Has she been with a variety of men or do she have a type

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Has she been with a variety of men or do she have a type

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I talked my Latina wife into being a HW after she confessed to being curious about white men. She started off dating only young white guys. She definitely had a type. Since then she has moved on to a variety of men. She’s been with black, white and Hispanic men. Guys that were in college to guys that were old enough to be her father.

She’s been with a 6’8” behemoth college football players that was almost three times her weight. Then with a 5’5” balding skinny white guy that dressed like he was stuck in the 90’s. She went from a 5’5” chubby long hair white nerdy white guy to an aggressive 6’4” muscular German. (My wife said the chubby guy and his 5” super thick cock was the best)

Overall there have been cops, lawyers, criminals, singers, retirees, fitness mode, Americans, Brazilians, Germans, Mexicans…etc. And just think, she told me she was only curious about white guys. So, what about your wife. So, do your HW have a variety or she mainly stick to certain type of men?
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Her type is tall, strong, with masculine appearance men. She's enjoyed variety over this attributes: some more muscular, some more fitness, some black, some white, age range from 22 to 54yo, height from 1.82m to 2.03m...
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All she wants is a nice personality - and a very big cock !
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Susan wants a guy that is good looking, nice shape, clean fingernails, manscaped, nice teeth, dresses like a professional and most importantly has chemistry.
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When I've heard women say a guy is "not my type," it has always turned out they have never been able to describe their type. I have come to believe it is a circular statement: The men who turn them on are their "type."
My wife has played with all kinds of guys of different ancestries, skin types, ages from 18 to over 70, and various body builds (even some with beer bellies).

Usually the common denominator is that she felt they were nice men. Although when approached a second time by men she had previously fucked at other events, she explained it away as only having fucked them because she was "in the zone" after fucking several guys. When in the zone she felt like fucking anything and didn't want to stop taking on guys But when not in the zone, they didn't work for her.
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When my wife first started, she was very picky and definitely had a type: tall, very fit and handsome like a model, white or latino. Later when she realized she's truly submissive and what she really wanted got more clear in her mind, looks became less important and she went more for certain personality types: assertive and dominant. That morphed into a strong desire for more "risky" types of men: tattooed, very strong, dominant alpha types, even criminals/ex-cons. Men who she perceived as "dangerous", and who were very open about just wanting to use her for her body. She went through a black phase, which she still indulges in sometimes, but now it's mostly latino men. With her friend Kay leading her into the whore life fucking her black friends, she would fuck men I never thought she would like. She said in those moments, especially a night of fucking several men, she couldn't resist the way they fucked her, and she just wanted it, especially if I was holding her hands, and she knew I'd be eating her pussy after.
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My wife has no type whatsoever. Im always amazed at the men she will fuck. In her words, " they cant be cocky or aggressive, I just like laid back, cool guys. Of you are that, you have a shot to fuck me"

She has had men of all shapes, sizes, ethnicities, and ages. That being said. She does have a thing for BBC.
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My wife seems to prefer guys at least 5 years younger (her live in boyfriend is 16 years younger), at least 5 ft 10 but preferably 6ft plus, muscular but fit rather than body builder, attractive, smooth (all over if possible but definitely face and no pubes), confident and can hold a conversation, and hugely important, circumcised. Uncut guys have no chance with her.

She likes tall as, apart from when she is at the gym, she is always in 2 to 4 inch heels or wedges. She is also massively attracted to black guys but in Australia it is rare to find an african/american guy. When we are holidaying in America though, she definitely binges on BBC much to my approval.
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My wife has never had sex with other men but I pretty much knew her style would be
-Older than us, from around same age to about 20 years age gap
-Tall, she is quite tall herself
-Not fat nor super skinny but no need for a sixpack
-Interesting discussions
-Treats her as a human and is interested in her
-Socially capable, can discuss, not dumb
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My wife has been with a variety of men but she proritizes size and stamina.
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Athletes. Usually tall - 6'2" - 6'5". Not musclebound men or gym rats, but toned, with active sporting lives - rowing, skiing, running, cycling. Often bearded, but her long-term man was clean shaven. Handsome. Weakness for dark-haired, olive-skinned southern/eastern Mediterranean types, but, as far as I know, never scratched that specific itch. Calmly, quietly confident. Social. Dancer. Younger. For one-night stands, I don't know how she picked, but for longer term lovers, she needed friendships with her men. Men who were clever, and witty, but also caring and attentive.

She had, and as far as I know, continues to have, a deep connection with her very long-term lover. Physical, but emotional, and even spiritual (whatever that means) too. He became the man in her sexual and emotional lives, while I became, in those areas, her cuck. Sexually, I was not a man to her. 100% of her sexual focus was on other men. Emotionally, she satisfied her need for intimate masculine connection with her main man. Our emotional connection remained strong - probably grew even stronger - but shifted as our physical intimacy changed.

So, her type is (was) a handsome, 6'4", dark haired Mediterranean with a neat beard and a rower's body who oozes quiet confidence for good reason. A man who cares for her - who she can lean on, and depend on emotionally as a man. A man who is smart, charming, and witty, and a good dancer too. Oh, and who has a big cock he know's how to use. A man who can go multiple rounds over several hours once a week or so, but who will just fuck her to a 15 minute mutual orgasm whenever either of them needs it.
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My wife is drawn to tall men (6’+) which is somewhat odd since she is petite and barely 5’. She also likes athletic men who take care of themselves. Personaility wise, she’s very attracted to confident men with a “bad boy” attitude. Frankly, the handful of men who I’ve met that my wife has slept with always come off to me as arrogant and conceited, but perhaps that’s just how they interact with me since they think they fucked my wife behind my back.
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We have only been this about 2 1/2 years at that time she has only been with two men and a little about a week probably a third. My wife was very innocent when I first brought up to her. She was there in 26 years old and very suspicious of why I would give her so much sexual freedom. I insisted I would never ask for the same freedom, but would be greatly pleased if she was excited other men I think about 10 months passed away from the time I first brought it up until she was eagerly fucking my former boss. She has since told me several times that, yes, she was very hesitant to enter this kind of lifestyle she heads that she sure once a loving wife tries it. There’s no one back I believe she’s right.
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My wife has been with all types of men but she mainly got drawn to black gentlemen. My is is Hispanic 5’2” tall 120 lbs. and she liked that the black men treated her like she was a queen. Apart from the usual male endowment they have she liked the stamina most of them had. Also she did like them tall, strong, and big. She liked for them to be intelligent able to hold a conversation not just sex.
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Polite and in shape first. She does like a big cock if she can get it. The guy she dated before we met was 8" and she enjoyed it but he had an ego about it which was a turn off for her.
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Till date as a HW she's been around with 11 guys (not a big number). With her....its all starts with her being comfortable. There have been guys between ages 30 and 40 who were 6'+ good looking fit and then there's been a cpl of guys just over 50 and one guy who shocked me the most (looked like Alan Harper from Two and Half men) :). She doesn't have a type of guy but she clearly has a type she doesn't want. She dislikes guys who are loud or boast or have a big ego. I initially chat with the guys n weed out flakes/fakes (just to look out) we prefer guys who are easy going, can hold a general conversation, guys who can be good company, she prefer them being reasonably fit (HWP) someone she would give a second look at least. As it turns out its been fun so far and coincidentally a couple of the guys were hung as well....was just the cherry on the cake!!!
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"Good looking with a big dick" was how she initially described her ideal stud. That quickly became modified to include other attributes:
1. Tall
2. Muscular/well built men
3. Dominant persona (not really into physical domination), but more verbal and take charge types.
4. Younger than her...preferably late 30's to late 40's.

Over 1/2 the men she's dated consisted of ex/current military men and ex college athletes.
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Miss Sue doesn't discriminate, but has always been drawn to the biker and construction types.
If she built her perfect man, he'd be six feet tall with brown hair and eyes, in shape, naturally muscular, nice teeth, naturally smooth chest, nicely defined arms with an eight inch cock.
He'd also be between 35-45 and have an outstanding personality.
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My wife's basic type is probably a little bit older of a guy. I'm seven years older than her and she's been with other guy's a good amount older. She's got a bit of a submissive streak in bed so I think older men taking charge does it for her.

Otherwise, she's pretty hard to peg. As an example, her high school boyfriend was kind of a cowboy/outdoor kind of guy. She didn't want to fall for a guy in her small town because her mom told her sex makes you fall in love and she was not going to get stuck in that town. So she spent 3 years giving him hand jobs and occasionally sucking his dick. After high school they broke up and she starts dating the total opposite.... long hair, leather jacket, smoker. She knew she wouldn't fall for him so she was with him about a week before he was pulling her panties off and fucking her virgin pussy. Never dated anyone like that again but he got to wear her out for a month or so.
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Confident, successful, caring, taller than me.
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