Do your hotwives share their lifestyle with friends/family?

[supportivestag]

Do any of your hot wives share that they are in the lifestyle with their close friends or family members? If so how did that go about? I would like my wife to share with someone but she is reluctant. Any tips?

[Cdncuck]

Some do, some don't. My wife's younger sister knew. Her mother saw her out with another man once. She definitely knew but she never said a word about it to either of us.

[Mick+Laura]

We keep our lifestyle a secret from all friends, colleagues and family. As far as we know, none of them know about it and we go to some lengths to keep it that way.
When either of us go out on dates we make sure it’s not in the local area. If we go swinging we make out that it’s a dinner party with friends. We are not any on websites or dating apps.
Everything is done desrceetly and behind closed doors
It’s our personal choice and we don’t think people we know would understand our relationship or the fact we live this lifestyle.
It works well for us in a world where everyone is constantly judged and criticised.

[Bmoore1990]

Wannabe here. My wife's best friend knows about my desires.

[Hotwifecpl]

We live the lifestyle 24/7 but it is mainly kept between the pair of us, we usually only meet people that arent local (within 5 miles) of us and if someone local does want to meet we always check that neither of us know them as we are both in quite high profile jobs.

[Johnann2227]

We have kept our swinging and hotwife private from our families and vanilla friends where possible. In the last year both my sister and my wife's sister discovered our secret. After a lot of conversation they are both accepting of our lifestyle choices and have kept our secret.

Our two children (aged 24 and 21 and still live at home), know everything about us swinging and hotwifing and are fine with it to the extent that my wife's boyfriend now lives with us permanently.

[BCiym]

My wife told her three closest girlfriends (women she's known since high school). They were startled (e.g., "Jim's a nice guy for a pervert"). I assume they told their husbands, but because they all live a few states away it's not like we see them.
Closer to home, my sister knows and my mom knew before she passed away. Both of them had a history of cheating (and getting divorced because of it), Even though our circumstances are different when it slipped out they felt it was a bonding experience with Karen

[sml_peterBR]

My wife's sister and two female friends of her knows about our lifestyle. On my side, I don't want anyone to know.
We started keeping it a secret and we're still very discreet about it, but it's nice my wife can talk with other women about her dating, flirting, and also have company sometimes when she goes out.

We were around the 10th month as a cuckold couple when she would have a girl's trip with her sister and one her best friends, both singles at that time. As she already wanted to tell them about us, and to let her free to enjoy her trip, I've agreed she could do that. It was nice because she did got laid by another man during the trip.
Later she shared with another friend, who's also close to the one who went on the trip.

[marine20]

i caught my wife's best friend at an ABS four years ago , fucking and sucking some guy and showing her tits to me. i didn't tell my wife for fear she would think differently of her. to put her friend at ease , so she wouldn't feel slutty , i told her about our lifestyle. so you see , her best friend knows that she fucks other men , but my wife doesn't know that she knows. her friend and i have this dirty little secret , and i find that very hot.

[SilverStag]

No to family knowing (although one adult daughter has figured it out) but after 20+ years in the LS, most of our close friends are also in the LS in one form or another. A few of our "vanilla" friends know, but they aren't interested in knowing any details and out of concern for their feelings, we don't discuss LS stuff with them.

[SilverStag]

i caught my wife's best friend at an ABS four years ago , fucking and sucking some guy and showing her tits to me. i didn't tell my wife for fear she would think differently of her. to put her friend at ease , so she wouldn't feel slutty , i told her about our lifestyle. so you see , her best friend knows that she fucks other men , but my wife doesn't know that she knows. her friend and i have this dirty little secret , and i find that very hot.

Be careful.....if your wife finds out that you were not fully forthcoming about the encounter with her friend, you will be in trouble for keeping secrets

[Confounded]

i caught my wife's best friend at an ABS four years ago , fucking and sucking some guy and showing her tits to me. i didn't tell my wife for fear she would think differently of her. to put her friend at ease , so she wouldn't feel slutty , i told her about our lifestyle. so you see , her best friend knows that she fucks other men , but my wife doesn't know that she knows. her friend and i have this dirty little secret , and i find that very hot.

Be careful.....if your wife finds out that you were not fully forthcoming about the encounter with her friend, you will be in trouble for keeping secrets

I completely agree with SilverStag.

I was more troubled -hurt- that my wife kept her sexual secrets from me. She finally told the truth after I confronted her with my suspicions. Now I have to get over broken trust.

[luvwives999]

My wife had a single friend who she'd talk about it with. Her friend actually asked me once why I was ok with it. I told her why, I think she understood, then she tried to seduce me LOL

[SalseroStag]

Only a few very close friends know she’s got a preference for black guys but nothing more; the lifestyle is our secret shared with our playmate.

[marine20]

my friends wife and i saw each other quite by accident , it was just a fluke . we did nothing to each other , no touching at all. if my wife found out , she would agree that i would not want her to think of her friend any differently. my wife knows that i go to the ABS , but she would never believe that her best friend goes there too. her best friend is a sweetheart , and i would do nothing to hurt that friendship.

[Yourfirstbull]

A handful of wives were lifestyle-ish and told other wives about me as far as a recommendation, but most of the wives I'm with are very, very discreet (not "in the lifestyle") so the most they will tell will be a bff. However, one wife I was with would tell her friends about our latest sessions and escapades during their wine night gatherings, which I found super-hot. The wives wanted to meet me, but it never came to be (although she showed me their pictures I think was concerned about one of us hooking up).

[SilverStag]

A handful of wives were lifestyle-ish and told other wives about me as far as a recommendation, but most of the wives I'm with are very, very discreet (not "in the lifestyle") so the most they will tell will be a bff. However, one wife I was with would tell her friends about our latest sessions and escapades during their wine night gatherings, which I found super-hot. The wives wanted to meet me, but it never came to be (although she showed me their pictures I think was concerned about one of us hooking up).

Word of mouth advertising is great!! I have mentioned in my posts about how my wife "loans" me to her girlfriends.

[supportivestag]

Interesting takes. I think if my wife ever tells anyone it’ll be her best friend. She’s scared of the judging and negative stuff that would be said with anyone else. But my wife’s bull posted them fucking on Twitter so people might find out sooner

[MarknSusan]

For us it wasn’t a situation where Susan or I “just decided” to tell friends our friends and family. We have been CNM for more than 30 years and over time, our friends and family sensed that we had other relationships from just observing our behaviors. The rumors and small talk began and many people began asking probing questions.

At one point in our lives we both felt it was time to tell our story to certain family members and certain friends. We knew that the vanilla world judges people in this lifestyle and as a result never openly disclosed it until we both decided we are who we are, we are in love and we have had so many wonderful relationships along the way and did not care if people judged us or not.

To our knowledge we have not lost any really good friends because of our lifestyle and if we did, again, we don’t care. We are who we are and are not ashamed or concerned with what others think.

The relationships we have had over the years have created a close bond and special memories forever.

[LongTermHubby]

My wife has a couple of close woman friends who know and who are supportive of her.