Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[BallSpanking]

I think Ms Reese, you need something a lttle more regular than the occasional (but fun) flings with D.

Are you going to incorporate Tim more into the day-to-day weekday-cuckolding?

I imagine he could come by the house a couple of mornings a week..., on routine patrol..., leave a couple of deposits each visit... you know what I mean?

[OneDayAtATime]

I wouldn't be suprised if Reese has a suprise for his wife,like bringing L over and fucking her and making his gorgeous wife watch.

Seriously,finding what pushing your wife's buttons is so much fun,making her inquire to what is going through that dirty mind of his.

On another note,

I'm still amazed at how many ladies have a fantasy of their man to play around with another man.

For some reason its easier for me to accept two women fingering one another with me there pitching in and enjoying the hell out of it,yet any lady asking me to fulfill a fantasy with another man isn't my cup of tea.

I guess since i like the two women thing, ladies sometimes like the two guys thing. I certainly don't know much on this subject.

I just commented on what Mrs. Reese stated she wanted her hubby to do. No offense to those who plays that way.

JMHO

Tell us how the weekend goes.Lets see if Reese walks in on his wife and D.The gym would be a great place to find more lovers.I wonder if either are working on that.

[likesharing]

I wouldn't be suprised if Reese has a suprise for his wife,like bringing L over and fucking her and making his gorgeous wife watch.

I wouldn't be suprised if they both had suprises in mind:

"L! What are you doing here?!?..." / "Tim! What are you doing here?!?..."

Then, both couples retire to adjoining bedrooms for several rounds of Olympic competitive fucking...

[hwc]

Mrs. Reece, does 'D' have any feelings for you above and beyond lust, or does he simply enjoy the sex? If he has developed feelings for you, does he ever get jealous of the other men in your life? Would you consider (or have you mused about) dropping all the others (except Mr. Reece!!!) for him?

I know it's not the direction you have personally chosen to take at present, but the thought of you having a regular 'boyfriend' to whom you are (almost entirely) faithfull does seem like a very hot idea. Do you agree, or is it not your kind of thing?.

Your teasing of Reece with 'D' has been very, very hot to follow, by the way. I would love it if my wife exhibited half the ingenuity, imagination and god-damned naughtiness that you do, in your attempts (always successful) to drive your man completely out of his mind!

Reece is alkways saying that you know how to 'push his buttons'.

It would be great to see you push them harder...


Hwc

[mrs_reese]

Good Morning all,

Ohhh was my man suprised.
He came home completely swetty, worn out and i promise you, when he walked into the bathroom d and I timed it perfectly.
I was being fucked on top of our vanity sinks, I promise you, if I couldve taken a picture of my mans face, HE looked pissed but surprise.
I will let him post his feelings.
D and I decided that it wouldnt be fair if I cucked my hubby, I gave him a chance to back off of his " you will have to wait for me to have sex with you" game!
D and my man shared me in a very hot mmf scene.
D and hubby Dped me/ it wasnt long, as both of them were hurting me
D told my man to lick my pussy from behind while he fucked me.
For the 1st time my man was able to lick my cum as it leaked out of my pussy as D orgasmed.
I think my mans lips touched d's cock when this was happening.
I asked d if it happened and he told me NO.
My poor hubby, i know he isnt bi and i know he doesnt have any gay intentions but he keeps getting wrapped up in my fantasies and in situations that completely suprise him.
Right baby???
D didnt have long.
My hubby was so on edge, and i know he loved my surprise.
I am sure my man will have more to tell.
oh, yes, i did feel my man inside of me.
I won baby
You couldnt hold off, I knew my kitty would win
You can not resist my body baby

As for d, we have talked about developing a steady relationship again.
he seems to be different.
The last time a few months ago, he was falling for me, and I was him, but we all talked this out, and d and I seem to have our feelings in check this time. We all have learned a lot more about our situation. d is trying in another relationship with a sweet woman, and my man is my man, no one will ever fill his shoes.

we will see about d being my fulltime lover.
Tim, he is cute, and i love his power as a policeman i love being controlled but he isnt sure about that yet.
oh god, today is football day, my hubby is already involved in that.
MEN??? you boys are crazy, dont ever complain about when WE shop.

[Open2it]

No, men are not crazy. Football is a game of strategy whose goal is to get the ball in the end zone. There are many lessons one can take from football and apply to one's marriage to keep it interesting - such as:
the pass - how to position you to receive
the reverse - how to keep you guessing
the prevent defense - how to give you some of what you want to avoid giving it all away
up the middle - needs no explanation
2 minute drill - how to make every second count when rushed for time
There is no I in team - how to be a team player and let you be the star
etc.

You simply can't say that about shopping.
O2

[BallSpanking]

Just a suggestion...,
Why not 69 Mr Reese while D takes you doggie style?

Seems like that would largely accomplish what you want, and happens quite easily when you're playing around.

I wonder why so many women want their husbands to suck cock?
I wouldn't knock anyone who wants to or enjoys it...., but it's pretty damned hard for a man that doesn't share that desire.

[mrs_reese]

hi mr ballspanking,
about sucking cock, i am glad you brought up that subject.
it is kind of kinky and abnormal that turns me on.
why does men want their wives/gf's to have sex with another woman?
i would never want to see my hubby engage in complete sex with another man, i would never want to watch anal sex b/w my hubby and another man whether my man penetrated by another man or my hubby penetrating another man.
BUT/ i would love to watch my my intimate love, my best friend, my most trusted sexy husband share my lovers cock.
in other words, MEN want a 3some with women and my man is crazy about having sex with me and L together, there are times when L and I kiss, touch each other and share in a 69position. My hubby, like all men, gets off so much while watching this b/w L and I.
WHY not me?
My ballspanking, I know you did not ask that question in any negative manner, your question; it is a perfect situation for me to write about why I want my man to perform oral sex on my bull D.

As of today, my man declines; he has no desire to do it.
WE have great communciation regarding this subject. WE both have our objective feelings regarding oral sex b/w 2 men.
I want it to happen, he doesnt/ bottom line!
I wont push it with my husband.
I respect his right to say no!
But i will tell all of you this; my husband PUSHED me into this, he pushed me into having sex with a sexy woman, he pushed me into becoming a HW and now I LOVE It!
i AM not angry that my husband pushed me, maybe i should state that it was a gentle push, it was also encouragement to be free, to explore my sexuality.
I realize that if and when i finally convince my husband(lol) to suck D's cock, he will only be doing this b/c it pleases me, it makes me feel a sense of completeness.
To watch my husband share D's cock, the cock that i am submissive to, the cock that i really love feeling inside me, the cock that orgasms inside me, i think that i will find another level of intimacy that i have never experienced.

if that happens that would be very hot for me.
will it happen?
i doubt it!
my husband is firm, he is a man, and he is the assertive one.
he allows me to cuckold him only b/c he loves watching me feel that high level of my sexuality.
I am sure that he likes to release himself of his masculinity at times, to not be the MAN in charge, to not be assertive all the time, but at the end of the day, my husband is not into oral sex with another man, at the end of the day, despite how kinky my husband is, he most likely will never suck another mans cock.

but a girl can wish all she wants for this to happen, right?

[243]

With the right amounts of lust, personalities, passion and mood , the bedroom can become a 'magic theater' where anything can happen. It reminds me of the 60s when a tiny pill would start a nearly 24 hour journey of complete disinhibition and mind-boggling exploration. The memories embedded in our bedroom sometimes make us turn to each other and laugh..particularly when 'straight' friends are admiring our art, etc. What some of those paintings have witnessed make a book of delights. Rock on you two!

[mrs_reese]

That was great insight 243, thanks for your words of wisdom.
A few of our readers have inquired about D becoming my fulltime lover.
My husband and I have discussed this possibility.
I am the one who is hesitant only because I love finding new men and bending the rules of HW play.
I have noticed that pushing those boundaries, and exploring new ones have caused an intense level of excitement for me and hubby.
We both love pushing each other, I will admit that.
D scared me last time.
I think he is different now because he has a girlfriend.
I am still giving this some time.
My hubby has expressed an interest with my exclusivity with D. But he would also want me to spend time with L my female lover and friend.
That would be exciting with me.
I would actually love to be exclusive with D, and committing to him fulltime.
I have told my husband that if I were to agree to this arrangement and D is fine with it as well, my feelings for D would probably become more intense.
My hubby and I have a very loving relationship, I want no other man intimately.
But if I were to be with D fulltime, i am not sure how I would feel over time.
If i wasnt with my hubby, I would be with D completely.
My man know this, D knows this.
We are being very cautious about this.
We are not able to allow D to live with us fulltime due to our situation with children.
this is a delicate subject.
We may be leaning toward attempting to find a way for me to be exclusive to D fulltime as long as we all are on the same page together.
If i was to be exclusive to D, i would want to cuckold my man by denying him my body at times, I think that would drive him wild. I like hearing how women make their husbands have sex with them wearing condoms while their fulltime lover is free of condoms.
My husband is not willing to do that, OF COURSE he isnt
anyway, i am rambling, i am in a weird mood today.
I love my husband more than words can explain, so i want to do whats best for him also.
xoxoox
just me

[243]

Well, thank you too, Mrs. R. One thing we've both learned about 'our' lifestyle is that longterm is quite rare, although once established it can be very nice with a lot of growth going on. OTOH, there is nothing quite like the thrill of a 'new' connection. I think that all of the women here are highly aware and to 'meet' a new man is sometimes breathtaking. This vicarious view for me is a deep element of the play. All of that said, we tend not to get into 'plans' too far in advance. Everything is changing...taking it day to day seems to work for us - more or less. A call from our friend (of over 4 years) saying he wanted to come over, instantly transformed a 'drudge' mood we were in with the Sat. morning chores..

[reese]

WOW.............what is my WIFE getting me into?
BABY............wouldnt you love to see D's cock in my mouth?
I cant do that.......you know how I feel about that!
Sorry to all guys out there that do that....its just a preference.
It's funny how many people think that guys who share their wives are closet bi's...or guys who are cuckolded are gay or bi.
Again...........why the labels???
Who cares....its all about the BIG O isnt it!!

We had a crazy weekend.
My wife and I finally had HOT sex last night.
Just her and I.
Before she was an active HW, we would talk about how slutty WE both wanted her to be...about fucking other guys all while we were having sex.
NOW when we have sex...............its JUST HER AND I...no need to fantasize when we are living the life!!

About being with D as her steady fulltime lover.
I am not in love with the idea of my wife being impregnanted by a man, nor am I in love with giving my wife to a man fulltime and never being allowed to fuck her again.
I am her husband.....SHE IS MY GIRL...BOTTOM LINE!
If deserving...............with all due respect, when I want to fuck my wife, I want her to comply!
That is a mother fucking big BOTTOM LINE!

But in regards to her taking a fulltime lover like D..........and committing to him,.........and denying me at times b/c she wants to be saved for her fulltime lover............I am good with that...........WE are trying to get to that place.
One big obstacle is that I love when she finds men......when she seduces a man, I love watching the CHASE...........SO THE 3 OF US ARE ATTEMPTING TO determine how to make this work.
Right now.......they both are worried about my feelings.
I am concerned about my wife falling head over heels in love with D.............I am very secure with our marriage as is she...but WE dont want to "pour gasoline into the fire"...............so we would like advice if possible.

please help us decide what to do???

Should she go to a fulltime lover..............D?
And commit to him.......?

[OneDayAtATime]

This tone isn't intended to be harsh or judgemental.Just want you to know that.



Reese,your wife has desires that you want no part of.Keep making that clear to her. If she wanted you to fuck a lot of women and loved to watch your dick going in and out of a woman,thats one thing and you would enjoy that with her,however for her to continue to bring up something you object to can be annoying,if its done naggingly. You don't want to suck dick or would ever enjoy it. Meanwhile,your wife enjoys fucking other men. C'mon, few women or men wouldn't love that freedom to be with members of the opposite sex.

About D ,be careful. She's already said she would be with D if she didn't have you.You've already stopped it before because of her feelings for him. He has a G/F on top of that. He is not getting something from her? . Heck,sharing your wife is one thing,having her have feelings for another man is quite another.

Don't do it.

Why do you think some hotwives play with different f/bs. Find new guys and enjoy the chase.Don't play with fire and get burned.

This is where you come to an agreement with your wife.

Do you want a poly relationship?
Does Mrs. Reese want D to break up with his G/F?
Do you want to give up your "Alpha Male" status temporarily,be denied sex and have your wife focus solely on her B/F, D or a F/B for a certain period of time? Do you want this to be spontaneous or arranged.
Does it bother you that she would engage sexually with someone without letting you know beforehand or is that exciting with her knowing you approve of it?

I'm sure there are loads of discussions along these lines.

There are arrangements on here where you'll hear the husband doesn't get intimate with his wife a few days before she sees her B/F. She's fully thinking about her b/fs for that time and when she gets home,the husband reclaims his wife,the words of the husband. Sometimes she sees her b/f a couple times a week, once a week,once a month or a few times a year.Is that what you want?

There are some husbands who would rather watch than fuck their wife or hear about it. Some enjoy the contact after she bangs a guy. Sometimes she enjoys how the husband acts afterwards,so loving,caring,maybe clingy at times.

You seemed to enjoy MFM,progressed to her playing solo,even spending weekends with guys.The MFM doesn't seem as prevelent.

Whether you're in a Hotwife relationship,a swinging couple,or being denied for a period of time,both parties should be excited and having fun.

You're into dabbling with her being saved for her fulltime lover. Her experience may be better because of that. There may come a point she thinks less about you when with others or when she's with you she's thinking about D or someone. Its good you talk out these feelings.

If you're not sure after the advice given on here,i wouldn't go through with D being her fulltime B/F.

JMHO,thats just me.

Keep on blogging.

[reese]

One day my friend...thanks for your input.........like usual, very sound advice!

My sexy wife is in her pre-menstrual stage.
She will be the 1st to admit that she definitely is from VENUS while in this stage.

In regards to D.........my wife will write that she is afraid of falling in love, and she may write that if she wasnt with me, she would definitely be with D..................I want to insure everyone reading this post........

SHE IS PUSHING MY BUTTONS...............We have a very dynamic relationship.
WE constantly strive to go to new levels.

WE will burn ourselves out from this lifestyle; we both admit that!

BUT I love living on the edge...........and she is the only woman on this planet that truly understands how to push those buttons.

YOU will never read a post from me stating that MY WIFE LEFT ME FOR D.......nor will you ever read a written message from me proclaiming that my wife is in love with D and not me, or my wife doesnt want sex from me just D......

My point is................................I constantly request that my wife will make all my fantasies real............and to push so hard until I beg for mercy........

writing what she wrote about sucking D's cock and falling for him and possibly committing to him.....
she is pushing............and I love IT!!

We will not enter into a poly relationship with D.
We may try to have my hw be solo with D and to commit to her.
I love the challenge.............and NO one will ever say,"I told you so......you lost her b/c you didnt follow my advice"!

One day...............from the bottom of my heart..........thank-you bro for those words of caution!

But my wife is pushing...........that is all!

Baby...........good job, you have given me more fantasy material!!!

More to follow!!

[hwc]

I say go for it.

I think, Reece, that if you convince your wife into taking on 'D' as a full-time, exclusive boyfriend, with them dating and all that implies, I truly believe you will have the most electrifying roller-coast of a ride that will leave you panting like fuck for her.

And if Mrs. R could get 'D' to be exclusive to her, by perhaps ditching his girlfriend and devoting his spare time and affections solely on her, that would be even hotter!

Think about it.

Hwc

[RGB49FL]

You guys are such a tease for all of us. Because the males on here are all about having wives the push the boundaries of normal marital relationships, your bantering back and forth get our collective imaginations soaring. Then comes the "just kidding".

You two are going to burn out and probably take half of the forum with you. We are watching this melodrama play out on the edge of our seats (because it is easier to jack off that way).

The play with D seems to be at the heart of this banter. To be exclusive with D, to suck D's cock, to make you wear a condom as D fucks Mrs R bare, seem to be the center theme. I would like to see you do it all.

But, the burnout is there. You may want to take a vacation now and again. Like a drug addict going into rehab for a while. Get centered again. Let it just be you 2 for a bit. Then jump back into the fire.

If you have vanilla for a while, the strawberry will taste that much more exotic when you try it the next time.

But, what ever you guys decide to do, I would like to say thanks for sharing it all with us. It has been a great ride.

[reese]

RGB.........We do go vanilla more often then we write.....
and I want to make that point clear....
thanks again for your comments...and concerns.

HWC.....we also love hearing from you.

When I say that THIS will never happen...in my heart I know it....but is there anything guaranteed?
I love pushing those boundaries...and MY HW knows this....and she will continue to push more and more until I SAY UNCLE........if that means falling for D.....then i am ready to accept that.......

I love living the thrill............and we are trying to avoid burnout...

More to follow.

My HW told me she has more surprises up her sleeve.

[Softail]

I was formulating my reply as I was reading today's posts. My thought was "Reese has more balls than a Christmas tree". I got to the last post and there is Kj, thinking basically the same thing.

May I say, and I don't say it flippently either:
Reese's, I can tell you this - From the Christian circles I've been around, you two practice a Faith (in each other) at a higher level than 95% of most Christians practice with Yahweh God!
I make this observation because of my experience, knowledge, study and some of the well known people I've been around.
Rock On!

[BallSpanking]

Please bear in mind that this is opinion, and in no way intended as criticism of those with other preferences.

I can't presume to know what your individual turn-ons are, nor that my boundaries are the same as yours, but in answer to Ms Reese's question (following my last post)... she stated:

"He allows me to cuckold him only b/c he loves watching me feel that high level of my sexuality."

I think that would be my answer in a nutshell.

I want to see my partner fulfilled, and I wouldn't want to push her into behaviors that run dead against her sense of identity. Wherever that demarcation might be (and I acknowledge it's a very individual thing), I don't want to push her beyond that point, because after all, I seek HER enjoyment of the experience, and that's the most important thing to me.
If I should coerce her to go beyond that and compromise her identity as a woman, then I am acting unreasonably (to my mind).

[mrs_reese]

kjeld and softail, thanks for that, my man will be happy to read your comments about having balls, that is why i am so damn hot for my man, he is ballsy and full of testosterone(typo)! ballspankingl/you are absolutely right. I know that it is wrong to convince him that it will be hot to suck d's cock!

But why does the HOTWIFE have to do all the work?
My man asks a lot of me, and I do what he asks within reason only b/c i know it turns him on immensley.

SO help me please/ hey hotwives!! Am I wrong with how I feel?

Ps, I love all you guys anyway. Be honest and frank like you usually are.


pss...........tonight was monday night football.
L my female friend was over.Yes/ WE were naughty.
It was hot for both of us, a lot of kissing, and pussy licking.
We set up the camcorder and recorded for my man and D to get off on one day.
She wants to be with D/ me and her.
She told me that she loved my man fucking her.
I told her that i wasnt sure when that will happen again, but it will.
She told me how hot it is to have my hubby watch as WE both have our way with D.
Ummmm, I am tired, time to go to bed.
Psss, I really want my man to suck D' cock!
I am sorry!

xoxoxo,
D's lover.
but my hubbys wife.

[BallSpanking]

But why does the HOTWIFE have to do all the work?

LOL!
Now you're calling it work?

Sorry sweety, I just had to chuckle there.

You next asked for support from sister HW's and no doubt will receive it, but before all else I want to not presume that what you feel is "WRONG".

It is taboo, all forbiden behaviors are, HW'ing too.
What is WRONG is whatever you and Mr Reese is not right for you as a couple and as individuals with a strong self of self, and wherever those boundaries you set for yourselves allow you to share sensual/sexual excitement with trust and mutual dignity. Only you two (possibly three) can determine what is acceptable, and where each one as individuals draw your limits.

You gotta admit, Mr Reese has come a long way too, you both have!

xoxoxo







PS-

Work???
OK, then.........., go back to 'work' !

[BallSpanking]

Typo, sorry:

...,"WRONG is whatever you and Mr Reese decide is not right for you..."

[Open2it]

Sexual desires and turn-ons change and morph over time. How many started out saying "no way" they'd never hotwife? There was a time early on in this thread where Reese had no interest in creampies. All I'm saying is that we change and grow with our experiences.

Mrs R has a valid point. This is about pleasure, exploration and fantasy fulfillment. She wants to see her husband enjoy her lover's body, the same way she's enjoyed her GF's for his viewing pleasure. Sucking D's cock won't make Reese any less of a man just as Mrs Reese isn't any less of a woman for licking L's pussy. It will simply be another way of sexual expression that will make his wife orgasm and want him more. As long as it's done in a loving manner and not with humiliation it could be intense for all involved.

However, Reese isn't ready for that type of exploration yet and forcing him would be wrong. He needs to be at the point where he wants to do it, where he's not afraid to express himself in that manner for fear of what others may think. Bisexuality requires a strong sense of self-comfort. Continue to play with the fantasy, talk about it, and have fun as you redefine together some of the joy you've experienced together fulfilling each other's fantasies.
O2

[mrs_reese]

hey guys,
thanks for all your comments.
about it being 'WORK".
i didnt mean it like that!
I meant to say that i am making an effort, I am the one willing to try new things at the encouragement of my husband.
i promise all of you, i could go back to my loving wife vanilla ways in a second.
i do this for him. that is all!
in my mind, i make that effort, i just wanted my man to do something against the NORM like i did, hence;" i do all the work"!

I know my husband probably wont suck d's cock.
I am not pushing him too.
We actually talk about it sometimes when we are having our kinky sex sessions.
He will go along with it, pretending to want D's cock; only b/c I asked him to enhance my fantasies of him doing that while he is inside of me, making love to me. I really have strong orgasms pretending that my bull is coming in my husbands mouth.
It is only fantasy, I just hinted around about trying it in real life.
I am patient, I know one day i will get my wish with my hubby and d and my husband will do it willingly!

I hope I didnt offend anyone.
I just want to push the boundaries like my husband asks.
You all have no idea how fulfilling it is for me to know that my husband goes crazy over me like he does; that is my motivation to continue being his slutty hotwife.

xoxoxo

[BallSpanking]

Not offended.
Lively and interesting discussion.
You are very sweet.