Need to get this off my chest

[fuxas11]

The last few years were pretty rough on us in terms of sex & mental compatibility. Both of us were so busy with work, kids & social life that it left little time for any sexual activity. Constant fights, my complaints of no-sex (almost always from me) and our heavy workloads were tearing us apart. At the back of my mind, I knew that she was also struggling to accommodate her busy schedules but my persistent horniness was a major source of strife between us.

All this led me to a rabbit hole of porn, which spiralled into even extreme forms: CEI, prostate stimulation etc. Some random videos lead me on to hotwife porn and then onto these sites: wifewantstoplay, blacktowhite, ourhotwives, hypnotube. I was intrigued. Not having enough attention, combined with the persistent horniness had me imagining things.

I started chatting with bulls, other wannabes & horny tributers on telegram and similar apps. While most of these conversations were focused on getting us off, I had a chance encounter/chat with an enlightened soul, J. J is very experienced in this lifestyle, both as a bull and a cuck. He made me realize the importance of treating Sam with respect and giving her the space that is needed to bring back the spark into our relationship. Armed with his advice, I proceeded on to retraining myself, controlling my inner urges and making everything about her. Started taking her to relaxed dates, gifting her nice little things. I encouraged her to get back to dressing sexy, which she appreciated so much! I even tried my best to eliminate the pressure of having sex and this one change brightened things up to a great extent.

A no-pressure, friends-like approach to our relationship helped mend so much of the bad blood between the two of us. We started getting back to talking about stuff that we had put aside, and as a result got more intimate & closer to each other.

One day, I semi-confessed to her how it turns me on to see other men appreciate her sexy figure. Sam is petite, ~5'4. Small tits, tight ass, beautiful feet, and a fit body. I confided that I am turned on by her feet, and she allowed me to post a couple of her non-nudes to feet forums. Little did she know that I was planning to get her tributes to her sexy body.

Over the next few days, I chatted with a few horny folk, gathered a good selection of tributes & showed her a compilation. Her emotions were a mix of anger and arousal. Her pussy lips were dripping thick with juices. Angrily, she asked me not to share her pictures anymore. Afraid that I had ruined a good thing, I tried to talk it out but she just wanted to get off. Confused, I helped her cum and she silently drifted off on the bed. The next few days, we did not talk about this topic. Little did I know how much impact this seemingly simple video would have on her.

Fast forward to one month later, I brought up the tribute video in a conversation. To my surprise, she was all game for it and was actually looking forward to watching it properly. In her words, "I am going to be so aroused after watching it". She watched the whole video, made a few comments about the ones she liked and the ones she didn't. We had a hot steamy session afterwards.

That day changed our relationship chemistry forever. She started becoming more confident, happier and back to her original charming self. Emboldened by her behaviour, I finally confessed how much it turns me on to watch other men cum to her. I talked to J a bit more and he suggested that I get her a realistic dildo. Masterstroke! I haven't seen her crave for any other toy as much as she does for this dildo. Our sex life hasn't been this electric in a long while!

When we are out and about, I have started pointing out to men who are checking her out and she appreciates this a lot. It turns me on, which is sometimes a problem when we are in a public space but I love it! Never had I imagined that the thought of other men lusting over my sexy wife would be such a turn on for both of us.

Love it!

[leggysman]

Welcome to the site, fuxas11. Glad to hear that things are looking up for the both of you! Sounds promising

[fuxas11]

Thank you!
Can't get this fantasy out of my head: Her, me and a muscular hunk with a hard cock jerking off over her tits while she is lying down on the bed looking into my eyes, holding my cock in her hand.

[fuxas11]

Another one: She is on all fours sucking my cock while I am on the bed, and a nice thick cock is about to enter her wet pussy.

[UKhusband26]

Very good! Great work and happy times ahead!

[HWHubbyHopeful]

Awesome! Look forward to following! Alwasy happy to see couples start a journey together. And your description if tour wife sounds stunning! What do you think are tour next steps?

[fuxas11]

Awesome! Look forward to following! Alwasy happy to see couples start a journey together. And your description if tour wife sounds stunning! What do you think are tour next steps?

She’s become a lot more confident lately. I jokingly mentioned that we should visit a nudist club sometime and she appeared kind of open to the idea. Since I made this remark in a joking manner, I’m uncertain whether she would actually be comfortable visiting such a spot. Most of the nudist clubs out here are Swinger-lifestyle clubs. I am concerned that it might get overwhelming for her.

Other than that, I am enjoying the threesomes we are having along with our dildo. Taking it slow for now. I would certainly appreciate any advice or suggestions that you would like to share.

[jrobb]

Awesome! Look forward to following! Alwasy happy to see couples start a journey together. And your description if tour wife sounds stunning! What do you think are tour next steps?

She’s become a lot more confident lately. I jokingly mentioned that we should visit a nudist club sometime and she appeared kind of open to the idea. Since I made this remark in a joking manner, I’m uncertain whether she would actually be comfortable visiting such a spot. Most of the nudist clubs out here are Swinger-lifestyle clubs. I am concerned that it might get overwhelming for her.

Other than that, I am enjoying the threesomes we are having along with our dildo. Taking it slow for now. I would certainly appreciate any advice or suggestions that you would like to share.

Hopefully, a cordless Magic Wand is part of your toy collection. Take it with you on dates. "Buzz" her clit as you go through the car wash. Buzz her before you walk into the restaurant, or the movie, or the concert. You may find that both of you enjoy the results!

JR

[Iamcurious22]

Great advice. The cordless magic wand is a must have.

[fuxas11]

We do have a pocket vibe that she adores. Haven’t taken it out of the bedroom ever.
I’ll try to convince her to use it when we head out on long drives. Knowing her, she’s going to reject the suggestion at first.

On a separate note, I have tried and failed to get her to wear dresses/skirts without panties. She is worried that she’ll spoil her dresses with juices.

[Knightryder701]

My wife prefers a button vibrator to stimulate her clit. It.s the only toy that can get her off. I have tried magic wands, vibrating dildos. Nothing. Child birth menopause and depression have killed her libido. She doesn’t respond to oral sex. Manual stimulation of her clit doesn’t work. Forget looking for her g spot. I am at a loss where it comes to reviving her sexual desire. She has found religion later in life which doesn’t help. We used to have a healthy sex life but it has all but vanished. My hope is rekindling it with sex outside of monogamy but so far she is having nothing to do with it.

[fuxas11]

My wife prefers a button vibrator to stimulate her clit. It.s the only toy that can get her off. I have tried magic wands, vibrating dildos. Nothing. Child birth menopause and depression have killed her libido. She doesn’t respond to oral sex. Manual stimulation of her clit doesn’t work. Forget looking for her g spot. I am at a loss where it comes to reviving her sexual desire. She has found religion later in life which doesn’t help. We used to have a healthy sex life but it has all but vanished. My hope is rekindling it with sex outside of monogamy but so far she is having nothing to do with it.

Did you try further down south, her asshole? Mine enjoys light touches and shallow penetration with fingers. She protests but I can see how it relaxes and turns her on most of the times.