I'm new here, but I fit right in

[Fearlesspain]

** UPDATE **

The hike update.

A few weeks back we decided we were going to go for a hike. I went about getting ready as did she. When she came out she was wearing an athletic shirt that might as well have been a sports bra and a matching pair of shorts that were short enough to show the bottom of her ass cheeks if she bent over just right.

It was so sexy seeing her pick that out for herself.

We started the hike and I couldn't help but take some pictures of her along the way. The first part of the hike was pretty innocent, but on our way back it started to get a little more exciting.

I noticed she looked a little bit flirtatious and then she started off ahead of me and began rolling her shorts up. She kept walking and rolling until her ass cheeks were completely exposed.

I was awestruck and then she started bending over and striking poses for me to take pictures of.

As we were walking out we began encountering people coming in and I assumed she'd fix her shorts. I began watching her unroll her shorts to cover up, but then she suddenly stopped. She just left them partially hanging out. As we approached a small creek there were 4 men and a woman fishing there. I thought we would just keep walking, but she decided she'd like to enjoy some time at the creek.

To my surprise not only did she decide to stick around but actually started talking to some of the men. All of them were fit and one had his shirt off.

I gave her some space and started taking pictures discreetly. To my surprise I noticed her nipples were pressing hard against her top even though it was quite warm out. Was she turned on? Eventually they began to walk away from the creek and one by one I watched as each and every one of them took a peek at her ass on the way out. Needless to day, my cock was rock hard as I watched the other men desiring her and her standing there allowing it and apparently enjoying it!!!

[Tryn]

That’s fantastic! What does your wife say about that experience?

[Fearlesspain]

That’s fantastic! What does your wife say about that experience?

She doesn't say anything. If I point things out or address them she gets embarrassed or she will make an effort not to do something again in the future. It can be very frustrating at times.

While she was doing it though, she was obviously having fun. Lots of cute playful smiles and I ran the images through an AI to make them look like water color paintings and she thought it was neat.

I told her I was going to have some of her pictures printed off and she said "you should".

[Fearlesspain]

**UPDATE**

Saturday we stayed the night a a friends and I woke up to her spooning me and stroking me cock. It was so enjoyable and slightly kinky not being in our own bed. As I was getting close I began pushing her hand away so as not to finish because I was wearing the only shorts I had brought, but she had other plans. She fought to make me finish which turned me on even more trying to resist her. I felt as she flooded my shorts with cum and then she switched to outside my shorts and slowly stroked me to make sure she got out every drop. She then proceeded to wipe what had leaked through onto her hand all over my chest. When I got up my shorts were soaked from the lack of recent release and the extra turn on. I told her these were my only shorts and she giggled and snapped her finger like "aw shucks". I then put on a pair of her black shorts and put mine in our friends washing machine and made some excuse about not bringing clean shorts and wanting them to be clean. As I walked around my wife kept making comments about legs. It wasn't a noticeable deal and was playful, but it went a little off the rails when she told me she wanted me to go pick her up donuts and coffee creamer. She said if I kept wearing them someone was gonna say "work it girl". I felt the bulge grow in HER shorts as she said it. She was intentionally sending me out in her shorts to prove she was in charge. It was quite euphoric. I don't want to dress in her clothes or anything like that, but this was definitely a unique turn in our adventure.

[Fearlesspain]

**UPDATE**

Last night my sexy wife came home and told me how a male co-worker was putting of a feeling that he was interested in her. He was chatty with her and she wanted me to know.

I told her she was very sensitive to those things so maybe she was right and that I can't blame him!

This morning she was in a very sexy outfit that highlighted her best features.

When she got to work she sent me a picture of herself in that sexy outfit with a smile that showed she was feeling sexy and confident.

I sent her a text that said "I have a hot wife! "

Now in the past she hated that term and would usually tell me not to say it, but her response was "Yeah you do".

Now she's making me dress up, do my hair, and bring her lunch!

[elina]

......

I sent her a text that said "I have a hot wife! "

Now in the past she hated that term and would usually tell me not to say it, but her response was "Yeah you do".

Now she's making me dress up, do my hair, and bring her lunch!

And I am sure you acted like a Good Boy, got all dressed up and brought Her exactely the lunch She always wanted?

Sincerely
elina

[Fearlesspain]

......

I sent her a text that said "I have a hot wife! "

Now in the past she hated that term and would usually tell me not to say it, but her response was "Yeah you do".

Now she's making me dress up, do my hair, and bring her lunch!

And I am sure you acted like a Good Boy, got all dressed up and brought Her exactely the lunch She always wanted?

Sincerely
elina

You know I did!!!

Now for the best part! This morning she told me that her boss giggled when I walked in with her lunch. She greeted me at the door and took the food then kissed me and sent me on my way and that's when she heard him giggle.

I asked her why she thought he laughed and she said because he probably knew i was whipped.

I told her I kinda liked that and that I thought I had created a narrated photo of her....and then I got honest and said, I really liked it and that I had definitely created a narrated photo of her telling me that all of her co-workers knew we were in a FLR.

She just smiled and giggled herself.

When she got to work she sent me a sexy picture of her in the office.

[elina]

.......
I asked her why she thought he laughed and she said because he probably knew i was whipped.

I told her I kinda liked that and that I thought I had created a narrated photo of her....and then I got honest and said, I really liked it and that I had definitely created a narrated photo of her telling me that all of her co-workers knew we were in a FLR.

She just smiled and giggled herself.

When she got to work she sent me a sexy picture of her in the office.

Oh lucky man!!

Personally I think all Females in an FLR should let everybody know that She is the one who makes the decisions and that Her Husband is so happy to do Her bidding. Not by explicitly telling, but by doing exactly what your Wonderful Wife is doing; having you display your devotion and willingness to obey Her for all to see. A truly loving couple where both enjoy the Lady getting Her way all the time.

The more common this becomes, the more natural it will be for the Lady to show everybody how well this works for both Her and Her loving husband, and the easier it will be for both males and Females to live their lifestyle in the fully open, even if the more kinky details can be reserved for the special friends of the Lady in charge...

Sincerely
elina

[Fearlesspain]

.......
I asked her why she thought he laughed and she said because he probably knew i was whipped.

I told her I kinda liked that and that I thought I had created a narrated photo of her....and then I got honest and said, I really liked it and that I had definitely created a narrated photo of her telling me that all of her co-workers knew we were in a FLR.

She just smiled and giggled herself.

When she got to work she sent me a sexy picture of her in the office.

Oh lucky man!!

Personally I think all Females in an FLR should let everybody know that She is the one who makes the decisions and that Her Husband is so happy to do Her bidding. Not by explicitly telling, but by doing exactly what your Wonderful Wife is doing; having you display your devotion and willingness to obey Her for all to see. A truly loving couple where both enjoy the Lady getting Her way all the time.

The more common this becomes, the more natural it will be for the Lady to show everybody how well this works for both Her and Her loving husband, and the easier it will be for both males and Females to live their lifestyle in the fully open, even if the more kinky details can be reserved for the special friends of the Lady in charge...

Sincerely
elina

EXACTLY!!!

I love seeing her in charge and happy. She is happier that way.
We tried gender norm roles, but we fought all the time and it never really worked with me being in charge and her being so naturally dominant.

Now things just flow so well. I LOVE it when she takes the lead.

I know she might not want to be a hotwife right now, but once it's her idea there isn't going to be any stopping her!

[Fearlesspain]

**UPDATE**

My wife and I had a weekend get-away planned last weekend and I was blown away!

It started with her giving me some dress options for her to wear. I picked a long summer dress with a deep cut v neck and string straps.

She had never worn it before and as she put it on she realized that her nipples would peek out if she moved too much.

I anticipated her changing into another dress, but as she showed me what was happening each time she noticed by my reaction that I was aroused at the thought of a "nip slip".

The next two hours we spent riding in the car to our destination. It is a larger city and I had mentioned the previous week in preparation that the farther from home she is, the more unencumbered she becomes. As we got closer and closer she became more and more bold. She eventually gave up and allowed her perfect fake tits to billow out. She then put her feet on the dash and my cock leaped in my pants as the dress slide down to expose an anklet I didn't know she put on. I made an audible gasp and she gave me a mischievous smile and then allowed her dress to keep flowing to expose her bare thighs.

As we drove she pulled her dress up higher so that I could see she was not wearing panties. Then she simply laid her seat back and closed her eyes as we drove. Bare chested and pussy exposed to the world.

As we exited the highway and began making our way into the city I expected her to cover herself, but as we pulled up to a light in the middle of the city she opened her eyes, looked around and then closed them again and exclaimed "I love this city!" and then smiled a smile that was both erotic and content. I whipped out my phone to take pictures and without opening her eyes she giggled and said "what are you doing over there?!"

She then instructed me to drop her off to go shopping while I went to prepare our hotel room. As we arrived at her first store, she went to exit the vehicle and had to use her purse to cover herself as she exited the vehicle because even though she had fixed her dress, her tits fell out again. It was so entertaining watching a couple exit the store as she was getting out and I'm confident he got to see at least some and his wife also seemed to be incapable of looking away as my wife was getting out. While I was gone I began getting notifications that she was very much enjoying her little shopping escapade. I returned to her wearing a completely different outfit and she explained that she didn't want to press her luck and end up getting in trouble so she bought a new dress.

After shopping we spent the evening dining and drinking and then returned to the hotel room.

She demanded a massage that I was delighted to provide. As I continued I transitioned from the massage to a massage with my cock inside her as I rubbed her calves and feet. She was delighted.

As I could feel myself getting closer I pulled out and gave her oral to give myself time for composure. I then took her from behind and then pulled out and gave her ass some much needed affection.

Once she was warmed up I went to our bag of toys and got her favorite dildo for her ass and began working it slowly. I then put on my sleeve for the first time. It adds two inches and a decent amount of girth.

From behind I worked her dildo with one hand and my sleeve was used while I pulled her back with the other. She was in a state of total bliss.

I then moved so she could ride me. As she lowered herself down she felt the full size of the sleeve and I have never seen her more satisfied.

As she was riding me she exclaimed "I CAN'T DO BOTH", so I pulled the dildo from her ass and threw it on the ground. It turned a switch and she began riding me like a wild woman.

She wasn't making love. She was FUCKING. She was loud and passionate and she was able to achieve a mindblowing climax.

As she finished she collapsed on me as I wrapped my arms around her. I gave her a few soft thrusts to see if she was interested in more and she absolutely was.

I sat up and held her in the lotus position and she began to ride me again as I held and kissed her.

She was able to finish again. As she finished, the intimacy of the moment began pushing me over the edge even with the sleeve on, so I told her and she rode me aggressively until I finished in the sleeve.

We then showered and cuddled until we fell asleep.

The next day she wore a strapless dress, but told me she had intended to wear lingerie out for me, but hadn't purchased something to cover her nipples and wasn't wanted to risk getting in trouble.

On the way home she rode topless most of the ride!

It was an incredible weekend and I am so glad I have the sleeve.
My goal is to use it to explain to her that it's okay if she needs something bigger to be satisfied and that it doesn't hurt my feelings. I want her to feel fully fulfilled (and filled). Hopefully this will be the catalyst for becoming a certified cuck!

[Fearlesspain]

**UPDATE**

My wife sent me some pictures of her soaked pussy a while back. It was so juicy and there was so much it looked almost like someone had came on the front of her. On a different day more recent she sent me a picture of her panties that were soaked and captioned it "Not because of you". It was intended to be a reminder that she had done herself a favor and I wasn't the cause for her arousal.

Because I'm a cuck I put the two images together to make it look like she had been pleased by another man. I think she may have saw it, but I wasn't trying to hide it.

Fast forward to last night, she made me go down on her and she was absolutely soaked and said she had been saving it for me. I ate til she was satisfied and then she rode me but ensured I didn't finish.

Later in the evening she said how did you like me saving all that white stuff for you?

FUCK! Does she know I secretly want to eat her after she's been with another man?!?

That's all for now, but I can't get it out of my mind!

[Jaydub1984]

Dude show some pics of her, I’m getting turned on. And yes I’m the type of guy your wife brings up.

[elina]

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Later in the evening she said how did you like me saving all that white stuff for you?

FUCK! Does she know I secretly want to eat her after she's been with another man?!?

That's all for now, but I can't get it out of my mind!

Hm,

She probably does; She appears to be not only a sexy Lady but also a smart one....

So why don't you tell Her how that comment made you feel, tell Her how much you really want Her to save the white stuff from another male, how much you love to watch Her Confidence and Dominance over you grow......

Sincerely
elina

[Fearlesspain]

Because I'm worried how she'll take it and what if it's off putting and we lose all of the progress we've made?

[FNQLivin]

My partner and I are currently doing couples therapy and also individual psychology therapy. One thing that has stood out and caused us the issues we have seen is that we both practice avoidance. We are both scared of what happens if the other person doesn't like what we say. I am especially bad at this. It is ultimately what has led us to the place we got to.

You and your wife seem to be perfect for each, take risk.

[Dream Weaver]

Because I'm worried how she'll take it and what if it's off putting and we lose all of the progress we've made?

Umm. She's sending it to you. Why would you liking it be off-putting? I get that you might be playing coy, but really, you can say "oh God that turns me on" and she won't mind.

[elina]

Because I'm worried how she'll take it and what if it's off putting and we lose all of the progress we've made?

That is understandable and commendable; only you can judge that.
Is there a way of demonstrating your commitment that you feel confident will not be off putting to Her?

Sincerely
elina

[Fearlesspain]

Because I'm worried how she'll take it and what if it's off putting and we lose all of the progress we've made?

That is understandable and commendable; only you can judge that.
Is there a way of demonstrating your commitment that you feel confident will not be off putting to Her?

Sincerely
elina

Because of past relationships she doubts my commitment to her. She went through my phone yesterday and said I was being too flirty with co-workers even though I'm not flirtatious in any way. The worst it got was "thanks, you're the best" to a female who is the best at her job and took care of an issue for me.

She asked how I'd like it if she flirted like that with men at her work. I told her it wouldn't bother me (secretly I want her to do more). She tried to tell me over and over how it would bother me.

I just don't think she's ever going to be interested in anything/anyone else.

#ClosetCuck

[FNQLivin]

That explains it. She must be very insecure and in her mind, has every right to be. It can be toxic though and ultimately ruin a relationship.

[Tryn]

I think she was looking for assurances from you that she is all that you desire. She obviously recognizes you like other guys lusting after her. It’s reasonable for her to think that you might be encouraging her so that you can play with other women. Keep reinforcing to her that she’s all that you desire, she’s more than enough for you, and that you love her being provocative in public. Oh… and keep reinforcing how much you love her and how secure the relationship is!

[Fearlesspain]

I think she was looking for assurances from you that she is all that you desire. She obviously recognizes you like other guys lusting after her. It’s reasonable for her to think that you might be encouraging her so that you can play with other women. Keep reinforcing to her that she’s all that you desire, she’s more than enough for you, and that you love her being provocative in public. Oh… and keep reinforcing how much you love her and how secure the relationship is!

I'll keep working on it.

She sent me a text this week stating that 75% of our conversations are about sex and that she didn't like that. I disagree with the number, but besides that, she's also the one starting half of that 75%?!?

She's very puzzling.

[elina]

I think she was looking for assurances from you that she is all that you desire. She obviously recognizes you like other guys lusting after her. It’s reasonable for her to think that you might be encouraging her so that you can play with other women. Keep reinforcing to her that she’s all that you desire, she’s more than enough for you, and that you love her being provocative in public. Oh… and keep reinforcing how much you love her and how secure the relationship is!

I'll keep working on it.

She sent me a text this week stating that 75% of our conversations are about sex and that she didn't like that. I disagree with the number, but besides that, she's also the one starting half of that 75%?!?

She's very puzzling.

Never apply logic to what a Lady claims, your task is to listen to Her and feel that you are only focused on Her.

So basically; She is telling you that you need to stop initiating conversations about sex, because then it becomes to much. Maybe you should tell Her you love it when She is stating what She likes and doesn't like and you will now try not to initiate a conversation about sex but She is of course free to do that when she wants to...

Good luck

Elina

[testing_horn]

I think she was looking for assurances from you that she is all that you desire. She obviously recognizes you like other guys lusting after her. It’s reasonable for her to think that you might be encouraging her so that you can play with other women. Keep reinforcing to her that she’s all that you desire, she’s more than enough for you, and that you love her being provocative in public. Oh… and keep reinforcing how much you love her and how secure the relationship is!

I'll keep working on it.

She sent me a text this week stating that 75% of our conversations are about sex and that she didn't like that. I disagree with the number, but besides that, she's also the one starting half of that 75%?!?

She's very puzzling.

As a male you've had this on your mind a lot longer than her and now that it's out in the open you're excited to talk about it. I find that happen with me and my wife too. And I feel as though recently we talk about sex a lot, mostly brought up by me. There needs to be a balance or you'll damage your marriage (so will I)

[Tryn]

I think she was looking for assurances from you that she is all that you desire. She obviously recognizes you like other guys lusting after her. It’s reasonable for her to think that you might be encouraging her so that you can play with other women. Keep reinforcing to her that she’s all that you desire, she’s more than enough for you, and that you love her being provocative in public. Oh… and keep reinforcing how much you love her and how secure the relationship is!

I'll keep working on it.

She sent me a text this week stating that 75% of our conversations are about sex and that she didn't like that. I disagree with the number, but besides that, she's also the one starting half of that 75%?!?

She's very puzzling.

It’s not about the actual mathematics of it. It’s purely about how she feels it is. Do your best to not bring it up. I know it’s difficult!! If she’s bringing it up on her own, then try to only discuss it when she brings it up. Likely, she needs to be in the right headspace for the conversation. So when she brings it up, she is. Most of the time you do, she’s likely not.