Has a stud made you rethink this HW lifestyle

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Has someone fuck her so good it made you rethink this HW thing

Yes and hopefully it’ll happen again
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49%
Yes and I don’t want it to happen again
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No
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No, but I wish it would happen
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bltn1966
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My wife can be very loud in bed. She’s also prone to having over-the-top full body orgasms. So, I love watching her have sex with other men. It’s rare but it has been a few times when a guy was so good that it made me
think about stopping her from being a hotwife.

There was a guy with a short extra thick cock that made my wife tap out, over and over, because he was making her cum too much. Then there was this one young guy that made her have her first PIV squirting orgasm. He left her squirming around on wet bed sheets and having body convulsions a full minute after he stopped fucking her. My wife only give BJ’s before sex. Never during or after sex. However, as soon as my wife got her senses back she EAGERLY sucked the young guys wet creamy cock. That made me very jealous. That made me rethink this hotwife stuff but only for a few seconds. Has something like this ever happened to you guys.
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Well, I have often been envious of what other men can do, that I was born incapable of doing myself.
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Oh God...yes after the first time with a really hung guy. Like so many others, my wife went completely out of her mind. He had great stamina too. After they came the first time, we continued to lay in bed for awhile. She was beaming with satisfaction. Then she grabbed his cock and asked for round 2.

Again, a long hard fucking. Then after awhile, she again grabbed his cock and he fucked her a third time!

At one point she said she was getting too sore so he pulled way out. BUT...she was so grateful she asked him to straddle her face and blew him to another orgasm. Phew...I was so devastated I said no more of this.

But...I was crazy enough after a few months to ask her to do it again!
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MartasBoy wrote: Sun Apr 05, 2026 5:49 am Well, I have often been envious of what other men can do, that I was born incapable of doing myself.


I feel the exact same way!
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Many men gave my wife a superlative sexual experience. The times I was there, I totally enjoyed watching her have lots of fun.

I answered 'yes, and hopefully it'll happen again.' But I never 'rethought' our participation.
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I can admit the first few times I had a brief feeling of "what in god's name have I done here" as another guy rocked my lady's world way better than I ever could. But even then, the visceral turn-on of watching her was still absolutely overwhelming. It wasn't rocket science that the one was way more intense than the other, so I simply powered through it for a while until it stopped happening altogether.
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My hotwife has played with 10 guys the 5 odd years we have been active in the LS. Except for the very first guy (with all the NRE and attention) who was single at that time he mixed up his feelings and fell for my wife and my wife who didn't reciprocate but didn't shut the door either I never had a rethink. Luckily we were able to ride over the hiccup and since then its been a fun journey. After the first guy she decided she would keep her interaction very minimal to get to know the guy and not chat/text frequently to avoid a repeat.
The thing is my wife need some connect/interaction with the guys for the comfort to develop, we not into ONS either so its a balancing act which is ok to do.
There have been at least 3-4 guys she enjoys fucking (compared to the others) one of them is really hung and to have her say the words "God you are really big" the first time he fucked her was SO HOT {incidentally she invited the same guy to fuck her ass and fucked him bareback (a first)}. Another guy is well built and big he's a fucking machine doesn't stop, she loves to ride him and the 3rd is a good looking suave guy she enjoys fucking and wants to fuck him bare next.
In short we enjoy the play meets, love to watch her enjoy and have a good time and as long as we are honest with each other and dont hide anything I think we are good for the long run
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I've watched my wife have some incredible sex; one lover that got her to beg for his cum in her pussy, another that made her toes curl, another that she just couldn't get enough sex from, another with a massive cock that got her to make sounds I'd never heard her make before... In all those times, I never once had a thought to rethink her being a hotwife. My wife and I are blessed with an incredibly deep love, with exceptional communication. Whether I'm there in the room with her or when she's playing solo, it's our journey not just hers. It's always a together thing. I 100% 'suffer' from compersion and take great delight in her having a fantastic sex session. The happier she is, the more fun she's having, the happier I am.
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Perfect description of how it should be. We can relate to all of this and it's what keeps us together in this lifestyle.

We are both on this journey and feed off each other's emotions whether Becky is playing solo or we are couple
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Bloomincpl wrote: Sat Apr 11, 2026 7:09 am I've watched my wife have some incredible sex; one lover that got her to beg for his cum in her pussy, another that made her toes curl, another that she just couldn't get enough sex from, another with a massive cock that got her to make sounds I'd never heard her make before... In all those times, I never once had a thought to rethink her being a hotwife. My wife and I are blessed with an incredibly deep love, with exceptional communication. Whether I'm there in the room with her or when she's playing solo, it's our journey not just hers. It's always a together thing. I 100% 'suffer' from compersion and take great delight in her having a fantastic sex session. The happier she is, the more fun she's having, the happier I am.
This is exactly to a "T" how i feel as well. You literally took the words out of my mouth.
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The first time ... well the second time I guess ... she had an orgasm with her regular was pretty fantastic and nerve wracking! I didn't get to witness it in person but she video recorded it for me. I know how she shudders when having a 'real' orgasm and seeing her do that with some else was mind blowing. She was much more relaxed after and told him how good he was. It was much closer to her making love than just having sex, so I'd be lying if I said I had no second thoughts at that point! But the moment passed quickly and we strive to make new and similar memories moving forward!
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MrPepeLePew wrote: Sun Apr 12, 2026 9:56 am The first time ... well the second time I guess ... she had an orgasm with her regular was pretty fantastic and nerve wracking! I didn't get to witness it in person but she video recorded it for me. I know how she shudders when having a 'real' orgasm and seeing her do that with some else was mind blowing. She was much more relaxed after and told him how good he was. It was much closer to her making love than just having sex, so I'd be lying if I said I had no second thoughts at that point! But the moment passed quickly and we strive to make new and similar memories moving forward!
My wife prefer to make a videos too. She also shudders when she orgasm. Her quivering orgasms are a thing of beauty. However, the time a guy finish slamming her and she flopped around on the bed, for almost a minute, as if she was getting tased was a sight to behold.
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My wife's longtermer is a 6' 4" cowboy from Beaumont. Beaumont's a good 90 mine drive away, so they meet at a little roadside motel half way between. They've made it a weekly thing for several months now. I've come to think it special kind of massage therapy for her. Just as with a normal massage - she comes home all aglow and dreamy-eyed. So yes, her situation witj him has caused me to rethink it. I now appreciate how much more relaxed it makes her, in addition to the energy and mystery I've always felt it brings us.
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I was nervous the first few times but I got over it.
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after years of nagging her to explore with another man , she joined AFF and hooked up with a few guys and really enjoyed doing it after her initial misgivings,but then she met a younger fit hospital professional guy(from the same site) ,when she came back from her first meeting she was excited to say the least,and that was only for coffee ...but she still managed to give him a blowjob in the car in a secluded area. They then hooked up on a regular basis with her picking him up from the hospital and taking him to a vacant rental property we owned where they fucked in every way possible many times, he would then shower and she would drop him back to the hospital. She said that he was amazing and the best sex she had ever had and that he wore her out and she was now his slut.I was anxious and unsure about her seeing hime because she seemed infatuated with him on many levels.. but then every time she said they were going to meet up again my cock got as hard as a rock .
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I’m not sure if I’ve understood the question correctly in the context of the possible answers.

But if you’re asking whether there was someone I wasn’t sure about whether it was a good idea or not.

Right at the start of this whole thing, Lisa met up with a bloke who was very arrogant and condescending towards me. I found the whole thing very uncomfortable and I really struggled with whether it was a good idea. If he hadn’t been the first one, things would probably have turned out differently. I didn’t know enough at the time and was very unsure. But Lisa went ahead with it and here we are now.

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My wife has all kinds of sex, some of the guys are really good and really get her off. No big deal, it's all about fun. She's there to give her body to a guy to enjoy himself, it comes with the territory.
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