Hey there..
My wife and I (both 37) are interested in getting into this lifestyle. Hoping to get some quality information, tips, ect..
We have been married for 10 years now and have flirted with the idea here and there. I like the idea of her being a HW. We’ve also talked about full swaps.
Anywho.. I’ll probably be a lurker for a bit! Looking forward to what comes of this
Hello from CA
Re: Hello from CA
Welcome to the forum, Beepb00p. That's very exciting that she seems to be considering it. I highly recommend having a hotwife! 
This site has a wealth of information (not to mention umpteen thousand opinions) so do spend some time just reading and absorbing.
Don't be shy about starting your own thread to document your progression. Perhaps in the Wannabe section? If and when you make the leap into the 'lifestyle', we can always move it to another forum.
This site has a wealth of information (not to mention umpteen thousand opinions) so do spend some time just reading and absorbing.
Don't be shy about starting your own thread to document your progression. Perhaps in the Wannabe section? If and when you make the leap into the 'lifestyle', we can always move it to another forum.
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SalseroStag
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Re: Hello from CA
Welcome.
It’s an exhilarating experience.
If you are both onboard it will be a quicker stable ride.
Go slow at first you can’t prepare 100% for the emotional ride.
It’s an exhilarating experience.
If you are both onboard it will be a quicker stable ride.
Go slow at first you can’t prepare 100% for the emotional ride.
Re: Hello from CA
Can you describe you and your wife?
Your wife: Ht., Wt., Hair/eye color, measurements if you know them.
You: Ht., Wt., Hair/eye color, build.
Your wife: Ht., Wt., Hair/eye color, measurements if you know them.
You: Ht., Wt., Hair/eye color, build.
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coastalkid
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Re: Hello from CA
Where in CA?
Hope is not a strategy but it's still good to have! Especially if you don't have a strategy!
I get my denial the old fashion way, I married vanilla!
I get my denial the old fashion way, I married vanilla!
Re: Hello from CA
My wife is 5’1”, 180lbs proportionally thick.. excellent ass., dirty blonde, blue eyes, 42DD.joel68 wrote: Wed Aug 19, 2026 6:33 pm Can you describe you and your wife?
Your wife: Ht., Wt., Hair/eye color, measurements if you know them.
You: Ht., Wt., Hair/eye color, build.
I am 6’6”, 290lbs, blue collar build, blue/green eyes, dark hair.
Re: Hello from CA
Welcome to the group. There is a lot of information available to read or ask questions if you want. The wannabe section is very good and are stories how others are trying to get started. But just want to welcome you and we are glad your here.
Re: Hello from CA
So what kind of guy do you want to see fuck her? And is there stuff that you want to see done to her that you don’t do?