Getting her into it

[PaNic]

I just came across a Hotwife article on the Vanilla Swingers website that I thought would be really helpful to encourage our hesitant women to get both excited and reassured about the prospect. It’s titled “how to become a Hotwife: a beginner’s guide”
I just thought it was worded well and gives a lovely gentle encouragement for women to playfully engage with their partner’s smutty fantasies…

[Bloomincpl]

I just came across a Hotwife article on the Vanilla Swingers website that I thought would be really helpful to encourage our hesitant women to get both excited and reassured about the prospect. It’s titled “how to become a Hotwife: a beginner’s guide”
I just thought it was worded well and gives a lovely gentle encouragement for women to playfully engage with their partner’s smutty fantasies…

It's a great title! Where is this article? And what is a "vanilla" swingers site? Swingers, by definition, aren't vanilla

[Judgementkazzy]

The best tip I could give is buy her a dildo especially one that looks different to your cock, even give it a name or if she can handle it buy a pornstars dildo

[Freddy314]

I agree with the larger dildo suggestion. My wife was pretty much only used to average size cock. When I bought her a realistic, 7 1/2" insertible length, and slightly less girthy than a can of Red Bull, she didn't think it would ever fit. After a few tries it does. Now she knows she likes larger cocks. It still hasn't gotten her to play, but I think if we ever came across a big one, she might be tempted to find out what the real thing feels like.

[SilverStag]

I agree with the larger dildo suggestion. My wife was pretty much only used to average size cock. When I bought her a realistic, 7 1/2" insertible length, and slightly less girthy than a can of Red Bull, she didn't think it would ever fit. After a few tries it does. Now she knows she likes larger cocks. It still hasn't gotten her to play, but I think if we ever came across a big one, she might be tempted to find out what the real thing feels like.

Not all women are merely looking for a bigger dick. Some just like to experience "different". I don't understand why guys always assume a bigger dick is the answer.

[Freddy314]

Dude I told what happened in my situation. Sorry if you feel threatened because your wife might like a "different" dick that just happens to be bigger.