When the Husband and Boyfriend Don’t get along

[Mr JnJ Doe]

I posted this in the cuckold section but thought this would be a better place for it.

I have a real life situation going on right now and need some advice.

My situations is my wife has a boyfriend, but me and boyfriend do not get along. I often hear examples where everyone gets along well, but I’m wondering about the cases where they don't.

Has anyone experienced a situation where the two men had tension, jealousy, personality clashes, or just couldn’t build a comfortable relationship? What happened, and how did you handle it? Did you set boundaries, reduce contact, work through it, or did the relationship dynamic eventually change?”

Thanks in advance.

[Jaylatino83]

I’m not familiar with poly that much but the husband should always be first, if you two are not getting along and she is refusing to let him go, then your marriage is dying and fast. This is the danger of poly relationships it has a very low success rate.

[MartasBoy]

There was one guy my wife played with briefly. I wasn't very comfortable with him. But I think it was because he was dominant, and didn't have a lot of respect for me, because of how submissive I am.

My wife has always made it clear, when we agreed to this, that she got to play on her terms. He enjoyed my wife sexually, but mostly treated me like I did not exist.