How many men have had your wife?

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Lobsterxxx
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Counting any casual meetings and parties … I would guess somewhere between 200-300
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My wife had around 200 in her before we got married. No idea what the count is now.
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She admits to 5 but I think there have been a few more.
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Just 3, including me. I would like her to try others just for the feeling.
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Almost 100 men have fucked my wife and gave her much pleasure. We went to swing club several times. Each time, 2-3 guys get to fuck her. Not sure how she would like to get gangbanged by 5 or more guys.
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Before me, probably somewhere between 35-45 men. She claims to not know the exact number but says somewhere in the 30’s or 40’s. In our 10 year relationship she’s fucked 53 men, and that includes before we were married, she’s had other lovers for our entire relationship.
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NotNewbs wrote: Thu Jun 11, 2026 3:24 pm Before me, probably somewhere between 35-45 men. She claims to not know the exact number but says somewhere in the 30’s or 40’s. In our 10 year relationship she’s fucked 53 men, and that includes before we were married, she’s had other lovers for our entire relationship.
Okay okay. I have to ask. I realize I'm just not plugged into these things. But how?

I mean, what was her typical scenario for meeting these people and getting the into bed? Is she just super fucking hot? Does she go clubbing and when she see's one she likes she just goes for it? I'm very curious.
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Dream Weaver wrote: Fri Jun 12, 2026 9:51 am
NotNewbs wrote: Thu Jun 11, 2026 3:24 pm Before me, probably somewhere between 35-45 men. She claims to not know the exact number but says somewhere in the 30’s or 40’s. In our 10 year relationship she’s fucked 53 men, and that includes before we were married, she’s had other lovers for our entire relationship.
I mean, what was her typical scenario for meeting these people and getting the into bed? Is she just super fucking hot? Does she go clubbing and when she see's one she likes she just goes for it? I'm very curious.


For my wife before she met me and we decided to have a relationship, yeah, that was exactly how it happened. She'd see a guy and decide she wanted sex with him and teased him until he said yes. And that's exactly the way we met . . .
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Dream Weaver wrote: Fri Jun 12, 2026 9:51 am
NotNewbs wrote: Thu Jun 11, 2026 3:24 pm Before me, probably somewhere between 35-45 men. She claims to not know the exact number but says somewhere in the 30’s or 40’s. In our 10 year relationship she’s fucked 53 men, and that includes before we were married, she’s had other lovers for our entire relationship.
Okay okay. I have to ask. I realize I'm just not plugged into these things. But how?

I mean, what was her typical scenario for meeting these people and getting the into bed? Is she just super fucking hot? Does she go clubbing and when she see's one she likes she just goes for it? I'm very curious.
You can see pics of her in our thread…

viewtopic.php?t=78416

Hopefully that link works, not sure I did that right.

But yeah, she has guys interested in her all the time, so she connects with some “out in the wild” like that. Doesn’t go to clubs or anything.

But she/we have profiles on a swinger site, and an app that’s for alternative relationships. Sometimes I find guys through those channels and set things up. But on that app she has thousands of guys that have “liked” her; so when she wants a new guy she just goes through some profiles and likes back some of the guys, and they will start messaging her and it goes from there.
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NotNewbs wrote: Fri Jun 12, 2026 4:14 pm
Dream Weaver wrote: Fri Jun 12, 2026 9:51 am
NotNewbs wrote: Thu Jun 11, 2026 3:24 pm Before me, probably somewhere between 35-45 men. She claims to not know the exact number but says somewhere in the 30’s or 40’s. In our 10 year relationship she’s fucked 53 men, and that includes before we were married, she’s had other lovers for our entire relationship.
Okay okay. I have to ask. I realize I'm just not plugged into these things. But how?

I mean, what was her typical scenario for meeting these people and getting the into bed? Is she just super fucking hot? Does she go clubbing and when she see's one she likes she just goes for it? I'm very curious.
You can see pics of her in our thread…

viewtopic.php?t=78416

Hopefully that link works, not sure I did that right.

But yeah, she has guys interested in her all the time, so she connects with some “out in the wild” like that. Doesn’t go to clubs or anything.

But she/we have profiles on a swinger site, and an app that’s for alternative relationships. Sometimes I find guys through those channels and set things up. But on that app she has thousands of guys that have “liked” her; so when she wants a new guy she just goes through some profiles and likes back some of the guys, and they will start messaging her and it goes from there.
Ah, okay, that makes sense. I know I'm not always the sharpest tool in the shed, but so many times it comes down to the obvious things. Couples who do this long term REALLY have no hangups, the wives REALLY enjoy sex, and use whatever tools are out there. You all are living in a different galaxy from my personal situation when it comes to relationships lol. I just can't believe it until I'm reminded of how.
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Dream Weaver wrote: Sat Jun 13, 2026 9:52 am
NotNewbs wrote: Fri Jun 12, 2026 4:14 pm
Dream Weaver wrote: Fri Jun 12, 2026 9:51 am
NotNewbs wrote: Thu Jun 11, 2026 3:24 pm Before me, probably somewhere between 35-45 men. She claims to not know the exact number but says somewhere in the 30’s or 40’s. In our 10 year relationship she’s fucked 53 men, and that includes before we were married, she’s had other lovers for our entire relationship.
Okay okay. I have to ask. I realize I'm just not plugged into these things. But how?

I mean, what was her typical scenario for meeting these people and getting the into bed? Is she just super fucking hot? Does she go clubbing and when she see's one she likes she just goes for it? I'm very curious.
You can see pics of her in our thread…

viewtopic.php?t=78416

Hopefully that link works, not sure I did that right.

But yeah, she has guys interested in her all the time, so she connects with some “out in the wild” like that. Doesn’t go to clubs or anything.

But she/we have profiles on a swinger site, and an app that’s for alternative relationships. Sometimes I find guys through those channels and set things up. But on that app she has thousands of guys that have “liked” her; so when she wants a new guy she just goes through some profiles and likes back some of the guys, and they will start messaging her and it goes from there.
Ah, okay, that makes sense. I know I'm not always the sharpest tool in the shed, but so many times it comes down to the obvious things. Couples who do this long term REALLY have no hangups, the wives REALLY enjoy sex, and use whatever tools are out there. You all are living in a different galaxy from my personal situation when it comes to relationships lol. I just can't believe it until I'm reminded of how.
Yeah, she fucked a new guy last night. We are out of town for a little weekend getaway. She opened the app here, guys in the area start liking her. She messages a few, and picked one to meet us for drinks. Went back to our hotel and he and I doubled teamed her for hours.

I’m not saying it’s always easy to find a quality guy, but there’s a large pool out there that would be happy to fuck her, it’s just a matter of screening out the duds and finding the good ones.
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My wife has hit 208 after over 50 years of fucking.
Total different cocks so far: 208
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rypmar7 wrote: Sat Jun 13, 2026 1:00 pm My wife has hit 208 after over 50 years of fucking.
I've been following your story I think since the love shack

4 new cocks a year!

Or time since the frequency increase to decrease.
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Honestly I lost count, but it's been well into 100's over 20 years. All after being married to me.
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A couple of teenage boyfriends before me and one lucky fucker she hooked up with on the vacation while we were apart. He was the reason that lead us down the hotwife path. Since then she had 3 guys she played for a longer time (last one is especially intense), and probably more than 10 that she skipped purely as she did not feel the chemistry to engage further.

We are still rookies in numbers, but given that she is 1 month pregnant, it might stay like that for a while despite her sex drive is literally multiplied.
Our story: viewtopic.php?t=76248
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One boyfriend before we got married, then 22 black bulls.
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MC
Wow she must love bbc!
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1063 different at least,
1864 times she has sex with other man
We are together for 3,5 years
I am locked 24/7 and pussy free for 22 months.
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Overall number is single digits for her, and it's not an 8 or 9. She grew up in the country, had a good childhood, very close with family, etc. Also her personality tends toward nerd stuff (mine does a little as well but a bit less than her). Not saying this in any type of disparaging way. She freely admits it and uses the term to describe herself. Since we've been in the lifestyle? Just 1 man other than myself. I'd love to see that number jump to a 2 some point soon but does not seem likely at the moment.
Our story of how Kelley and I got started in the HW lifestyle.

viewtopic.php?t=76882
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We're highschool sweet hearts been married 30 years now. We were each other's first. Been in the lifestyle for 7 years now she's been with 18 different guys now. 2 long term one was right at a year long the other one was about 2 years long. Just recently she met a guy in the Kohl's parking lot and he fucked her in the back seat. She squirted all over her car.lol
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good for her topnotch. i've always told mine the more the merrier and cast a wide net and catch a lot of fish
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My HW had about 25 guys before we met in 1990, and did sleep with a couple more while we were dating. I found out about one of them and it turned me on and we kept going out, then got engaged. I found out about the other guy a few years ago, saw a pictured she had taken and realized it was while we were together.

Since married she's been with about 25 more guys, a couple were long term and often (probably 300 rounds of sex with them) a few she had sex with a dozen or so times, and the rest ONSs. Almost all were bareback, over half were BBCs. It was a great time but things have stopped now, that's a story for a different post!
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For my wife 10 before we met and two since we have been married.
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Some thought on body count numbers. Especially in the higher double digits. If you consider a faithful wife fucking only her hubby 2 to 3 times a week versus a cuck couple with a rather high body count. Over many many years of playing Is the cuck couple wife really getting fucked that much more. Most times cuck hubby don’t fuck his wife much if any. Granted it is more men but is it that much more sex
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Hellion4u wrote: Mon Jul 06, 2026 12:50 pm Some thought on body count numbers. Especially in the higher double digits. If you consider a faithful wife fucking only her hubby 2 to 3 times a week versus a cuck couple with a rather high body count. Over many many years of playing Is the cuck couple wife really getting fucked that much more. Most times cuck hubby don’t fuck his wife much if any. Granted it is more men but is it that much more sex
And then there is the variable of quality to go along with quantity. Clearly there is the expectation that the quality goes up when choosing a lover other than cuck hubby. :cool:
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