Future Hotwife is evolving

[MrMtl]

Good Morning,

We just got back from 2 weeks in Europe (Corsica and Paris). Corsica is just wow.

Things didn’t evolve as I would like, during vacation, she stop point blank during sex while I was starting role playing and told me that she wants only the 2 of us during our vacations. Was disappointed for sure but still trying to follow her pace even if it’s kinda slow for me.

Sorry to not having exciting moment to tell you. Just want to write something in my post so it’s not going to be erased like the first time. It will happend I know. Just don’t know when.

[Bloomincpl]

Patience. I know you're giving it, but patience is important. She's been embracing the idea. For some people it takes longer, even years.

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[MrMtl]

Hello to everyone who were wishing New developments, well I do have some.

She’d not officially a hotwife but things moved differently with Mr. B. I’m thinking about starting a new thread in the hotwife section because of what happend last Friday.

Let me know what I should do.

So this summer, my future Hotwife decide that the department pool party will be at our home. Mr A who she wishes from long time to have sex with, would not be here because he’s on duty but Mr A would be here. I’m gonna make a change here to bot of them. From now it’s gonna be Dr A and Dr B !!

She has more things in common with Dr B but she always said that she feels more of him has a great friend where she don’t want anything happen that could put there relationship in troubles. He on his part always say (don’t fuck with the payroll). But deep down, I know that he desire her just because of all the attention he give to her compare to her other coworkers.

My wife, my Queen is the type of woman who touch people very easily when she talks and I know for some guys that this fires them up or just putting them in a different positions.

I know because she told me before that last year they were always together at the other pool party and close but nothing happened. But this year, something different happened just in front of me and that’s why I’m thinking about starting a new thread in the hotwife section or have this one moved there.

There was about 18 people in the backyard having fun. We do have a backyard made for party with a lounge section. Dr. B was there relaxing and drinking good wine and at one time I told my wife to stop being everywhere for them and letting me doing all the work so she could relax with her friends. In my head, I wanted to feel at her feet like a submissive husband or (future cuck). Well I did have that feeling when after supper, she start the fireplace in the lounge section and lie beside Dr B. They were chitchatting and having fun just the two of them not paying attentions to the others. I was sitting in a strait chair not to far from them, talking with someone but looking at them often. After some times and some drinks I could see that my wife was looking at him with different eyes. She was smiling and laughing and They were now intertwined with hands interlaced like two lovers. When they cross there hands immediately Dr B looked at me. I knew at this time that he felt something that should not happened while I was there but just kept is hands with wife’s hand and he turns his head to continue talking with her. At this moment, I had the same angst feeling when she told me two years ago to put my cage because something might happen. I had a new feeling at that moment, a feeling of being submissive to them, a feeling that I only dream of and it was happening in front of me. And especially the one where I could see her with someone else.

That moment was intoxicating let me tell you.

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[MrMtl]

Part 2

When Dr B left around midnight with some others, about 8 people were still chitchatting so I sit beside my lovely wife and she pressed herself against me. My feelings was very special at that moment. I could easily felt that I was reclaiming her. I just loved it.

I could not stop thinking about what just happened in front of me and all of her coworkers. I remember that I saw 2 of them talking to each other while looking at them. I knew what they were thinking and that’s when I felt the new feeling of submissiveness to his wife and her lover. At that time, I was intoxicated and want more. But I also felt like I was at there edge of a cliff, why, I don’t know. Maybe because it’s that feeling of when you’re not controlling your life, your married life. But seeing her happy made me want to feel ore and let her being happy.

The next morning, when we were alone in the lounge drinking our coffee we start talking and remembering

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[MrMtl]

So the next morning we start talking and remembering the party and everything was perfect I told her. She was kinda anxious if someone didn’t liked it but no, messages started and they were saying big thank. They all liked it. That’s when I said (did Dr B said he liked it ?) she said why I reply (well you were very very close last nite, do you remember ?) she said that she remember everything and yes she remember being close to him. I said ( do you remember that you were more than close, you were laying and all intertwined like two lovers and what marks all this was when you took his hand and you had your fingers crossed together) she said (yes but that’s how I am honey you know that I’m a touching person) I said (that was more than just touching believe me, the way you were looking at him and how you hands were together it means something and Mr B knew it because he look at me and also 2 other person, so next week it’s possible that what they saw well that might tell all the department…) she just respond (I don’t mind what they saw because that’s how I am and you know that I’m in really good terms with Mr. B) she then ask me if I was offend by that, I said (ohhhhhh no on the contrary, you know what I think about you having an all pass and believe me, the way you were last night with him was more then just being side by side with someone in a good relation with) that’s when i asked her (if he had put is hand in the back of your head and put his lips on yours, would you have open your mouth to respond to his kiss) she said maybe but he is just a friend and I don’t want to jeopardize that. I said (I know that but honey the way you were and the way you were looking at him and especially with the wines, that puts you in a position where your inhibitions are lessened believe me, you know that you like him and you are more and more open minded about having sex with someone else) she said yes !!!

She rethinks about all this and the way she was laying with the hand and especially on my side and she could not say the contrary. What was different here is she was excited that I was excited about all this. That she could felt something new about how she’s feeling around this lifestyle or about being with another man in front of her and me not doing anything. Thats’ when I said (you know honey, you have made a step in your head about all this without knowing) she said (maybe you are right).

We had sex right after and it was more than great. Believe me here, she was soaking wet.

She said something else the next morning and what she told me made me believe that my thread will maybe better in the hotwife threads, what she said was (you know what? Maybe next week while you’ll be fishing whit your brother, maybe I should invite Dr B to come by for swim and have supper and…..) I said (what did you just said ? And we made love again. And that was it. So tomorrow I’m leaving for the whole week. I’ll be somewhere else in my head believe me…

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

How will you be able to concentrate on fishing?

[MrMtl]

Good morning

I just read my updates and I’m very sorry for all the errors in my writing. English is not my primary language.

Cuckcuckgoose1: I don’t know if I’ll be able to not think about it. She also said the other day that maybe she will send me a text message if she invites Dr B because this year I’ll be joinable with my iPhone 16 via satellite . I said (did you just said that?) she said we never know. That’s when I told her for the second time that she really have change regarding her with someone else.

What’s dangerous here is that Dr B is alone and looking compare to Dr A. It bothers me, she’s the love of my life and I don’t want to loose her. She’s also scared but she’s now excited about it. We will talk about it again when I’ll return.

[MrMtl]

Well Good Morning everyone.

I did post e reply last Sunday buy for a reason, it didn’t work so here you go again.

My annual fishing vacation last week went pretty well. It was the first time that we were earlier in August. We saw more boat this time but on that big reservoir in that northern part of Quebec well it didn’t mather at all. We ask about the satellite phone that they usually give us and they say that we were not going to need it because there was a guardian at the guard camp for this time of year. We were all OK with it. We usually use it like every night just to call home and say that we are ok. But this year we all had iPhone e 16 and more so that gives us the ability to send text messages via satellite.

So I knew that my wife MrsMtl was gonna be alone for a part of the week. Part of because she had her children that week. But her oldest worked and sometimes sleep at her boyfriend apartment and her son sometimes sleep at on of his friend and that,s what happened.

Last Wednesday I text her to say that everything went well, it was kinda late and she answer that she was at the casino all alone and she was winning as usual. That surprise me big time. She always told me that she’s to shy to go alone. I always told her (honey your are so beautiful, and fun to talk to so worst thing that could happen will be that a man will come by you and ask you if he can pay you a drink) she always answer that could never happen. She has a kinda low self esteem about her body like many women but she shouldn’t. She’s blonde with curvy hair, a smile with perfect teeth, a beautiful face with eyes that can hypnotize you, she have curves but all ok with heights. She’s 5’8’’. She getting there because one night just when I went at the bathroom, someone came by ask her to pay her a drink. That was 3 weeks ago. There’s hope !!

So back to last week. After she told me that she was at the casino she also told me that Dr B ask her if she was willing to go to Peru to do a triathlon with one of her colleagues (miss S). They did one together 2 years ago in Quebec City. My wife did the swimming part. I was in shock about that invitation, I text back (where) she answer that Dr B also invites me and he was gonna pay for the Airbnb so we just have to pay the plane tickets. Miss S boyfriend is also invited but it’s not going well with them and that last triathlon, miss S was didn’t have a boyfriend and something happened with miss S and Dr B. I know that because I saw them while he always say (never fuck with the payroll) well sex changes sometimes that way of thinking !!

So I text back and say (did miss S answer and accepted) she says no not yet. Why did he want to go that far ? Was it because I would say (it’s to expensive, go and live that experience) I don’t no but my wife answer to Dr B was a big YES for her. I could not stop thinking about them in the lounge when she told me about the invitation so just text back (just cannot stop thinking about you too laying together). I her answer was a smilling face !!! I got harder. So I wrote (do you still think about it ?) I would never thought that she would write (for sure !!!) my hart stop and I remember that I had an instant hard on. At that moment I start remember that I was feeling differently. A had a feeling of angst mixt with excitement. I was speechless. I wrote back after like one minute… ( you still thinking about it means that you are really somewhere else in your head about this lifestyle).

So here we are. We did not talk yet about all this because she’s having a difficult time at the hospital but next weekend, we are all alone and I’m expecting to come back and talk about it. Will see !!

[MrMtl]

Good Morning everyone,

Thanks to leggysman for switching my post in here after I ask. I was in the wannabe before and wanted to have more input from you guys who are already there and the other sections well less people go there compare to here and because my future HW well she’s now ready I can tell and also because she told me last weekend that she still thinks about Dr B. Especially last Saturday during sex.

I know there colleagues and maybe that’ll where it’s not a good idea. But he’s Jew and her mother wants her son to married a Jew only that’s where my wife might be able to have him as a bull.

What do you think ?

[kiwiRob]

Thanks for sharing your journey MrMtl. It seems that your wife is definitely interested and making progress towards being with other men.

How do you see this playing out for you? Do you want to be present is she has sex with Mr A or B, or do you want to hear the details afterwards?

[MrMtl]

Your question is really a good one because I still don’t know, but what I do know is if she tells me that she would better like to be alone with A or B just to be more at ease, I will let her for sure.

She knows that if theirs a chance where it might happen, she will tell me to put my cage on. Totals what happened the first time 2 years ago and she just phone me and ask to have my cage on and send her a picture. She already had the key to her bracelet.

So I know the feeling of not knowing, the angst, the heart hurting a bit, but the level of excitement was and will be enormous.

[MrMtl]

Kind of a big update !!!

Last night, we were alone and after some glass of wine, the conversation switch to Dr, B and it didn’t stop. She said that hés gave different names to the personal for fun and not her. I said why not you ? She said (I don’t know), I said (I know why honey, he likes you more than the others and he respect you very much) she said (maybe) I said (not maybe, it’s for real, why do you think he always texting you?). That’s when she tells me that she ask a colleague who she was at the pool party about how she thought of her and Dr B when they were laying together. Her friend said (don’t bother, we all know that you and Dr B are together and that’s your thing and i really don’t mind). So she told me that she was surprised when she heard (we all know) !! So I said (you see, everyone tough the same thing like me when you two were laying together hands in hands and they knew that I was 6 feet away and didn’t said anything. So she kinda of acknowledged and understand what I meant about what it means to be like that, laying with someone hands in hand and it didn’t take much more alcohol to maybe you two start kissing. She also said (maybe yes it could append).

So last night conversation was sooo open about the subject, I was hard the all time. Then she said, and that’s what I wanna say here today, she just said (you know last week when you went to join your friend J for dinner ?) I said (yes) she said (well, I call Dr B and asked him if he wants to join me also for dinner) my mouth was open and no word was coming out. But I did answer( you did what ? Wow and you didn’t told me that, and what he said) she said (he was busy elsewhere) So guys yes she is evolving big time and that’s where I told her (wow honey you definitely evolving in here but you have to let me know that, that’s part of all this telling me) but I didn’t put to much pressure on that because she also said (but it’s so weird and i thinks it’s dangerous. What if I fall in love) and that’s what I’m asking you guys here.

Does anybody here faced that situation where the wife falls in love ?

Thanks

[MrMtl]

Good Morning,

Yesterday we had another discussion about Dr B. Conversation didn’t start about him right away. We were talking about different things and it switched to him because I knew that he took a flight to Spain for vacation but didn’t know for how long, she said 2 weeks that’s when I said (oh your gonna miss him ?) she replied (I always miss him when he’s not there, but yes 2 weeks will be long and he didn’t told me goodbye the last day and I was pissed. Especially after what we had discussed last weekend so yes all week my head was weird and it’s also scary thinking like that).

I then said (god honey if you were pissed, I think it’s because you are more to him then I tough). She said (I think so too, but I’m scared of falling in love !). I know that is a risk but seeing them so close and in front of me and she also told me that there always close like that so that’s a reason why I’m willing to open our relationship and discover something new and have fun with it together instead of finding that my wife is cheating on me. And especially that I’m here for the past couple of years and reading and learning from great couple.

Yes I’m scared too but I think and that’s what I told her yesterday, he has to know right away that you are thinking of him more intimately and would like more and that I’m also open to it but only for the pleasure so if he’s ok with it then I think it will be ok.

We then had great sex and I’m wondering if she was thinking of him while we were doing it.

Have a great day.

[Rogueuser1]

Interesting developments for sure. Are they texting or talking at all while he has been away? It certainly seems like things are intensifying!

[MrMtl]

Interesting developments for sure. Are they texting or talking at all while he has been away? It certainly seems like things are intensifying!

I know they are but it’s always regarding something related to their department at the hospital. And she told me that he always or many times answering with an .

[Bloomincpl]

Does anybody here faced that situation where the wife falls in love ?

My wife has had two long term boyfriends in the past. She fell in love with both of them.

Before this happened, we had long discussions about such a situation arising. We both knew that if she found a great man to have sex with, it would be dumb to play with him only once or twice and then try to find another great man to have sex with just because we might be worried about emotions developing. We knew that if she had sex with a man more and more the chances of falling in love with him would go up and up. We decided to take it step by step and see how things went, if such a situation arose.

In the first few years that we were into this lifestyle, she had sex with a variety of men. One was truly exceptional; literally toe-curling sex and she just couldn't get enough sex with him. Sadly, he moved away after just a couple of months, but she definitely would have fallen in love with him if he hadn't moved. Finally she met 'Jason', and we all hit it off well. Jason was divorced with kids. He didn't want the entanglement of being married again, but did not want to miss the companionship of a woman. Jason and my wife dated for about three years, and had sex at least once a month but usually a fair bit more than that. A lot of it was solo dates, due in large part to kids and schedules. It didn't take long for my wife to actively fall in love with him. They broke up because Jason was ready to start dating towards getting married, so that ended. Next came 'James'. They dated for about the same amount of time. My wife very much fell in love with him too. I fondly remember the MFMs that we had; it really had become her making love with both of us at the same time. James lived further away, so they couldn't get together as often, but they did as often as they could. He too eventually found someone single, and things ended between my wife and James.

In both cases her being in love with these two men had absolutely no negative effect on our marriage at all. In fact, quite the opposite. I enjoyed her going off to make love with her boyfriends, enjoyed having MFMs with her and her boyfriends when we could all get together, enjoyed how it made us closer than ever before. It was a benefit to us, not a detriment.

But, every relationship is different. The only people who can judge for you is you and your wife. There can be danger here; be careful. Communicate with each other the whole way. If either one of you feels the situation isn't right...end it! Your marriage comes first!

We then had great sex and I’m wondering if she was thinking of him while we were doing it.

Probably Ask her next time! My wife and I always tell each other these things.

[MrMtl]

Blommincpl:

Thanks for this reply. I really appreciate that you took the time. It is dangerous we know and that’s what I told her, we need to continue to have our open conversation. On my side, I’m more than ready and I also know that we might have some adjustments at the beginning especially because they are working together so things might happen without me knowing. I mean touching etc.

The other point I want to discuss with her is about the texting that she maybe will have. I also want to know when they’ll be some sexy exchanges.

Do you think I go to far here ?

[zorro]

I don't. Our experience is increased desire for the other guy makes for hotter and more gratifying sex -- and for a stronger marriage.
Sexual desire is part of our makeup as humans. Knowing and accepting the reality for what it is stimulates loving, ultimately intimate feeling and knowledge of the other.

It is possibly unrealistic to think a woman can have sex with another man she is developing feelings for and not fall in love to some extent. Some couplings are just good old raw sex, but when they are something more, they can be even more positively intense, as long as the people involved communicate openly and compassionately. For some women, sex with feelings for a man can make for mediocre sex. Not something we want. The relationships will be what your wife and you make of them.

Keep us informed.

[DCaftermath]

Throughout reading this story the “possibilities” with colleagues has been concerning. To find a guy on the side where you see little of, and only for the sex is one thing, but this is different. I wish you well.

[MrMtl]

Throughout reading this story the “possibilities” with colleagues has been concerning. To find a guy on the side where you see little of, and only for the sex is one thing, but this is different. I wish you well.

As of right now, she say’s that having sex with a stranger doesn’t appeal to her. She said that she needs a connection.