How to make my wife a hot wife

[Cuckoldmann]

Hello, I've been following the forum discussions for a long time and I'm really serious about allowing my wife to become a Hotwife.
I'll tell you a little about her:
My wife is a young Asian woman (she's only in her early 30s but looks like a recent college graduate) and is incredibly beautiful and intelligent, with a stunning figure and great success in her career at a very young age. She owns a law firm and I think she receives a lot of flirtatious advances from clients.

We've been together since she was a freshman in college and have been together for over a decade. She always radiates beauty and presents herself as a typical beautiful yet very modest Asian woman.

She's quite open with me about sex, willing to take suggestive photos of me at the office (when the other employees have left) or enjoys being touched in public.
I'm a pretty successful guy (and famous girls used to be my assistants). I own fairly large businesses at a relatively young age, and we don't have children yet.

Normally, things are pretty good with a perfect girl. But when I first met her, we started sleeping together, and she (like other Asian girls) said she was a virgin, and she really was). But her sexual skills were surprisingly good. Believe me, I'm not a sex novice, but a girl saying she's a virgin (confirmed) and has no experience with men always makes me question things.

Then, not so coincidentally, I met and started texting her ex-boyfriend back home. I learned that she actually had a very interesting sex life back home. It's true that she didn't have sex in high school, but she slept with quite a few men, including her teacher, to get a scholarship. It was all a secret, but her ex-boyfriend found pictures, and she said she was forced, but the photos make it seem like she was quite willing.

I also learned that she gave oral sex to her ex-boyfriend when she went back to her hometown (I was dating her at the time, but I hadn't lost my virginity yet, so it was definitely just oral sex). She even wore the lace dress I bought for her to do that with her ex-boyfriend. And that image and information gradually changed my thinking. Now I also want to see her being sexually aroused with other men in front of me.

I talked to her about my desire, and she initially seemed to enjoy it, teasing me, but now we're more open, and things are progressing in our dreams. I told her I dreamed she was having sex with her ex-boyfriend and I joined in, and she was extremely excited about it. Most recently, she told me about a dream where she gave me and a stranger oral sex.

I tried suggesting a yoni massage, but she doesn't seem ready yet. She said she doesn't want anyone else besides me touching her.

What should I do to make her more comfortable with the idea of ​​a threesome first, and then maybe let her have sex with a partner? She told me that she was propositioned by partners who were older than her father during a meeting at a restaurant (and her vagina was wet while she was telling me this).
Well, this is my first time sharing, so if you need more information or have any advice for me, or are in a similar situation, please let me know.
Thanks

[leggysman]

Welcome to the forum, Cuckoldmann. Glad you joined us, and it sounds like you have a promising situation budding there.

[Wantsomefunto]

Motive and opportunity, as they say.

You have to give her a mental reason to want to be a hotwife, along with getting her to sexually want to be touched, and get her out or around guys so she can develop opportunities to have sex with other men

[Cuckoldmann]

Motive and opportunity, as they say.

You have to give her a mental reason to want to be a hotwife, along with getting her to sexually want to be touched, and get her out or around guys so she can develop opportunities to have sex with other men

Thank you.
She still watches adult films by herself, and it seems we've known each other long enough for her to get bored. She's quite busy now running a business, so I've had to hire an assistant to help her with her workload. I think part of her being more open about this with me is because she knows my preferences, which makes her a great wife to respect.

She's a fairly traditional woman, but also quite intelligent (well, I mentioned her ex-boyfriend knew about her sleeping with her professor to get scholarships). I think I should give her more opportunities to talk about being a hot wife, right? She's going through a significant transition in her perspective, from a traditional girl to now being quite comfortable talking about it in private conversations. I hope those with experience can give me some guidance on how to proceed at this stage.

[luvwives999]

I asked my wife, fiancé at the time, what if I wasn't around who do you think you'd be sleeping with? She didn't hesitate to name someone which led to a lot of pillow talk fantasy scenarios which eventually led to reality, much to my delight.

[Cuckoldmann]

I asked my wife, fiancé at the time, what if I wasn't around who do you think you'd be sleeping with? She didn't hesitate to name someone which led to a lot of pillow talk fantasy scenarios which eventually led to reality, much to my delight.

Thank you very much. I also tried telling her that I dreamed she was having sex with her ex-boyfriend. She seemed quite embarrassed at first, but now she teases me, saying that her having sex with him makes me jealous. I usually say that if she did that, I would be very happy. What should I do next?

[Cuckoldmann]

Welcome to the forum, Cuckoldmann. Glad you joined us, and it sounds like you have a promising situation budding there.

Thank you very much, yes. She really did feel more comfortable talking about it. I'm looking to learn how to transform things further.

[Wantsomefunto]

Buy her something sexy to wear out and send her out for a girls night out to relax and dare her to flirt and dance with guys

[Cuckoldmann]

Buy her something sexy to wear out and send her out for a girls night out to relax and dare her to flirt and dance with guys

Hi, thank you so much for your idea. She's worn very sexy outfits since her college days. She has sexy see-through lace nightgowns, sheer cheongsams (and she's taken many sexy photos in them at the office for me), and she also has very provocative outfits. She's willing to wear them if I want.

She's also willing to play with sex toys for me, both orally and vaginally.

She's willing to let me sit on her face and lick her anus while she plays with sex toys down below. We occasionally simulate threesomes.

But that's all there is to it. I'm hoping to gain experience so she can go further and become a hot wife.

[Wantsomefunto]

Yes tell her you want her to try new guys and ask her how she would be willing to tey

[Cuckoldmann]

Yes tell her you want her to try new guys and ask her how she would be willing to tey

I think she's ready to talk about threesomes now (she said she needs me there). Just in erotic conversations, though. She's not ready for real sex yet, and I need guidance to break through this stage. She's reserved because she's busy with work and rarely has time to leave the office.
Adding a story from last night: When I walked into the bedroom, I saw her showering in a very seductive pose. The door wasn't closed, and I could "sneak" in and watch her do it. While admiring her hot body, I jokingly told her it would be even better if she gave two men a blowjob at the same time. And she mimicked giving two men a blowjob (mouth sucking and hands stroking, you know). Last night, while cuddling, she said she really hoped I watched her shower; it was a great experience from a beautiful and seductive girl.

[luvwives999]

I asked my wife, fiancé at the time, what if I wasn't around who do you think you'd be sleeping with? She didn't hesitate to name someone which led to a lot of pillow talk fantasy scenarios which eventually led to reality, much to my delight.

Thank you very much. I also tried telling her that I dreamed she was having sex with her ex-boyfriend. She seemed quite embarrassed at first, but now she teases me, saying that her having sex with him makes me jealous. I usually say that if she did that, I would be very happy. What should I do next?

Invite him to dinner, she how the evening goes, a little wine to loosen her up wouldn't hurt.

[Cuckoldmann]

I asked my wife, fiancé at the time, what if I wasn't around who do you think you'd be sleeping with? She didn't hesitate to name someone which led to a lot of pillow talk fantasy scenarios which eventually led to reality, much to my delight.

Thank you very much. I also tried telling her that I dreamed she was having sex with her ex-boyfriend. She seemed quite embarrassed at first, but now she teases me, saying that her having sex with him makes me jealous. I usually say that if she did that, I would be very happy. What should I do next?

Invite him to dinner, she how the evening goes, a little wine to loosen her up wouldn't hurt.

Thank you very much. Actually, she rarely drinks alcohol. She used to work at a bank and had to entertain clients, and every time she came home, she had a very high libido. Her underwear would be soaking wet. But she hardly ever drinks on a daily basis, and we don't usually consume alcohol. Can you advise me on what to do when she has had a little alcohol? I'd really like to learn more.

[Archie457]

I think you just need to be patient and stay the course. She's ready and she has opportunity as you have described. You know she is attracted to some of these men in a sexual wa because she is coming home wet. My wife is an attorney also. The profession and environment are full of aggressive driven men. One of them will get to bed her as soon as she is really comfortable with it. That will happen on her own schedule. In fact, it may already have happened and she is waiting for the right moment to tell you.

[funkyfitter]

You can't MAKE your wife be a hotwife.
That's something she had to commit to on her own. Good luck !

[luvwives999]

I asked my wife, fiancé at the time, what if I wasn't around who do you think you'd be sleeping with? She didn't hesitate to name someone which led to a lot of pillow talk fantasy scenarios which eventually led to reality, much to my delight.

Thank you very much. I also tried telling her that I dreamed she was having sex with her ex-boyfriend. She seemed quite embarrassed at first, but now she teases me, saying that her having sex with him makes me jealous. I usually say that if she did that, I would be very happy. What should I do next?

Invite him to dinner, she how the evening goes, a little wine to loosen her up wouldn't hurt.

Thank you very much. Actually, she rarely drinks alcohol. She used to work at a bank and had to entertain clients, and every time she came home, she had a very high libido. Her underwear would be soaking wet. But she hardly ever drinks on a daily basis, and we don't usually consume alcohol. Can you advise me on what to do when she has had a little alcohol? I'd really like to learn more.

I do not know your wife and what gets her motor running, but you do. Once she has had a glass of wine or 2 you see if you can start that engine. If she is comfortable with her ex there, she will let nature takes its course, if she is uncomfortable, she will stop you, and you will have your answer.

[Wantsomefunto]

Take her to a club to dance, get her a few drinks. Have her wear a short dress and no bra or panty. Enjoy what happens

[Cuckoldmann]

You can't MAKE your wife be a hotwife.
That's something she had to commit to on her own. Good luck !

Thank you very much, I understand what you mean and perhaps I made a slight mistake in my wording; I want her to be that way, but I always respect her decisions.

[Briannas_Experiences]

Take her to a club to dance, get her a few drinks. Have her wear a short dress and no bra or panty. Enjoy what happens

Yes! This!!!

[Cuckoldmann]

I think you just need to be patient and stay the course. She's ready and she has opportunity as you have described. You know she is attracted to some of these men in a sexual wa because she is coming home wet. My wife is an attorney also. The profession and environment are full of aggressive driven men. One of them will get to bed her as soon as she is really comfortable with it. That will happen on her own schedule. In fact, it may already have happened and she is waiting for the right moment to tell you.

Thank you very much. I think she likes men who can dominate her. Back in school, she was bullied and she chose to submit to her teacher as a sex slave (except for penetration) in exchange for protection and better grades. I have pictures of her serving as a slave from her ex-boyfriend. I also noticed that she doesn't care much about age or appearance but is attracted to powerful men (I often see the lingerie she wears and how thick her vaginal fluids are when she's with clients). But basically, she keeps it very secret and it's quite difficult to arouse her. The other day she said we'd be fine just fantasizing about it, but she wouldn't actually do it. I think she simply hasn't found the right person yet. I'm starting to name her favorite sex toy and ask her to treat it like a guy whenever she wants to play with it. Initially, it worked; she started calling it by a male name and enjoyed playing with it. I realized she wanted to be dominated. I'll update soon.

[Cuckoldmann]

Take her to a club to dance, get her a few drinks. Have her wear a short dress and no bra or panty. Enjoy what happens

I'll try it. We're going on a business trip to a Southeast Asian country soon. I'll try taking her to a bar in a cool outfit. Are there any suggestions to make visiting those bars more enjoyable?

[Cuckoldmann]

Thank you very much. I also tried telling her that I dreamed she was having sex with her ex-boyfriend. She seemed quite embarrassed at first, but now she teases me, saying that her having sex with him makes me jealous. I usually say that if she did that, I would be very happy. What should I do next?

Invite him to dinner, she how the evening goes, a little wine to loosen her up wouldn't hurt.

Thank you very much. Actually, she rarely drinks alcohol. She used to work at a bank and had to entertain clients, and every time she came home, she had a very high libido. Her underwear would be soaking wet. But she hardly ever drinks on a daily basis, and we don't usually consume alcohol. Can you advise me on what to do when she has had a little alcohol? I'd really like to learn more.

I do not know your wife and what gets her motor running, but you do. Once she has had a glass of wine or 2 you see if you can start that engine. If she is comfortable with her ex there, she will let nature takes its course, if she is uncomfortable, she will stop you, and you will have your answer.

Yes, I think it would be a pretty big gap, even though she was interested in the idea, but the fact that he made her miserable for a while (although she did give him oral sex later) and I'm not sure if their relationship will work out anymore.

But one thing is certain: both her ex and I have a very strong sexual attraction to her.

[rnmiller96]

Here is how a few husbands of hotwives I have dated got their wives on board.

The husbands....sincerely or not, expressed interest in just dipping toe into swinging with another couple.

As a pré reward for giving it serious thought, she would be allowed menage with husband and a select handsome well built stud. Any fantasy fulfilled (dp and/or a longer stronger fucking session than one man can provide) . A longer thicker penis along with more vigorous longer sex than with husband, is also a kicker.

Stronger deeper orgasms clinch the deal and open her up to hotwifing. Also, sleeping with a man and luxury she is not accustomed to.

It is a little like drugs.... first wine, then wine and pot, ... working up to LSD.

[Cuckoldmann]

Thanks for your advice. I've tried some of it and it's been a bit interesting.

First, she said we could talk about it, but only fantasize about it; she wouldn't actually do it. I think that's a good thing, at least she allows me to talk about it in bed.

Actually, thinking about my wife sleeping with other men makes me both aroused and a little jealous, and it makes me love her more. I take better care of her, pamper her more, and care for her as much as possible.

My wife has a bit of a masochistic streak, especially when I blindfold her. She often hugs my legs and sniffs my penis for a long time before going to sleep. And she often has a surge in desire during and after her period. I've taken advantage of that to arouse her.

I started by caressing and stimulating her during her period, a time when she craved sex but couldn't have intercourse.

I also set her up so she could freely talk about anything kinky she wanted in bed without any problem. I also told her that I always fantasized about her having sex with other people.
A few days ago, when she couldn't have sex, she was showering and didn't close the bathroom door completely, so I went in and gave her a blowjob. Afterwards, I told her that I had imagined her having sex in the shower with my friend (even though I don't have anyone that close to me) and that it seemed to excite her.

I was rewarded last night. She wore a seductive outfit in bed and said she wasn't ready to be a slave for me to play naked that night. I asked her to play with the dildo, which I made her name, and now I've added that it's my (imaginary) friend.

The amazing thing is she joined in, initially just moaning and whispering that she was enjoying it, but then under my guidance, she asked me to have sex with our (imaginary) friend. She even said that he made her feel so good, that she was dripping wet down her asshole. Then I made her ride me. And she, with stunning charm, said that our (imaginary) friend made her feel better than me. She seemed to really enjoy it and orgasmed soon after.

It was the best experience I've ever had.

[Cuckoldmann]

Hi, she and I recently had a private encounter to have sex, and interestingly, after she said that it was all just our fantasy and would never come true, and I agreed, she changed a lot. She became more kinky during the game, proactively saying she was having sex with a stranger and wanted me to masturbate while watching her. She also produced a lot of fluids, especially when I brought her to orgasm. She exclaimed that I ejaculated in her mouth, but the stranger was bringing her to orgasm. It really broke my mind and I was extremely excited. What should I do next?