Wishing to be outed…. Maybe

[Natatude]

Well,,, I’d like too, but I know my parents would be horrified! So we keep it hush hush! Only my best friend knows. My husband doesn’t give a care what other people think. But I do. God forbid anything happen to my parents. However if it did, we’d be poly in 5 minutes!

[Thebestdays1]

My wife's family knew about our open marriage and it worked out well for us.
I also admitted it to a work colleague that everyone knew was cheating on her husband. She'd just admitted to me that her husband knew and we ended up rearranging our shifts to allow both women to meet their lovers more often.
Our neighbours would have also known about one boyfriend in particular. He used to park his motorbike outside our house whenever they went on dates together or when they spent Mondays together. On the few occasions he didn't have his bike I'd give him a lift home and used to hope one of the neighbours would see us. I used to suck him off on the way and the last time I did it, I stopped the car on the edge of the village and didn't care if any dog walker saw me. The arousal, die to the humiliation I felt as I sucked my wife's lover's penis was overwhelming.
My wife was caught getting dressed after fucking this boyfriend in some nearby woods, by the mum of one of our daughter's classmates. Athough she would only have thought she was cheating, we both got a thrill from it.

[steveb713]

Our HW experience started about four years ago - My wife took to it like a fish in water - it became second nature to her and while I had
bouts of jealousy and worry about our relationship it was an incredible experience for the both of us. Moving on, we're a retired couple living in a city far from our three kids and grandkids. As I've said on this site on other postings we're orphans.

One thing I've found is how blasé my wife is about the whole HW thing as far as people knowing about it. She's in fact without telling me
about it I think she's kind of proud of her experience. She wears it as a badge of courage. Shes' in some ways very conventional. Mom of three, a lady in all manners yet she has this side of her that likes to break out of conventionally acceptable things. I think her HW experience only served to emphasize that. I'm totally on board with that side of her.

Lastly we're not swingers though we went to swinger club near us last year for a New Years Eve Party - when a few friends asked us what we did for New Years I paused and L said we went to a swingers club. I was pretty taken back - the friends said nothing !!! Ironically she's out tonight at a dinner party and sitting with a former fuck buddy - they've not been with each other for a couple of years but I/m
beginning to think that L might be interested in firing it up again - she likes the guy - he's single a retired professional and a gentleman - she likes him - I/m not jealous and frankly would love for her to start it up again - After all we know that we men are the beneficiaries of of our lovely HWives when they come home to us. I'm hoping they cut the dinner part short and go back to his place. I'd love to have her come home to me after she's been freshly fucked. The beauty of this dinner tonight is that there will be dozens of people present that know us and the fact that L was with this guy years ago - fully in view of friends to know about it - We laugh about it privately.

Finally, L has a "date" tomorrow night to go dancing with a friend ( I'm not a fan of rock and roll dancing ) they guy is a boyfriend of a woman friend of L's who is out of town for the weekend - Gary called L and asked if she'd like to meet up at the dance tomorrow night - L said you bet - L is fond of Gary and I think she's privately attracted to him - I/m hoping she'll find the notion to take him back to his place and fuck him. It might be 2 for 2 in 2 nights - that'd be something - defintely something to be outed over -

[steveb713]

We’re a long married couple who are “ orphans “ in our city. Our kids live an airplane ride away, we’re retired. My wife had a long time fuck buddy which she occasionally met for dinner or a movie. Being a very conservative upbringing I was surprised
at how casual she was about her being seen with her fuck buddy.

We talked about it and she said she doesn’t care who knows or what others think. In fact I honestly think it turns her on. In fact tonight she was at a dinner event and invited fuck buddy to join her at the table ( I didn’t attend the event). When
L came home tonight she told me he had a girl friend - I asked her reaction she said I’m disappointed as I like being with him.

[MarknSusan]

We have been CNM for more than 30 years and we realized that many people, including our family, suspected that we were swingers (we do not consider ourselves swingers). As time went by we realized that we are who we are and had nothing to be ashamed of. In fact Susan finds enjoyment in having people suspect or even know that she has “boyfriends” and I have been in situations with my “girlfriends” where friends saw me interact (kissing and close dancing) with them.

I am sure there has been a lot of people talking about us over the years, but it never bothered us and in some ways there is a sense of freedom knowing we don’t need to hide our lifestyle.

[Wantsomefunto]

Mark!
Love your hot wife and all of your posts

[MarknSusan]

Mark!
Love your hot wife and all of your posts

Thank you. Just sharing our experiences. And the desire for “fun” has never went away for either of us!

[rabbit16]

Wife has told a few close friends qe are open without going into much detail. The one female friend is also dating my close male friend so he did talk to me about it. He actually wished his GF would also open up and he has brought it up but it is a no for now.

Wifes classmate where our kids also are class mates - we have had some fun time together and see each other at functions. Didn't end well - but it has stayed private even though it could easily be opened up.

Another couple was friends with a lot of our friends in town - again remained quite. Had a neighbor when we lived in a different state show up at the strip club while she was having fun with the dancers naked on stage.

[Brisbanehotwife]

One night, after being with her boyfriend of little over a year, my wife told me she was taking him to a wedding of some friends of ours as her date. She said "This is sort of a big step for us." And I replied, sincerely, that I was proud to be her cuck, and was proud of her. Looking back, I see that the "us" she had in mind was more the two of them - her and her boyfriend - and less me and her, or even the three of us.

Their relationship was mostly separate from me and from the social circles my wife and I shared. That didn't mean my wife was shy about the fact that she cucked me. In casual conversation she openly advocated for female led relationships and female sexual freedom. I know she was also open with some, maybe many, of her girlfriends about some of the details of our cuck dynamic. I guess I got off on the exposure, but more than that, it made my role as her cuck feel more "real" to me.

I remember sitting alone in a bar about a mile from home, while my wife entertained a guest in our bed. I was on my laptop, in a chatroom on a cuck website, sipping my beer and eating some chips. Nearby, two younger guys were drinking to get drunk and complaining about how their girlfriends treated them. In that moment, I remember feeling smug - like, my wife is a mile a way getting railed, and we both love it. No complaints here about how she treats me! I even asked them to keep an eye on my laptop while I went to the bar for another pint, leaving the cuck chat site up on the screen. It was nothing graphic - just text boxes - so they probably didn't notice what I'd been writing about my wife. But I wanted them to. I wanted them to know my wife was being satisfied by another man, and that I supported her - that I had voluntarily left my own home to make things more comfortable for them, and was sitting here, sipping my beer, waiting for her to call to tell me they were done.

Yes, I know the feeling. It is an exquisite thrill to either tell or 'give it away' that you're a cuckold. One ex-work colleague and one current one (both female) know that my wife fucks other men. It is so hot when the current one casually asks, "Got much planned for the weekend?" I answer, "Pretty quiet. Sophie is catching up with a friend on Saturday night."
She gives a slight smile, but nothing that would cause questions. Everyone assumes it's a girlfriend. It makes me hard - knowing that someone else knows...

[60dCommon]

Yes, I know those feelings. I was abroad working for several months when she called to confess having some fun while out dancing with one of her girlfriends (Monica, from another thread I've posted in). Since Monica was now an eyewitness to my wife flirting, I suggested my wife tell her everything - that it would be easier than trying to navigate half truths. Within a few months, all of the women (and their husbands/boyfriends too, I'd guess) in my wife's close circle knew she cucked me. Some of them knew a lot more about my wife's love life than I ever did.

[MartasBoy]

After years being in the lifestyle ( swingers but mostly Hotwife) we both have a secret desire for everyone to know..
I know it would be a mistake, Family- work - Neighbour etc
We won’t go thru with it but we are both so proud of her sexual freedom we wish not to hide. Not only not hide but openly tell..
Is this a common feeling among Hotwife couples ?
I am having difficulty expressing why I have this incredible urge to shout from the rooftops that my wife has several lovers.

Yes, I have had the same desire, but my wife not so much. She values discretion more.
But we travel often to go to big cities where we don't know many people, and have often been more open about displays that show that we have a female dominant marriage, and that she plays with others.

And when some random women seem amused by seeing her Dominate me, and comment that I seem to be on a short leash, I will openly tell them that it is partly because I am kept locked in a chastity device.

[marine20]

this is a long story that i will condense . i saw my wifes best friend sucking off a man in a video booth a couple of years ago.we were both shocked. she is older and divorced but we thought she did not have a sex life. anyway , so she wouldn't feel ashamed for doing something so dirty and sleezy , i told her that my wife , her best friend , fucks other men. and i told her i never new she was so cool. this made her feel much better. then i went further, because this conversation was making me hot. i described kissing my wife when another man was fucking her. she thought that was hot , and let out a sigh. we are both keeping this from my wife ,so , in a real sense , i have outed myself. it is so hot that her best friend knows that she fucks other men.

[LongTermHubby]

My wife is a presence in the polyamory community. The people in that community are aware she sees other men.

[iwish]

We're not in the LS, but if my wife ever took a lover or a fuck buddy I wouldn't mind if she told at least one girlfriend. That would allow her to have someone to talk about her activities with and possibly a wingman. It would be ideal if I knew the friend and that our paths crossed from time to time. The potential for odd looks, comments, or more would be arousing. And, I think I would enjoy the possibility that my wife's secret could get out would be a constant thought.