Give me your best dirty talk topics/question

[steve181818]

Calling wannabes! We are all about using toys in the bedroom. We dirty talk all the time but I want to up my game to get her more engaged and respond more.

Some things that are commonly used are like "Do u wanna cum on a big dick for me?" "Do you like being stretched out by a bigger cock?" "Are you riding on your favorite cock?" etc.

I need a better playbook here! What are some things you guys say to get her more engaged in dirty talk back?

[leggysman]

I find it's most effective when she's building to an orgasm, so I mostly keep my powder dry until then - unless she starts it sooner.

Before leggysandy had her first hotwife date, I used to say some things like "we need to get more cocks in this married pussy". That one went over pretty well.

Since then I mostly focus on things she's done, or things she's planning to do; real-life stuff. She likes her memories in those moments.

Since you're not there yet, perhaps you can link it to real-life guys she likes (knows, or celebrity crushes), to make it more real for her? Or faceless hunks in real-life situations where she might meet someone?

At the right moments, she enjoys being called a slut.

[MartasBoy]

Calling wannabes! We are all about using toys in the bedroom. We dirty talk all the time but I want to up my game to get her more engaged and respond more.

Some things that are commonly used are like "Do u wanna cum on a big dick for me?" "Do you like being stretched out by a bigger cock?" "Are you riding on your favorite cock?" etc.

I need a better playbook here! What are some things you guys say to get her more engaged in dirty talk back?

I like it when my wife does a role play with me, imagining her having an outside lover. It took her a while to feel okay about this, that she wasn't being mean, she eventually realized that it really turns me on. She realized that she can turn me down for sex, in a much more fun and exciting way with this fantasy, rather than just telling me she doesn't feel like it, or she has a headache. Now she will tell me that she doesn't feel up to having sex with me, because she and Brad went at it really hard last night, and she's exhausted and a little sore down there. Then she'll offer to give me a handjob as a consolation.

I will beg for her to tell me why she is so drawn to him. She will lay it on heavy and tell me all the ways in which he is more manly, and more exciting, and better at sex. He will tell me how his cock is the largest she's ever had. And she will say that mine is cute and friendly. And will sometimes talk baby talk and describing my penis, calling it my "cute liddle fella."

This always makes me come really fast.

[steve181818]

I find it's most effective when she's building to an orgasm, so I mostly keep my powder dry until then - unless she starts it sooner.

Before leggysandy had her first hotwife date, I used to say some things like "we need to get more cocks in this married pussy". That one went over pretty well.

Since then I mostly focus on things she's done, or things she's planning to do; real-life stuff. She likes her memories in those moments.

Since you're not there yet, perhaps you can link it to real-life guys she likes (knows, or celebrity crushes), to make it more real for her? Or faceless hunks in real-life situations where she might meet someone?

At the right moments, she enjoys being called a slut.

Funny enough I had a dream about doing exactly what youre saying

[coastalkid]

This is kind of funny to me. I don't do much dirty talking, my wife does most of it. At my request, after years of routine uninspired sex, I asked my wife to speak up during sex, throw out some comments. I told her I needed a little more engagement from her. I was having trouble getting aroused because of the routine sex. She understood and started timidly and now she can make me cum anytime she wants by the things she says.

Here's an example, we both know she doesn't like anal. She likes my tongue there but not my cock. Naturally I want it all the more. When we are doing it doggy style I'll swab my cock over her asshole before plunging in to her pussy. She always says, "Sweety, you know my asshole is only for the big cocks! Your tongue feels good though!"

I realized a while back that as far as I could tell there was nothing like that tumbling around in her head before. I claimed that as a personal victory!Now I'm surprised by the things she does say sometimes. Like where'd that come from? Her dirty talk flipped our script. Our sex is more frequent and so much more fun!

[Swingpaul]

Calling wannabes! We are all about using toys in the bedroom. We dirty talk all the time but I want to up my game to get her more engaged and respond more.

Some things that are commonly used are like "Do u wanna cum on a big dick for me?" "Do you like being stretched out by a bigger cock?" "Are you riding on your favorite cock?" etc.

I need a better playbook here! What are some things you guys say to get her more engaged in dirty talk back?

I would focus on her before thinking of new things to say.

What are the things you say that she responds to best?
Does she talk dirty? If so what does she say? Or is it more just to agree with you? The examples you include are all from you.

Have you discussed fantasies with her? What does she fantasise about?

Who does she find attractive either a famous person or someone you know or someone you met briefly.

Explain your dreams to her, I had a strange dream that….
Avoid questions with Do, would and are, they elicit a Yes/No response. Try questions starting with What/Why/how instead

[Bmoore1990]

I usually blindfold my wife and slowly get her in the mood with dirty talk. I tell her to imagine anyone she wants, someone she knows, slipping inside her as I use her dildo on her. Slow quiet dirty talk gets her, not the rough aggressive stuff.

[annsman]

What seemed to turn her on most was me describing men making love to her who I knew she found attractive and had feelings. It worked best if they had been flirting, but hadn’t actually had sex.

[Bobs52]

Not sure if this qualifies because it requires a real event preceding the sex that you may or may not have the ability to make happen.

My wife gave me permission to show some very explicit but tasteful fully nude pictures to a long time friend of both of ours who we could tell has always been attracted to her (and her to him actually) which I absolutely did the next available time I could.

After this as we’re in bed and I’m massaging her clit I told her that I believe he was getting hard just looking at her pictures as he “adjusted himself” a couple of times. Finally I speculated that he likely masturbated a number of times since remembering the excitement of viewing naked pictures of a woman he has wanted sexually for a long time. I’m telling her “just think, you made a grown man hard just by letting him have a look at your naked pictures! That’s how much he wants you!” I continue “There’s no doubt that ever since he’s been masturbating thinking of you! You are the woman he is thinking of when he has a massive orgasm and his big dick spurts cum all over himself!”

As a result of all this she reaches an incredibly intense orgasm, literally screaming and shaking. I’ve enjoyed giving her orgasms over the years from oral and digital contact, but can’t really recall anything that intense! I LOVED it that she got off so hard on thinking of him masturbating to her naked pictures!