Poly household: 3 in a bed

[Tommy]

I'm curious to hear from someone in a poly household, where three of you all reside together. More specifically, where the three of you have only one bed to sleep in every night. Is the arrangement MFM or FMF? What logistics have you settled on? Do all three of you always occupy the same position? How was it decided who gets the middle? Etc. Thanks.

[atl0707]

Ours is MMF, so we both submit to our bull, and we both play with him. We have pushed together a king size and a twin bed, so we technically all sleep together. My wife is usually in the middle, though we should probably switch off so she can sleep on my side of the bed sometimes.

[Bloomincpl]

Just a theoretical response, as we're not in this sort of situation. But, I think this might apply to some people...

My wife and I sleep apart for medical reasons. More than 40% of couples over the age of 40 do. It's quite common, and doesn't mean there's anything wrong with the relationship.

I would not feel comfortable and wouldn't accept a situation where we had a poly triad such that my wife slept with her other (effectively) husband every night, and I didn't because of the medical reasons. I would constantly feel subordinate to the other husband, and I would never want that. Either one of us getting up in the middle of the night to go make love with her? Sure. Actually sleeping together? No.

[Dominix241]

Although we don’t live together, when we meet up we all sleep in the same bed with my wife in the middle. Her, sandwiched between her two men

[cuckoldcpl4fun13]

We've had FMF dynamic 3 times, all long term, and we all slept in the same bed, a king. I am Asian, as were the others, so maybe slightly easier with smaller women maybe? Anyway, I am currently with a man, my husband is a cuck and we have yet to share a bed with another guy.

[nks]

Hi, before my wife, I had an FMF relationship (just dating). We lived in the same building and visited each other's places in turn. We often slept in our places, but we also often slept in the same bed, a small double bed, or on the floor with three futon beds. Either me in the middle, or the two girls next to each other, me a bit apart. Sometimes they slept together without me, or me with one of them without the other in someone's place. But our apartments were like a minute apart. The double bed was space-wise very tight... but worth it. We were young. We did not have threesome sex though, because one of the girls was asexual, so it was more like talking, being close, feeling intimate by sharing a bed.

[CU4A2on1]

We're probably not truly a poly couple but she does have a 20 year, very passionate relationship with one of her FWB. She agrees with me when I describe him as her lover and say even if she's not "in live" with him, they certainly make love when together.

Anyway, on occasions where we all three are together for overnights or a weekend away, I leave that decision totally up to her. She hates the idea of two other people crowding her in bed so usually it's him with her and me nearby in the same room or even the adjacent room in an inn. I'll join them over the weekend as invited and we have a great time together in and out of the bedroom but I don't want to overly intrude on her chance to enjoy intimacy with him. It's not cuckholding in my mind, it's just him and I sharing her sexually and intimately completely equally.

We already agreed once we are full empty nesters and he can visit and stay at the house, our master bedroom is hers to utilize with me and her lover equally with no jealousy or drama.

[ucaneffher]

While I wouldn't participate in any contact with the other man, I wouldn't be opposed to one large bed and all sleeping together, especially if it means watching them together or even having an mfm threesome at some point.

Personally I'd like a more cuckold oriented poly relationship where my wife has her primary man living with us. He takes over my bedroom, takes over my role as the husband/man of the house, and I'm placed in a guest room where I sleep alone and can I hear my wife making love to him from the darkness of my room at night. I'd rather see them openly be the couple inside of our home.

I'd like to know what it feels like to have a man completely claim my wife and seeing her also wanting to give herself to him and all in front of me with little to no holding back.