How do you feel about condom use?

[thinkingtoomuch]

A lot of you express the ladies often don't like condom use during their dates, but how does everyone else feel and does it depend on circumstances? Or how strongly do you feel about it?
Do you any of you like it or hate it if you suddenly get thrown a surprise request for a condom? Or perhaps do you do other things like pull out? Does it depend a little on how long you've been with someone?
Do any of you boyfriends/FWB request or require the husband to use them and how does or how did that go? Any poly couples have any situations with this?

[NotNewbs]

None of the poll choices fit. I’m the husband, and I never wear a condom. She prefers that her lovers also don’t wear condoms, but only after she gets to know them and trust them. Fortunately, she has a current regular lover, and we all three get to enjoy the fun of filling her with multiple loads.

[leggysman]

Anecdotally, I don't think anyone anywhere ever 'liked' wearing a condom.

[jrobb]

Back in the day she was still fertile, so I liked reminding my wife that I had a few in my dresser drawer, and that those were in case she wanted to meet someone new and wanted to play it safe. I told her she could always help herself to carry a few in her purse. You know, just in case.

JR

[MartasBoy]

......Or how strongly do you feel about it?
Do you any of you like it or hate it ....?

I hate condoms. My wife makes me wear one when she lets me out of my chastity device, and allows me to touch my pee pee, to make a little cummy. She doesn't like me to make a mess on her sheets, with my little dribblings.
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[flstag]

Her or I don't want condoms. She hates them and wants bare cock and cum in her pussy. Me too.

[hotfreaks]

My wife has always hated condoms. She always wants a bull bareback and for them to cum inside her. I prefer it as well. However, if she meets a guy for a one nighter, she will use one

[Thebestdays1]

Back when we were married, my wife hated condoms. I bought some when we were about to have sex together for the first time but she told me she wouldn't use them as she hated the smell and feel of them. A few years later and after the birth of our second child, when asked at the hospital about future contraception, she told them we would use condoms and they gave us a large envelope full of them. We used them for a while but she didn't like having to stop what we were doing for me to put one on and as sex with me had to be spontaneous, not pre planned, I couldn't put one on too soon. I actually like the feel of them on me and in the end I used most of those condoms to masturbate in; sometimes in front of her as she liked seeing me empty the cum into my mouth.

About 10 years later she decided she was going to date one of her colleagues. She had already sucked him off at work so knew he was about 9 inches and could repeatedly produce large amounts of cum. Just before she went on their first date I asked if they would fuck and she said they probably would so I mentioned that I was worried about him getting her pregnant but she reassured me that she could tell she was safe. Nonetheless, I drove to a large pharmacy and bought a box of Large condoms for him to use. When I got back home I put them in her handbag but she refused to take them and told me to trust her. I ended up masturbating in all 12 of them. She thought the size looked silly on me.

I didn't know it back then but about 9 months later, she started fucking her nephew and to minimise the risk of him getting her pregnant she allowed him to have anal sex with her. As she also joined him for foursomes with her sister and her partner behind my back, she usually allowed him up there too, just to be sure she wouldn't get pregnant. Although she didn't used to like the idea of anal sex, to her it was preferable to using condoms.

[PANTIES]

I could not find any that were small enough to fit so we never used condoms after trying the first time.

sissy pauline

[nks]

I like wearing condoms, but my wife does not like them. If she had a boyfriend, she would definintely not use them.

[annsman]

None of the poll choices fit. I’m the husband, and I never wear a condom. She prefers that her lovers also don’t wear condoms, but only after she gets to know them and trust them. Fortunately, she has a current regular lover, and we all three get to enjoy the fun of filling her with multiple loads.

Same for us, condoms are never used by me or her boyfriends. For us it’s not proper or complete sex unless a man cums inside her and we both are really turned on knowing that she has another man’s sperm inside her for a few days afterwards, She also likes feeling his semen leak out of her afterwards.

She is very choosy and likes to get to know the man before having sex with him and we’ve had no problems with STDs.

[BT2]

My wife did not like condoms when she was a hotwife, and I didn't like them either, when she was with an fb or if I was with a woman. I confess I liked the idea of his cum deep inside her. I disliked them because it took away the feel. We recognized several decades ago that we were playing with fire, so we quit playing with all commers and stuck with a couple of regular "friends". We stayed with regulars for over twenty years, and have not regretted it even though it did cut down on the frequency.

[NotNewbs]

None of the poll choices fit. I’m the husband, and I never wear a condom. She prefers that her lovers also don’t wear condoms, but only after she gets to know them and trust them. Fortunately, she has a current regular lover, and we all three get to enjoy the fun of filling her with multiple loads.

Same for us, condoms are never used by me or her boyfriends. For us it’s not proper or complete sex unless a man cums inside her and we both are really turned on knowing that she has another man’s sperm inside her for a few days afterwards, She also likes feeling his semen leak out of her afterwards.

She is very choosy and likes to get to know the man before having sex with him and we’ve had no problems with STDs.

We also both enjoy knowing that she’s carrying her lover’s live sperm around inside of her for days. I also have a bit of a pregnancy risk fetish, so I love the thought that his DNA is trying to physically claim her body. She will egg me on sometimes when I’m fucking her, saying things like, “his sperm is inside my uterus and fallopian tubes right now, and I’m about to ovulate. You’d better compete if you don’t want him to fertilize your wife.” She’s on birth control, but that dirty talk is still hot.

The other part for me is it’s the ultimate showing off of my wife, letting another man experience everything about her with nothing between them, including him getting to finish in her knowing that she WANTS his cum inside of her, I especially love when she begs him for it.

For her, she gets off on pleasing men, so it’s her ultimate reward and a big part of her sexual satisfaction to feel her men filling her up. And she also loves the feeling of being full of cum and it oozing out of her, especially when it’s both his and mine. While she is naturally submissive, she feels a sense of sexual power from this, in her ability to arouse us to the extreme, and make us cum multiple times until she’s completely drained us both. She says it makes her truly feel like a sex goddess.

[Funcpl500]

I’m fixed so no need for a condom for me. With most of my wife’s random partners, they all used condoms. For her long term partners (someone she played with multiple times for at least 6 months), she went bare. My wife never used birth control, so she tried not to play when ovulating. She had to be very careful to time things accordingly. We did have one stressful event in 2012 when she did play during the danger time and never again did we do that. You can read about it on the story ‘the breeding of Jill’.

[vette19690]

Its always her choice and her attitude is: Condom? Why bother fucking me at all.

[vette19690]

Its her choice and her attitude for me or her lover : If you wear a Condom, Why bother fucking me at all?

[vette19690]

Its her choice and her attitude for me or her lover : If you wear a Condom, Why bother fucking me at all?

[annsman]

None of the poll choices fit. I’m the husband, and I never wear a condom. She prefers that her lovers also don’t wear condoms, but only after she gets to know them and trust them. Fortunately, she has a current regular lover, and we all three get to enjoy the fun of filling her with multiple loads.

Same for us, condoms are never used by me or her boyfriends. For us it’s not proper or complete sex unless a man cums inside her and we both are really turned on knowing that she has another man’s sperm inside her for a few days afterwards, She also likes feeling his semen leak out of her afterwards.

She is very choosy and likes to get to know the man before having sex with him and we’ve had no problems with STDs.

We also both enjoy knowing that she’s carrying her lover’s live sperm around inside of her for days. I also have a bit of a pregnancy risk fetish, so I love the thought that his DNA is trying to physically claim her body. She will egg me on sometimes when I’m fucking her, saying things like, “his sperm is inside my uterus and fallopian tubes right now, and I’m about to ovulate. You’d better compete if you don’t want him to fertilize your wife.” She’s on birth control, but that dirty talk is still hot.

The other part for me is it’s the ultimate showing off of my wife, letting another man experience everything about her with nothing between them, including him getting to finish in her knowing that she WANTS his cum inside of her, I especially love when she begs him for it.

For her, she gets off on pleasing men, so it’s her ultimate reward and a big part of her sexual satisfaction to feel her men filling her up. And she also loves the feeling of being full of cum and it oozing out of her, especially when it’s both his and mine. While she is naturally submissive, she feels a sense of sexual power from this, in her ability to arouse us to the extreme, and make us cum multiple times until she’s completely drained us both. She says it makes her truly feel like a sex goddess.

Your experience and description is very much how we feel and it’s as if I could have written it, except my wife says having mine and her boyfriend’s sperm inside her at the same time makes her feel so feminine. Sperm competition is a big turn on for both of us and we have played around with it (and more) as the thought of her being pregnant by another man is an incredible turn on for me. She thinks it would be lovely to have a baby with someone she has feeling for, so shares my fantasy.

[AdamGunn]

14. Other

I'm the husband and we've agreed that I don't have to use a condom but for safety's sake all her lovers have to, whether they like it or not. (If they don't like it, they don't have to screw her . . .)

[bradisalpha]

As a BF, I have never and will never wear a condom. It is up to the hot wife to use protection .. or not.

As far as her husband, it depends.. sometimes Condoms.. sometimes No pussy.. sometimes Caged.

Just sayin…

Brad

[ferrisandrews]

I fear the polling list is too lengthy and nuanced to be helpful. For us, the goal is to get to a point of safety where no one has to use condoms since they are a 'necessary evil'. My wife's long-time boyfriend stopped using them a couple of years into seeing her on a fairly regular basis and hasn't used them since.

[goldmond]

I'm the boyfriend and I prefer both of us getting tested and not using a condom. If that can't happen then I prefer using the condom. If either party wants a condom I'll use one, if one does and the other doesn't then it's a judgement call.

[Her number1]

Farmgirl hasn't used condoms since she was a teenager.

[rckymtndg]

My wife has always hated condoms also. I don't know if she used them more than once. She had ten guys before we met and just two after we got married and no condoms.

[Hellion4u]

I’ve used them only once in 40 some years with a wife that had just left hubby recey started back on pill