When they say thank you and you do too

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LI_hotwife
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When they say thank you and you do too

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Love when a guy thanks you after you share your wife. It shows they appreciate the experience.

Likewise, I enjoy the moment of realization when I thank them and they see that they have done us a favor as well.
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LI_hotwife wrote: Tue Jul 21, 2026 8:21 am Love when a guy thanks you after you share your wife. It shows they appreciate the experience.

Likewise, I enjoy the moment of realization when I thank them and they see that they have done us a favor as well.
That is hot, and a real ego trip for the other guy. I think it would also make them definitely want to return for more.
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MartasBoy wrote: Tue Jul 21, 2026 8:26 am
LI_hotwife wrote: Tue Jul 21, 2026 8:21 am Love when a guy thanks you after you share your wife. It shows they appreciate the experience.

Likewise, I enjoy the moment of realization when I thank them and they see that they have done us a favor as well.
That is hot, and a real ego trip for the other guy. I think it would also make them definitely want to return for more.

Best was when she was sucking a cock and the guy thanked me the whole time.
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Absolutely, it is a blessing we should all be grateful for.
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I had one husband who went above and beyond a simple thank you....he called me in between our scheduled playdates. he wanted to thank me for the transformation that he was seeing with his wife - according to him she felt more confident since they had begun seeing me, he said she felt more capable and would speak her mind at her work much more directly.
for ME it was an awesome compliment, it is truly a gift to be able to empower someone so much that it reaches OUT of the bedroom. needless to say I was and AM very moved by his words...it is always my goal going IN to make couples lives better but the satisfaction of hearing her husband speak about it was absolutely huge.
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One night nearly 30 years ago, in the latter years of our marriage, my wife was going to be spending the night fucking her boyfriend downstairs and she told me I'd have to drive him home the following morning. No problem I thought, although I did think the 10 minute journey might be a little awkward between us. She came upstairs 3 times during the night for me to clean her up so I barely got any sleep as I was listening for any sounds from their fucking and so I was horny all night. At about 6am she called me downstairs and he and I got in my car.

Instead of an awkward silence, he immediately started telling me how much he'd enjoyed the night with my wife and all the different things they'd done. Usually I'd have to ask her quite a few questions about their time together but he had no problem giving me all the details without any questions from me. He said he used to play with another couple and that the husband used to like cleaning him afterwards and mentioned he'd fucked my wife about 15 minutes earlier and asked if I wanted to taste her on him.

My erection was pretty obvious so there was no point in feigning any disinterest and I'd long fantasised about cleaning an ex lover of hers so I immediately said yes and stopped the car as soon as I could. He pulled his trousers down and I took him in my mouth and started licking and cleaning every inch of his penis. It very soon started growing in my mouth and as he was very well endowed, I felt proud that my wife could handle him so well. He soon started moving his hips and I realised he'd soon need to cum so I started sucking him until he came in my mouth and I swallowed his load.

We continued our journey and as he got out of the car he thanked me and I remember thanking him. To this day I don't know if I was thanking him for fucking my wife so well or for letting me clean him.
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LI_hotwife wrote: Tue Jul 21, 2026 8:21 am Love when a guy thanks you after you share your wife. It shows they appreciate the experience.

Likewise, I enjoy the moment of realization when I thank them and they see that they have done us a favor as well.
I know just what you mean. Often, we’d meet a guy and invite him into our bedroom. He and Mary would spend their time together - often more than an hour - while I was watching and/or helping them in MFM. A point would come where the two of them were quenched, both completely exhausted for the moment. It was then that I’d go down to the kitchen and spend a few minutes making drinks, putting snacks on a tray. When I got back to the bedroom the three of us would sit on the bed, completely naked, and the guy would seem to realize how fortunate he was.

It was then that he almost always thanked us, shared his gratitude, and of course we’d tell him he’d made our night - especially hers.

And, of course, then it was off for the second round . . .
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Over the years ny wife Ann has had numerous boyfriends. She had a routine where Tuesday nights was date night and she would be home by midnight (it was a work night for her) and Friday nights she would stay at their apartments and be home (hopefully) for our kids sports on Saturday morning.


Friday nights Ann would drive herself there and then home Saturday morning. Tuesdays, however, she would be going out to dinner and drinking etc so driving herself wasn't an option. I would drive Ann to her boyfriend's apartment, walk her to his door and wait with her. When he opened the door they would immediately kiss and I would stand and watch.
Ann's boyfriend would then greet me and we would shske hands. Ann would then kiss me and walk inside. I would then thank her boyfriend for making her happy tonight and looking after her. I would then thank him in advance for dropping her home and saving me a return trip.

He would usually say, "No problems, John, it is my pleasure". Thank you for giving me Ann tonight. As usual she looks so hot. I am a lucky man".

I would then make my farewells and leave them to it. Sometimes though I would get a call at 11.30pm and it would be her boyfriend apologising that he had decided to have a few extra drinks and I would have to pick Ann up. That was frustrating as I would have to get up, get dressed and make the 20 minute drive to pick her up.

When I would knock on his door he would always apologise and invite me in. Sometimes Ann was dressed and ready, sometimes not. If she was in his bedroom still dressing we would chat about their night. He would tell me where they went and sometimes how Ann had sucked his cock while he drove or let him finger her in the back of an uber.

When Ann was eventually ready to leave, and after deeply kissing her boyfriend in front of me, I would shake his hand and thank him for giving Ann a great night and making her happy. He would always thank me for sharing Ann with him.

To me this is just two guys having manners and showing respect to each other.
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AdamGunn wrote: Thu Jul 23, 2026 6:50 am
LI_hotwife wrote: Tue Jul 21, 2026 8:21 am Love when a guy thanks you after you share your wife. It shows they appreciate the experience.

Likewise, I enjoy the moment of realization when I thank them and they see that they have done us a favor as well.
I know just what you mean. Often, we’d meet a guy and invite him into our bedroom. He and Mary would spend their time together - often more than an hour - while I was watching and/or helping them in MFM. A point would come where the two of them were quenched, both completely exhausted for the moment. It was then that I’d go down to the kitchen and spend a few minutes making drinks, putting snacks on a tray. When I got back to the bedroom the three of us would sit on the bed, completely naked, and the guy would seem to realize how fortunate he was.

It was then that he almost always thanked us, shared his gratitude, and of course we’d tell him he’d made our night - especially hers.

And, of course, then it was off for the second round . . .
Yes, that is a special moment, the connection with the couple is what I value greatly. To have that intimate moment is truly special and we should always be thankful. Showing gratitude is a strength not an emotional weakness as some might believe. Sharing thanks (and snacks) makes the second round all the more passionate, the sexual bond is closer and the orgasms become longer and more intense.
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I totally agree about this, in particular when my wife thanks me...I can truly see the light of sincere gratitude and appreciation for what we are as a couple.
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In my experience, my relationships with couples work best when everyone is happy and appreciative of one another. I appreciate the wife for our relationship and the husband for allowing and supporting it. She appreciates me for the pleasure I give her, and her husband for the freedom and support to seek that pleasure. He appreciates her for indulging in his desire for her to play with others, and me for the pleasure I give her.

It's a win-win-win. Each of us appreciates what we have and is thankful for the others.
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athlete915 wrote: Fri Aug 14, 2026 1:32 am In my experience, my relationships with couples work best when everyone is happy and appreciative of one another. I appreciate the wife for our relationship and the husband for allowing and supporting it. She appreciates me for the pleasure I give her, and her husband for the freedom and support to seek that pleasure. He appreciates her for indulging in his desire for her to play with others, and me for the pleasure I give her.

It's a win-win-win. Each of us appreciates what we have and is thankful for the others.
Agree completely, if everyone takes into account everyone’s else’s desires and fantasies then it is indeed one of life’s very rare win-win-win situations.
For that we should be truly thankful
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Thebestdays1 wrote: Wed Jul 22, 2026 1:08 am One night nearly 30 years ago, in the latter years of our marriage, my wife was going to be spending the night fucking her boyfriend downstairs and she told me I'd have to drive him home the following morning. No problem I thought, although I did think the 10 minute journey might be a little awkward between us. She came upstairs 3 times during the night for me to clean her up so I barely got any sleep as I was listening for any sounds from their fucking and so I was horny all night. At about 6am she called me downstairs and he and I got in my car.

Instead of an awkward silence, he immediately started telling me how much he'd enjoyed the night with my wife and all the different things they'd done. Usually I'd have to ask her quite a few questions about their time together but he had no problem giving me all the details without any questions from me. He said he used to play with another couple and that the husband used to like cleaning him afterwards and mentioned he'd fucked my wife about 15 minutes earlier and asked if I wanted to taste her on him.

My erection was pretty obvious so there was no point in feigning any disinterest and I'd long fantasised about cleaning an ex lover of hers so I immediately said yes and stopped the car as soon as I could. He pulled his trousers down and I took him in my mouth and started licking and cleaning every inch of his penis. It very soon started growing in my mouth and as he was very well endowed, I felt proud that my wife could handle him so well. He soon started moving his hips and I realised he'd soon need to cum so I started sucking him until he came in my mouth and I swallowed his load.

We continued our journey and as he got out of the car he thanked me and I remember thanking him. To this day I don't know if I was thanking him for fucking my wife so well or for letting me clean him.
This is super hot!!!
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My wife’s previous regular FB used to thank me frequently. I don’t’ recall verbally thanking him directly, but I always had a sense of deep appreciation for the pleasure he gave her and his contribution to our sex life. Our HW era ended about 10 years ago now, but I regarded him as a friend and remember him fondly.

When I reflect on that entire 14 year era, appreciation is the dominant feeling that comes to mind. Appreciation for how easily my wife agreed to try it. Appreciation for her enthusiastic participation after we started and for witnessing her shed her shy persona and radiate in sexual glory. Appreciation for the guys who have her so much joy and pleasure. Appreciation that we never had any drama or bad experiences. Appreciation for the many videos I have today that help with scratching my itch now that the era is over…I could go on and on.
Omnia Unum. Omnia bona.
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