Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I'm glad they gave you a little show before they left. Now you have something to remember her by for the whole weekend!!Good luck Reese
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hey Reese!
That is excellent, not only did you get to see her suck both guys off, you got some oral too, AND you got to see her cum on D's cock! (and she LOVED IT!)
I think you are right, D seems an Alpha personality, and undoubtedly that's what your wife likes, because he directs her to do things, and takes her to unknown places.
It's a good thing he's about your size, because if he were also bigger than you, she might start getting used to (and liking) bigger men...
I'll try to check the site as often as I can this weekend, but I may be tied up on Sat/Sun, but honestly, I have a hard time tearing myself away from this thread. I can well imagine how it feels firsthand!
Cheers!
That is excellent, not only did you get to see her suck both guys off, you got some oral too, AND you got to see her cum on D's cock! (and she LOVED IT!)
I think you are right, D seems an Alpha personality, and undoubtedly that's what your wife likes, because he directs her to do things, and takes her to unknown places.
It's a good thing he's about your size, because if he were also bigger than you, she might start getting used to (and liking) bigger men...
I'll try to check the site as often as I can this weekend, but I may be tied up on Sat/Sun, but honestly, I have a hard time tearing myself away from this thread. I can well imagine how it feels firsthand!
Cheers!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
BTW,
I don't know how she would feel about it, but I find that a HotWife with a cute piercing in her bellybutton and a HW ankle bracelet on her right ankle is a guaranteed turn-on.
A number of men know this too, and it would be likely to generate considerable interest/inquiries from men. Just thinking ahead here...
I don't know how she would feel about it, but I find that a HotWife with a cute piercing in her bellybutton and a HW ankle bracelet on her right ankle is a guaranteed turn-on.
A number of men know this too, and it would be likely to generate considerable interest/inquiries from men. Just thinking ahead here...
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Another thought...
If you are having a hard time, envision your lovely wife gorging herself on D's cock, cupping his heavy balls in her right hand while her left strokes his thick shaft. Hear her moaning with pleasure from sucking D's cock, and imagine him cumming in her mouth again, in large quantity.
Ms Reese would try valiantly to swallow all his cum, but one thick stream of his semen escapes from her lips, dribbling down his shaft to her fingers, and your wedding ring.
The ring is momentarily engulfed by his thick glob of cum...
Ms Reese will do you proud, whimpering with lust as she sucks him dry, and then turns her skilled tongue to cleaning her fingers and wedding ring, all smeared ith his cum. And you can see she does this, not because she wants to preserve the cleanliness of her wedding symbol, but rather because she loves the taste of D's cum!
Isn't that what you really want for her?
She's loving it!
If you are having a hard time, envision your lovely wife gorging herself on D's cock, cupping his heavy balls in her right hand while her left strokes his thick shaft. Hear her moaning with pleasure from sucking D's cock, and imagine him cumming in her mouth again, in large quantity.
Ms Reese would try valiantly to swallow all his cum, but one thick stream of his semen escapes from her lips, dribbling down his shaft to her fingers, and your wedding ring.
The ring is momentarily engulfed by his thick glob of cum...
Ms Reese will do you proud, whimpering with lust as she sucks him dry, and then turns her skilled tongue to cleaning her fingers and wedding ring, all smeared ith his cum. And you can see she does this, not because she wants to preserve the cleanliness of her wedding symbol, but rather because she loves the taste of D's cum!
Isn't that what you really want for her?
She's loving it!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hi Reese,
I'm going to speculate generally on how the dynamics will unfold during the weekend.
Given the nature of the events this morning, I think you are gauging it right.
They will both fuck Ms Reese (I'll use Ms when she's with them) in MFM's this weekend, and she will swallow their cum and probably receive their loads in all holes during the weekend.
That's a given.
But i think D will be directing her this weekend, and since she is 'into' him, and she and enjoys fucking E already, Ms Reese will be their happy fuck toy, and might even flash, or behave slutty for them if they go out in public.
All this while it will be D pushing her buttons, pushing her to ACTUALLY LIVE OUT her wild fantasies, NOW..., WITH HIM. And she is going to lose her head for a little while.
This is going to be a very intense experience for her, and there will be times when you are thinking she's forgotten about you, because you are waiting impatiently for any news from her.., any text..., or a happy face... lol
Remember, you invited her to explore these intense experiences, and you are blessed/cursed with a beautiful HW with a healthy libido that has permission and encouragement to fuck other guys that she finds sexy!
What girl wouldn't jump on that offer?
She will probably have intense one on one experiences with D, in private, also.
He will take charge over her actions this weekend, and Ms Reese will willing and happily comply.
She knows she is making her husband's fantasy come true, and she is happy to do that. Because she is also learning about the power of her womanhood, and freely exploring her fantasies for the first tims AS A REALITY.
It will be D who will be in the driver's seat all weekend, as when they left.
Hell, he was in the driver's seat when he walked out of your house holding her hand.
He was in control of her. In front of you. And she already spread her legs for him, in front of you. And she shuddered as she came on his cock..., and she did this ....... FOR YOU.
Now she will fuck and suck, and be very intimate in ways you have never seen in her before, because she has your encouragement to find greater and meaningful sexual experiences..... because she has a safe home to come home to...
I'm going to speculate generally on how the dynamics will unfold during the weekend.
Given the nature of the events this morning, I think you are gauging it right.
They will both fuck Ms Reese (I'll use Ms when she's with them) in MFM's this weekend, and she will swallow their cum and probably receive their loads in all holes during the weekend.
That's a given.
But i think D will be directing her this weekend, and since she is 'into' him, and she and enjoys fucking E already, Ms Reese will be their happy fuck toy, and might even flash, or behave slutty for them if they go out in public.
All this while it will be D pushing her buttons, pushing her to ACTUALLY LIVE OUT her wild fantasies, NOW..., WITH HIM. And she is going to lose her head for a little while.
This is going to be a very intense experience for her, and there will be times when you are thinking she's forgotten about you, because you are waiting impatiently for any news from her.., any text..., or a happy face... lol
Remember, you invited her to explore these intense experiences, and you are blessed/cursed with a beautiful HW with a healthy libido that has permission and encouragement to fuck other guys that she finds sexy!
What girl wouldn't jump on that offer?
She will probably have intense one on one experiences with D, in private, also.
He will take charge over her actions this weekend, and Ms Reese will willing and happily comply.
She knows she is making her husband's fantasy come true, and she is happy to do that. Because she is also learning about the power of her womanhood, and freely exploring her fantasies for the first tims AS A REALITY.
It will be D who will be in the driver's seat all weekend, as when they left.
Hell, he was in the driver's seat when he walked out of your house holding her hand.
He was in control of her. In front of you. And she already spread her legs for him, in front of you. And she shuddered as she came on his cock..., and she did this ....... FOR YOU.
Now she will fuck and suck, and be very intimate in ways you have never seen in her before, because she has your encouragement to find greater and meaningful sexual experiences..... because she has a safe home to come home to...
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
ballspanking...You have a way with words. If only your soothing thoughts could really comfort my mind.
I have heard from my HW once, she told me that they arrived. They all went grocery shopping..bought a lot of alcohol.
She was drinking a beer and relaxing when she texted me.
She didnot go into any detail. My guess is that they are just hanging out right now.
Probably having fun...no sex yet...I am sure my HW is probably not pushing any buttons now...everyone needs to take a break now and then...and I believe that is happening now.
SHE promised me to give me an up to date text often...we have code words for what is happening. She told me that she wants to want ME to enjoy this monumental occassion as well..and that she really wants to tease me...I am sure I will be texted a lot.
I masterbated with my HW's panties, nylons and my favorite sexy shoes...great leather scent. I cummed again....the intensity was there but I am getting very exhausted with stroking my cock. Funny............I jack off and they get the greatest piece of pie that any man could have!
Sometimes, it's hard not to think of myself as an idiot for doing this!
BUT I love it!
More to follow later tonight...i am off to pick up my child...thank god...I wont be so pre-occupied with my hw.
I will update late tonight...I am sure there will be a lot to write about!
I have heard from my HW once, she told me that they arrived. They all went grocery shopping..bought a lot of alcohol.
She was drinking a beer and relaxing when she texted me.
She didnot go into any detail. My guess is that they are just hanging out right now.
Probably having fun...no sex yet...I am sure my HW is probably not pushing any buttons now...everyone needs to take a break now and then...and I believe that is happening now.
SHE promised me to give me an up to date text often...we have code words for what is happening. She told me that she wants to want ME to enjoy this monumental occassion as well..and that she really wants to tease me...I am sure I will be texted a lot.
I masterbated with my HW's panties, nylons and my favorite sexy shoes...great leather scent. I cummed again....the intensity was there but I am getting very exhausted with stroking my cock. Funny............I jack off and they get the greatest piece of pie that any man could have!
Sometimes, it's hard not to think of myself as an idiot for doing this!
BUT I love it!
More to follow later tonight...i am off to pick up my child...thank god...I wont be so pre-occupied with my hw.
I will update late tonight...I am sure there will be a lot to write about!
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Oh my god..what have I done to her?
I am doing ok....with my kid....having a lot of fun.
Baseball practice tomorrow morning..yes being an alpha male also...I coach the team.
My lover texted me twice while I was out.
First text read: just finished eating dinner...bbq having a lot of fun...I really miss you baby. Love ya lots!
Hmmmm..I think she is playing with my emotions. Or she may be paronoid of telling me what really is happening!
Second text: Baby, D and E told me to tell ya thanks again for giving them this wonderful pussy.
D and I are going to take a shower right now...hope that makes you horny!
Bye baby.
FUCK..........I want HER!!!!
I am doing ok....with my kid....having a lot of fun.
Baseball practice tomorrow morning..yes being an alpha male also...I coach the team.
My lover texted me twice while I was out.
First text read: just finished eating dinner...bbq having a lot of fun...I really miss you baby. Love ya lots!
Hmmmm..I think she is playing with my emotions. Or she may be paronoid of telling me what really is happening!
Second text: Baby, D and E told me to tell ya thanks again for giving them this wonderful pussy.
D and I are going to take a shower right now...hope that makes you horny!
Bye baby.
FUCK..........I want HER!!!!
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Looks like you're going to have to wait til Tuesday if you're lucky. 
You both may be to tired,her from to much fucking and you the restless nights. 
To bad you couldn't have flown your son to Disneyland or Disneyworld,whatever is closest or whatever place he wants to go.Get out of the area and go have some of your own fun with him.
Baseball isn't bad either.
You need a phone sex buddy,if your into that.
Maybe the no women rule she'll think about twice since you gave her a weekend of many more she'll be having.Her confidence that nothing will break your bond has to be clearer after this,now more than ever.
You're to fucking generous and nice if you ask me.
Your wife should be eternally grateful.
This is one holiday you won't forget.
You both may be to tired,her from to much fucking and you the restless nights. To bad you couldn't have flown your son to Disneyland or Disneyworld,whatever is closest or whatever place he wants to go.Get out of the area and go have some of your own fun with him.
Baseball isn't bad either.
You need a phone sex buddy,if your into that.
Maybe the no women rule she'll think about twice since you gave her a weekend of many more she'll be having.Her confidence that nothing will break your bond has to be clearer after this,now more than ever.
You're to fucking generous and nice if you ask me.
Your wife should be eternally grateful.
This is one holiday you won't forget.
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
one day at a time.
I am ok.
This is the deal......I get unlimited sex with her at any time. Whenever I want it...and it's always GOOD sex...she will go out of her way to play act....wear a certain garment, do whatever I want with her body....paint her toes a certain color...
She did that without the hotwife stuff.......and of course, I give her a great life....dedicated to her happiness.
I am the one who invented the hotwife stuff with her. I truly believe that SHE can shut it off at any time. If she can not...that is the chance I am willing to take. My HW is now a sexual godess......as many times as she is fucking a stranger or a fb...she gives me more in return.
She makes me more happier than any woman ever has.
I dated many women before my 2nd marriage...9 yrs of many women...over 55...and that isnt a macho comment..I was very picky and had to go thru a lot to find her.
I know this post sounds as if I am justifying her being a hotwife....and maybe I am...
This crazy lifestyle is such a rush for me...and right now..I am willing to live with it.
She dresses more sexier...I compete for her...SHE wants and needs more sex from me....How many men can say that of their wives?
There isnt really a price to pay for me...I get off on the jealousy...and everything else that is connected to HW play.
I want to tell you................ONE DAY AT A TIME...that I really do appreciate the fact that you are reaching out to me...thanks...your advice is good for me. It allowed me to re-consider this lifestyle. I have realized that I am OK with this.and we are much more in love.......we trust much more....we respect much more...and we both strive to make each other happier that ever before.
My child and I are having a blast!
He and I have a great relationship.
How can I post my 3rd and 4th text from my HW after that last comment?
More info coming soon.
I am ok.
This is the deal......I get unlimited sex with her at any time. Whenever I want it...and it's always GOOD sex...she will go out of her way to play act....wear a certain garment, do whatever I want with her body....paint her toes a certain color...
She did that without the hotwife stuff.......and of course, I give her a great life....dedicated to her happiness.
I am the one who invented the hotwife stuff with her. I truly believe that SHE can shut it off at any time. If she can not...that is the chance I am willing to take. My HW is now a sexual godess......as many times as she is fucking a stranger or a fb...she gives me more in return.
She makes me more happier than any woman ever has.
I dated many women before my 2nd marriage...9 yrs of many women...over 55...and that isnt a macho comment..I was very picky and had to go thru a lot to find her.
I know this post sounds as if I am justifying her being a hotwife....and maybe I am...
This crazy lifestyle is such a rush for me...and right now..I am willing to live with it.
She dresses more sexier...I compete for her...SHE wants and needs more sex from me....How many men can say that of their wives?
There isnt really a price to pay for me...I get off on the jealousy...and everything else that is connected to HW play.
I want to tell you................ONE DAY AT A TIME...that I really do appreciate the fact that you are reaching out to me...thanks...your advice is good for me. It allowed me to re-consider this lifestyle. I have realized that I am OK with this.and we are much more in love.......we trust much more....we respect much more...and we both strive to make each other happier that ever before.
My child and I are having a blast!
He and I have a great relationship.
How can I post my 3rd and 4th text from my HW after that last comment?
More info coming soon.
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Ok...last post I am going to bed soon...early morning.
I have been doing ok...what do you all think?
Not too crazy........I think that I am mentally burned out with this HW play.
My mind is going crazy!
She texted me an hour or so ago and told me:
D is so hot...thankyou baby....
E and D are taking me to bed....their cocks are yummy!
I was in anguish when I read that....I want her so bad....time to watch Seinfeld with my child.
While watching Seinfeld....I received another text recently.
She told me:
Honey, I love you.
I have some pics for you that we took on my phone.
You will love them...I am your dirty slut baby.
I have been doing ok...what do you all think?
Not too crazy........I think that I am mentally burned out with this HW play.
My mind is going crazy!
She texted me an hour or so ago and told me:
D is so hot...thankyou baby....
E and D are taking me to bed....their cocks are yummy!
I was in anguish when I read that....I want her so bad....time to watch Seinfeld with my child.
While watching Seinfeld....I received another text recently.
She told me:
Honey, I love you.
I have some pics for you that we took on my phone.
You will love them...I am your dirty slut baby.
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Good Night everyone.
I made it thru the 1st day.
I am very tired.
She is going to call me tomorrow morning.
I am excited to talk to her.
I will have more to report to you tomorrow.
I made it thru the 1st day.
I am very tired.
She is going to call me tomorrow morning.
I am excited to talk to her.
I will have more to report to you tomorrow.
Reese!!!!
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"I think therefore I am"
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Congratulations Reese.
You got through your first night of the first hotwife weekend.
I think it will be the first of many more to come.
As Ms Reese intimated, after this weekend there's going to be a lot more of E and D!
You got through your first night of the first hotwife weekend.
I think it will be the first of many more to come.
As Ms Reese intimated, after this weekend there's going to be a lot more of E and D!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I just hope you've not started something in motion where you'll have to be looking for your 3rd wife sooner then later.......you couldn've just opened the box that you can't close and you should be ok with either side of the consequences that you may recieve. If not ok, at least be ready to have your heart broken again, because it seems like you're sure asking for it...............Good Luck.reese wrote: I dated many women before my 2nd marriage...
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I think, Reese, that you will have a heart to heart talk with Ms Reese when she gets home.
I hope you make it clear to her that, while she has her full encouragement to play with E and D, she has to maintain a respectable appearance around the house. There are children in the household, and the last thing they need is to be damaged by the stigma that could result from public knowledge.
So D needs to cool it around the house.
If Ms Reese refuses to read him the riot act, you have a problem.
Make very sure Reese that you reclaim her once she comes home.
I don't mean that you must penetrate her necessarily, she may be way too sore from a whole weekend with her two guys, but I am certain she will come home having been fully possessed by a guy she really digs, and he came inside her and made her do slutty things.
You already saw how she sought his approval, asking D if she was a 'Good girl' after sucking E. You can be sure he dominated her with his cock and his willpower over the whole weekend, and she needs to come in for a landing, because this is home.
You may want to take a more active role in selecting her FB's, because she has already developed feelings for D.
Look her in the eyes when you ask her that.
It needs to be out in the open.
If you find they are getting too close, perhaps you might guide her to other 'venues' to meet well hung guys..., like the gym...?
I hope you make it clear to her that, while she has her full encouragement to play with E and D, she has to maintain a respectable appearance around the house. There are children in the household, and the last thing they need is to be damaged by the stigma that could result from public knowledge.
So D needs to cool it around the house.
If Ms Reese refuses to read him the riot act, you have a problem.
Make very sure Reese that you reclaim her once she comes home.
I don't mean that you must penetrate her necessarily, she may be way too sore from a whole weekend with her two guys, but I am certain she will come home having been fully possessed by a guy she really digs, and he came inside her and made her do slutty things.
You already saw how she sought his approval, asking D if she was a 'Good girl' after sucking E. You can be sure he dominated her with his cock and his willpower over the whole weekend, and she needs to come in for a landing, because this is home.
You may want to take a more active role in selecting her FB's, because she has already developed feelings for D.
Look her in the eyes when you ask her that.
It needs to be out in the open.
If you find they are getting too close, perhaps you might guide her to other 'venues' to meet well hung guys..., like the gym...?
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hey everyone...Good Morning!
I realize that while reading my thread and comments of our activities, one must be thinking,"what is wrong with this guy"?
Willingly giving my wife up to a man whom is considered competition to me.
I would like to share more insight.
By no means am I seeking approval from anyone...I just want some to understand ME!
Before I begin, I would again like to thank some of my readers for their thoughtful consideration. Ballspanking and Domhusband, your latest posts have inspired me to write about my feelings at this point.
My wife and I share a few golden rules.
In our home....in our social circles...WE are very cautious and discreet.
D and E picked up my HW in our home...why? Because it WAS my fantasy to watch this happen. I have told my wife ever since we started our HW lifestyle that ONE day, I would love to watch her suck her love off on her knees in our home.
She was always reluctant. I can be very persuasive...and obviously, my influence allowed this event to occur yesterday.
All along, my wife is continously asking me...WHY? I always have to convince her that I love her doing this! She continously informs me that she loves watching me go crazy over her....that is her greatest inspiration...ME! My reactions, my lust over her, my sex drive, my willingness to "constantly wait on her hand and foot"....this motivates her to continue acting like a HW for US!
Do you remember when we first started all this....about dating alone? I set her up with M! Remember?
She did not want to do this! Right before M, she asked me to slow our HW activities down a lot..I felt that she was losing interest in playing HW.
I set her up with M....and being the dutiful wife that she is...she agreed to talk to him, text him and attempt to make him her boyfriend...all because of my constant urging and pressure to make something happen.
At times I wonder if deep down in my "Freudian" mind, if I am enjoying pushing the buttons that I do...watching my loving wife perform for me...watching her become another person that she never would have thought she could be!
She used to be shy, very submissive, lack confidence and self-esteem.
I feel like I have greatly improved her life...b/c of my persistence and influence, my wife has become a liberated woman with a lot of confidence in herself. She was not this person when I met her.
I have discussed this with her. I have combined my thrill of competition and lusting over her as I watch her fuck another man with re-developing her as a successful confident woman.
I take pride in that.
She is not the one to be careful with. I am the one. I will never disrespect her or attempt to manipulate her, but I love watching my ideas take shape and become more that an idea; those thoughts and ideas become our reality.
My wife is grounded. We talk more than I write to this thread. She is constantly telling me to slow down..."focus on us....make love to me without talking about our lifestyle". She is the one telling me........."no baby, lets not play HW today".
I have tested her faithfulness with me....tested her love and commitment to our marriage many times. She has constantly proven herself loyal to our marriage and myself over the past 9 months of hotwife play.
My past relationships allowed me to re-discover myself. I became a different man dating so many women. They taught me to let go of my jealousy, let go of my missionary lifestyle in regards to sex.......I became uninhibited with my sexuality.
Marrying my wife, I realize that I would not have a "vanialla relationship". I love living on the edge, I love challenging my marriage, I love the thrill of competition!
If I may bring up one last point:
I do not ever want a boring marriage. Most non hotwife couples live in a lackluster marriage. We all can analyze the reasons but the bottom line for me is that a marriage loses its ZEST. Everything becomes routine. Sex, love, trust, faithfulness, being friends...etc.
I did not want to marry again and walk down that same path as the years go by!
SO in regards to my wife fucking D and E........I am perfectly fine with this situation. My memories of this weekend will live with me forever. I will have many years of mental images embedded in my mind. That is what makes me happy.
To live on the edge...to test my marriage...to take my marriageto a world that most would never venture to!
To constantly push myself to limits that I never believed I would survive in regards to my marriage.
I needed this in my life............to quench my sexual thirst, to watch my wife become a confident woman, to make OUR sex the most unbelievable sex a man could ever experience.
SO far.................I have succeeded.
Believe me.......if I ever think that this lifestyle is destroying my marriage...I will attempt to stop this lifestyle.
My wife assures me that I am the ONE and ONLY for her.....she constantly reminds me that I am her man!
I have to trust her with her thoughts...........I have to trust my instincts.......and I have no regrets over the events that have occurred up to today.
In regards to D taking my wife...or having my wife become consumed with D after this weekend............believe me.....I already have a idea how I will not allow this to happen. This week, when my wife comes home......I WILL GUARANTEE ALL OF YOU.......I WILL RECLAIM MY WIFE BACK! There is no doubt that she will be hungry to be re-claimed by me!
She continues to "make my fantasy real" at my urging!
There is no doubt that she can walk away from this at any time!
I have a little suprise for all of you!
I have to tell you now......................I had a text that I read this morning...my wife texted me around 4am and I was asleep.
She told me that she wants to come home Sunday afternoon.
She told me that she is ok...but that she misses me and she can not do this all weekend.
She told me that she will call me when she wakes up.
As I read that text this morning...I was relieved. I hate the fact that she is probably sleeping in bed with E and D...or D all by herself. Reality HIT ME BIG TIME THIS morning....I first had to write about my thoughts that I listed above...but right now...I want her home....I dont mind her fucking D and E..but sleeping in their arms all night.....and waking up next to them....my wife is mine...and I dont like that.
I am so happy that I will be seeing her soon.
More to follow.
I realize that while reading my thread and comments of our activities, one must be thinking,"what is wrong with this guy"?
Willingly giving my wife up to a man whom is considered competition to me.
I would like to share more insight.
By no means am I seeking approval from anyone...I just want some to understand ME!
Before I begin, I would again like to thank some of my readers for their thoughtful consideration. Ballspanking and Domhusband, your latest posts have inspired me to write about my feelings at this point.
My wife and I share a few golden rules.
In our home....in our social circles...WE are very cautious and discreet.
D and E picked up my HW in our home...why? Because it WAS my fantasy to watch this happen. I have told my wife ever since we started our HW lifestyle that ONE day, I would love to watch her suck her love off on her knees in our home.
She was always reluctant. I can be very persuasive...and obviously, my influence allowed this event to occur yesterday.
All along, my wife is continously asking me...WHY? I always have to convince her that I love her doing this! She continously informs me that she loves watching me go crazy over her....that is her greatest inspiration...ME! My reactions, my lust over her, my sex drive, my willingness to "constantly wait on her hand and foot"....this motivates her to continue acting like a HW for US!
Do you remember when we first started all this....about dating alone? I set her up with M! Remember?
She did not want to do this! Right before M, she asked me to slow our HW activities down a lot..I felt that she was losing interest in playing HW.
I set her up with M....and being the dutiful wife that she is...she agreed to talk to him, text him and attempt to make him her boyfriend...all because of my constant urging and pressure to make something happen.
At times I wonder if deep down in my "Freudian" mind, if I am enjoying pushing the buttons that I do...watching my loving wife perform for me...watching her become another person that she never would have thought she could be!
She used to be shy, very submissive, lack confidence and self-esteem.
I feel like I have greatly improved her life...b/c of my persistence and influence, my wife has become a liberated woman with a lot of confidence in herself. She was not this person when I met her.
I have discussed this with her. I have combined my thrill of competition and lusting over her as I watch her fuck another man with re-developing her as a successful confident woman.
I take pride in that.
She is not the one to be careful with. I am the one. I will never disrespect her or attempt to manipulate her, but I love watching my ideas take shape and become more that an idea; those thoughts and ideas become our reality.
My wife is grounded. We talk more than I write to this thread. She is constantly telling me to slow down..."focus on us....make love to me without talking about our lifestyle". She is the one telling me........."no baby, lets not play HW today".
I have tested her faithfulness with me....tested her love and commitment to our marriage many times. She has constantly proven herself loyal to our marriage and myself over the past 9 months of hotwife play.
My past relationships allowed me to re-discover myself. I became a different man dating so many women. They taught me to let go of my jealousy, let go of my missionary lifestyle in regards to sex.......I became uninhibited with my sexuality.
Marrying my wife, I realize that I would not have a "vanialla relationship". I love living on the edge, I love challenging my marriage, I love the thrill of competition!
If I may bring up one last point:
I do not ever want a boring marriage. Most non hotwife couples live in a lackluster marriage. We all can analyze the reasons but the bottom line for me is that a marriage loses its ZEST. Everything becomes routine. Sex, love, trust, faithfulness, being friends...etc.
I did not want to marry again and walk down that same path as the years go by!
SO in regards to my wife fucking D and E........I am perfectly fine with this situation. My memories of this weekend will live with me forever. I will have many years of mental images embedded in my mind. That is what makes me happy.
To live on the edge...to test my marriage...to take my marriageto a world that most would never venture to!
To constantly push myself to limits that I never believed I would survive in regards to my marriage.
I needed this in my life............to quench my sexual thirst, to watch my wife become a confident woman, to make OUR sex the most unbelievable sex a man could ever experience.
SO far.................I have succeeded.
Believe me.......if I ever think that this lifestyle is destroying my marriage...I will attempt to stop this lifestyle.
My wife assures me that I am the ONE and ONLY for her.....she constantly reminds me that I am her man!
I have to trust her with her thoughts...........I have to trust my instincts.......and I have no regrets over the events that have occurred up to today.
In regards to D taking my wife...or having my wife become consumed with D after this weekend............believe me.....I already have a idea how I will not allow this to happen. This week, when my wife comes home......I WILL GUARANTEE ALL OF YOU.......I WILL RECLAIM MY WIFE BACK! There is no doubt that she will be hungry to be re-claimed by me!
She continues to "make my fantasy real" at my urging!
There is no doubt that she can walk away from this at any time!
I have a little suprise for all of you!
I have to tell you now......................I had a text that I read this morning...my wife texted me around 4am and I was asleep.
She told me that she wants to come home Sunday afternoon.
She told me that she is ok...but that she misses me and she can not do this all weekend.
She told me that she will call me when she wakes up.
As I read that text this morning...I was relieved. I hate the fact that she is probably sleeping in bed with E and D...or D all by herself. Reality HIT ME BIG TIME THIS morning....I first had to write about my thoughts that I listed above...but right now...I want her home....I dont mind her fucking D and E..but sleeping in their arms all night.....and waking up next to them....my wife is mine...and I dont like that.
I am so happy that I will be seeing her soon.
More to follow.
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Reese,
You have a very special wife and you should go out of your way to show your appreciation every day in every way possible. I would recommend having a dozen red & white roses ready for her when she returns as starters! Enjoy and don't ever let go of the zest in your marriage.
O2
You have a very special wife and you should go out of your way to show your appreciation every day in every way possible. I would recommend having a dozen red & white roses ready for her when she returns as starters! Enjoy and don't ever let go of the zest in your marriage.
O2
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Good Morning Reese,
I just wanted you to know; I too, have been following your Hotwife journey with some interest, even though I haven’t been posting.
I’m here.
I even had my hubby read through your entire 9 pages yesterday and he could relate to many of the same feeling you are having. Although he did say he doesn’t understand your feeling of “having to compete” for your wife. He sees our union as much different than what I could ever have with a BF.
I haven’t been offering you any advice. Honestly, I don’t think you really need advice at this point. It seems to me you two are doing just fine. Compared to your wife, I’ve moved at a snail’s pace along this same path of dating alone without my hubby. I’m even a little envious: a weekend away with two adoring boyfriends at once. I’d love to try that someday. And my hubby would love it for sure. Even when I’m away on a date, I keep him very involved.
As for overnights, with the “right” BF, snuggling all night and waking in his arms is one of the pleasures I've enjoyed a few times. I have stayed the night (just last month) when it didn’t feel “right” and wished I’d called my hubby to just come pick me up (the sex wasn’t great and I was feeling disconnected) I won’t do that again. From now on, when my gut says “go home,” I’m going home.
Hotwifing is an extraordinarily specialized sex sport indeed and should only be engaged by the strongest of relationships with great open communication. Just wanted you to know this Hotwife thinks you’re doing just fine!
I’m enjoying sharing in the excitement of your adventure (and with over 8000 hits, obviously, I'm not alone)!
Kisses,
MrsFunseeker
I just wanted you to know; I too, have been following your Hotwife journey with some interest, even though I haven’t been posting.
I’m here.
I even had my hubby read through your entire 9 pages yesterday and he could relate to many of the same feeling you are having. Although he did say he doesn’t understand your feeling of “having to compete” for your wife. He sees our union as much different than what I could ever have with a BF.
I haven’t been offering you any advice. Honestly, I don’t think you really need advice at this point. It seems to me you two are doing just fine. Compared to your wife, I’ve moved at a snail’s pace along this same path of dating alone without my hubby. I’m even a little envious: a weekend away with two adoring boyfriends at once. I’d love to try that someday.
And my hubby would love it for sure. Even when I’m away on a date, I keep him very involved. As for overnights, with the “right” BF, snuggling all night and waking in his arms is one of the pleasures I've enjoyed a few times. I have stayed the night (just last month) when it didn’t feel “right” and wished I’d called my hubby to just come pick me up (the sex wasn’t great and I was feeling disconnected) I won’t do that again. From now on, when my gut says “go home,” I’m going home.
Hotwifing is an extraordinarily specialized sex sport indeed and should only be engaged by the strongest of relationships with great open communication. Just wanted you to know this Hotwife thinks you’re doing just fine!
I’m enjoying sharing in the excitement of your adventure (and with over 8000 hits, obviously, I'm not alone)!
Kisses,
MrsFunseeker
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Good morning, Reese.
I was glad to read your thoughts and observations about your relationship with your wife. I think it underscores that you both have a strong and trusting relationship.
MrsFunseeker's advice is sterling.
She speaks from personal experience, and is full of common sense.
I am also relieved to hear that the public display outside your house was intended for your eyes only, but that you have an awareness that such performances are fraught with risk, particular for your family, if not kept in check.
Sorry, just wanted to get that out of the way first.
As to Ms Reese's adventures, I wouldn't be surprised if she comes home on Sunday..., then again it wouldn't shock me if she back on Monday instead. My guess is that her emotions are also fluctuating over the course of the weekend. Sometimes she will feel emotionally tired from dealing with so much attention from two men, and at other times she will be completely involved in pleasing them and be pleasured by them. But it is very sweet and touching to see how she misses you, and wants to come home to you.
If you text her back and tell her she is deeply loved by you, and is welcome home anytime she wants to come back, she will love hearing that...., even more so if you put her anxiety to rest by underlining that home is a permanent and solid thing, and this is her opportunity for her to live out your fantasies and her's, ideally, free of concern, and that you completely support any decision she takes during the course of the weekend, yet you would approve if she decided to play until Monday, and really thoroughly empty D and E's balls of all their cum.
BTW, I hope you will post the phone pics!
Mrs Reese is gorgeous and I would love to see her turned-on and satisfied!
Cheers, buddy!
Please keep us posted.
I was glad to read your thoughts and observations about your relationship with your wife. I think it underscores that you both have a strong and trusting relationship.
MrsFunseeker's advice is sterling.
She speaks from personal experience, and is full of common sense.
I am also relieved to hear that the public display outside your house was intended for your eyes only, but that you have an awareness that such performances are fraught with risk, particular for your family, if not kept in check.
Sorry, just wanted to get that out of the way first.
As to Ms Reese's adventures, I wouldn't be surprised if she comes home on Sunday..., then again it wouldn't shock me if she back on Monday instead. My guess is that her emotions are also fluctuating over the course of the weekend. Sometimes she will feel emotionally tired from dealing with so much attention from two men, and at other times she will be completely involved in pleasing them and be pleasured by them. But it is very sweet and touching to see how she misses you, and wants to come home to you.
If you text her back and tell her she is deeply loved by you, and is welcome home anytime she wants to come back, she will love hearing that...., even more so if you put her anxiety to rest by underlining that home is a permanent and solid thing, and this is her opportunity for her to live out your fantasies and her's, ideally, free of concern, and that you completely support any decision she takes during the course of the weekend, yet you would approve if she decided to play until Monday, and really thoroughly empty D and E's balls of all their cum.
BTW, I hope you will post the phone pics!
Mrs Reese is gorgeous and I would love to see her turned-on and satisfied!
Cheers, buddy!
Please keep us posted.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
sounds to me like eveything is working out perfectly. Pretty impressive.
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Mrsfunseeker,
You have no idea how important it is to hear your words. I value others opinions....there are a few that I count as my friends thru this forum, but reading your post allowed me to realize that when I receive the compliments of an actual hotwife, one who is secure and in love with her husband, that made my day!
Thanks again.
I received a call from her about 30 minutes ago, luckily I was at home. I have a very busy day planned with my kiid...so I wont be able to post again till tonight.
She called me and told me the following:
"I really miss you baby".
"I am having such a good time but it would be more enjoyable if you were here sharing this with me".
I asked her if she was really coming home tomorrow.
She told me yes...later in the evening.
I told her that she can stay till Monday if she chooses.
She told me that if I knew everything that happened, that I would want her home NOW!
OMG........those words shocked me!
I asked her what happened in a tone that must have made her believe that I was angry and jealous.
She told me not to worry...but that she had a very long night.
I asked her what all had happened.
She replied, "do you really want to know baby"?
I was nervous to ask her to continue....so I told her to get to the point...how many times did she fuck them and who did she sleep with and IF she was falling for D.
She told me.........."baby, I love you so much, no one could ever replace you".
Whew........I told her thanks..but I wanted to hear the details!
She asked me is she should save the details so we could have OUR time together and that I could really enjoy hearing all the details then!
I told her, "baby please give me something". I am dying to hear the details.
At this point..my heart was racing...big time...I was hating the fact that she wasnt with me.
I hated the fact that those guys could take her for themselves as soon as our call ended.
At this point....I hated being a HW husband.
I miss her so damn much...and I just want to breathe in her scent..touch her lips, kiss her feet, bite the back of her neck, and lick her hot spots....
WHY am I DOING THIS????????
Right now, I can answer that question...b/c I LOVE THIS FEELING!
Do you want to know what she told me?
Fact by fact:
She was dp'ed by D and E.
D was in her pussy, E was in her butt.
She has had too many orgasms.
Sex with D is very intense...she shakes all over when he touches her.
She wants to be with D a lot as long as I give her permission.
D has told her that he wants to date her exclusively...and that knowing she is married is his biggest turnon..fucking another mans wife......HE has no desire of ever taking her away from me. IF she wasnt a wife....he would not feel the same way he feels right now. She is safe for him...he doesnt want to date anyone due to his divorce proceedings...so dating her is perfect for him.
She told me that she is not falling for D...but she desires sex with him more than she could ever believe!
She told me sex with him isnt like sex with me.
Sex with me is more intimate...more rewarding..more satisfying....her love for me makes her intimacy with me more intense....her orgasms are more earth shattering....and she has a sense of completness with me over any other man.
She never knew this before she became a HW.
E is cool with everything...he looks at my HW as a fb only...he has his own stuff going on anyway with women.
She asked me if she could tell D that it is ok to date her exclusively...I told her YES! I love that idea!
We seem to have finally found a fulltime bf for her.
She told me that we need to reconnect next week and that I should plan on spending a lot of time with her.
She asked me to promise her that whenever she is with D or anyone else...that we devote a lot of time right after that experience to reconnect...so that I can reclaim her pussy as mine!
She told me that she told D that she will be with me all week....so plan on something in 2 weeks.
He told her that he cant wait that long.....she asked me if he could sneak over this Friday morning...I will be at work....and she is off.....I asked her if she wanted that from him...to see him for a quickie...."only if you are ok with that honey", she replied.
SO here I am....writing and at this point, I know my HW is into D...but she is doing a great job of keeping me in the loop and making sure that I am ok with everything.
I really want her to spend a lot of time with D.........I want to lose her to him as often as possible...b/c as long as she is willing to go overboard and have me re-claim her pussy.....IT is worth losing her for that moment..b/c when she gives me her pussy back.....................the sex...the intimacy is greater than anything I have ever experienced in my lifetime!
Talk to you later my friends.
You have no idea how important it is to hear your words. I value others opinions....there are a few that I count as my friends thru this forum, but reading your post allowed me to realize that when I receive the compliments of an actual hotwife, one who is secure and in love with her husband, that made my day!
Thanks again.
I received a call from her about 30 minutes ago, luckily I was at home. I have a very busy day planned with my kiid...so I wont be able to post again till tonight.
She called me and told me the following:
"I really miss you baby".
"I am having such a good time but it would be more enjoyable if you were here sharing this with me".
I asked her if she was really coming home tomorrow.
She told me yes...later in the evening.
I told her that she can stay till Monday if she chooses.
She told me that if I knew everything that happened, that I would want her home NOW!
OMG........those words shocked me!
I asked her what happened in a tone that must have made her believe that I was angry and jealous.
She told me not to worry...but that she had a very long night.
I asked her what all had happened.
She replied, "do you really want to know baby"?
I was nervous to ask her to continue....so I told her to get to the point...how many times did she fuck them and who did she sleep with and IF she was falling for D.
She told me.........."baby, I love you so much, no one could ever replace you".
Whew........I told her thanks..but I wanted to hear the details!
She asked me is she should save the details so we could have OUR time together and that I could really enjoy hearing all the details then!
I told her, "baby please give me something". I am dying to hear the details.
At this point..my heart was racing...big time...I was hating the fact that she wasnt with me.
I hated the fact that those guys could take her for themselves as soon as our call ended.
At this point....I hated being a HW husband.
I miss her so damn much...and I just want to breathe in her scent..touch her lips, kiss her feet, bite the back of her neck, and lick her hot spots....
WHY am I DOING THIS????????
Right now, I can answer that question...b/c I LOVE THIS FEELING!
Do you want to know what she told me?
Fact by fact:
She was dp'ed by D and E.
D was in her pussy, E was in her butt.
She has had too many orgasms.
Sex with D is very intense...she shakes all over when he touches her.
She wants to be with D a lot as long as I give her permission.
D has told her that he wants to date her exclusively...and that knowing she is married is his biggest turnon..fucking another mans wife......HE has no desire of ever taking her away from me. IF she wasnt a wife....he would not feel the same way he feels right now. She is safe for him...he doesnt want to date anyone due to his divorce proceedings...so dating her is perfect for him.
She told me that she is not falling for D...but she desires sex with him more than she could ever believe!
She told me sex with him isnt like sex with me.
Sex with me is more intimate...more rewarding..more satisfying....her love for me makes her intimacy with me more intense....her orgasms are more earth shattering....and she has a sense of completness with me over any other man.
She never knew this before she became a HW.
E is cool with everything...he looks at my HW as a fb only...he has his own stuff going on anyway with women.
She asked me if she could tell D that it is ok to date her exclusively...I told her YES! I love that idea!
We seem to have finally found a fulltime bf for her.
She told me that we need to reconnect next week and that I should plan on spending a lot of time with her.
She asked me to promise her that whenever she is with D or anyone else...that we devote a lot of time right after that experience to reconnect...so that I can reclaim her pussy as mine!
She told me that she told D that she will be with me all week....so plan on something in 2 weeks.
He told her that he cant wait that long.....she asked me if he could sneak over this Friday morning...I will be at work....and she is off.....I asked her if she wanted that from him...to see him for a quickie...."only if you are ok with that honey", she replied.
SO here I am....writing and at this point, I know my HW is into D...but she is doing a great job of keeping me in the loop and making sure that I am ok with everything.
I really want her to spend a lot of time with D.........I want to lose her to him as often as possible...b/c as long as she is willing to go overboard and have me re-claim her pussy.....IT is worth losing her for that moment..b/c when she gives me her pussy back.....................the sex...the intimacy is greater than anything I have ever experienced in my lifetime!
Talk to you later my friends.
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
That's terrific, Reese!
I especially enjoyed this part:
"I really want her to spend a lot of time with D.........I want to lose her to him as often as possible...b/c as long as she is willing to go overboard ..."
It sounds to me like Ms Reese is going to be very busy after she recovers from the pounding this weekend.
I think alone time with D will be excellent for her, but she has to know you want her to have it, although it's a sacrifice to you, you want it for her because she is so hot for it herself!
It may turn out, since they are so hot for each other, that D will be spending numerous mornings fucking your wife on your bed, because once they get their routine, once a week will not be enough for D, in fact it may not be enough for Ms Reese either, so, count on her having him often during the days you are working.
As long as she knows you encourage her, and want this for her, she will feel safe for allowing her the privacy and ability to grow, she will love you all the more for it.
I think she is beginning to understand the magnitude of the gift you bestowed upon her, and just how much she is going to love living out her fantasies.
She certainly seems to be into D.
But is she necessarily wanting to to have only D? lol
I can easily understand that D wants to date no other. The particulars of her situation and his dovetail nicely.
Yet I wonder if Ms Reese would want to keep her options open. I mean that, for the short term, I can see where she will be infatuated with D, his lovemaking, and his cock..., but usually the passion diminishes over time, and I wouldn't want to see Ms Reese stuck in a commitment that imposes conditions on her.
After all, she is learning to play in order to maximize her experience and enjoyment, not to become perilously involved in another relationship.
I guess that's the fine line in HotWifing that is ever perilous and exciting..., but it sounds to me like she has a wonderful head on her shoulders, and a sweet, abiding and loving disposition, and consideration for you.
I wonder how she behaves for D...?
Cheers, mate!
I especially enjoyed this part:
"I really want her to spend a lot of time with D.........I want to lose her to him as often as possible...b/c as long as she is willing to go overboard ..."
It sounds to me like Ms Reese is going to be very busy after she recovers from the pounding this weekend.
I think alone time with D will be excellent for her, but she has to know you want her to have it, although it's a sacrifice to you, you want it for her because she is so hot for it herself!
It may turn out, since they are so hot for each other, that D will be spending numerous mornings fucking your wife on your bed, because once they get their routine, once a week will not be enough for D, in fact it may not be enough for Ms Reese either, so, count on her having him often during the days you are working.
As long as she knows you encourage her, and want this for her, she will feel safe for allowing her the privacy and ability to grow, she will love you all the more for it.
I think she is beginning to understand the magnitude of the gift you bestowed upon her, and just how much she is going to love living out her fantasies.
She certainly seems to be into D.
But is she necessarily wanting to to have only D? lol
I can easily understand that D wants to date no other. The particulars of her situation and his dovetail nicely.
Yet I wonder if Ms Reese would want to keep her options open. I mean that, for the short term, I can see where she will be infatuated with D, his lovemaking, and his cock..., but usually the passion diminishes over time, and I wouldn't want to see Ms Reese stuck in a commitment that imposes conditions on her.
After all, she is learning to play in order to maximize her experience and enjoyment, not to become perilously involved in another relationship.
I guess that's the fine line in HotWifing that is ever perilous and exciting..., but it sounds to me like she has a wonderful head on her shoulders, and a sweet, abiding and loving disposition, and consideration for you.
I wonder how she behaves for D...?
Cheers, mate!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Mr. Ballspanking,
I came back home for a few minutes and could keep myself away from my thread.
You again are so kind and generous with your insight. I have to admit...IF it wasnt for this forum, I would not be living as a hotwife husband. After reading this forum, I was enlightened and inspired to pursue my dreams of having my wife fuck others. It is also because of HW hubbies like yourself that made me realize that this lifestyle is exciting and invigorating!
You personally give me confidence that I am doing a good thing for my marriage. Thanks for the 100th time my man!
After reading Ballspankings post, I decided to text my HW and asked her to call me again for a few minutes.
Of course she DID call me right away. Our golden rule is that she would be available if I needed to talk to her. Of course I will not abuse that priviledge...but, she is good at getting back to me right away.
I asked her if she thought D would be fucking her more than once a week. I told her to speak freely and that nothing she would say would hurt my feelings. Of course, I told her how happy I am that she is experiencing D and I want her to want him in her life as much as she feels necessary. I also told her as I "bit my lip" that if she wants a lot more with him, I have no problem waiting, its her happiness that makes me happy! Did I mean this? Somewhat! Part of me wants her to go crazy over this man...part of me wants her to want him BADLY......and the other part is afraid of losing her.....any part of her....again...WE ALL KNOW About my dueling conflicts!
She replied....."WHEW", that is a difficult question honey! Why dont we wait until I get home tomorrow and we can talk about that then! At this point....I have to admit my weakness! I panicked! That is NOT what I wanted to hear! I wanted her to say....honey..........blah blah blah.......YOU are the one that I want all the time....D can wait!
But then reality sparked some sense into my brain. Why would she say that when she has been fucking him all weekend. WHO would say that? If I was enjoying one of the finest "pieces of ass" a man could have with my wife's permission...what would I say? This all stuck me in less than a second.
Backing up.........i do not mean any offense regarding the idiotic male comment about the piece of ass....WE say that in my home town.....I do not call my wife "old lady" but I will say that she is the "finest piece of ass a man could ever have"!
There is NO disrespect intended ladies!
Back to my question!
I persisted with my HW. She was uncomfortable, she told me wait till she gets home!
I told her...."come on honey" this is all about you, I have a question I want you to answer... I will not be mad if you want to fuck him more...and I dont want you to make my fantasy real by telling me something to get me off...I need the truth right now! TIME OUT.............this is husband and wife time! Please answer me I replied!
We all know the answer dont we?
She told me that if I really want to know, YES, she wants to see D more than once a week. They have already talked about this and my HW agreed that since she has my permission to fuck freely, it would be great if they were together a lot. My hw promised me that I could have her anytime I wanted. She and D also want to have MFM sex with me!
I told her that makes me horny knowing that you already decided to fuck him more than once a week.
She re-iterated that THIS week, we will spend a lot of time b/c we both have a committment to devote unlimited time to each other after she is gone for a night out..and in this case, most of the weekend. But when she feels ready, later this week, she hopes that D will be able to fuck her a few times or more a week. D has been living with his brother, he plans on finding an apartment near our home and driving a farther distance to work.
I know most of you are thinking....BAD IDEA!
I love this!
I love the chase...I love knowing my HW wants to fuck a man so badly that she would encourage him to live near her.
She told me WE both have a lot of talking to do!
She told me that SHE will not allow D to live near us if I have any hesitation.
She told me that if I do, he will have to find his own way to fuck her and that the distance is not her problem. Her 1st obligation is to our marriage...to me!
She did remember that I told her how excited I would be if she found a fulltime fb...or boyfriend.
That is why she pursued M a few wks ago.....remember him?
I want this!
I told her that I want her to come home tomorrow...that I want her so badly.....she told me the same. SHe promised me she will be home before 3pm. She wants me all to herself....and that later in the week D (friday) will come over and formally ask for my permission to fuck her freely!
WOW AGAIN!
I love knowing that D will do this!
HE seems to want to cuckold me...but he is respectful!
I like that!
Our conversation lasted for about 20 minutes. All the while, my HW kept asking me if I was ok with this situation...telling me how much she loves me...and telling me that if I continue to allow her to do this...that she will ....she wont turn back...but if ever I become uncomfortable...she will stop!
Guess what I did?
I tested her!
I am human, please dont be disappointed in me!
I asked her to tell D and E that she was too sore and didnt want to fuck them anymore tonight.
I told her that I love the idea of D living near us....and that she would have a place to visit as often as possible....to fuck him freely, to visit him and become part of his world...as his fulltime girlfriend. Thats HOT to me!
But I had a moment of weakness..................did I fuck up?
I am not perfect.
I felt that I was losing control!
My hw was somewhat shocked....but she told me that if this is what I really want...she will do it!
She told me to talk to E and D and tell them that I am uncomfortable with them fucking her all night again plus there is the fact that she is very sore and that I want her pussy tomorrow!
I did just that...I first talked to D....told him how I felt but also told him that I trust him, and that I am excited about my wife becoming his fulltime gf. He told me that I am her husband and if that is what I wish for...he will be cool with me!
I talked to E.....and told him something differently! I told him to TEST my wife!
Please dont get mad at me.............and I promise to tell my HW that I tested her tomorrow. She knows that i love to push the envelope.....I have played these games before with her. It is part of the intrigue b/w us. I would have never requested that she doesnt fuck them if I knew that I would piss her off. This is part of our dynamic love for each other...WE push each other and we at times test each other!
I told E to try to fuck my wife today...to be somewhat pushy. I didnt ask D b/c I do not know him as well. Plus, he is the big winner here anyway! He gains a HW for his gf.
E laughed at me and replied...."dude you amaze me" how can you do this...that is an awesome idea!
He told me that he will go along with the game...and he told me that he wont tell D until they go home together.
I am an ass right?
Please understand...we both get off on this! My hw and I!
She probably will figure all this out anyway whenever E attempts to fuck her again!
ALL the while....I am having fun with this now! It's my turn!
If she does fuck D and E tonight...I wont be pissed.
Every part of me is hoping that she doesnt.
But I do know if she does...she will tell me.
She will say...'baby, I tried but you know how I get when you give me permission then ask me right away to TURN it off'1
She gets confused...we have done this before...in the beginning...when I would get extremely jealous when she would play HW at a club or bar...half way thru the night I would ask her to stop and spend time with me. SHE would try but then randomly walk off and start talking to the guys she was flirting with. I wrote a thread about that.....she will get unpredictable when she drinks and plays HW.
Anyway....WE have progressed a lot since those days. MY hw doesnt need to become intoxicated to play the hw role. That is so much better for us.....................being intoxicated would be a very difficult night for me1
Back to today.............................E and I have a plan.
I wonder what will happen!
I love the intrigue1
I promise not to be mad if she gives in to E or D.
If I am a betting man.................I bet that she gives IN......she will stop D from fucking her.....but will play with him. She will give in to E.....they have just WILD sex....nothing more...NO passion...all lust...
E told me that my HW has been fucking and playing with D more that him this weekend.
More proof............D is the MAN
I know I rambled again.....
I hope you are not too disappointed in me for wanting to play this game!
More later tonight...I will be out all night with child!
PS.....we are having a blast today! Park and movies later today!
I came back home for a few minutes and could keep myself away from my thread.
You again are so kind and generous with your insight. I have to admit...IF it wasnt for this forum, I would not be living as a hotwife husband. After reading this forum, I was enlightened and inspired to pursue my dreams of having my wife fuck others. It is also because of HW hubbies like yourself that made me realize that this lifestyle is exciting and invigorating!
You personally give me confidence that I am doing a good thing for my marriage. Thanks for the 100th time my man!
After reading Ballspankings post, I decided to text my HW and asked her to call me again for a few minutes.
Of course she DID call me right away. Our golden rule is that she would be available if I needed to talk to her. Of course I will not abuse that priviledge...but, she is good at getting back to me right away.
I asked her if she thought D would be fucking her more than once a week. I told her to speak freely and that nothing she would say would hurt my feelings. Of course, I told her how happy I am that she is experiencing D and I want her to want him in her life as much as she feels necessary. I also told her as I "bit my lip" that if she wants a lot more with him, I have no problem waiting, its her happiness that makes me happy! Did I mean this? Somewhat! Part of me wants her to go crazy over this man...part of me wants her to want him BADLY......and the other part is afraid of losing her.....any part of her....again...WE ALL KNOW About my dueling conflicts!
She replied....."WHEW", that is a difficult question honey! Why dont we wait until I get home tomorrow and we can talk about that then! At this point....I have to admit my weakness! I panicked! That is NOT what I wanted to hear! I wanted her to say....honey..........blah blah blah.......YOU are the one that I want all the time....D can wait!
But then reality sparked some sense into my brain. Why would she say that when she has been fucking him all weekend. WHO would say that? If I was enjoying one of the finest "pieces of ass" a man could have with my wife's permission...what would I say? This all stuck me in less than a second.
Backing up.........i do not mean any offense regarding the idiotic male comment about the piece of ass....WE say that in my home town.....I do not call my wife "old lady" but I will say that she is the "finest piece of ass a man could ever have"!
There is NO disrespect intended ladies!
Back to my question!
I persisted with my HW. She was uncomfortable, she told me wait till she gets home!
I told her...."come on honey" this is all about you, I have a question I want you to answer... I will not be mad if you want to fuck him more...and I dont want you to make my fantasy real by telling me something to get me off...I need the truth right now! TIME OUT.............this is husband and wife time! Please answer me I replied!
We all know the answer dont we?
She told me that if I really want to know, YES, she wants to see D more than once a week. They have already talked about this and my HW agreed that since she has my permission to fuck freely, it would be great if they were together a lot. My hw promised me that I could have her anytime I wanted. She and D also want to have MFM sex with me!
I told her that makes me horny knowing that you already decided to fuck him more than once a week.
She re-iterated that THIS week, we will spend a lot of time b/c we both have a committment to devote unlimited time to each other after she is gone for a night out..and in this case, most of the weekend. But when she feels ready, later this week, she hopes that D will be able to fuck her a few times or more a week. D has been living with his brother, he plans on finding an apartment near our home and driving a farther distance to work.
I know most of you are thinking....BAD IDEA!
I love this!
I love the chase...I love knowing my HW wants to fuck a man so badly that she would encourage him to live near her.
She told me WE both have a lot of talking to do!
She told me that SHE will not allow D to live near us if I have any hesitation.
She told me that if I do, he will have to find his own way to fuck her and that the distance is not her problem. Her 1st obligation is to our marriage...to me!
She did remember that I told her how excited I would be if she found a fulltime fb...or boyfriend.
That is why she pursued M a few wks ago.....remember him?
I want this!
I told her that I want her to come home tomorrow...that I want her so badly.....she told me the same. SHe promised me she will be home before 3pm. She wants me all to herself....and that later in the week D (friday) will come over and formally ask for my permission to fuck her freely!
WOW AGAIN!
I love knowing that D will do this!
HE seems to want to cuckold me...but he is respectful!
I like that!
Our conversation lasted for about 20 minutes. All the while, my HW kept asking me if I was ok with this situation...telling me how much she loves me...and telling me that if I continue to allow her to do this...that she will ....she wont turn back...but if ever I become uncomfortable...she will stop!
Guess what I did?
I tested her!
I am human, please dont be disappointed in me!
I asked her to tell D and E that she was too sore and didnt want to fuck them anymore tonight.
I told her that I love the idea of D living near us....and that she would have a place to visit as often as possible....to fuck him freely, to visit him and become part of his world...as his fulltime girlfriend. Thats HOT to me!
But I had a moment of weakness..................did I fuck up?
I am not perfect.
I felt that I was losing control!
My hw was somewhat shocked....but she told me that if this is what I really want...she will do it!
She told me to talk to E and D and tell them that I am uncomfortable with them fucking her all night again plus there is the fact that she is very sore and that I want her pussy tomorrow!
I did just that...I first talked to D....told him how I felt but also told him that I trust him, and that I am excited about my wife becoming his fulltime gf. He told me that I am her husband and if that is what I wish for...he will be cool with me!
I talked to E.....and told him something differently! I told him to TEST my wife!
Please dont get mad at me.............and I promise to tell my HW that I tested her tomorrow. She knows that i love to push the envelope.....I have played these games before with her. It is part of the intrigue b/w us. I would have never requested that she doesnt fuck them if I knew that I would piss her off. This is part of our dynamic love for each other...WE push each other and we at times test each other!
I told E to try to fuck my wife today...to be somewhat pushy. I didnt ask D b/c I do not know him as well. Plus, he is the big winner here anyway! He gains a HW for his gf.
E laughed at me and replied...."dude you amaze me" how can you do this...that is an awesome idea!
He told me that he will go along with the game...and he told me that he wont tell D until they go home together.
I am an ass right?
Please understand...we both get off on this! My hw and I!
She probably will figure all this out anyway whenever E attempts to fuck her again!
ALL the while....I am having fun with this now! It's my turn!
If she does fuck D and E tonight...I wont be pissed.
Every part of me is hoping that she doesnt.
But I do know if she does...she will tell me.
She will say...'baby, I tried but you know how I get when you give me permission then ask me right away to TURN it off'1
She gets confused...we have done this before...in the beginning...when I would get extremely jealous when she would play HW at a club or bar...half way thru the night I would ask her to stop and spend time with me. SHE would try but then randomly walk off and start talking to the guys she was flirting with. I wrote a thread about that.....she will get unpredictable when she drinks and plays HW.
Anyway....WE have progressed a lot since those days. MY hw doesnt need to become intoxicated to play the hw role. That is so much better for us.....................being intoxicated would be a very difficult night for me1
Back to today.............................E and I have a plan.
I wonder what will happen!
I love the intrigue1
I promise not to be mad if she gives in to E or D.
If I am a betting man.................I bet that she gives IN......she will stop D from fucking her.....but will play with him. She will give in to E.....they have just WILD sex....nothing more...NO passion...all lust...
E told me that my HW has been fucking and playing with D more that him this weekend.
More proof............D is the MAN
I know I rambled again.....
I hope you are not too disappointed in me for wanting to play this game!
More later tonight...I will be out all night with child!
PS.....we are having a blast today! Park and movies later today!
Reese!!!!
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"I think therefore I am"
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hi reese...
Fascinating update, thanks for taking the time.
I think it is interesting that you tested her, and gave her an 'easy out' by saying... "I asked her to tell D and E that she was too sore and didnt want to fuck them anymore tonight."... yet you leave her to sleep in their bed, sucking their cocks..., and if D is present, I think you will be pleased that Ms Reese couldn't resist fucking him, them yet again..., because she knows that deep down that is what you want from her.
You are allowing her to stay tonight.
You won't be disappointed.
(even if it is a little sneaky..., lol!)
Fascinating update, thanks for taking the time.
I think it is interesting that you tested her, and gave her an 'easy out' by saying... "I asked her to tell D and E that she was too sore and didnt want to fuck them anymore tonight."... yet you leave her to sleep in their bed, sucking their cocks..., and if D is present, I think you will be pleased that Ms Reese couldn't resist fucking him, them yet again..., because she knows that deep down that is what you want from her.
You are allowing her to stay tonight.
You won't be disappointed.
(even if it is a little sneaky..., lol!)
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hi Reese,
If Ms Reese and D are making love..., right now..., closely and intimately, and she is kissing him deeply and she is as deeply into him as he is into her..., and they climax together, and are looking deep into one another's eyes as her cervix spasms on his squirting cock, lapping up his cum into her womb..., and they kiss long and deeply while they are still cumming, and long after that...
Are you fine with that?
Because I think that is happening as we speak.
If Ms Reese and D are making love..., right now..., closely and intimately, and she is kissing him deeply and she is as deeply into him as he is into her..., and they climax together, and are looking deep into one another's eyes as her cervix spasms on his squirting cock, lapping up his cum into her womb..., and they kiss long and deeply while they are still cumming, and long after that...
Are you fine with that?
Because I think that is happening as we speak.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hi, Reese,
What would she do if you now asked her to stay until Monday, to give her a chance to settle into this?
Would she?
Wouldn't it be amazing for her if you actually 'asked her to stay another night with them'??
Whew...
It would boggle my imagination!
What would she do if you now asked her to stay until Monday, to give her a chance to settle into this?
Would she?
Wouldn't it be amazing for her if you actually 'asked her to stay another night with them'??
Whew...
It would boggle my imagination!
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