It is interesting as I was looking over my wife's fuck me clothes her past BF's have bought. One Bf had her wear panties and bra and clothes with "Slut" "Cum Dump", "cheating wife", "Black only" "Hot Wife". He had me buy these and give them to him after I wrapped them in gift paper. He always told her he bought these. He made her talk nasty and watch porn together. He shared her. She was excited whenever he called. I paid for their dates. She used her as his fuck toy only. When I tried to speak up she said she did not want to upset him.
Other BF's buy the regular sexy nighties. This was a turn on to him and he treated her with respect and took her out on dates, I offered to pay but he said no. She was his and did not want nothing from me. My wife said he was a gentleman and the sex was long and sweet. He was the first one I asked him to use my RV to take my wife one weekend getaway's.