1st time

[Ranger125]

Has anyone’s wife tried hotwifing for the 1st time and decided it wasn’t for her? Like really regretted crossing that bridge?

[coastalkid]

Welcome to the forum Ranger125!

[akvaaarium]

Dude, sorry (I'm Canadian), but what a buzzkill topic, eh?!

Can't you think of something more sexy to talk about?

Perhaps this (wife regretting hotwifing) has happened to you? But then please tell us about it...

[milehinbi]

Sort of... fiancé and I played with a friend a couple weeks before getting married. I had been her one and only and suggested she might like to try another before saying "I do." She invited him for a repeat at the wedding reception loud enough that I could hear but in a way that only the three of us knew what she meant. We played with him again a couple weeks after the wedding.

Unfortunately after that he didn't wait for an invitation and showed up unannounced and expectant a couple times. That pissed her off bringing the fun and games to a screeching halt. So technically she only played as a hotwife once and decided it wasn't for her.

Forty years later my interest in sharing her is still keen. She's well aware and we have discussed trying again sometime. In fact yesterday we were in a shop and the proprietor was openly flirting with her hard. He was a big tall guy, about same height as the friend we played with and about our age. I'm not very tall and she's very petite. I could tell he was having an effect. He made a joke about spending a weekend with her and after we left she laughed that she knew I'd be fine with it as long as I got to watch. Even after all these years, hope springs eternal.

[Ranger125]

This forum is not all about getting you material to jack off to. That’s a legit question about a reasonable possibility of the lifestyle. I’m sure there is many unforeseen pitfalls in this lifestyle and I’m trying to cover my bases before jumping in.

[coastalkid]

This forum is not all about getting you material to jack off to. That’s a legit question about a reasonable possibility of the lifestyle. I’m sure there is many unforeseen pitfalls in this lifestyle and I’m trying to cover my bases before jumping in.

Oh it can be about jack off material! You have to sort through things to find what you're looking for sometimes, you know, some of it is too far out to seriously consider. I can tell you in the time I've spent here as a wannabe I've learned a helluva lot more about what I don't want than what I do. You're wise to make yourself familiar to how people do things differently and put their own twist on things. It can go in a lot of directions and sometimes faster than you're ready for.

[tauras]

..... I’m sure there is many unforeseen pitfalls in this lifestyle and I’m trying to cover my bases before jumping in.

That it seems a reasonable and wise approach.
"milehimbi" already joined with an real life example,hope others will continue...

[SilverStag]

It would seem that there is a high probability of failure when playing with a vanilla friend. Best to keep it to people you meet specifically for the purpose of initiating a HW scenario. Friendships may be lost and awkward situations can develop, especially when you involve a guy who doesn't understand the dynamic.

[milehinbi]

It would seem that there is a high probability of failure when playing with a vanilla friend. Best to keep it to people you meet specifically for the purpose of initiating a HW scenario. Friendships may be lost and awkward situations can develop, especially when you involve a guy who doesn't understand the dynamic.

That's well said. Our situation was back in the 80s long before the topics of hotwifing and cuckolding were a thing. Purely the product of raging hormones and underdeveloped frontal lobes. Penthouse Letters was as close to a guide manual as was available to us in those days

[54321]

So technically she only played as a hotwife once and decided it wasn't for her.

Thank you for sharing so honestly. The broad perspective that encompasses good and bad, success and failure,
and happiness and disappointment is what makes this site so authentic, so believable and so helpful.

I do hope that this time around, everything works out for you both.

54321

[milehinbi]

So technically she only played as a hotwife once and decided it wasn't for her.

Thank you for sharing so honestly. The broad perspective that encompasses good and bad, success and failure,
and happiness and disappointment is what makes this site so authentic, so believable and so helpful.

I do hope that this time around, everything works out for you both.

54321

Most welcome. I would truly be stunned if we ever got back to the point where she went for it again, but have learned to never say never after all these years. Knowing that others still find her as irresistible as I always have to point of openly flirting with her in front of me is awesome.

Love that the attention from others is a boost her self esteem in a way that a husband telling his wife she's beautiful on a daily basis really can't match. Whenever such situations arise where someone is chatting her up, I make it a point to keep my distance for a bit and give the fellow some space to work.

That she acknowledges her awareness of my interest in sharing her in a playful way is a thrill for me even if it never happens again. Keeps that door open just a little bit. I do wonder how some guys, like the one I mentioned above, recognize that I'm comfortable with their flirtatious behavior in my presence. Maybe there really is such a thing as a cuck vibe that can be picked up on.

[AZguy425]

Kind of. My ex-wife wanted a sort of open relationship to explore some of her BDSM and CNC fetishes. She wanted to keep actual sex just us but was willing to play with others, maybe oral, bondage, toys, etc. I actually wanted her to have sex but wasn't willing to tell her that at the time because she wanted that just between us so I didn't feel I should "dishonor" that sentiment and tell her I wanted it. She'd played successfully a couple times with different guys. She then met this new guy wearing thigh high hold up stockings, a short skirt, etc. and was just supposed to be playing with him also. In what was bound to happen, he seduced her and fucked her. She came from it and he fucked her bare and came in her pussy. She was disappointed in herself that she thought she could dress that way and just tease and deny and no one would ever push the envelope. She loved getting fucked but was embarrassed she let it happen and that he came in her pussy. She withdrew from playing for several months and felt guilty about letting it happen...and liking it...even though I told her I liked that she had done it.