My wife

[Artucus]

Not really sure where to post this so if it is in the wrong forum I apologize. So me and my wife have been discussing her being a hotwife. She informs me that she is not beautiful enough to be a hotwife. I compliment her all the time. She gets hit on a lot. I am not sure what to do. How can I convince her she is.

[BallSpanking]

Make her a profile on Feeld or Ashley Madison, and let the offers pour in ...
There is nothing like objective evidence to change her mind.

[Fox]

We are no longer in the LS unfortunately but my wife said the same thing. I convinced her to let me post a few pics here in the hotties section. No face, just body. When the dozens of compliments rolled in it peaked her interest and it took off from there.

[Artucus]

: thank you so much for the ideas. I surely appreciate it.

[MartasBoy]

Not really sure where to post this so if it is in the wrong forum I apologize. So me and my wife have been discussing her being a hotwife. She informs me that she is not beautiful enough to be a hotwife. I compliment her all the time. She gets hit on a lot. I am not sure what to do. How can I convince her she is.

A long time ago, my wife thought of herself as a middle-aged married woman and no longer attractive, to a point that she could not envision herself being desirable on any dating scene.

I got her to agree to a challenge in which we both got dressed up and went out for a fancy date night together. I chose to start with drinks in the fancy cocktail lounge at a large hotel.

I asked her to go into the bar first and sit at the bar by herself, like she was there waiting for a girlfriend to come and have a drink with her. We made that her cover story, if anyone were to ask. She was sure that she would be there alone and it would never come up.

I came in several minutes behind her, and went directly to a table, some distance away, not letting on that we knew each other. There were several guys who approached her and asked if they could sit and keep her company, or buy her a drink. Finally she texted me to come and rescue her so we could go to dinner. She was amazed at how much attention she got. But, she said that the majority of them were not interesting to her. They were either men she did not find attractive, or they said stupid lines that made them not seem very interesting.

We waited a few weeks and I asked her to do it again. This time I told her to try to see if there was any guy that she found attractive and mildly interesting, somebody she would have considered going on a date with, if she were single. There were a couple of guys who bought her drinks, and one who asked if he could get her number.

There was one guy she said seemed really sweet and kind of good looking. He became the subject of our hotwife fantasy bedroom roleplay.

[Artucus]

Oh that is an awesome story. Thank you so much for sharing. I appreciate you.

[leggysman]

MartasBoy is one of the good'uns around here

[SilverStag]

Do her (and you) a favor by buying her a Boudoir photo session with a reputable photographer. It does wonders for a woman's self image to see herself as a sexual being, portrayed in the photos. (If you look at my HW, Cecil's pics here in the hotties, you will see examples of how the right photographer can bring out the sexual side of her)

[Geev]

Not really sure where to post this so if it is in the wrong forum I apologize. So me and my wife have been discussing her being a hotwife. She informs me that she is not beautiful enough to be a hotwife. I compliment her all the time. She gets hit on a lot. I am not sure what to do. How can I convince her she is.

Is it possible she's not truly interested in hotwifing and using looks as an excuse? If she's getting hit on regularly by other men, and for sure interested in hotwifing, things would seem to have a green light to progress.

[Artucus]

Well to be honest I have thought about that. But I tend to believe she just does not have self confidence in herself. I don’t think she looks her age and all of our friends say the same thing. She does get hit on often but makes up excuses why they are hitting on her and always turns it back on her self. Past relationships before me were never good except for one. Abusive mentally or and physically.