HW is suffering.
HW is suffering.
My hotwife L a woman I adore and have been married to for 46 years
is dealing with several health issues which is making me feel so terrible for her.
L has always been fit and active. Yoga three times a week, walks miles plays pickleball, dances two nights a week and more.
She recently under went some invasive radiology treatments for veins in her leg. Turns out she’s developed several blood clots which resulted in her having to quit HRT which she’s been on for 30 years because the estrogen negatively impacts the blood thinners.
Her having to take blood thinners and steroids ( temporarily) and stop all physical activities except for walking has really played hell with her mental and emotional health.
She’s never been a complainer she keeps things close. Probably the worst thing for her is having to get off the estrogen.
I’m loving her as much as I can and being extra aware of how terrible things are for her.
The good if there is any in all of this it gives me an
opportunity to appreciate her and to show it. She’s been incredibly sweet and appreciative of my support, it’s brought us closer which isn’t all bad.
My point in sharing this with you all it reminds us how blessed we are to be with these very special women and to never forget that. And take the time to show it.
is dealing with several health issues which is making me feel so terrible for her.
L has always been fit and active. Yoga three times a week, walks miles plays pickleball, dances two nights a week and more.
She recently under went some invasive radiology treatments for veins in her leg. Turns out she’s developed several blood clots which resulted in her having to quit HRT which she’s been on for 30 years because the estrogen negatively impacts the blood thinners.
Her having to take blood thinners and steroids ( temporarily) and stop all physical activities except for walking has really played hell with her mental and emotional health.
She’s never been a complainer she keeps things close. Probably the worst thing for her is having to get off the estrogen.
I’m loving her as much as I can and being extra aware of how terrible things are for her.
The good if there is any in all of this it gives me an
opportunity to appreciate her and to show it. She’s been incredibly sweet and appreciative of my support, it’s brought us closer which isn’t all bad.
My point in sharing this with you all it reminds us how blessed we are to be with these very special women and to never forget that. And take the time to show it.
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Re: HW is suffering.
All the best for her. If sex is out, which I assume it is, maybe read her stories from OHW.
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I was pretty much figuring sex was out for a while. I was wrong. We’ve set up a date for later today. She’s feeling better. Had an hour walk yesterday and a swim this morning.wannabecUKold wrote: Thu Jul 16, 2026 4:37 am All the best for her. If sex is out, which I assume it is, maybe read her stories from OHW.
Exercise always helps and so does sex.
Re: HW is suffering.
I have MS, and humidity is bad for me. And it’s been so hot and humid here in southwest PA the last 9 weeks are behave been pretty much dying! So I have not felt like having sex at all. My hubby and lover are so understanding. It’s been raining off and on here the past few days, it’s dropped the temp about 20 degrees. So I was with Hubby Sunday evening, and my lover is coming tomorrow.
Also the past 2 months, I’ve been spending a lot of time with my mom as she was diagnosed with cancer and it’s terminal. So myself, my sister and my daughter are with her as she needs us. So that’s kinda put a damper on the lifestyle as well. But we will make it!! Please let her know I am sending her much love and many prayers! She will be ok, just love her through it!

Also the past 2 months, I’ve been spending a lot of time with my mom as she was diagnosed with cancer and it’s terminal. So myself, my sister and my daughter are with her as she needs us. So that’s kinda put a damper on the lifestyle as well. But we will make it!! Please let her know I am sending her much love and many prayers! She will be ok, just love her through it!
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Thank you that’s so nice of you to share yourself with us/me. And yes on both counts she’ll get through it and is and I’m doing everything I can to support her.
I’m sorry to hear what you’re going through, the very same for your mother. All we can do is keep on going and feel the blessings of every day.
I’m sorry to hear what you’re going through, the very same for your mother. All we can do is keep on going and feel the blessings of every day.
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Thank you for sharing the difficult times too. There doesn't always seem to be a direct correlation between living a healthy lifestyle and it resulting in a life without physical ailment. It seems so unfair to have diligently exercised and watched your diet and then to face illness. That unfairness is especially hard to take when you have friends and family that don't put in any effort and they skate through life to old age.
For me, I can say that age has taught me a lot about appreciating my wife. I've seen what other friends have gone through and I'm thankful that I'm not in their place. My wife isn't a hot wife but she is a good wife and good wife is something to treasure. She knows my interest in the hot wife thing and she at least role plays with me. Sex right now is better than it's ever been for us.
We just had our 48th anniversary. We've had our ups and downs but we hung together through it all. We needed each other to make it. We've built an unbreakable bond. It sounds like you have the same bond with your wife. I can hear the pain in your words that you carry for your wife. You're wife is lucky to have you! You're lucky to have the opportunity again to prove your devotion by working together to whatever end comes your way. Your love will carry her when she can't do it herself!
For me, I can say that age has taught me a lot about appreciating my wife. I've seen what other friends have gone through and I'm thankful that I'm not in their place. My wife isn't a hot wife but she is a good wife and good wife is something to treasure. She knows my interest in the hot wife thing and she at least role plays with me. Sex right now is better than it's ever been for us.
We just had our 48th anniversary. We've had our ups and downs but we hung together through it all. We needed each other to make it. We've built an unbreakable bond. It sounds like you have the same bond with your wife. I can hear the pain in your words that you carry for your wife. You're wife is lucky to have you! You're lucky to have the opportunity again to prove your devotion by working together to whatever end comes your way. Your love will carry her when she can't do it herself!
Hope is not a strategy but it's still good to have! Especially if you don't have a strategy!
I get my denial the old fashion way, I married vanilla!
I get my denial the old fashion way, I married vanilla!
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My heart goes out to you! I was a primary caregiver to my father in law the last year of his life. I couldn't stand to see him stay in the assisted care facility. We had him move in with us. We gave up our bedroom to him. It had an en suite bathroom. When he passed I was sad but I knew I had been the "good" son in law.Natatude wrote: Tue Jul 21, 2026 9:41 pm I have MS, and humidity is bad for me. And it’s been so hot and humid here in southwest PA the last 9 weeks are behave been pretty much dying! So I have not felt like having sex at all. My hubby and lover are so understanding. It’s been raining off and on here the past few days, it’s dropped the temp about 20 degrees. So I was with Hubby Sunday evening, and my lover is coming tomorrow.
Also the past 2 months, I’ve been spending a lot of time with my mom as she was diagnosed with cancer and it’s terminal. So myself, my sister and my daughter are with her as she needs us. So that’s kinda put a damper on the lifestyle as well. But we will make it!! Please let her know I am sending her much love and many prayers! She will be ok, just love her through it!![]()
I hope you find the strength to be strong for your Mom! I hope the affects of the MS can be addressed in some way for you. More than anything I'm sorry you have multiple burdens to carry.
Hope is not a strategy but it's still good to have! Especially if you don't have a strategy!
I get my denial the old fashion way, I married vanilla!
I get my denial the old fashion way, I married vanilla!
Re: HW is suffering.
Suffering is pretty much over. She’s back at it in spades. Didn’t lose much time. In fact she’s on her way home from fucking her long time boyfriend Joe.
Re: HW is suffering.
Thank you so much for your kind words! And may God bless you for taking care of your father in law! It is a tough disease to fight. Sometimes I wanna just give up, but I have grandchildren and they are what keeps me going!coastalkid wrote: Sun Jul 26, 2026 1:43 pmMy heart goes out to you! I was a primary caregiver to my father in law the last year of his life. I couldn't stand to see him stay in the assisted care facility. We had him move in with us. We gave up our bedroom to him. It had an en suite bathroom. When he passed I was sad but I knew I had been the "good" son in law.Natatude wrote: Tue Jul 21, 2026 9:41 pm I have MS, and humidity is bad for me. And it’s been so hot and humid here in southwest PA the last 9 weeks are behave been pretty much dying! So I have not felt like having sex at all. My hubby and lover are so understanding. It’s been raining off and on here the past few days, it’s dropped the temp about 20 degrees. So I was with Hubby Sunday evening, and my lover is coming tomorrow.
Also the past 2 months, I’ve been spending a lot of time with my mom as she was diagnosed with cancer and it’s terminal. So myself, my sister and my daughter are with her as she needs us. So that’s kinda put a damper on the lifestyle as well. But we will make it!! Please let her know I am sending her much love and many prayers! She will be ok, just love her through it!![]()
I hope you find the strength to be strong for your Mom! I hope the affects of the MS can be addressed in some way for you. More than anything I'm sorry you have multiple burdens to carry.
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Good for her!!! I’m so happy she got her groove back!!steveb713 wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2026 2:41 pm Suffering is pretty much over. She’s back at it in spades. Didn’t lose much time. In fact she’s on her way home from fucking her long time boyfriend Joe.
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