Platform for wannabe and curious husbands to chat

A place for "wannabes" to compare notes. Talk about how close they are but not yet. Complain. Hopefully smile and enjoy.
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Platform for wannabe and curious husbands to chat

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hi all wannabe hubbies who enjoy the fantasy of exposing our wives, talking about them, sharing most secret fantasies and adventures may be wifves are aware may be without, thinking of some private platform to chat? May be telegram groups available? Pls comment. I am also 49 yo husband who has been enjoying cuckold and wife share as a fantasy for many years....
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Hi great thread we are a couple in our 50s
Wife Enjoys naked exhibitionism.
looking for a younger man to join us for erotic fun and cuckold fantasies.
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I am right there with you. I have been searching for a platform, where,I can find others who share my desires to see my wife with other men, and they can share there's as well. If you would like to discuss drop me a line.
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I’ve also wondered if there is another platform to chat about hotwives, wannabes, etc. This forum is fantastic, just something a little quicker and more personal would be a nice addition. Something like a discord server.
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I’d be up for that … maybe a WhatsApp group 🙂
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UKhusband26 wrote: Thu Aug 13, 2026 1:35 am I’d be up for that … maybe a WhatsApp group 🙂
Possibly, I know some people would be concerned about sharing their actual phone number.
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Just on a side note, whatsapp will consent username with no number sharing soon, otherwise telegram could be an alternative; the real point is does this violate the forum rules?
Maybe a moderator should be consulted.
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SalseroStag wrote: Sun Aug 16, 2026 2:46 am Just on a side note, whatsapp will consent username with no number sharing soon, otherwise telegram could be an alternative; the real point is does this violate the forum rules?
Maybe a moderator should be consulted.
That’s a good point Salsero. It might come close to rule #3 with mentioning other sites? I’m okay dropping this topic if one of the mods thinks this is breaking forum rules.
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No worries guys - mentioning other sites is perfectly fine.

There's a longstanding rule that one shouldn't post clickable links to other sites in the public-facing forums (the ones you can see when you aren't logged in). If you obfuscate the links a bit, it's generally fine.

To me, the intent matters: if it starts to look like promotion, marketing, or spam, that gets my hackles up.
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leggysman wrote: Sun Aug 16, 2026 6:00 am No worries guys - mentioning other sites is perfectly fine.

There's a longstanding rule that one shouldn't post clickable links to other sites in the public-facing forums (the ones you can see when you aren't logged in). If you obfuscate the links a bit, it's generally fine.

To me, the intent matters: if it starts to look like promotion, marketing, or spam, that gets my hackles up.
That’s nice to hear Leggysman, so maybe telegram could be an option.
Has anyone ever considered the idea of embedding a chat directly into the forum? I’ve seen this on alike boards and this way everything would remain inside this community. I’m not suggesting anything in particular just bringing ideas to the table, but I imagine this would put additional effort on moderators’shoulder
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Thanks for the confirmation leggysman! I’m partial to Discord, but telegram would probably work too.
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I’m interested if we can get enough for a lively chat
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I’m interested too!
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SalseroStag wrote: Sun Aug 16, 2026 6:10 am Has anyone ever considered the idea of embedding a chat directly into the forum? I’ve seen this on alike boards
It's something that I've seen people ask for occasionally. I'm not sure. I'd be curious what extension or software other board admins are using for that, but: I don't want to change the overall dynamic of the site, which has worked well for nearly 20 years. I'm a new site admin, and I'd want to proceed with caution. Let's see how the new 'like' button goes over first, shall we? :D
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Ooooo like button. Fancy!
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Hey everyone! I went ahead and made a telegram group for wannabes, talking about hot wives, etc. If you want to join just shoot me a PM. Probably going to keep this to forum members only to hopefully keep the spam to a minimum.
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Gamt1015 wrote: Tue Aug 04, 2026 11:21 am I am right there with you. I have been searching for a platform, where,I can find others who share my desires to see my wife with other men, and they can share there's as well. If you would like to discuss drop me a line.
Pls check your Pvt msgs
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leggysman wrote: Sun Aug 16, 2026 5:06 pm
SalseroStag wrote: Sun Aug 16, 2026 6:10 am Has anyone ever considered the idea of embedding a chat directly into the forum? I’ve seen this on alike boards
It's something that I've seen people ask for occasionally. I'm not sure. I'd be curious what extension or software other board admins are using for that, but: I don't want to change the overall dynamic of the site, which has worked well for nearly 20 years. I'm a new site admin, and I'd want to proceed with caution. Let's see how the new 'like' button goes over first, shall we? :D
When I first joined OHW back in 2010 there was an active chat room on this site. It was fun getting to know other users, especially the ones with Blue Usernames.

Apparently it was very high maintenance for the moderators and they finally discontinued it.

With Consensual Non Monogamy being such a common interest for so many of us, it would sure be wonderful if that element of communication could one day be restored.

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twoshare_98 wrote: Mon Aug 17, 2026 6:13 pm Hey everyone! I went ahead and made a telegram group for wannabes, talking about hot wives, etc. If you want to join just shoot me a PM. Probably going to keep this to forum members only to hopefully keep the spam to a minimum.
Sent you a DM
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I am interested
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@Mr1 Thanks for confirming my memory of that time. I distinctly recall sitting in a bar while chatting online with other cucks. This would have been in the 2005 - 2009 timeframe. It's been so long, I couldn't remember if the chat room was hosted here or on Slutwives, another OG cuck site. My wife and I split ages ago, so I no longer have the same needs. Back then, it was comforting to interact with others who had had similar experiences while I sat in a tavern or coffee shop waiting for her and her lover to finish. Now? After several years of dating, lots of sex, and a few longer relationships, I am celibate. Cuck-identifying, but single. In my current situation, I can see how it might be fun to reverse roles from when I sought comfort in realtime with my wife's activities - to be the old hand talking an overwhelmed newbie through an angst-filled night.
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