Newbie HotWife from New Hampshire

[Dham66]

Hi, have not yet experienced my first hotwife experience I am 59, husband is 52. He says he’s just interested in watching, excited to read this forum.

[leggysman]

Welcome to OHW, Dham66. Enjoy the forum (lots to learn!) and I hope you get to give hotwifing a try! Please keep us updated on your progress.

[Wantsomefunto]

Nice that you are looking into things. Has he said who he wants you with?

[Dham66]

No he hasn’t said who he wants me with

[Greenthumb]

I wish I lived closer. I would love to be watched by your husband with you. Have you been looking for someone? You definitely should look for someone so that you can find the person that’s right for you since you’ll be the one with the guy.

[MartasBoy]

Hi, have not yet experienced my first hotwife experience I am 59, husband is 52. He says he’s just interested in watching, excited to read this forum.

What kind of an arrangement would you most desire for yourself? Are you interested in a boyfriend with benefits kind of arrangement? Or more interested in a dominant guy who might be in the role of a bull?

What things would you want, and what involvement by your husband are you comfortable with?
Are you a take charge kind of woman who likes to call the shots, or are you more interested in a guy who would take charge of the situation more?

[Dham66]

I think a slightly more dominant man, my husband not sure he wants to be involved. He says watching for now may pop in but not necessarily. Are thing is safety which is #1

[Wantsomefunto]

Takes the right guy! Do you know anyone you would be interested in playing with?

[farmwife89]

This is exciting times. Our first was last summer. We talked and set ground rules. Like u i desired a more dominant man, i feel for my first it was best. He and i hit it off and dated till april this yr. He was late 40s and me 32, so a nice age spread. We transferred actually to NH,, so maybe we are close. Exciting thing, my first lover had a cousin he is close to and we been dating some, I feel maybe a good second.
Have fun, go slow and feel free to reach out, i can shared my private email if u like.

[farmwife89]

I believe maybe alone at first is best. Hubby agreed and it wasn't till a month before we moved hubby watched. Just was best fit for us.

[Swanilla]

Welcome to the site, Dham66.

[Hellion4u]

Welcome hope u find what your looking for

[BC100000]

Hi there. Hope it's going well for you! Ever get up (or over) to Maine, by chance? Happy hunting!

[coastalkid]

What was it that made you choose to try out the hot wife lifestyle after all these years? Don't get me wrong I think it's fantastic. I think at your ages you have an advantage. You have history together. A lot of women wouldn't have the confidence to do what you want to do. That's why I want to know why you chose to go for it. My wife knows about my hot wife kink and she teases me about it during sex but never outside the bedroom. It's ALWAYS good to read wife's perspective.