so I guess my way has just begun for real?
so I guess my way has just begun for real?
The first step has been made. Today I had a conversation with my wife about her having sex with other man. She wasn't shocked or disgusted. The whole time I was telling her about that idea, describing the whole kink and my deep hidden fantasies, she was smirking. When I finished, she took my hand said still smiling "oh really? well, we think about it". It feels both exciting and terrifying.
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Re: so I guess my way has just begun for real?
Let her bring it up on her own in conversation next time, that way she will not feel pressured, and you will know it has been on her mind.
It sounds like you are on your way to an exciting adventure.
Can you describe her please? Or perhaps post some pics of her in the Hotties section?
Cheers!
It sounds like you are on your way to an exciting adventure.
Can you describe her please? Or perhaps post some pics of her in the Hotties section?
Cheers!
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Re: so I guess my way has just begun for real?
just_cuck wrote: Thu Aug 13, 2026 7:01 am The first step has been made. Today I had a conversation with my wife about her having sex with other man. She wasn't shocked or disgusted. The whole time I was telling her about that idea, describing the whole kink and my deep hidden fantasies, she was smirking. When I finished, she took my hand said still smiling "oh really? well, we think about it". It feels both exciting and terrifying.
That sounds phenomenal. You could start some low level exploration, just to keep the fantasy warm. Ask her who her favorite celebrity crush is. Ask her what she finds attractive about him, and what she would imagine doing with him, in her fantasy.
My wife and I will often go out to dinner, or do some people watching sitting on a bench on a busy sidewalk. We will ask each other too point out people they find attractive and why.
There is that stupid Crush game that the younger generation sometimes plays as they judge the attractiveness of other people. They call it Marry, fuck, kill"
My wife and I do a less crass and violent form of that that might be best characterized as:
One night stand; Long term lover; I'll pass.
See if she will play a similar game with you, and point out guys who she finds attractive, and could fantasize about being with. Then see if she will create a Real Fantasy around that person, later at home.
Re: so I guess my way has just begun for real?
Time for an update.
It seems she's much into it than I have ever thought. She has already met with her Instagram friend to check if the vibes are right. It was a proper date. They had a coffee, then a dinner, then a long walk along the river. A lot of talk, and she told me they have been passionately kissing and publicly touching themselves. Now they plan to meet soon to take it to another level.
I am both excited and scared. She is texting him constantly, they are fantasying about what is gonna happen and so on. It sounds like a dream but what if...
Anyway, stay tuned. I am gonna report sooner or later how it went.
It seems she's much into it than I have ever thought. She has already met with her Instagram friend to check if the vibes are right. It was a proper date. They had a coffee, then a dinner, then a long walk along the river. A lot of talk, and she told me they have been passionately kissing and publicly touching themselves. Now they plan to meet soon to take it to another level.
I am both excited and scared. She is texting him constantly, they are fantasying about what is gonna happen and so on. It sounds like a dream but what if...
Anyway, stay tuned. I am gonna report sooner or later how it went.
Re: so I guess my way has just begun for real?
Yes, it's that "what if" that can really get us.just_cuck wrote: Mon Aug 17, 2026 11:15 am Time for an update.
It seems she's much into it than I have ever thought...
..........Now they plan to meet soon to take it to another level.
I am both excited and scared. ........
It sounds like a dream but what if...
Anyway, stay tuned. I am gonna report sooner or later how it went.
Congratulations. And good luck.
Re: so I guess my way has just begun for real?
Wow you got a great response there! Onward and good luck!
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Re: so I guess my way has just begun for real?
You are a lucky man. You got past maybe. Collected $200 and built your hotel on Park Place all in the span of a blink of the eye. I’ve been dealing with maybe for years hence my holed up in wannabe jail. maybe in my house translates into not in my lifetime.