Poll: If your wife or girlfriend had a(nother) boyfriend, would you want him to share her with other men?

When a fuck buddy becomes something more.

If your wife or girlfriend had a(nother) boyfriend, would you want him to share her with other men?

Definitely
51
47%
Definitely, if I have veto power
8
7%
Probably
16
15%
Probably, if I have veto power
3
3%
Maybe
14
13%
Probably not
7
6%
Definitely not
10
9%
 
Total votes: 109

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Re: Poll: If your wife or girlfriend had a(nother) boyfriend, would you want him to share her with other men?

Unread post by Harleyriders99 »

My wife does have a boyfriend. He's told her he could never share her. I'd be fine with it if he did and she wanted to.
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Re: Poll: If your wife or girlfriend had a(nother) boyfriend, would you want him to share her with other men?

Unread post by Her number1 »

For us, it would come down to what she wants. Were she excited about it, I would be excited for her and us.
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Unread post by Experimenti3 »

My wife is in a steady relationship with her lover for the last 10 years now. Time after time he likes to share her, and we support him in that.
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Unread post by GenerallySpeaking »

Why is this MY decision if we are polyamorous? I want what she wants. She has full reign to do what she wants and if that's being shared by another man, it's her choice.
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Re: Poll: If your wife or girlfriend had a(nother) boyfriend, would you want him to share her with other men?

Unread post by SquirmingSub »

In our dynamic we tend to have an closed exclusive arrangement were they are the exclusive sexual partners, although if the boyfriend and the wife wanted to explore being with others, I believe that it would be their decision to make.
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Unread post by isinlarsa »

My wife had a young black boyfriend, almost half her age. She asked him to share her with his friends. He said "No. You're mine." I'm not sure who was more disappointed, my wife or me. Up to this point, She never gave any indication she wanted to be shared.
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Re: Poll: If your wife or girlfriend had a(nother) boyfriend, would you want him to share her with other men?

Unread post by Mgcouplemn »

I'm into watching and masturbating while they are fucking my wife in front of me, don't really care who get the guys to fuck her, but as always I can say no.
Husband enjoys masturbating, wife enjoys giving him a good show to masturbate too, whether it's watching the wife having sex with other men or just playing with the many toys in the playroom.
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Re: Poll: If your wife or girlfriend had a(nother) boyfriend, would you want him to share her with other men?

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Wife and I have casual 3some dates with a black friend. He has experience in the lifestyle from previous years with other couples. Though not her "boyfriend", more like "our fuckbuddy", if he had opportunity to have a tryst with him and another male friend of his, I would be very into it and definitely want to be involved. Watching her with 2 guys is a definitely bucket list for me.
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Unread post by DavaoMike »

I like the fact that my wife’s boyfriend, Adam, is very possessive of her, except where I’m concerned. Both Adam and I are faithful and exclusive to my wife Maricel, and she is faithful and exclusive to us.
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Unread post by MartasBoy »

SensualDeviant wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2026 9:33 am Poll: If your wife or girlfriend had a(nother) boyfriend, would you want him to share her with other men?
My wife has made it clear to me, that whatever activities they participate in, it is between her and her boyfriend. It is not my place to say anything about it.

If she chooses to submit to the control of another man, she has made the decision to be his submissive, and do as he says.
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Unread post by cuckoldcpl4fun13 »

I have already told my husband, if my boyfriend wants to share me I would completely willing. I warned him I would be the ultimate slut for the right man. Unfortunately, I have gotten close to those feelings but not quite love yet.
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Re: Poll: If your wife or girlfriend had a(nother) boyfriend, would you want him to share her with other men?

Unread post by lovinglyours »

If my wife were to have a boyfriend, then he could do whatever she allowed.
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Re: Poll: If your wife or girlfriend had a(nother) boyfriend, would you want him to share her with other men?

Unread post by zorro »

Yes, definitely, if that is what she wanted. Sharing is caring, as long as those involved are caring.
Sharing your partner is a very loving act. Double her pleasure; double your fun.
Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."
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Re: Poll: If your wife or girlfriend had a(nother) boyfriend, would you want him to share her with other men?

Unread post by DavaoMike »

Neither my wife nor her boyfriend would want that. They are very much in love, and my wife is very faithful to me and her boyfriend, and he is totally faithful to her (as I am). Even if, hypothetically, they had some desire to bring in another guy, I would never approve unless I personally vetted the person and gave my approval.

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Re: Poll: If your wife or girlfriend had a(nother) boyfriend, would you want him to share her with other men?

Unread post by wifedateshubwaits »

It hasn’t happened in many years, but my wife went through a period where she was fulfilling many of her fantasies. This included engaging in threesomes and even a couple of moresomes that were arranged by her boyfriend(s) at the time. She enjoyed her experiences but eventually decided that she preferred one on one sexual encounters.
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