My foray into hotwifing
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Just found this thread. Love it!! Thanks for sharing
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Thanks Hawthorne
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Same here. Just discovered this. Hope you continue to write!
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Thanks. We're moving into the next phase soon. I am trying to figure out when and how to propose. Whether it should be something creative, or apropos to our kink, or not. We are functioning quite well at the moment between the two of us and our +1.CloseCouple wrote: Sun Feb 01, 2026 6:03 am Same here. Just discovered this. Hope you continue to write!
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Sounds like you guys are having a lot of fun. We have really enjoyed the story. Hope to hear more.
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Thanks Tom. We have a lot of fun with our kink and I enjoy watching her become more confident in her dealings with other men we meet out in the world. Even if it's just an innocuous chat with no flirting, we've talked about it and both of us agree it's an enjoyable thing to do because of the possibility for things to progress even a small bit.KentuckyTom17 wrote: Mon Apr 13, 2026 7:05 am Sounds like you guys are having a lot of fun. We have really enjoyed the story. Hope to hear more.
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I also just noticed this thread - really enjoyed your origin story - and well written also! I related - as unlike many members here, I did not fantasize about having a hotwife for years (as you apparently did not either). My (younger) wife asked me to open the marriage so she could have a poly boy friend (an old college bf). I initially hated the idea of her having sex with another man - but finally consented as I am a dozen years older and could understand her desire to be with a younger man sometimes (even though our sex was great). However, to my surprise, I came to appreciate the hotness of her having sex with a "young stud" - first by her simply telling me about her adventures in graphic detail - to me listening in - and eventually to a threesome with another man who became her new poly bf - resulting in occasional threesomes - but more often me just watching - and sometimes fluffing her by going down on her to lube her up for her bf. He and I do not play - just focus on her - and while I have not touched his cock to guide him in, I have held her pussy lips open for him.
I was especially impressed that she just picked up the phone and called Dave and invited him over to fuck her while you watch! Sounds like you guys are having a great time! Hope all continues to go well and you consider the next step.
I was especially impressed that she just picked up the phone and called Dave and invited him over to fuck her while you watch! Sounds like you guys are having a great time! Hope all continues to go well and you consider the next step.
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Thanks for the feedback, Dave. She can be very assertive when she wants.DaveS wrote: Wed Apr 22, 2026 11:21 am I also just noticed this thread - really enjoyed your origin story - and well written also! I related - as unlike many members here, I did not fantasize about having a hotwife for years (as you apparently did not either). My (younger) wife asked me to open the marriage so she could have a poly boy friend (an old college bf). I initially hated the idea of her having sex with another man - but finally consented as I am a dozen years older and could understand her desire to be with a younger man sometimes (even though our sex was great). However, to my surprise, I came to appreciate the hotness of her having sex with a "young stud" - first by her simply telling me about her adventures in graphic detail - to me listening in - and eventually to a threesome with another man who became her new poly bf - resulting in occasional threesomes - but more often me just watching - and sometimes fluffing her by going down on her to lube her up for her bf. He and I do not play - just focus on her - and while I have not touched his cock to guide him in, I have held her pussy lips open for him.
I was especially impressed that she just picked up the phone and called Dave and invited him over to fuck her while you watch! Sounds like you guys are having a great time! Hope all continues to go well and you consider the next step.
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So the newest development is yesterday, Kelley told me she wants to go to our HOA pool this weekend for the annual opening. She will be taking Dave and also invited me to go with. I found myself a little offended by the fact that she simply invited me to tag along rather than asking me how I felt about her having a date not only in public, but likely with lots of people, many of whom know us and will know immediately that she is a hotwife. I was actually a little upset but felt like I hid it well. I asked her "Will you be flirting and kissing him?" Her answer was sarcastic. "There might be a little fooling around but it's not like he's going to bend me over in the pool or anything" of course accompanied by a beautiful smile.
I was actually more concerned that she might know I was upset than that she had plans to out us for sure to people who probably don't yet know. So I quickly told her I'd love to go with and ask what she would be wearing. She decided on the spot we should go shopping for a swimsuit for her. So we piled into the car and did just that! She ended up getting 4 suits. 2 1-pieces, a bikini, and another that was a 2 piece but looked a lot like shorts and a cute black shirt with pink flowers but apparently was actually a swimsuit. Anyway though she asked me several times what I thought Dave might like, and I gave honest answers. The bikini she got was my suggestion. She has lost weight over the last year and the bikini is not a stretch imo although she said she probably isn't ready to wear it just yet. Of course in my mind I'm already fantasizing about Dave bending her over in the bikini. My worries about being outed seem a distant memory but will probably be some nerves tomorrow when we go.
I was actually more concerned that she might know I was upset than that she had plans to out us for sure to people who probably don't yet know. So I quickly told her I'd love to go with and ask what she would be wearing. She decided on the spot we should go shopping for a swimsuit for her. So we piled into the car and did just that! She ended up getting 4 suits. 2 1-pieces, a bikini, and another that was a 2 piece but looked a lot like shorts and a cute black shirt with pink flowers but apparently was actually a swimsuit. Anyway though she asked me several times what I thought Dave might like, and I gave honest answers. The bikini she got was my suggestion. She has lost weight over the last year and the bikini is not a stretch imo although she said she probably isn't ready to wear it just yet. Of course in my mind I'm already fantasizing about Dave bending her over in the bikini. My worries about being outed seem a distant memory but will probably be some nerves tomorrow when we go.
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Really enjoyed reading your origin story and am looking forward to reading more of your adventures.
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Thank you for the account. You are living the dream. May you figure out as time goes by what you want from it.
You have a brave and confident wife to make what she wants happen.
That is an inspiration.
You have a brave and confident wife to make what she wants happen.
That is an inspiration.
Sharing your partner is a very loving act. Double her pleasure; double your fun.
Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."
Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."
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Thanks for the comments. Things are going well with us. The three of us went to the HOA pool a few weeks ago and had fun. We got there early and there was only a few kids at first so I took some pics of the two of them having fun and more or less conducting themselves like a couple. I found myself getting hard at one point. We'll probably be going back again very soon!
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I just discovered this thread and found it incredibly interesting. I'm especially glad that everyone involved is happy. Unfortunately, I don't see my wife with her steady lover (of 16 years) who she meets 3-5 days a week. I'd like some information if you don't mind.
Is Dave exclusive with Kelly? If so, how often do they meet? Does the sexual frequency meet Kelly's needs? When you three go out, do they seem like a couple and you're the third? David and Kelly, do they go out as a couple? Are you two discussing the future of your relationship? I understand that you still sleep in separate rooms. Did you propose to her? I assume that if she accepts, it will be on her terms.
Feel free not to answer my questions if you think they are intrusive.
I will continue to monitor the development of your relationship.
Please continue to keep us informed.
Is Dave exclusive with Kelly? If so, how often do they meet? Does the sexual frequency meet Kelly's needs? When you three go out, do they seem like a couple and you're the third? David and Kelly, do they go out as a couple? Are you two discussing the future of your relationship? I understand that you still sleep in separate rooms. Did you propose to her? I assume that if she accepts, it will be on her terms.
Feel free not to answer my questions if you think they are intrusive.
I will continue to monitor the development of your relationship.
Please continue to keep us informed.
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Stacy1958 wrote: Wed Jun 10, 2026 2:38 pm I just discovered this thread and found it incredibly interesting. I'm especially glad that everyone involved is happy. Unfortunately, I don't see my wife with her steady lover (of 16 years) who she meets 3-5 days a week. I'd like some information if you don't mind.
Is Dave exclusive with Kelly? If so, how often do they meet? Does the sexual frequency meet Kelly's needs? When you three go out, do they seem like a couple and you're the third? David and Kelly, do they go out as a couple? Are you two discussing the future of your relationship? I understand that you still sleep in separate rooms. Did you propose to her? I assume that if she accepts, it will be on her terms.
Feel free not to answer my questions if you think they are intrusive.
I will continue to monitor the development of your relationship.
Please continue to keep us informed.
Hello Stacy1958 and thanks for your interest in my thread.
Dave is not exclusive with Kelley. He says he is only sleeping with her but we do take precautions and get tested every so often. Myself and Kelley still make love albeit I'm not nearly as good as he is, but she and I both still enjoy it. He used to come over a bit more frequently but for whatever reason the two of them have realized twice a week is their magic number. I was happy when it was scaled down to 2 a week.
We go out to dinner about once a month and she is completely devoted to him, as if he was her man, and yes I am more of a third wheel. There is some shame involved. And we have at times ran into people she or I know, and we have agreed we're not going to come out and say it's a hotwife relationship but also not going to try to cover things up when the two of them are often flirting, hugging, and kissing in public. People can put it together if they want. Of course, this all changes back to normal after he leaves and we have a very normal and loving relationship.
Yes we are going to be married soon. Our future is currently planned out as more of the same dynamic as current. Dave will be her primary sexual partner. Watching her switch to him when he comes over and tend to his needs is very naughty and we both enjoy it quite a bit.
We are now sleeping together although I still have my things in my room. Dave has never slept over but she tells me he has been showing some interest and she's not opposed to the idea.
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Dear GeevGeev wrote: Sun Jun 14, 2026 1:17 pm .....
We go out to dinner about once a month and she is completely devoted to him, as if he was her man, and yes I am more of a third wheel. There is some shame involved. And we have at times ran into people she or I know, and we have agreed we're not going to come out and say it's a hotwife relationship but also not going to try to cover things up when the two of them are often flirting, hugging, and kissing in public. People can put it together if they want. Of course, this all changes back to normal after he leaves and we have a very normal and loving relationship.
Yes we are going to be married soon. Our future is currently planned out as more of the same dynamic as current. Dave will be her primary sexual partner. Watching her switch to him when he comes over and tend to his needs is very naughty and we both enjoy it quite a bit.
We are now sleeping together although I still have my things in my room. Dave has never slept over but she tells me he has been showing some interest and she's not opposed to the idea.
I love your thread and think it is wonderful that you will soon (?) be married.
The romantic submissive in me thinks this the perfect arrangement, marrying the Lady you love while you both agree that Her Lover will remain Her primary sexpartner.
Please keep updating,
Have you made plans for when the wedding will take place?
Sincerely
elina
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Yes we're getting hitched later this year.
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Dear Geev;
You do have an opportunity that most cuckolds can only dream about. David can be your best man first at your wedding and after the reception the three of you could slip away to the wedding suite. As the groom you get carry her over the honeymoon suite threshold as David watches. Kelly starts your married relationship by her having you her cuckolded husband sit in the bridal suite and watch as David consumates the union twice that first night.
The fact that Kelly has managed to push you however reluctantly to lick her after David has come in her...I wouldn't be surprised a post wedding cream pie will be on offer with Kelly being held kissing, in David's arms in between sessions as you experience the humiliation as they good naturally tease you.
What is important is just the two of you go away and enjoy your honeymoon together and you reclaim what should be be a long and romantic life together. David is the spice not the focus of your relationship.
You do have an opportunity that most cuckolds can only dream about. David can be your best man first at your wedding and after the reception the three of you could slip away to the wedding suite. As the groom you get carry her over the honeymoon suite threshold as David watches. Kelly starts your married relationship by her having you her cuckolded husband sit in the bridal suite and watch as David consumates the union twice that first night.
The fact that Kelly has managed to push you however reluctantly to lick her after David has come in her...I wouldn't be surprised a post wedding cream pie will be on offer with Kelly being held kissing, in David's arms in between sessions as you experience the humiliation as they good naturally tease you.
What is important is just the two of you go away and enjoy your honeymoon together and you reclaim what should be be a long and romantic life together. David is the spice not the focus of your relationship.
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allways wrote: Mon Jun 29, 2026 5:49 am Dear Geev;
You do have an opportunity that most cuckolds can only dream about. David can be your best man first at your wedding and after the reception the three of you could slip away to the wedding suite. As the groom you get carry her over the honeymoon suite threshold as David watches. Kelly starts your married relationship by her having you her cuckolded husband sit in the bridal suite and watch as David consumates the union twice that first night.
The fact that Kelly has managed to push you however reluctantly to lick her after David has come in her...I wouldn't be surprised a post wedding cream pie will be on offer with Kelly being held kissing, in David's arms in between sessions as you experience the humiliation as they good naturally tease you.![]()
What is important is just the two of you go away and enjoy your honeymoon together and you reclaim what should be be a long and romantic life together. David is the spice not the focus of your relationship.
Kelley and I have talked about this briefly a while back. I don't think Dave is super interested in being in our wedding. I would love to have him as my best man but he more or less just wants to have sex with her, and once in a blue moon go out to dinner with her and me. He's not super into anything else as far as I can see. But yes I would love it if he changed his mind and then takes her sexually in the honeymoon suite, and ofc manages to get her pregnant.
As far as creampie eating I'm torn. I do find myself fascinated and turned on by the idea, but actually doing it is not something I have a lot of eagerness for, if that makes sense. But yes she has had me go down on her after Dave finished in her. I didn't lick anything up per se but could still clearly tell she wasn't freshly showered. I hope to try it again.
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Dave may not want to be best man thats not important. However if Kelly asked him to meet you both at the bridal suite after the wedding and reception I am sure he'd be happy to make the a couple of deposits and if so desired put a bun in her oven.
Have you discussed your desire with Kelly to see David impregnate her or is this your little head doing the thinking.
I doubt David would want to impregnate her. He actually sounds like a good guy he respects your relationship dynamic
As for the cream pie believe me their is nothing like cleaning up, with his deposit on your lips french kissing and sharing it with her as you kiss, slide into her and completing the reclaim. Once you go down that path she will want it every time teasing you that you want it as much as she does and she will be correct.
I doubt David would want to impregnate her. He actually sounds like a good guy he respects your relationship dynamic
As for the cream pie believe me their is nothing like cleaning up, with his deposit on your lips french kissing and sharing it with her as you kiss, slide into her and completing the reclaim. Once you go down that path she will want it every time teasing you that you want it as much as she does and she will be correct.