Leggysandy Stepping Out

[leggysman]

Thank you for your ongoing story, it is very captivating and erotic.

Happy New Year to you, Leggysandy and all your contributors.

And to you! New year, new developments!

My sexy hotwife leggysandy has been chatting with 3 new guys. The first, she gets on with really well, and when she allows it he loves to send her pics of his rather girthy cock. However, she has put him on ice, since she's not happy with his relationship situation. He has a girlfriend and said he was planning to break up with her, but has now changed his mind and they're going to therapy or something. The girlfriend has a young child. Leggysandy doesn't want to get in the middle of all that. Nonetheless, I have seen evidence that she still gets off on the idea of having him, they still chat, and he's still hopeful

The second guy, she met for dinner last (Weds) night. She didn't have high expectations since the chatting had been a bit terse (from his side) and not too compelling, and I think she was mostly just being nice in agreeing to meet. She ended up liking him more than she expected, but the restaurant was middling, the conversation didn't seem to flow very naturally, she didn't think there was much spark between them, and the date ended with a hug.

The third guy, she's been excited about for a little while now. He seems very witty and lively in their chats, and she thought his pics looked good. Australian. Her obvious enthusiasm for this guy has been a real turn-on for me too -- she hasn't been this fired up about a new man for a while. They met for dinner tonight, and shortly after she arrived, she messaged:

I like him!

They had a "lovely evening" with plenty of banter and good laughs, and the date ended with a kiss and a feel.

He joked that he was going to have to go home, see his wife, go to bed alone, and jerk off. She teased that she was going to go home and have sex with her husband (reader, she did ). He took it well. He might have a little bit of a sharing slant, perhaps. He has attempted to interest his own wife in an MFM, but she declined.

Leggysandy has already made up her mind about this one He's away overseas this coming week, but hopefully they'll manage to arrange date #2 soon after he returns. They both seem ... motivated!

[Jamesparistoo]

That is amazing. Thank you for the update on the developments! Looks like are some hot situations in the making. Great that Leggysandy is fired up about no 3… a pity she had to wait for a bit with him going overseas…

[Parsifal]

I can only imagine the thrill even of being on a short list of hers as she's deciding on that final cut. She has every right to be as picky and discriminating as you've described. I would be honored just to occupy so much of her deliberation in being passed over. Surely she occupies mine from afar.

[Sexilexi]

Happy to be caught up. You two are fun.

-Lexi

[athlete915]

There's a pretty simple lesson in leggysman's last post: if a guy wants to be with a couple, it is going to take more than just being handsome and good in bed. Wives want to be seduced. They want men who are clever and charming. Who can flirt and build the anticipation when they are apart, which is especially important in this lifestyle. Men who dress well and take care of themselves.

Sadly, too many men don't grasp that. They think that just because the relationship is sexually focused, they can skip those aspects. If anything, it reflects laziness on their part.

Getting a couple takes work. You need to seduce her and earn his trust. Furthermore, you can't get lazy once you are with them. You still need to make her feel special, wanted, and desired, while also maintaining his trust and support. So, staying with couples also takes work.

[toshare]

As a cuck who is married to a great woman who has a great boyfriend, couples need to also keep in mind single men who want to be in a triad relationship are also far and few between, much less add the attractive comparability part. Yes, men would love to have sex with my wife or may wives here bc were wired to for it, but it does not mean men naturally seek it. They ,too, like all of us ultimately want a meaningful connection with a woman who's single and compatible. Seems many here think single men are just out there should be desperate or willing just to have a pretty lady next to them, they are not(im not saying anyone here in this thread is, im speaking in general, no one here on this thread has given that vibe, I think men seem to throw that off more than women, though not always).
Ive been single. Im lucky enough to be blessed with looks that are above average, ive worked hard for success in finance and to be in great shape, I workout 5 days a week, Ive taken many forms of martial arts, I.m confident ect. Id not want to be a womans bf in a hotwife relationship. Ive been the 3rd for several great couples and sometimes its a one and Im not interested anymore for anything. Sometimes the woman is not as pretty as her pics or the chemistry is not there, and as men were wired not to hurt women's egos by having them think they are not pretty or sexy enough, so, getting out of those situations can be tricky. Ive met a couple before where I was like no way am I into this even to kiss her. I think couples need to know that the men they meet, too, have things in their life they are looking for, rather in the moment for HW fun or even if its a long term thing. Now add the how hard it is to find a man whos into the lifestyle then that hes one you consider attractive or in his case a woman hes attracted to,and knowing she brings a 3rd to it all , too, its a small percentage and a hard thing to find. Couples need to work at making it work ,too, the single man is not the only one who gets lucky and all the work should be put on him. Thus when were lucky it lines up, us cucks, our wives and her bf are very lucky.

[hwlurker88]

Toshare.

These are the types of things I think about as well that don't really get discussed much. Thus, this is why I feel the odds are so stacked against my wife and i ever having this experience. We are very picky about what is attractive and desired, and I assume that the other guy would be the same way. Seems practically impossible with our desires.

[petarperr]

I've just read all your updates and I have to admit I'm delighted. Oduševljen

[leggysman]

Welcome to the forum, petarperr. Hvala, drago mi je.

[Jamesparistoo]

An admiring bump to this mother of all threads! Hope everything is well with the both of you and that you have some new adventures for gorgeous Sandy written in the stars!

[leggysman]

Thank you

All is well with us - just nothing much to report recently. The few guys she's been in chats with - or met - washed out. Boring reasons mostly; ultimately just incompatibility with what she's looking for, or personality. There's a new guy she's talking to at the moment, but who knows what will happen?

[Jamesparistoo]

Thank you Leggysman!

Hopefully Leggysandy and you will soon find a new play partner with whom things work out perfectly. It probably has to do with my lack of experience but I continue to be amazed how difficult it is for couples to find good and reliable play partners for the wife. Certainly if the lady is a gorgeous, playful and expereinced as Leggysandy.

I get that some guys might get intimidated or performance anxiety when playing with another male (let alone with the female’s husband/partner) present, but that should not – or in any event to a much lesser extent – be the case with married ladies playing alone.

[Parsifal]

She's definitely got good cause to be choosy. That she does reflects well on you too.

[leggysman]

She is pretty hard on these guys, I have to admit. She does not indulge them with many second chances

Honestly, it's a wonder I managed to marry her before getting dumped. I came pretty close to getting dumped; I let my ex (of 10 years) stay with me whilst recovering from major surgery. Despite my reassurances, that did not go down well.

[Bloomincpl]

I continue to be amazed how difficult it is for couples to find good and reliable play partners for the wife. Certainly if the lady is a gorgeous, playful and expereinced as Leggysandy.

I get that some guys might get intimidated or performance anxiety when playing with another male (let alone with the female’s husband/partner) present, but that should not – or in any event to a much lesser extent – be the case with married ladies playing alone.

There's a lot of things that play into finding good and reliable play partners for your wife. It can actually be statistically daunting:

• First, of all the male population, eliminate any that aren't interested in playing with a married woman
• Eliminate men who are outside of desired age range
• Eliminate men who aren't interested in the husband of the wife being involved or at least fully in the know
• Eliminate men who aren't attractive to your wife
• Eliminate men who are flakes, who won't reliably show up for dates
• Eliminate men who aren't respectful to the husband
• Eliminate men who don't meet any other criteria of your wife (such as non-smoker, or non-drinker, or etc.)
• Eliminate men who are looking for more than just a sexual partner, i.e. wanting more than your wife can give

There's possibly more elimination steps, depending on the situation.

It's often said that finding a play partner for a hotwife is quite a bit like dating; gotta kiss a lot of frogs before finding a good prince. Thing is, it's actually a bit harder than that.

I've always been an advocate for keeping good play partners around. Why get rid of them after a few play dates just because of emotional fear? That's a legitimate fear, but if you can navigate it successfully it's quite rewarding.

[ferrisandrews]

Great list Bloomincpl!

[leggysman]

Leggysandy had a social date with a new guy tonight. First one in a while. She was looking hot in a little blue dress, with lots of leg on display (which he noted approvingly). They had a (soft) drink, did some kissing, and he squeezed her bum. She's not sure he's her type physically, but she likes him and his situation, and said he's a good kisser. Sounds like she's inclined to say yes to a second date

[Long Lurker 34]

Leggysandy had a social date with a new guy tonight. First one in a while. She was looking hot in a little blue dress, with lots of leg on display (which he noted approvingly). They had a (soft) drink, did some kissing, and he squeezed her bum. She's not sure he's her type physically, but she likes him and his situation, and said he's a good kisser. Sounds like she's inclined to say yes to a second date

LM
- That's the thing, kissings done, now will the frog turn into a prince.

[Jamesparistoo]

I continue to be amazed how difficult it is for couples to find good and reliable play partners for the wife. Certainly if the lady is a gorgeous, playful and expereinced as Leggysandy.

I get that some guys might get intimidated or performance anxiety when playing with another male (let alone with the female’s husband/partner) present, but that should not – or in any event to a much lesser extent – be the case with married ladies playing alone.

There's a lot of things that play into finding good and reliable play partners for your wife. It can actually be statistically daunting:

• First, of all the male population, eliminate any that aren't interested in playing with a married woman
• Eliminate men who are outside of desired age range
• Eliminate men who aren't interested in the husband of the wife being involved or at least fully in the know
• Eliminate men who aren't attractive to your wife
• Eliminate men who are flakes, who won't reliably show up for dates
• Eliminate men who aren't respectful to the husband
• Eliminate men who don't meet any other criteria of your wife (such as non-smoker, or non-drinker, or etc.)
• Eliminate men who are looking for more than just a sexual partner, i.e. wanting more than your wife can give

There's possibly more elimination steps, depending on the situation.

It's often said that finding a play partner for a hotwife is quite a bit like dating; gotta kiss a lot of frogs before finding a good prince. Thing is, it's actually a bit harder than that.

I've always been an advocate for keeping good play partners around. Why get rid of them after a few play dates just because of emotional fear? That's a legitimate fear, but if you can navigate it successfully it's quite rewarding.

That’s a great and thoughtful post. Thank you very much!!

[Jamesparistoo]

Leggysandy had a social date with a new guy tonight. First one in a while. She was looking hot in a little blue dress, with lots of leg on display (which he noted approvingly). They had a (soft) drink, did some kissing, and he squeezed her bum. She's not sure he's her type physically, but she likes him and his situation, and said he's a good kisser. Sounds like she's inclined to say yes to a second date

Wow. Great to see you updating the mother of all threads again! Exciting developments. Hope Sandy will ride again soon.

[leggysandy]

Leggysandy had a social date with a new guy tonight. First one in a while. She was looking hot in a little blue dress, with lots of leg on display (which he noted approvingly). They had a (soft) drink, did some kissing, and he squeezed her bum. She's not sure he's her type physically, but she likes him and his situation, and said he's a good kisser. Sounds like she's inclined to say yes to a second date

LM
- That's the thing, kissings done, now will the frog turn into a prince.

Hardly a frog He's a good looking guy, just not quite "my type", whatever that is. But kissing is great and chemistry is actually really good, so I'm giving this a go, it's been too long!

[leggysandy]

Leggysandy had a social date with a new guy tonight. First one in a while. She was looking hot in a little blue dress, with lots of leg on display (which he noted approvingly). They had a (soft) drink, did some kissing, and he squeezed her bum. She's not sure he's her type physically, but she likes him and his situation, and said he's a good kisser. Sounds like she's inclined to say yes to a second date

Wow. Great to see you updating the mother of all threads again! Exciting developments. Hope Sandy will ride again soon.

We were meant to see each other next week, but he seems in a rush, and offered to meet again tonight. We are now trying to arrange that.

[leggysman]

She's at the hotel with him now and ready for some fun

[kaskap79]

She's at the hotel with him now and ready for some fun

Oh this sweet and torturing waiting time.

[hornedhubby]

Hope he gives it to her in spectacular fashion.

Happy reunioning and best wishes!