leaving me for him still crosses my mind (It makes me so hard thinking about it but know I wouldn’t want her to for real)

Would you accept it if she did leave you?

Not much I could do to stop her. I’d obviously be devastated but I’d just need to accept her choice.

[hwc]

I did have a friend fall in love with my wife. Although my wife thought my friend, who became a mutual friend, was a gentleman and 'lovely', she never did fall for him back. He had been through a divorce and we definitely helped him through this time. He confessed to me that he had fallen for my wife one night while we we're drinking and I wasn't in the least bit shocked however, as it was kind of obvious to me (being a man!), my wife on the other hand mistook all of his doey-eyed fawning and attention as "just being friendly".

I enjoyed getting my wife to dress more sexily around him and encouraged her to tease him, which she did in many ways. He asked if it was okay to take her out for meals and even to concerts (not overnight) and as my wife was cofortable to do this as she genuinely enjoyed his company, I was all for it and enjoyed the situation, particularly as it was all approached by the three of us as completely 'normal' - which made it even better.

I wanted to enjoy jealousy and angst but as my wife said she could not fall in love with him and it was just fun, that kinda nipped that in the bud.

One thing that stood out in my mind, was after winning and dinning her one evening and they had returned to our home, she stood in front of both of us, she turned towards him,thanked him for a lovely evening and planted a slower than 'friendly peck' on his mouth and then looked at me for reaction.
My reaction was neutral. Again, the treating it all as normal made it so much better and I really don't know who enjoyed the evening better out of the three of us!

This was repeated many times, until eventually the friend moved away.

[Harleyriders99]

I'm pretty sure my wife is falling for her current boyfriend. I'm not concerned because I know she loves me too.

[ucaneffher]

Has anyone experienced a hotwife/poly situation where wife falls in love bull/partner

In our hotwife/cuck relationship, about 4 years into the lifestyle and after her sleeping with nearly 2 dozen men, she fell for the one kind and sensitive friend who didn't treat her like an object or a slut. There was a point where she was "hanging out" with him probably 5 days a week and she confessed she was falling for him. She told me that both he and her had been calling each other secret BF and secret GF. It was their secret but they considered each other that. She asked me if I would be upset if she wanted more and could actually have him as a boyfriend. I gave her my blessings and told her that she didn't have to hold back.

Well, she was ecstatic and in no time she gave me the news that they were official. Soon after that my girlfriend was now gone 7 days a week, literally every single day she was at her boyfriend's place as if she wasn't there already enough. She'd get out of work around 5pm, roughly by 6pm-7pm at latest he'd be outside picking her up and she would often get home between 12am-2am every single day.

Their relationship grew stronger. She soon made me use condoms while he always finished in her but that only lasted one or two sessions because she told me she actually wanted her boyfriend to be the one to make her orgasm plus it felt wrong cheating on him with me.

As the months and years passed, her boyfriend became more and more of her partner while I became less. We were still together, still loved each other, still had sex after nearly a year of her being reserved only for him but she eventually allowed me in again. I was still her man but she made him her primary. I was steadily seeing her less, having sex with her less, I was no longer in her social media, and he had 98% replaced me in all social outings with our friends. He was officially her plus one for weddings.

I watched her belong to him like this for nearly 4 years. She liked being his, hell even I liked watching her being his but the jealousy hot the best of me. She had no intention of leaving me but she certainly wasn't leaving him either. She wanted him to be her primary and I wasn't ready for that in my 20s. Today might be a different story.

[ucaneffher]

Has anyone experienced a hotwife/poly situation where wife falls in love bull/partner

In our hotwife/cuck relationship, about 4 years into the lifestyle and after her sleeping with nearly 2 dozen men, she fell for the one kind and sensitive friend who didn't treat her like an object or a slut. There was a point where she was "hanging out" with him probably 5 days a week and she confessed she was falling for him. She told me that both he and her had been calling each other secret BF and secret GF. It was their secret but they considered each other that. She asked me if I would be upset if she wanted more and could actually have him as a boyfriend. I gave her my blessings and told her that she didn't have to hold back.

Well, she was ecstatic and in no time she gave me the news that they were official. Soon after that my girlfriend was now gone 7 days a week, literally every single day she was at her boyfriend's place as if she wasn't there already enough. She'd get out of work around 5pm, roughly by 6pm-7pm at latest he'd be outside picking her up and she would often get home between 12am-2am every single day.

Their relationship grew stronger. She soon made me use condoms while he always finished in her but that only lasted one or two sessions because she told me she actually wanted her boyfriend to be the one to make her orgasm plus it felt wrong cheating on him with me.

As the months and years passed, her boyfriend became more and more of her partner while I became less. We were still together, still loved each other, still had sex after nearly a year of her being reserved only for him but she eventually allowed me in again. I was still her man but she made him her primary. I was steadily seeing her less, having sex with her less, I was no longer in her social media, and he had 98% replaced me in all social outings with our friends. He was officially her plus one for weddings.

I watched her belong to him like this for nearly 4 years. She liked being his, hell even I liked watching her being his but the jealousy hot the best of me. She had no intention of leaving me but she certainly wasn't leaving him either. She wanted him to be her primary and I wasn't ready for that in my early 20s. Today might be a different story, I actually would lean towards my current partner finding a boyfriend and turning me into her secondary partner while her boyfriend takes over.

[Bull4Oldrwives]

It is my experience that when a courageous husband gives her emotional and sexual freedom to explore within the safe cocoon of her marriage wonderful things can happen. When a wife can experience a no limits relationship with the loving support of her husband, her love for her husband actually deepens. Yes, it changes but the depth of trust and love that the couple experience is a renewal of their bond. So, it rarely results in the wife leaving the husband. Additionally, a responsible Bull will reiterate that mush of the intensity the wife feels for the Bull is because of the uniqueness of the wife-lover relationship especially when the wife-lover-cuck relationship has evolved into a marital Triad. After all, the triangle is one the strongest structures on the planet.

[ucaneffher]

It is my experience that when a courageous husband gives her emotional and sexual freedom to explore within the safe cocoon of her marriage wonderful things can happen. When a wife can experience a no limits relationship with the loving support of her husband, her love for her husband actually deepens. Yes, it changes but the depth of trust and love that the couple experience is a renewal of their bond. So, it rarely results in the wife leaving the husband. Additionally, a responsible Bull will reiterate that mush of the intensity the wife feels for the Bull is because of the uniqueness of the wife-lover relationship especially when the wife-lover-cuck relationship has evolved into a marital Triad. After all, the triangle is one the strongest structures on the planet.

Never consciously thought of it this way but you are absolutely right. Looking back at all those years where my girlfriend was sexually exclusive or near sexually exclusive to her boyfriend and very much emotionally invested to the point of us both considering him her actual partner while I backed off more and more to give them space.. She always displayed unconditional love for me even if she was physically making love to him instead of me.

She never made me feel like she was going to leave to leave me and she reassured me that she wasn't going anywhere despite him already officially and publicly being her partner. Over two years of him sexually, emotionally, and publicly claiming my girlfriend for himself and her not holding back nor denying that she was his/wanted to be his but I still received love from her always, even if we both understood that he was now her actual main partner.

The problem here is that both her and I were on the same page. We both understood and accepted that he was her man but he was not in on the plan and he was genuinely competing with me for her. For this to ever work , all three parties need to be on the same page. If he would've been willing to share a tiny bit of her with me, I would've been more than happy to see him become her main partner in the long term.

[Natatude]

I fell in love with ours, I started having feelings for him about 3 years in. When Grizzly and I made the rules before we started, one was I could have feelings, however I was not allowed to leave him. So I made that promise to him.

So you know, I call our partner “Sugar”. Well Grizzly works many many hours, so I am home a lot by myself just me and our daughter. So when he allowed me to pick our 3rd in the bedroom, I picked Sugar. So we invited him to a get together at our house one thing lead to another and we ended up in the bedroom. So about 6 months later we asked him again and he said yes so we told him what we wanted. He was all in! 🥰 he is a single guy, so easy for him. And he loves concerts and vacations and wants a partner so we do those things. We were the best of friends.
And then one day we were in bed all 3 of
Us and I was so emotional, I realized I have the best of
Both worlds. A husband and a boyfriend. I told them
I loved them both and I wanted this forever. I
Love Grizzly so much but I also love sugar so much too. We kind of live a poly relationship without living together. I could never live without my husband I don’t want too, and as much as I love sugar if he passed I’d be heartbroken but could still live, if that makes sense. Hubby and I have been married 37 years, and Sugar has been with us for 30 years. He knows all of my family and other friends, they just know him as my best friend and I do things with him because he’s a single guy and has no one else. I’d love for us all 3 to live in my house together. Grizzly works afternoons shifts and all weekends 7 days a week. Sugar works day shift weekdays. It would be the perfect life! However I am scared my parents will find out and I’d never want to disappoint them like that they are 75 and 79.

Getting back to the love subject, I always havre to have some kind of emotional feeling toward the person to be able
To have sex. So I chat with them a month at least before
Make a sex date. I can be good friends with them and just have sex. I’ve only felt the love for sugar besides my hubby. So your wife will never live anyone more than she
Loves you!! 🥰

[Hot4mywife]

Here is our story of wife falling in love with best friend: viewtopic.php?f=8&t=41578

After all these years of seeing your beautiful wife I had no idea that she had fallen in love with a lover. It makes your relationship even hotter. Thank you for sharing.

[Hot4mywife]

My wife was seeing a Bull for about 3 months, but then things ended. She later confessed to me that when she was with him, she had to keep her feelings guarded and keep her emotional defenses up. She was a bit surprised when I encouraged her to do otherwise in the future. I didn't want to cheat her of the rich, euphoric emotions she could be enjoying with a fresh romance. I think it is only normal and natural for a woman to develop some level of attachment to a man she is having sex with. So I told her that in the future, I wanted her to relax and just let whatever feelings developed to just happen, unobstructed. Whatever she felt in the heat of the moment, to just be open, and not hold back.

It is this delicious mix of cuckold angsts and mixed emotions that makes this lifestyle so intense. Just the thought of not only watching her getting properly fucked, but also seeing her being romantic and intimate and making love, is a huge turn-on. I don't claim to understand how that arouses me so much, but just accept it does, and that I relish in the pleasure of knowing she is 100% free and supported in opening herself up to another man, so there are absolutely no obstructions or barriers to her mental, emotional, or physical pleasure.

Such a trusting loving marriage. Thanks for sharing your story.

[Tryagain]

Has anyone experienced a hotwife/poly situation where wife falls in love bull/partner

In our hotwife/cuck relationship, about 4 years into the lifestyle and after her sleeping with nearly 2 dozen men, she fell for the one kind and sensitive friend who didn't treat her like an object or a slut. There was a point where she was "hanging out" with him probably 5 days a week and she confessed she was falling for him. She told me that both he and her had been calling each other secret BF and secret GF. It was their secret but they considered each other that. She asked me if I would be upset if she wanted more and could actually have him as a boyfriend. I gave her my blessings and told her that she didn't have to hold back.

Well, she was ecstatic and in no time she gave me the news that they were official. Soon after that my girlfriend was now gone 7 days a week, literally every single day she was at her boyfriend's place as if she wasn't there already enough. She'd get out of work around 5pm, roughly by 6pm-7pm at latest he'd be outside picking her up and she would often get home between 12am-2am every single day.

Their relationship grew stronger. She soon made me use condoms while he always finished in her but that only lasted one or two sessions because she told me she actually wanted her boyfriend to be the one to make her orgasm plus it felt wrong cheating on him with me.

As the months and years passed, her boyfriend became more and more of her partner while I became less. We were still together, still loved each other, still had sex after nearly a year of her being reserved only for him but she eventually allowed me in again. I was still her man but she made him her primary. I was steadily seeing her less, having sex with her less, I was no longer in her social media, and he had 98% replaced me in all social outings with our friends. He was officially her plus one for weddings.

I watched her belong to him like this for nearly 4 years. She liked being his, hell even I liked watching her being his but the jealousy hot the best of me. She had no intention of leaving me but she certainly wasn't leaving him either. She wanted him to be her primary and I wasn't ready for that in my early 20s. Today might be a different story, I actually would lean towards my current partner finding a boyfriend and turning me into her secondary partner while her boyfriend takes over.

Can you describe how it all ended?

[kellycuckoldsmark]

Of the many men Kelly has slept with, she has only fallen in love - her words - with one. Very early in the lifestyle we ended up with her best friends parents (long story not for this thread). We swapped for a while before they became the couple and me and his wife the friends. We went on dates initially all together and then they would go out while the wife and I hung out at home.

Initially it was infatuation, the risk and kink of it being her best friends dad (also really good friends with her parents). After about a year they were very much a couple. He would see her at least 2-3 nights a week. We would often spend weekends at their house and she would be his all weekend even with his wife and I around, they would spend nights in the same bed and drive to other towns to go on dates.

Her infatuation turned to love in the second year. She enjoys sex with him but she enjoys sex with lots of people over the years but she says it is totally different with him. They still see each other 2-3x a year and she says that they make love.

I think early on she could have had her head turned to potentially have a life with him but that was never on the cards. He loved fucking a friend of his daughters who was cute and fit. It took him a little longer to go from great sex/taboo thrill to loving her - she thinks probably 4 years in - but then her dates, nights/weekends away with him took on a whole new level. So given their separate emotional journey our marriage was never at risk and I really enjoy how different she is when she is with him or has a date with him coming up.

He's in his mid 70's now and takes the blue pill to keep up with her but is clearly deeply in love with him. Bodes well for my old age!