Signs She Is Getting There

[Subzero84]

Hey everyone what are the signs a wife might be open to becoming a hotwife or interested in seeing other men? I’m looking for both subtle, early indicators and clear, definite signs. Please include examples of behaviour and conversation cues, but also note which signs could be misread and which are strong confirmations. Any advice on how to bring the topic up respectfully, keep consent central, and protect the relationship while exploring this would also be appreciated. Thanks.

[just_cuck]

I am not sure it is much of help for you but I believe that a honest conversation and a direct question how she would feel with the idea of seeing her with someone else is the best policy. Signs both subtle and direct may be misleading. She may want to play some fantasies but it is not an indicator as those are rooted in something else than a volition to fulfil them.

[Knightryder701]

Try coming right out and asking her if she has ever thought of having sex with another man during your marriage.if you must beat around the bush on the idea of sex with another man how are you going to handle the conversation when she actually fucks another man.

[SilverStag]

The best piece of advice is to not be insistent or constantly bring up the subject. More women have been turned off by "badgering" than have been encouraged. y all means have a conversation about it but understand that her biggest question will by "Why?", so be prepared, set the foundation by understanding why you want this and that you have given thought about how it will affect her as well as your relationship.

"Know yourself"

[aztd]

But in the foreplay she goes absolutely nuts with the follicular band. Then by the nation starts asking about logistic questions. STDs where you find them where you would go understand it understand most women never go through it with it. Can they enjoy the fantasy but it goes against every social value. So woman has been talking to stay true even a version of the marriage. Jump on that and be with another man it's a fertile most can't take. Some I suggestions is enjoy the fantasy make steps but don't don't expect it to go all the way. It goes all the way you may not get what you're thinking of. It reading this board you can see people are getting real close they even have the date. And then they completely go away. Makes you kind of think that things can go well. Then you see people have been here for years. One life having a 208 cocks in her

Be careful what you wish for you you just might get it

[Jujube]

One tell tale is there’s a coworker who she talks about all the time- “He said this” and “He does that”. If she brings him up all the time, chances are she’s smitten with him.

[HotwifehubbyVA]

I definitely agree on not badgering! Pressure is a buzz kill

[Late]

She's a woman. If anyone here tells you they can predict how a woman will respond; just know they will lie to you about other stuff as well. Having a hotwife is a destination, not a target. A target might be introducing her to the concept of other guys checking her out. Then, a target might be getting her to check out other guys. Then,..... you get the idea. As a wannabe, I believe the journey to getting her to hotwife is the best part, not actually arriving at the destination. I guess that may be because I know I will never reach the destination, but she is allowing us to take the journey. Good luck.

Late

[mattyg_2671]

Hey everyone what are the signs a wife might be open to becoming a hotwife or interested in seeing other men? I’m looking for both subtle, early indicators and clear, definite signs. Please include examples of behaviour and conversation cues, but also note which signs could be misread and which are strong confirmations. Any advice on how to bring the topic up respectfully, keep consent central, and protect the relationship while exploring this would also be appreciated. Thanks.

Advice on bringing the topic up: dream scenario. For example, “I had a weird dream last night that you had incredible sex with another guy, and I don’t understand why but I woke up with a hard-on….” Etc.

Signs she is considering it: going from a hard “no” or “never” or “that’s not something I want to do”, to pushing back using logistical arguments or posing negative questions: we’d never find the right man, no-one would find me attractive, you couldn’t handle it, how would that even work? Etc etc

At least that’s how it was for my wife, and it took several years to get to the point we are now. And we’ve had some INCREDIBLE experiences since she allowed her sexuality to be unleashed!

[BallSpanking]

Early signs?
Well, in general terms, listen closely to the way your wife words her refusal, if it's a flat 'no', or an adamant 'not a chance in hell', it likely means exactly that.
If her responses are more like 'But what if my sister finds out', or, 'No way I would stand for you to start dating other women', or something along those lines ... That means it is a 'conditional no' ... That means she would not consider it unless certain circumstances and complications can be resolved.
In other words, 'yes', but only if certain conditions can be met.
That is no longer a hard and fast "NO".

[DaveOnEdge]

Hey everyone what are the signs a wife might be open to becoming a hotwife or interested in seeing other men? I’m looking for both subtle, early indicators and clear, definite signs. Please include examples of behaviour and conversation cues, but also note which signs could be misread and which are strong confirmations. Any advice on how to bring the topic up respectfully, keep consent central, and protect the relationship while exploring this would also be appreciated. Thanks.

Advice on bringing the topic up: dream scenario. For example, “I had a weird dream last night that you had incredible sex with another guy, and I don’t understand why but I woke up with a hard-on….” Etc.

Signs she is considering it: going from a hard “no” or “never” or “that’s not something I want to do”, to pushing back using logistical arguments or posing negative questions: we’d never find the right man, no-one would find me attractive, you couldn’t handle it, how would that even work? Etc etc

At least that’s how it was for my wife, and it took several years to get to the point we are now. And we’ve had some INCREDIBLE experiences since she allowed her sexuality to be unleashed!

What mattyg said.

And at the risk of piggyjacking which I may have just coined as a merger of thread jacking and piggybacking, I hope Mattyg will update us on his own thread.

Also I may be jacking.

[UKhusband26]

She's a woman. If anyone here tells you they can predict how a woman will respond; just know they will lie to you about other stuff as well. Having a hotwife is a destination, not a target. A target might be introducing her to the concept of other guys checking her out. Then, a target might be getting her to check out other guys. Then,..... you get the idea. As a wannabe, I believe the journey to getting her to hotwife is the best part, not actually arriving at the destination. I guess that may be because I know I will never reach the destination, but she is allowing us to take the journey. Good luck.

Late

Great post! Fully agree!

[leggysman]

at the risk of piggyjacking which I may have just coined as a merger of thread jacking and piggybacking