Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[misterclarky]

Hi Reese,

Is funny how we all see the things differently. You cannot let go of your h/w for the moment. To let her spend the night in a b/f place. In my case I have never been present while my wife was fucking with another man. I think to see another man on top of her fucking her would be too much for me.

I prefer that she tells me what happened. She is a great story teller. Usually her b/f don't know that I encourage her activity. Is sort of our secret. I am more than happy that she goes out with a man...she always calls me to let me know how is going...how dinner went...how the drink went...now she is going back to his place...and then the phone is cut and i have no news until the next day...I will be at work & she will call me around 10h00 to say she is fine...is a bit of a cat & mouse game for the details.
Usually i have not slept all night..or very little..I usually too aroused by my imagination to sleep..and my cock wont leave me alone...just hard all the time.

She always looks so beautiful the next day...She has had a lovely romantic evening & hopefully a good fucking. And me i have had a wild night alone in my bed imagining what must be happening..especially when i send an SMS and i see that her phone is off...and the next day we having a coffee together..in a crowded café...not being able to talk about last night...but just going crazy with lust...and then in the evening...when we can't stand it anymore...all the details come out....my cock also...and we fuck like crazy...In our case is not just about sex....is about her feeling sexy and desired by another man....and going to bed with him..and the next day to share her experience with her hubby & best friend.

Each to their own....but i love it

[reese]

Well said Mrclarky.
Paris France...WOW!
To have an international friend with a HW, I love this forum!
Thanks for your thoughts.

Well........it's update time!
Last night, we met another cpl who share the HW lifestyle.
I didnt mention this dinner date b/c we didnt know if we would meet up on Friday.
We also had plans to meet many of our friends to visit a comedy club after dinner.
This dinner date with the HW cpl was unbelievably helpful for MRS reese/hw.
For the 1st time, she was able to talk openly with another woman regarding our lifestyle.
My hw was so happy to have shared some time with the other HW.
But, I have to share one thing with all of you.
When my wife went to the restroom, the gentleman whom I have befriended over the past 3 months told me a startling statement. His very sexy hotwife(5'7, 130lb, 34 yrs old, mother of 2) found me very sexy and wished to possibly establish a relationship with me. This cpl openly swings as well. They are not considered the typical HW CPL.
I was very flattered......funny how ALL the attention as a hw hubby is on your own wife...it's never ever about me. I prefer it this way....watching my wife smile lovingly at me as she captures a room everytime we are out, but this time.......it was about me! This statement came "out of nowhere". I didnt expect this! My male friend apologized and told me that he didnt mean to put me on the spot. His HW looked at me in such a seductive and sensual manner. I was totally flustered!
I told them thank-you for the compliment. My HW approached the table and that conversation stopped!
Later that night, I told my wife about that comment. She found it also flattering....she told me" baby you are so sexy, women can not keep their hands off you". But THAT was all!
I am very curious to see where this leads all of us as I continue to talk to my friend. I am sure he will ask me to pursue this situation with his wife. I will have to tell him eventually that I hold NO secrets from my wife.....and that unless "hell freezes over", at this point in my marriage....I AM NOT A PLAYER!

Later last night, we went to the comedy club. After the event, we went with a few of our friends to a hot dance club. MY hw and I had an agreement........NO HW PLAY on this night!
OMG............we danced, everywhere she walked or sat...all eyes were on her!
Later, I was talking to my friends and she danced up against a pole.....all by herself. SHE was working the room. MANY men were raising their drinks to her...many men approached her....many, many, many crazy moments at this point. I knew that my HW wanted that moment to herself.....dancing by herself, turning ON the room!

Before she became a hw, she would have never attempted to capture the room like she did last night.

We went home very late, and collapsed!

This morning, I left early to fulfill some obligations.

NO mention of E.
NO mention of tonight1


The anticipation is building.
SHE will be out all day.
I will be home to watch her get dressed.

My hw sent me a text to tell me " I want you to fuck from the inside". Now sing along with that....her text msg was a quote from a song that is all about sex. It's her fav song!
She wants me to fuck her before she leaves tonight.
Unusual? Yes, I didnt think that that would happen. Especially since she is going out with the girls and eventually meeting up with E tonight!

I have been requested to pick out her outfit for tonight.

SHE IS in her hw mode already.
Last night was just a warm up!
Tonight is her big night...she wont be with hubby...she will be capturing a crowd all by herself...and she will be meeting E.

MY suprise awaits me!

NO cumming in her pussy..that much I am sure of. My hw told me 2 wks....she is on the pill for 2 wks b/f her lover cums in her.

I am going crazy now.
I want to masterbate....so badly...but I have to wait until she comes home.

I really want to fuck her from the INSIDE.........

until later...............

[reese]

I went out for a bit...came home and my HW told me to cum into the bedroom.......she was laying in bed resting for tonight. WE had a long, late night yesterday evening.
My first suprise..........I am not allowed to fuck her...she changed her mind and told me that she was teasing me.....she wants to save her pussy for someone else. I was pissed...........so fucking horny.....and I cant have her delicious pussy!
I asked her if I could lick it....NO!
WHY am I living like this? I am so damn horny right now!
I really think she loves to cuckold me!
She told me how she hates that word...cuckold....but she loves how crazy I get when I am denied her pussy!
I am writing this..........and I have to admit something to all of you.......I want E to fuck her so badly....if I cant have her than I want e to rock her world.

I left the computer for about 15 minutes....I had to finish the last sentence about E rocking her world.....I left the computer b/c my hw called me into her room...........she was on her knees...for all of you that saw the pics of her ass...just try to picture how delicious she looked.
She asked me to lick her sexy butt....I did for about 5 minutes...tasting her pussy juices as the surrounded her butthole.
Omg.........I still tremble writing this. Before Hw....this would have never happened.
I was told to stroke my cock...my wife said to me"baby, I know you are so horny for me, baby stroke your cock for me", she instructed me to do that...all the while talking as sexy and sensual as a girl talking on those sex web cams sites.
She could tell that I was going to cum....and she pushed herself from my mouth and rolled around and sucked my cock furiously. Maybe I should tell you that it was more than a furious stroking/sucking...it was filled with sluttiness...her blow job was fueled by what is going to happen tonight. My wife asked me to tell her how slutty she was. She asked me to tell her how much of a bad girl she has become........she had to have orgasmed...as she slowed her sucking and shivered with excitement. She stopped sucking me right after that moment. She told me.........thats all baby.
You will have to jack off yourself....and she instructed me to smell and kiss her feet and jack off on her back. WOW.....this has to be my 1st suprise...she knows how hot I think it is to not only have a wife fuckiing other men..but to have a wife deny you her pussy at times....NOW she was denying me her mouth.
She had the most erotic scent from her feet. IF you all dont know by now...I am a scent man. I love the feminine scent. All over her body minus her arm pits.
Her feet had the scent of leather....and a little of her body scent.
For all you foot men....her feet are so soft...high arched....long straight toes.................

It took me about 2 minutes....stroking my cock............listening to her tell me that she wants to fuck E so badly....telling me that she loves to be a slut...that she loves to be nasty.....dirty....... I had another intense orgasm.....cumming on her back..........she rolled around and sucked every drop of cum out of my cock.
Here I am........right after this moment...writing to you as my HW lays in bed.

My urges are satisfied.
I am back to being worried about tonight.
I am losing my wife again.
WE re-enforced our bond of love this week.
Now I have a very aggressive, horny HOTWIFE on my hands this weekend.

What is wrong with me...........giving her up....being denied her pussy!

I love this lifestyle!

I love losing her even when I have her!

[OneDayAtATime]

Going out with friends and especially those that can relate to your escapades can offer some valuable insight.It had to have helped your wife.

It sounds like what the husband of the HW couple said to you, flew you for a loop Like you said,unless your wife gets turned on by you being with another woman and if she isn't up for you fucking the other female in a FMF,than unless something changes,its not happening with your hotwife. She didn't say much after you told her so that sends a message

Personally,being the center of attention rocks and it boosts your ego.Why wouldn't a wife enjoy having a good-looking man to hold arm-n-arm and hand in hand. By your wife constantly vying for your affection, it lets other women know he's my man.

I think its all about what gets you stimulated beyond words and what your wife wants for you and herself.

She enjoys playing with your mind, directing your submissiveness to her will,all in fun of course.Her teasing you the way she does must have got you doing flips in your stomach.

Why do you go through this torment ? To please her and she knows that you enjoy it more than you hate it.

You get turned on knowing she'll be watched and will be with other men while she is starting to explore pushing your buttons sexually and thats her fantasy for you.At least it is right now. Your heart seems to be racing wondering what she has planned for you next.

Tell her the pics are fucking great. Clothed,nude,those of her backside and her cleavage want you to take a cold shower to cool off.


I'm sure you're anxiously anticipating what fabulous fun will occur throughout the night.

[reese]

I do not have a free moment to write.
OMG.........It will take me a few hours to put last nights FUN into words.
My hw is asleep.
Glistening with SEX all over her hot body.

I will write more soon.

I cant wait to tell everyone about my surprises.

[zorro]

What is wrong with me...........giving her up....being denied her pussy!

You will have to answer this one. You are getting what you want because you are both allowing it to happen and encouraging it.

So just enjoy the ride. Sounds from your posts as though you are. It's not my trip but I will wish you bon voyage!

[reese]

An update to Saturday evening.
It's Monday morning, and I am at work, finally able to write about this past weekend.
My hw completely suprised me.
She sent me a few texts from the club telling me that E was there with her and that he brought a friend whom she thinks is very sexy.
I sent her a message asking her if she wanted to fuck him as well.....I wasnt happy about this though...I have a very difficult time as it is when she is cucking me with E....I am still trying to keep in check my battling emotions when she isnt with me and she is playing HW for men.
She sent me a text back and asked me if it is ok to bring the other stud home also...she also told me.....THIS is your fantasy baby...and if you dont want me to do anything just tell me and I wont!
I love her for that!

I told her to be slutty and make me proud of her!
That was all she needed to hear!

Later that evening......she kept me updated by telling me how hot this other guy was....telling me how she was dancing and kissing both E and his friend D.
She told me how eveyone at the club was watching her....men would approach her asking her if she would like to dance with them....this would happen when she would leave for the restroom.
She told me how slutty and HOT she felt that night......everyone lusting over her!
She sent me another text telling me that she is on her way home.......the plan was for her to go out with a trusting friend who understands our lifestyle. Her friend is single...and met up with a few of her friends at the club...so my HW left with E and D in his vehicle.
She told me that E was driving...and D and my HW sat in the back seat. E kept encouraging her to suck his cock. Listening to her tell me this story about her ride home is so hot for me............DO you have any clue how unbelievable it is for me to hear this about MY wife....she is with other men at this moment...and I am not with her....SHE is acting so slutty and enjoying every minute of it! She is cucking me.....and I am not OK with this...I do not like to be cuckolded....but my cock tells me otherwise! I love the feeling of losing her......

I hurried home...but didnt park in near my house. I watched them finally arrive to the house. I made a point of being close by......she and the boys walked into the house...laughing...and being playful with each other.
I sneaked in after watching our bedroom light turn on...knowing that it would be safe to enter without being caught.
I made a decision to be a voyeur at this point.....I wanted to WATCH....but not be seen!

More later....I have to attend a meeting.

A lot more crazy stuff happened...I promise to inform all of you soon!

[reese]

They all were in the bedroom.......I could hear a lot of laughing...and I heard E tell my HW that he thinks its so hot if she would fuck his friend............b/c HE wants her to do that. My hw told E that she would only do this b/c her husband wants HER to do this...NOT b/c he wants her to fuck him. I loved hearing this..E trying to gain some dominance over my HW.
My HW trying to maintain her strength and in fear of hurting my feelings.
The men didnt know that I was in the house. E mentioned a few times when i was coming home...he wanted me to be with them...and we could gang bang her. She kept telling him..."NO way are all 3 of you going to be fucking me".
Our home is large, so there was a lot of areas that i would go and hide in...and watch. I shut my phone off....I surely didnt want my phone going off...not that anyone would call at 3am...My heart was racing....my cock was hard...I could feel the thumping of my heart..it felt like it would beat out of my chest at this moment.
My hw was so wild and unpredictable....at this moment, she was intoxicated....feeling very horny...feeling very slutty...and I am sure of this..........she really loved being E's slut and I know in my heart that she wanted so bad to do what HE wanted her to do! I was so confused..but so turned on. MY hw as being a hw for E. I was being SO cucked....and she knew this. She knew that I would be watching her...we have this silent communication...its a gift that only couples who share this lifestyle have. Its a level of trust and love with unspoken words and actions.
I knew she knew I was there....and I knew she was play acting a lot for me. She tells me that no matter who she is with..its is her greatest turn on...knowing she is driving ME crazy with lust and love for her!
More to follow..............I have some things to take care of right now!

[reese]

If you have never watched your wife with another man, then I hope this next paragraph or words gives you the motivation to pursue it with her...or at the very least, I hope you can understand what I was feeling at this moment!
My hw is moving forward....cucking me....fucking men without me present....I am losing her....SHE is really getting into this lifestyle.......MEN are going crazy over her.....she carries this zest of seduction wherever she goes.........she is TOTAL SEX......and seduction!
I am listening to both of these men telling her how fucking HOT she is...how unbelievable she is...how this is a dream come true....how fucking great she feels...her mouth...her pussy...her ass..........these guys are going crazy on her...she is moaning...telling them that she loves being their slut....THEY both ask her if the can DP her....she is reluctant..but tells them if it hurts...they MUST STOP!
IT happens...........I am listening.........watching my wife from an area where no one can see me...lights are off.....only the shadow from the moon is shining thru into the room........

she is moaning....and telling the men to fuck her harder........but at this point they mustve hurt her...she told them to stop..and rolled off them.....she asked for a drink...and E went into the kitchen to get her some water...I was worried that I would be caught by one of them at this point........D and my HW started kissing...she told him that she loves his cock...he replies "why dont you suck it like the slut that I THINK YOU ARE........I was pissed at that comment..but my wife eagerly took his cock and started to suck it....


got to go...i will be back soon.

[reese]

E came back into the bedroom. For all who are wondering...we have quite a large bedroom with a very large entertainment center. I was standing on the side of that...everyone was unable to see me unless one would actually walk to the side of it.
I wasnt worried....E and my HW know I have a kinky side....
Again.....E started to lick my HW's butt...while she was laying on her belly sucking D.
They took turns fucking her....they mentioned dping her again..but she said NO way...it hurt too much.
For the next hour or so.......they fucked, sucked until everyone slowed down....I heard my HW have an intense orgasm with both of them playing with her...E was inside her doggie style while she was sucking D.
At this point........I was in shock...watching and listening. For any man who has watched his wife....YOU all must know what I was feeling....the greatest fucking sight ever! HOTWIFE....WIFE....LOVER......Playboy centerfold........Hustler chick........all my fantasies coming true............what in the world would be better in regards to fulfilling a fantasy???

They eventually stopped........around 4am or so.......they put on their clothes and kissed my hw goodbye..she was in and out of sleep. When they left...........I walked into the bedroom and told my HW that I saw everything...in her exhaustion..she asked me if SHE made me happy.........if I loved her........and if we could have sex later.........
I kissed her and told her that she is my greatest love...and how happy and horny I was.

We woke up............the bed sheets smelling like her hot sex....smelling like male cum and cologne.....I fucked her and within 2 minutes we both were having an intense orgasm..........NO words were said.......we both knew what happened that night...........we both fell back asleep more in love than yesterday.

To the today...............we will have a talk today........my hw wants to talk....she said that Sat.night scared her....there were some feelings that she had that are unsettling to her. She needs some re-assurances...........my job as a HW hubby is to make her know that I am proud of her for making my fantasies come to life!

I will update later.................

I have battled jealousy today...........battled the fact that no matter how I feel.......I lost a big part of my wife.....no matter if we stop this forever.....she has changed..........she is more aggressive today...when we are in public, she wants to attract men.....and I have to be patient...even if I am not in the mood to step back and allow her to talk or flirt with another man...I have to always step back and watch all this take place. I dare not tell her to STOP..........b/c she will...........and there will be NO more talk of hw play.

To all the men who envy me............there are crappy moments too. Battling those fucking emotions are so mentally and physically draining.

More to follow soon.
I will talk about our discussion and the negative side of HW play.

[OneDayAtATime]

That had me on the edge of my seat. Fantastic. My heart was racing and my adrenaline pumping,as much as my body can allow. Thanks for sharing so much !


I'm glad E and D know her boundaries and obeyed.

I bet you're jealous and only someone who gets turned on this way would know exactly how you feel. You brought our explicit details,how you feel,what they were doing in a manner that it felt like being there. Bravo,ten out of ten.

Having that extra dick is something i'm sure you'll talk about as i don't know if ya'll have brought that up before. Her going that route had to make you think twice. He brought him along without asking which even though you trust E and your wife asked,it has to bring out some confusing and conflicting emotions.

She knew you wouldn't say no and you went with the flow. That shows her you trust her decisions.

She loves the attention.I'm thankful she gives you the attention you deserve for allowing her to have unbelievable sex.

I'm glad you won't allow yourself to be dominated by her f/bs and she took control of that situation. She isn't going to do something against her will. Not only is she sexy but smart and has common sense in times when its needed. Thats a complete woman.



While you've heard the ole saying,"Men think with their dick." sometimes its better to override that and think with your heart and head. Your mind can line up with your dick and just go for it. If your mind doesn't agree,you know its still better to allow things to happen because of how much you love one another and wouldn't do anything to intenionately hurt one another.Thats what make ya'lls relationship so great as they say here in the south.

Having time to reflect,talk, work out any issues and tell her how you were feeling throughout the evening.

I'm probally one of the few on here who doesn't envy what you're doing as i would be doing something else with your wife ,yet not being able to bang your wife,yeah who wouldn't. Thats certainly another story.

I'm on the opposite side of the spectrum as i preferred being the center of attention. If it wasn't about me or me being graciously allowed to do my best to please my lady(s),i wasn't into it.

I only wish you had pics of that evening. What a sight that would be.

Oh,the cleavage pics are wonderful,especially when she's hanging them.

Once again,thanks for allowing us into your life.

[BallSpanking]

Hey Reese,

Congratulations on your wife's excellent progress.
If you continue reassuring her, soon she won't feel guilty about having new and different lovers, because she'll know that's what you want for her growth and pleasure.

It would be fabulous, in that your wife is such a babe, to see some threesome pics next time, see her getting stuffed by two large cocks, and really loving it.

You know it is the sweet slut in her that makes her love this so, don't you?
After all, isn't that what you sought to set free in her to begin with, to see her quench her thirst in ways you never could?

Please reassure her, let her know she is loved ever the more when she lets go...!

Cheers!

[reese]

Thanks guys for your kind words.
One thing that I seem to be fighting all the time........and I am serious about this....SHE never asked for this. She was very happy....had multiple orgasms MOST of the time when we had sex..on her off nights she would have an orgasm or as she says 1/2 of one. But she is young..she hasnt hit her sexual prime yet.....she always tells me that she would be very happy to have sex twice a week...but since she met me...and with my high demand of sex....we usually have sex 3 to 4 times per week. This was all before her hotwife days.

Anyway...........I fight the fact that maybe I turned my wife into a nympho at times. She never wouldve wanted this! She never requested for sex with others...she never was dissatisfied with me and our sex.
SO why? Why do I do this? Why do I continue to encourage this? I know its my fantasy...but now this fantasy seems to be a freight train running down hill without a brake!
We have honored our marriage...and she never has made me feel inferior....I am always her MAN!

Anyway..........I thought I would share that.

WE havent talked yet!

[reese]

Last post today.
We talked.
Very good conversation.
She told me that she thought I would go crazy if she acted like a slut and brought another man to our home. E assured her that HE was a good guy. A very good friend of his. He is clean...and married. That is why he brought him to her.
She thinks he is so fucking hot...she wants to have sex with him as a 3some with me. She asked E if it would be ok if she played with him without E being present. HE told her that would be fine with him. She thought she would tell me that I would have the final decision. If I was uncomfortable, she would not see him.
She also told me that she loved me more that anything. She thanked me for being ME. She told me that I am the most secure and strongest man in her world...better than any man she has ever been with. She told me that this is an extreme turn of hers....at times when she is fucking another man or E....she fantasizes about me....stuff like ME watching over her....or making MY cock hard as she is fucking another man...fantasizing that I am jacking off thinking about her.
SHe told me that she gets off knowing that she has this total power over my sexuality.

Then she told me that she can wait to fuck D.
Her new lover.....

E and now D.
M is out!

Until tomorrow.............we are going to have sex after her shower......YES!
I will be fantasizing about this past weekend as I CUM.

[BallSpanking]

Fantastic, Reese.

In regard to your first question, that she never asked to do this, that she was happy before, I would say 'a little knowledge is a dangerous thing'.
Now she's learning what it's like to have other lovers, and loves it...., and she's grateful to you for allowing her the freedom (encouraging her) to be a HotWife!

I'd say..., Ask her now if she likes (or loves) being able to see other men, and whether she'd like things back as they were.
I think her answer will be unequivocal.

[reese]

Hw left for work, before she left, she told me that she is going to call D on her lunch break and tell him how much fun she had and that she wants to take him up on his offer of meeting again soon.
Another world of possibilities have been presented to me.....HERE WE GO AGAIN!
I love being a hw husband!

[reese]

WOW........I have to tell all of you what JUST happened.
My HW had D call me.
She didnt tell me and of course, she knows that I love her being sneaky and assertive.
He called me to ask for my permission to start fucking my HW.
He told me that she is the MOST sexiest woman that he has ever been with.
He told me that was divorced 3 months ago and that he would love to have her as his regular date.
My HW told me during our talks that he is hotter than E....and that if it could happen she would love to include him in our lifestyle.
WOW.............WHAT should I do?
I worried a few wks ago about M...remember him? It never happened b/c she wasnt attracted to him.
I believe my HW learned a lot from her time texting and flirting with M.
Since he was the man who we choose to go solo with, even though it didnt work out for my HW...I believe she really wants to find a fulltime bf...b/c she loves cucking me...even though WE both hate the term cuckold....she gets off doing that to me.
WOW...........talk about suprising me...that phone call was a shocker!

I told D that he has my permission to date my wife.
MY cock is so hard writing this......my blood pressure is through the roof.........my heart is racing.

It is happening all over again..but this time I really think my HW wants him badly..........she already has fucked him...but it was with E....and I think she wants him all to herself.....without me and E.

The thing with E is simple. HE has no time! He lives a great distance from us............and he has to go out of his way to meet my HW and I. So with this new opportunity...........I believe my HW will be introducing a fulltime boyfriend in her life....at least he has a chance. SHE is so damn picky..........and spoiled! HE has no idea what he is getting into!

I cant wait to see how this unfolds.
I am getting those pangs of jealousy again..and feeling left out.
It is such a turn on!

[reese]

We talked again,
MY hw asked me if I would be ok if she went away for Memorial weekend (usa holiday)with E and D.
E has a home on the lake and they both were thinking about taking her there for the long weekend.
I replied, "WHAT'!
COME ON...........I WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU.........NO WAY!
I was angry............she said to me..............no problem baby, I just thought it would turn you on to finally go away with my lovers...........it would drive you crazy knowing I am fucking 2 men all weekend...and you will be jacking off to my panties, shoes and nylons wishing I was with you".
FUCKING WOW...............I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO!

HELP..........I NEED ADVICE!

I told her to let me think about all of this!
She is cool with whatever I say and feel!

HELP

[oscar9]

For some reason I get the impression she knows (feels) that you will give her the ok. I would but I'm in a different mode than you. Deep down do you want it to happen or not, only you can make that decision.

[laura]

ahhh, to be unsexy here for a sec...I forgot, you have kids?..No kids?...kin close....Family obligations?

Laura

[BallSpanking]

I think she is fantastic!
And would definitely do you proud if you 'sacrificed' your expectations for your weekend, and gave her the license to really revel in her sexiness with two studs that will fuck her and cum in her numerous times this weekend.

Why do you feel anguished?

[Open2it]

I think it's a huge jump between an evening of play and a long weekend away, especially this soon into the lifestyle. What about a compromise? You go along and sleep in a seperate room while your wife sleeps with E & D and whomever else they choose to introduce her to? You could offer to do the cooking, change the sheets, etc. That way you would be nearby if she needs a break or wants to slow things down and she can have the FB's plus added dimension of pushing your buttons for 3 straight days. If it gets to be too much you can go home together without risking everything.
O2

[roadrunner]

I think if it's something you're not comfortable with, the answer should be "No". To do otherwise would do both of you a great disservice. We keep ranting about "communication". That communication needs to be honest and complete. She needs to know both your desires and your fears. Then you can both come to a decision on what is right for you both.

I think you've been pushing the envelope plenty. Don't push too hard too fast. This would be taking several big steps all at once. Her playing without you. Spending the night away. A weekend trip. And this with a brand new lover. And you've had struggles with getting to where you are now. Better to take each of them one at a time and see what your comfort level is.

[Big Daddy]

The only way I would let her go would be to join them. That way, she can get fucked all weekend long by 3 guys. Can I go too? LOL

[reese]

Hi again,
Thanks to all who have replied and gave me some words of encouragement and advice.
Laura, my HW will be without her child.
I have mine and this is a unique situation.
I think it would be great to spend some one on one time with my child. This is our 2nd marriage....and mixing our families has not allowed me much one on one time with my child. Being THE DAD.....I do not have the chance to be with my child everyday. So, as difficult as this situation is for me....being with my child one on one....NO WIFE OR STEP CHILD.....I might have some good quality time alone. Not that I am all for not being a family...my child would love to be with me alone for a long weekend.

Because of child time......this is the MAIN factor that is allowing my mind to actually allow my HW to go away for the weekend with E and D.
I have asked her to drive alone...and or follow them so if she wants to leave...she will be able to.
I have know E for about 8 months...and he is a trusted friend. I DO know a lot about him and his life, so there is NO worry about not trusting him. He had proven himself to both of us...complete gentleman....him and I have actually been out a few times together without my HW.

This morning, my hw woke and whispered in my ear to feel her pussy.....she woke me from my sleep around 6am....and when I realized that I would have an opportunity to fuck her....and having that MORNING HARDON....oh god did I fuck her...she kept telling me how badly she wants to be my slut and fuck E and D all weekend for me. I kept telling her that I want her to go..."please go baby..........please fuck your lovers all weekend", "make your hotwife husband proud of you"...we both had a great orgasm. When we were finished, she cleaned up...snuggled in my arms and said to me" thank-you baby for letting me go with E and D, I really want to do this for myself". I really loved fucking D...and you know how much I love E's cock....you can be with your child....and I can be slutty all weekend".
How could I say NO?
I never said anything........only your welcome honey. I love you so much.....she held me tight and told me how much she loves me.
As she was getting ready to leave for work, she told me that we will need to really talk about this tonight........that this is a big decision and if I feel any doubt......then there is NO way she would go. She assured me that this is not just for her..but for my fantasies to be fulfilled.

WOW..............I am torn!
If she goes....Some of you think that I am pushing this too fast.....
I have never lost her overnight with another man...and now I would be losing her for 3 days with 2 men.
The competitive man inside me tells me to GO FOR IT!
Why not do it this way..............what a fucking rush...........3 days/nights and 2 men.
Not many in this forum can say that!!!
That their HW went away without hubby with 2 men for 3 nights on her 1st overnight sex session!

I never doubt our love.
I am so lucky...you all know how hot she looks if you saw her pics...and to have her act so seductive and horny most of the time...she is any mans dream right now..and I am the lucky one to have her....

You all know that saying," show me a hot girl and I can show you her man who is tired of boring sex with her"...how many couples do you know that DO NOT have that sexual animalistic urge anymore? Those sexy married cpls that have sex only 2 or 3 times a month...boring sex!
Most married cpls are like that..........after 5 or 10 yrs of marriage...that ZEST is gone!
DO you think this will ever happen to me if my wife is fucking other men? NO way!
I have never in my life wanted something more than my wife!
If someone asked me to give up my wife for 5million...as asinine as this sounds...NO WAY!
Money............we all love it...but I found something that I love more...MY WIFE acting slutty and fucking other men!

I am rambling.....b/c I am really nervous about this weekend.

I AM ON THE FENCE...................whoever would be so kind to tell me YES or NO!
TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK!
Since I wrote last...I told you about her wanting to leave for a 3 day holiday...

Today, I have written about the events since last night....what has been said and how i feel right now!

SHOULD WE both GO FOR IT????????