My wife said she is ready

[Chocorrol]

Hi, so.. after years of fantasizing with my wife She finally said she’s is ready, i been waiting for that, however i immediately felt uncontrollable jealousy…. Has any one here has gone through the same? It’s about to happen next eeek, she is going out with this guy, what I’m going to get is audio, it’s ok, but what i want is being in the hallway listening to my wife having orgasm with the dick of another man.. I don’t know if this post is supposed to be here but anyway i hope to have some guidance… also, where can i upload pictures?

[SalseroStag]

When we started and I couldn’t endure watching everything all the time I found that only listening to them was amazing as well; go for it, you will love it!
The hotties section probably is the best for posting stuff.

Good luck!

[Chocorrol]

Thank you Salsero! I’m wondering what is the rate of success in this type of relationship?

[leggysman]

Success is anecdotal, and difficult to define. There's the old joke that half of all marriages end in divorce ... the other half end in death.

Most people misunderstand the ancient Greek aphorism "count no man happy, until he is dead". It's not a deathwish; it's about changing fortunes. You can't say someone has had a charmed life (or marriage) until it's over and the accounting is done.

[Chocorrol]

Thanks Leggy

[SalseroStag]

I quote Leggysman,
there is no accurate statistics and each relationship it’s unique. But if I may this kind of lifestyle is only for strongly bonded couples and the desire to include another is shared.
If the thing is one sided the risk to ruin everything obviously increases; in that case time, patience and feeding the fantasy can help but it’s still uncertain. Just decide with your own head as you know how your couple works better than anyone here; we can share our knowledge and experience but you have to walk your own path

[Chocorrol]

Thanks Salsero! How dis you Guys handle jealousy in the beginning?

[SalseroStag]

Well when it was just a fantasy it was all excitement and no jealousy.
Since my wife and I came closer to the real thing once we moved our search to the dance floor in clubs, as we both dance, jealousy appeared for the first time, while looking other men dancing with her, touching and grinding but it was well balanced with more excitement.
When we were ready to go I can only tell you it was a mix of contrasting and powerful emotions, but jealousy is part of the game as long as it’s in balance with something else, like the pleasure of the sight of her being pleased and live her long repressed fantasies.
When you can’t watch, just listen, you’ll get used to that and develop the desire to watch more and more unless you’re the kind who only wants to hear the story. It will also depends on how you as a couple will agree about how to make everything real. Communication in the couple is everything even in these dynamics; you have to talk and agree

[Chocorrol]

Thanks again Salsero!

[Swingpaul]

You have received some good advice above, it is natural to be faced with a huge range of emotions, the key is to recognise them, understand why you have them and then communicate them to your wife. I am sure she is feeling a range of emotions too so would appreciate talking about them.
You should also talk about what you both want and whether moving towards listening to them is going to be a possibility, it is important that everyone’s needs are taken care of but this can be difficult if those needs conflict with each other.

[stevendonnamn]

How did it go?

[coastalkid]

Welcome to the forum stevendonnamnn!